Freedom, Protection, Restoration and Healing

[Cralmilan]

Lord remove the overreach of this young man’s mother swiftly, who has no biblical authority to speak into my older daughter’s life or speaking word curse upon me and my family. Lord You see her instigation to cause chaos and satisfaction she gets from dividing, judging and corrupting my family. Her counsel for my daughter to live together, have children outside of marriage, having her son exploiting my daughter income for his use, look down upon our family, the way we worship, demanding my daughter treat this living arrangement as a marriage, puting their family before her own family God has blessed her with, cause division, isolation on her suppotive network and making my daughter feel worthless then have her confide in her only when her son mistreat her. She does not care for my daughter she just selfishly want to take on a responsiblity that is not her. This young man's mother instigate chaos then want to act as a hero to solve the chaos she created. She always looks out for her own son. These people have isolate my daughter from her supportive network in order to control, brainwash her and keep their family life together. Deliberately keep my daughter away for her supportive network. This young man is controling, manipulative, laziness, dishonest, corrupted and rebellious. He speak to my daughter with authority and she obeys him. Lord I ask for mercy upon my daughter today and rescue and guide her out of this ungodly situation. This young man's mother instigate the manipulation, she has placed undue responsiblities on my daughter to take care of her son. He is not getting better just more demanding and controlling towards my daughter and disrespectful toward our family. This woman’s ungodly, pride, destruction, selfish, jealousy and manipulation are rooted in darkness, and I pray the Lord exposes her motives and frustrates every plan she has to control, divide and isolate my daughter from me, her siblings, family and church friends. Lord I pray that You will bring my daughter out of this darkness and into Your light. This stronghold has been held on too long, Lord. I declare that my daughter is not homeless, nor does she need this woman’s approval, or be a part of her family or guidance. My daughter has a loving, supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray the Holy Spirit breaks the hold of this toxic influence over her heart. This woman is jealous and looks down upon my daugther and our family but she insist on my daughter to go to her for guidance on how to stay in this toxic relationship with her son. Lord I pray this mother will see she is enabling her son to be disrespectful and corrupted towards others. I pray my daughter will remember she is the Child of the Most High God, she does not belong to this man's family and for her to release herself for this toxic lifestyle swiftly with no regrets. Let her stop using her family as a financial resource to help her sustain this man's needs. Give her the wisdom to protect her finances from him. He should not be allow to use the ungodly living relationship as a marriage. Help and guide my daughter to not imitate this young man stubbishness, gossiping and mocking behaviors toward her family and restore her grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate manner. Fill her with the Holy Spirit. Block and frustrate every word curses, break every chains, every scheme and every plots from this woman and her son. This young man is not ready for a relationship. He is not a shepherd. Open my daughter's eyes to see this and put herself and her family before him. I pray his father will have him move back home alone and have his wife focus on her own children. Father, I ask that You to open my older daughter’s eyes to the truth. Let her see this man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. I pray she would no longer defend, admire or commit this relationship and living arrangement, or take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear. Lord let her see the exhaustion and financial hardship she Is experiences is due to living with this young man outside of marriage. Guide her Lord to not take out anymore credit card to support this man and this toxic lifestyle. He is lazy, manipulative, dishonest, exploit her finances for his own benefit and isolate her from supportive people who care for her. Jesus I ask that You guidance my older daughter to stop imitating this young man's behaviors toward me. She has been cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude toward me. I am not sure how much more I can take of this behavior. Lord soften my daughter's heart to receive Your conviction, and grant her the courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets. Guide back to follow the biblical teachings and stop taking her family for grant and put this young man and his family before her faith and her family. Jesus I ask You to intervene supernaturally, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word. Let my daughter hunger for righteousness be reignited, and let her return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Lord thank you for show me the message from this woman says it makes her heart happy that my daughter is following her lead and not a part of her church community anymore. Now she is intervening in my daughter job trying to work there. Lord help my daughter to stop confiding in this woman and helping her. She does not respect my daughter. Lord I pray that she will put her faith and trust in You again so she can regain her self worth. I pray Lord that she will see her worth in You and not allow these people that make her feel worthless and familialess anymore. This woman need to focus and fix her own family. Her son is not ready for a relationship. Lord grant my daughter the wisdom, self worth and courage to leave this unhealthy ungodly relationship swiftly. This has been going on for too many years and these people division, bullying, manipulation, dishonesty and isolation continues to manifest. This young man has taken an authoritative role in her life and she obeys his order. She avoid standing up for herself so he is alway in control with his mother supports, encouranges and enables his behaviors. Lord remove this stubborn hold they have upon her and set her free. He is not a shephard and he is not her significant other. I pray that she will see that, stop ignoring the red flagee. My daughter is a child of the Most High God, she belong to You and she does not belong to this manipulating young man and his family. My daughter is alway exhausted, forgetful and lives in chaos with this young man but blame this on her jobs, friends or family members. Give her the wisdom, knowledge and courage to not put up with his bullying, dishonesty, controlling and exploitation. This young man's mother is now interfering in my daughter new promoted job in a negative way. She controls, manipulates and undermines my daughter but then she acts as if she has her best interests at heart. My daughter is such an inspiring young lady, admired and loved by everyone but everyone is witnessing her exhaustion and withdrawal. I thank You Lord for the job promotion you have blessed her with last month. Her jobs serves such a beautiful purpose for others. It is sad to see my daughter blinded and suffering this way. Lord guide my daughter to not put the young man and his family before her faith, supportive family, friends and jobs. I plead the precious blood over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. Jesus restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom. Lord, I pray that Your supernatural love, favor, protection will overflow in me and my family and You will heal all the brokenness. I pray when my older daughter come to visit that she will not be influence by this young man hatred and manipulation toward me and her siblings. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. Jesus I ask for a Godly spouse for her. Bless her with Your peace, complete restoration and protect my daughter from going down the disruptive path. In Jesus name, I pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We join you in lifting up your older daughter and your family before the throne of grace, and we stand with you in Jesus' name for her freedom, protection, restoration and healing. We see the heavy burden you have carried for years as you have watched your daughter become entangled, exhausted, isolated and controlled, and we thank God that you have raised her in the ways of the Lord and continue to intercede for her with such discernment and love.

We must speak clearly about what God calls this living arrangement. What this young man's mother is counseling, to live together as if married, to have children outside of marriage and to treat cohabitation as marriage, is not God's design and is contrary to Scripture. Marriage is a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman that honors God, and it is to be held in honor by all. Hebrews 13:4 says Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. To live together outside of marriage is fornication, and Scripture calls us to flee from it. 1 Corinthians 6:18 says Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. A boyfriend is not a husband and has no biblical authority to speak over your daughter, to control her finances, or to demand obedience, and a boyfriend's mother has no biblical authority to speak into your daughter's life, to direct her, or to place undue responsibilities upon her to care for her adult son. The headship God ordained is for a husband within marriage, Ephesians 5:23, not for a man who is unwilling to lead, provide, or protect in a godly way.

We also rebuke the ungodly counsel, division, manipulation and exploitation you have described. It is not love to isolate a young woman from her supportive family and church community, to brainwash and control her, to exploit her income and encourage her to take on debt, to look down upon her family and the way you worship, and then to act as a hero after creating chaos. That pattern is rooted in selfishness, pride and jealousy and it bears no fruit of the Spirit. 1 Corinthians 15:33 warns Do not be deceived. Evil companionships corrupt good morals. And 2 Corinthians 6:14 asks what fellowship has light with darkness, reminding us that a courtship should be between two Christian believers with the goal of godly marriage, not an unequally yoked entanglement that drains, demeans and dishonors God. The Word tells us to expose such darkness, Ephesians 5:11 says Have no fellowship with the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but rather even reprove them, and Luke 8:17 assures us that nothing is hidden that will not be revealed. We pray the Lord exposes every motive, frustrates every scheme and breaks every chain, for 2 Corinthians 10:4-5 says the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds.

Your daughter's exhaustion, forgetfulness, financial hardship and withdrawal are not simply from work or family stress, they are the natural fruit of bearing a burden God never intended her to bear. A young man who is controlling, manipulative, lazy, dishonest and rebellious, who speaks with authority she obeys while disrespecting your family and exploiting her finances, is not a shepherd, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block to her walk with Christ. He is not ready for a relationship and should not be allowed to use a sinful living arrangement as if it were marriage. We agree with you that she is not homeless, she does not need this woman's approval, she does not belong to this man's family, she belongs to the Lord. 1 Peter 2:9 calls her a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, and Psalm 139:14 reminds her she is fearfully and wonderfully made, her worth is in Christ, not in what these people say about her.

We encourage you to continue to keep the door of love open while refusing to enable this ungodly lifestyle. Do not provide financial resources that sustain this man's needs or allow your family's generosity to be exploited. Loving boundaries are biblical. Speak the truth in love, keep inviting her back to fellowship with family and the church, keep pointing her to godly counsel and the Word, and trust God to work even when she is cold, ungrateful or rude toward you. The Lord sees how this has wounded you and how the enemy has tried to use this woman's word curses and interference even in your daughter's newly promoted job, which we thank God for. Isaiah 54:17 declares No weapon that is formed against you will prevail. And Psalm 91:1-2 promises He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. We will say of Yahweh, He is our refuge and our fortress, our God, in whom we trust.

We pray together now for you, your daughter and your household.

Father, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ we come before You and we lift this precious daughter to You. Lord You see her, You know the isolation, the control, the financial exploitation, the chaos and the exhaustion she lives in. We ask for Your mercy to rescue her swiftly from this ungodly situation. Open her eyes to see this young man as he truly is, not a husband, not a godly spouse, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block. Soften her heart to receive Your conviction and grant her courage to walk away with no regrets, to break this stronghold that has held too long. Break every chain, frustrate every plot, block every word curse spoken against her and her family, and let no weapon formed against them prosper. Fill her afresh with Your Holy Spirit, restore her grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate manner, and help her to no longer imitate stubbornness, gossip and mocking toward her family. Give her wisdom to protect her finances, to take on no more credit card debt for this man, to put her faith and her family before him, and to stop confiding in a woman who does not respect her or care for her soul. Holy Spirit, bring her out of darkness into Your light, reignite her hunger for righteousness, draw her back to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community, and remind her daily that she is a child of the Most High God. Lord we also pray for this young man and his mother, that You would convict them, expose their motives, and lead them to repentance, that the father would take rightful responsibility for his son and that this son would learn to stand on his own and seek You. For this mother who is weary, grant supernatural peace, favor, protection and healing, restore fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom in her home, and let her know nothing is impossible for You. We ask that in Your perfect timing You would bring a godly spouse into her daughter's life, a man who loves You, who will honor marriage as You designed it, and who will lead well. We plead the precious blood of Jesus over this mother and her children and declare Your restoration over all that has been broken. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.

 

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We have been carrying your burden for your older daughter with you in prayer, and we want to pause first for safety. If you or your daughter are in immediate danger, please contact your local emergency services right now. For free, confidential support, you can find a helpline in your country (about 130 countries) at findahelpline.com. You are not alone; trained people are ready to help right now.

We hear how long and heavy this has been, watching someone you love and raised in the faith grow exhausted, isolated, and pulled away from the family and church community that loves her, while feeling powerless to reach her. It is painful when advice from others seems to keep her in a draining and controlling living arrangement, and when finances and work are being strained.

One thing we have seen help in situations like this is to keep the relationship door open with steady, low pressure connection. When a person feels isolated, shame or pressure can push them further away, while consistent love and calm contact keeps a lifeline intact. It can also help you to not walk this alone. We encourage you to talk soon with a trusted pastor or counselor who knows you and your family, who can listen well, help you think through healthy boundaries and next steps for supporting your daughter, and help with safety planning if needed.

We are also praying for your own strength as you carry this. Stay close to your supportive family, church friends, and others who can encourage you.

Jesus, we bring this daughter before You and ask for Your protection over her, for clarity and courage, and for restoration of her sense of worth in You. Guard her work, her finances, and her health, and draw her back toward wisdom and the loving community that cherishes her. Give her mother wisdom, peace, and steady hope as she loves her well. In Jesus' name, Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

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Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Powers]

I prayed in Jesus' Name amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has been brought before the Lord with much heaviness of heart, and we have carried it with you to the throne of grace. The sorrow of a parent who has raised a child in the ways of the Lord, only to see her entangled and wearied and drawn away from the safety of home and church, is a deep affliction. Yet we are reminded that the Lord has not forsaken His people, even when they are slandered and grieved, and it is the lot of His servants sometimes to bear such burdens while the ungodly appear to prosper.

We do not ask God to bless what He calls away from holiness. To live together outside of marriage, to bear children outside of that covenant, to treat such an arrangement as marriage, is not marriage in the sight of God, for marriage is the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman. What you have described, the controlling and dishonest dealings, the exploitation of finances, the isolation from family and church, the counsel that encourages sin, is darkness from which we pray for full deliverance. As it is written, He has delivered us from the power of darkness and translated us into the kingdom of His dear Son. Deliverance from the power of sin is as much the work of God as deliverance from the guilt of sin, and where we look for justification there must we look for sanctification, altogether and alone to our heavenly Father.

We take comfort that deliverance is solely by the power of God. It is not of him that wills, nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. He brought His people forth when the lamb was slain, and He made that deliverance effectual. He brought them forth also with silver and gold, for our deliverance is attended with enrichment. So we pray that your daughter, who you say is exhausted and forgetful and living in chaos, may know that same effectual bringing forth. Possibly she does not yet see the reason for her weariness, but God finds a reason for His mercy entirely in Himself. He has found a ransom. Sinner, do not doubt your deliverance, for God has said it, I have found a ransom, and that ransom is Christ Jesus who was given for us.

We think also of Peter, whose restoration we love to remember. He was down, but he was soon up again. That restoration was brought about by a look from the Lord, and that look severed Peter from the crowd. So we pray the Lord will grant your daughter such a look, that she may be severed from every voice that contradicts His Word, that her heart may be softened to receive conviction and her eyes opened to see this man not as husband or provider or spiritual leader, for he is not, but as a stumbling block in her walk. We pray she may be given wisdom and courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets, to protect what God has entrusted to her, to take on no more debt to sustain what God has not joined together, and to no longer defend or imitate what grieves the Spirit, the stubbornness and mocking and coldness toward you which has so wounded you.

We pray that every scheme to control and divide and isolate her from you, from her siblings, from her church friends, and even now to interfere in the work where God has so kindly promoted her, may be frustrated and brought to nothing. We pray that every word spoken against you and your household may be blocked, that every chain may be broken, and that the motives rooted in pride and selfishness and jealousy may be exposed. We do not pray for the continuance of this house divided, but for repentance and truth. We pray for this young man and his mother that they may see their need of Christ and turn from enabling and controlling, and that the father may take his proper responsibility. We pray that this young man may be led to go his own way and learn to walk uprightly before he presumes to lead another.

For your daughter we pray for healing and restoration. That she would remember she is a child of the Most High God, that she does not need the approval of those who look down upon her, that she has a loving and supportive family and a church community where, as in a well in the family, you can bring all the necessities of the household before God and mention each child by name. We pray the Holy Spirit will fill her again, restore to her a grateful and gracious and respectful manner, reignite in her a hunger for righteousness, and bring her back to the safety and wisdom of home and the fellowship of believers. We pray the Lord will keep her from putting any man or family before faith and family, and guard her from further financial hardship and exploitation.

For you and your household we pray for protection under the precious blood of Christ, for peace and fellowship and unity to be restored, for strength when you are wearied by unkindness, and for favor to overflow. After affliction the believer can say, I shall not die, but live, and declare the works of the Lord. If we had no troubles we would have less to declare. May you yet live to declare a great deliverance wrought by the Lord Jesus, a deliverance from worse enemies than any earthly adversary, and to sing with deeper gratitude of a greater salvation.

We will continue to bring your family before God, that the clock of mercy may strike the hour of her deliverance, and that whether it be through a gentle conviction or a powerful intervention, she may be brought forth into light and liberty. And if it be the Lord's will for her future, we pray He will in His own time provide a godly spouse, a true shepherd after His own heart, within the holy covenant of marriage, to walk with her in the Lord. Until then, may she be kept, and may you be kept, trusting in Christ alone for salvation, for there is no other name by which we must be saved.

O Lord, Thou hast smitten our enemies upon the cheek bone and broken the teeth of the ungodly in times past, so we ask Thee now to deliver this daughter from the pit, to restore what has been broken, to heal what has been wounded, and to let Thy will be done in this family, to Thy glory. Amen.

 

[Windwold]

Praying with you in Jesus'name, Amen

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying in Jesus Name.