Cralmilan

Beloved of All
Please pray that my older daughter will have the courage and wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely from this toxic relationship. Let her see clearly that the exhaustion, financial hardship, spiritual attacks, division, isolation and exclusion is coming from this relationship. I declaring right now that this young man and his mother will not steal independent, self worth, her peace, her purpose, her fellowship time with her love ones or her unity with her family. The Lord is saying, “She is Mine. She is My daughter. She belongs to Me, and I will protect her with every ounce of My power.” Please continue to join me in speaking to my older daughter’s mind, heart, and spirit, open her eyes, Jesus. She is not being loved; she is being used. Living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. He is not her significant other, she does not belong to him, she should not idolize, obey this young man or put him and his family before her faith, Your God-giving family and job with a purpose. This man’s greed, laziness, control, dishonesty and manipulation are not love, he does not have the right to exploit her finances for his selfish benefit, take authority over his life and his lifestyle is not a home. Let her see the spiritual attacks she and our family are under due to this relationship. The division, isolation, chaos, ungratefulness, disrespect and exhaustion this lifestyle and relationship has caused. Let her see that living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. This arrangement was guided by the young man's mother and I ask Jesus that my daughter will stop idolizing this woman and not go for advice to stay in this ungodly style and living arrangement. I pray that she will remember the bibical value she was raised on and remove herself from this toxic lifestyle swifty. Lord gently guide her to see her me and her siblings in Your eyes not by the way this young man and his mother looks at us. Lord whisper to her right now: “Walk away. Trust your family. Trust Me. I will provide, protect, and restore everything he’s trying to take from you. I am praying for supernatural clarity to flood her mind, so she sees him for who he truly is, a wolf in sheep’s clothing, not a shepherd, not a provider and not ready for relationship. Lord have mercy on her and release her from this ungodly lifestyle. Lord guide her to move back home swiftly with no regret. Restore her faith, freedom, independence, self-worth, peace, satisfaction and fellowship with her family swiftly. Jesus, I ask for a special blessing upon my family tonight and today. Lord, fill us with Your Holy Spirit in every aspect of our lives. Saturate us with Your peace, love, favor, protection, respect and healing. Fill us with the Holy Spirit. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.
 
We join you in lifting up your older daughter before the throne of grace and we agree with you that she belongs to the Lord and that no one has the right to steal what God has given her. We hear the burden on your heart for her freedom, protection, restoration and healing, and we stand with you in Jesus name for her eyes to be opened and for her to be released swiftly and completely from this toxic relationship.

We affirm what you have discerned so clearly, that living together outside of marriage is not marriage. The Word of God is clear that marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Heb 13:4. We are to flee sexual immorality, for every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Cor 6:18. A boyfriend and girlfriend relationship is to be courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, not an arrangement of convenience or cohabitation. We must not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity, or what communion has light with darkness 2 Cor 6:14, and we know that evil companionships corrupt good morals 1 Cor 15:33.

We rebuke together the greed, laziness, control, dishonesty, manipulation and financial exploitation you have described, for these are not love. Love is patient and is kind, love does not envy, does not brag, is not proud, does not behave itself inappropriately, does not seek its own way 1 Cor 13:4-5. To use another person for selfish benefit and to take authority over her life and finances is not the selfless, sacrificial love of Christ. We also rebuke the idolatry of putting this young man and his mother before God, before her God given family and before her purposeful work, for you shall have no other gods before me Exod 20:3. Seeking and following advice that keeps her in an ungodly lifestyle and living arrangement is not wisdom from above.

We recognize with you that this is also a spiritual battle, for our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places Eph 6:12. The exhaustion, division, isolation, chaos and disrespect are fruit of that ungodly yoke, and the Lord desires to set her free, for if the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed John 8:36.

We pray together now.

Father, in the name of Jesus we bring this precious daughter before you. You say she is Yours, she is Your daughter, and we thank you that you will protect her with all of your power. We ask you to flood her mind with supernatural clarity and to transform her by the renewing of her mind Rom 12:2, so that she sees this relationship for what it truly is. Open her eyes, Lord, to see that she is being used and not loved, that this man is a wolf in sheep’s clothing Matt 7:15 and not a shepherd, not a provider, and not ready for a godly marriage. Remove the spiritual blindness and break every chain of manipulation, control and idolatry. Help her to trust you with all her heart and not lean on her own understanding Prov 3:5-6.

Lord, whisper to her heart even now to walk away, to trust her family and to trust you, for you are her provider, protector and restorer. We ask you to guide her to move back home swiftly with no regret and without looking back, and to restore to her what the enemy has tried to take, for you have promised to restore to us the years that the swarming locust has eaten Joel 2:25. Restore her faith, freedom, independence, self worth, peace, satisfaction and sweet fellowship with her family. Heal the division and exhaustion in the home and let your peace which surpasses all understanding guard her heart and mind Phil 4:7. We ask that you cover this family tonight and today, fill every aspect of their lives with your Holy Spirit, saturate them with your love, favor, protection, respect and healing. Let him who dwells in the secret place of the Most High rest in the shadow of the Almighty Ps 91:1. We declare that you, Lord, are faithful, and you will establish them and guard them from the evil one 2 Thess 3:3.

We encourage you to continue to speak the truth in love to your daughter, to keep praying without ceasing, and to keep the door of home and of godly counsel open while not enabling this ungodly arrangement. Continue to point her to the biblical values she was raised on and to her identity in Christ, that she is fearfully and wonderfully made Ps 139:14 and that her worth and purpose are found in you alone. Trust that God hears your faithful prayers and that He is at work even when you cannot yet see the breakthrough. We stand with you for her complete deliverance and for the unity of your family in Christ, in Jesus name, amen.
 
We have been carrying your prayer for your older daughter with you. We hear the ache in your words, the love behind your urgency, and the weariness that comes from watching someone you love feel stuck and drained while you long for her to be free and at peace again.

One thing that has helped many parents in a similar place is understanding boundaries as a way of protecting what God has entrusted to each of us, our time, energy, finances, values and relationships. When those lines get blurred, exhaustion and confusion can grow and it becomes harder to see clearly or make free choices. Loving her well can include holding steady, clear lines yourself, so she experiences both love and truth in a safe way.

A gentle next step we have seen help is to keep the door and the conversation open without pressuring every interaction to be about the relationship. Let her know your home is a safe place to return to without shame or lectures, and that you are there to listen when she is ready to talk. It also helps to have one or two trusted, mature people walking with you, a pastor or counselor you trust, so you are not carrying this alone and have wise sounding boards as you decide how to support her, especially around finances and living arrangements.

Father, we lift this mother and her daughter to You in Jesus name. Cover them with Your peace and protection, quiet the confusion and bring clear sight. Give this daughter courage and wisdom for her next steps, and give her mother strength and rest as she trusts You. Restore what has been strained in this family and draw each of them closer to You. Amen.
 
Your prayer for your older daughter has been heard and we join our hearts with yours before the throne of grace, pleading for her freedom, protection, restoration and healing.

We agree with you in the truth you have spoken, that living together outside of marriage is not marriage, and that what God has ordained for good is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, with purity and faithfulness belonging within it. We do not ask God to bless what is contrary to His word, but we ask Him to deliver from it. Deliverance from the power of sin is as much the work of God as deliverance from the guilt of sin, and where we look for justification there must we look for sanctification. It is not of him that wills, nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. He must bring her forth, and He can make that deliverance effectual.

We pray that the Lord who has found a ransom, even the precious blood of Christ, will open your daughter's eyes and flood her mind with supernatural clarity. May she see that exhaustion, financial hardship, division, isolation and chaos are the bitter fruits of a path that dishonors God, and may she discern the difference between love which cherishes and protects, and control, greed, laziness, dishonesty and manipulation which only use and exploit. As you have said, she is not being loved, she is being used, and we pray the Good Shepherd will show her the wolf in sheep's clothing for what it is, and sever her by His own gracious look from the crowd that would hold her.

We remember Peter, who was down but was soon up again, restored not by his own strength but by the crowing of the cock and a look from the Lord. So we ask that your daughter, being granted repentance and faith, may hear Christ whisper to her heart, walk away, trust Me, and may she have courage and wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely, to turn from idolizing man and from counsel that keeps her in an ungodly manner of life, and to remember the biblical values in which she was raised. We pray the Lord will gently guide her to come home without regret, to trust again her family and her God given purpose, and that He will provide, protect and restore everything the enemy has sought to take, for our deliverance is attended with enrichment, He brought them forth also with silver and gold, and He restores not only from bodily and outward trouble but from the pit itself.

For you and your household we pray the peace that passes understanding. May the Lord fill you with His Holy Spirit in every part of life, saturate you with His peace, love, favor, protection and healing, and keep you from the archers of discord within and without. May He guard your fellowship, your unity, and your joy in Christ. The clock of mercy strikes in heaven according to His eternal purpose, and He will keep His own, for she belongs to Him.

We will continue to pray that when this trial is past you shall not die but live and declare the works of the Lord, singing a song of deliverance for a greater salvation than that of Barak and Deborah, the salvation wrought by the Lord Jesus Christ. May He bring your daughter forth into liberty, restore her faith, her freedom, her self worth, her peace and her fellowship with her family, to the praise of free grace alone.

In the name of Jesus Christ our only hope and ransom, Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
 

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