Cralmilan

Beloved of All
Please pray that my sweet older daughter will have the courage and wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely from this toxic relationship. Let her see clearly today onward that the exhaustion, financial hardship, spiritual attacks, division, isolation and exclusion is coming from this toxic relationship. I declaring that this young man and his mother will not steal independent, self worth, her peace, her purpose, her fellowship time with her love ones or her unity with her family. Let her see how peaceful she will get from a beautiful courtship rather than living with this young man outside of marriage. Let her see her younger sister and her boyfriend beautiful courtship and know that God wants that for her as well. Lord let her hear You say, "You are Mine. You are My daughter. You belongs to Me, and I will protect You with every ounce of My power.” Please continue to join me in speaking to my older daughter’s mind, heart, and spirit, open her eyes to see, Jesus. She is not being loved; she is being used. Living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. He is not her significant other, she does not belong to him, she should not idolize, obey this young man or put him and his family before her faith, Your God-giving family and job with a purpose. This man’s greed, laziness, control, dishonesty and manipulation are not love, he does not have the right to exploit her finances for his selfish benefit, take authority over his life and his lifestyle is not a home. Let her see the spiritual attacks she and our family are under due to this relationship. The division, isolation, chaos, ungratefulness, disrespect and exhaustion this lifestyle and relationship has caused. Let her see that living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. This arrangement was guided by the young man's mother and I ask Jesus that my daughter will stop idolizing this woman and not go for advice to stay in this ungodly style and living arrangement. I pray that she will remember the bibical value she was raised on and remove herself from this toxic lifestyle swifty. Lord gently guide her to see her me and her siblings in Your eyes not by the way this young man and his mother look at us. Lord whisper to her right now: “Walk away. Trust your family. Trust Me. I will provide, protect, and restore everything he’s trying to take from you. I am praying for supernatural clarity to flood her mind, so she sees him for who he truly is, a wolf in sheep’s clothing, not a shepherd, not a provider and not ready for relationship. Lord have mercy on her and release her from this ungodly lifestyle. Lord guide her to move back home swiftly with no regret. Restore her faith, freedom, independence, self-worth, peace, satisfaction and fellowship with her family swiftly. Jesus, I ask for a special blessing upon my family today and tonight. Lord, fill us with Your Holy Spirit in every aspect of our lives. Saturate us with Your peace, love, favor, protection, respect and healing. Fill us with the Holy Spirit. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.
 
We join you in lifting up your older daughter and your whole family before the throne of grace in Jesus' name, and we thank you for your faithful, discerning heart as a mother who sees the spiritual reality behind this situation. We hear your cry for freedom, protection, restoration and healing, and we stand in agreement with you that God will open her eyes to see clearly.

We affirm what you have rightly discerned, that living together outside of marriage is not marriage and is not pleasing to God. Scripture is very clear that this is fornication, and it must be addressed with truth and love. Hebrews 13:4 says Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. And 1 Corinthians 6:18 says Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. This arrangement, even if it was guided by this young man's mother, is not a godly home and it carries spiritual consequences, which is why you are seeing the exhaustion, financial hardship, division, isolation and spiritual attacks. What is being called love is not love at all. Greed, laziness, control, dishonesty and manipulation are not love. 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 says Love is patient and is kind. Love does not envy. Love does not brag, is not proud, does not behave itself inappropriately, does not seek its own way. We also agree that she must not idolize or obey this young man or his mother above God, her faith, her God-given family and her purposeful work. Exodus 20:3 says You shall have no other gods before me, and when any person is put before God it becomes an idol that steals peace and purpose.

We also see the unequal yoking and the corrupting influence you describe. 1 Corinthians 15:33 says Do not be deceived. Evil companionships corrupt good morals. And 2 Corinthians 6:14 says Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? A beautiful courtship that honors God, as you have seen in your younger daughter's courtship, is God's design, a relationship between a man and a woman that is pure, self-controlled, respectful, and intentionally moving toward holy marriage as a lifelong commitment, not living together beforehand. When a man is not acting as a shepherd, provider or protector but as what you rightly call a wolf in sheep's clothing, Jesus warned us in Matthew 7:15 to Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly are ravenous wolves. The control and financial exploitation you describe are not the marks of a godly future husband.

The division and isolation are spiritual attacks, for Ephesians 6:12 says our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. Yet we have hope, for James 4:7 says Be subject therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. And John 8:36 says If therefore the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed. God wants to give your daughter supernatural clarity. Romans 12:2 says Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God. We pray that her mind will be renewed and she will see that she is not being loved, she is being used, and that her true identity is not found in this young man but in Christ.

We pray together for her now.

Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we come before You for this precious daughter. We ask that You whisper to her heart right now, You are Mine, You are My daughter, You belong to Me, and place Your mighty hand of protection over her. We speak to her mind, heart and spirit and ask for supernatural clarity to flood her, that she would see this relationship and this living arrangement for what it truly is. Give her courage and wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely from this toxic and ungodly lifestyle, to repent and flee sexual immorality, and to walk away with no regret. Isaiah 43:1 says Do not be afraid, for I have redeemed you. I have called you by your name. You are mine. Let her hear Your voice above every manipulative voice. Help her to stop seeking counsel from those who keep her in bondage and to remember the biblical values she was raised on. Restore to her, Lord, her freedom, independence, self-worth, peace, satisfaction and fellowship with her family. Guide her to move back home swiftly if it is Your will, and provide for, protect and restore everything the enemy has tried to take from her. We pray 2 Timothy 1:7 over her, For God did not give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control.

And Father, we lift up this mother and her whole family. Pour out Your Holy Spirit upon them in every aspect of their lives. Saturate them with Your peace, love, favor, protection, respect and healing. Psalm 34:17 says The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. And Isaiah 41:10 says Do not be afraid, for I am with you. Do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Heal the division and exhaustion in this home and let Your unity be restored. Give this mother continued strength to speak the truth in love and to trust You to do what only You can do.

We thank You that there is forgiveness and new life in Jesus, for 1 John 1:9 says If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. We declare freedom and restoration over this daughter and this family, believing You will turn what was meant for harm into testimony for Your glory. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.
 
We hear the weight you are carrying as a mother watching your older daughter in this draining relationship. The exhaustion, financial strain and distance from family you describe are so painful, especially when you can see a more peaceful future for her and long for her to see it too. We are standing with you in prayer for her protection, clarity and freedom.

In seasons like this it can help to remember that love and boundaries go together. A boundary is simply a property line that shows what we are responsible for and what belongs to another person. It lets us stay connected while still being free to say yes and no, to speak honestly in love, and to step back from what harms us. You cannot make her choices for her, and it is not your failure that she is still there. Keeping your own heart guarded, staying steady in love, and keeping your home a safe and welcoming place without pressure often keeps the door open for her to turn when she is ready.

It may also help to have one trusted pastor or counselor to talk with regularly, someone who can support you as you navigate how to love her well without carrying what is not yours to carry.

Father, we lift this daughter to You and ask You to surround her with safety and give her clear eyes to see what is true. Guard her mind and heart, restore her peace and sense of worth, and draw her close to You and to her family. Give her mother wisdom, strength and rest as she waits on You. In Jesus name, amen.
 
Your cry has come before the Lord and before His people, and we join you in earnest prayer for your daughter and for your household.

We hear the weight you carry, the exhaustion and division and spiritual heaviness that has come upon your family, and we bring it to the throne of grace where deliverance is found. It is a glorious thing to have such a well in the family, where in prayer with the children you can bring all the necessities of the household before God, and mention each child by name. You have done well to do so, and we will continue with you in speaking to the Lord on behalf of your older daughter, that her mind and heart and spirit may be opened to see clearly.

We agree with you in the truth you have declared. Living together outside of marriage is not marriage, and it is not the home that God has ordained. Marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and life together in that holy union is where love, provision and protection belong. What you have described, greed and laziness and control and dishonesty and manipulation, is not love. To be used and to have finances exploited and to be isolated from family and fellowship is not to be cherished as a daughter of the King ought to be cherished. We do not ask God to bless what is outside His holy design, but we ask Him to deliver from it, for deliverance from the power of sin is as much the work of God as deliverance from the guilt of sin.

We pray that the Lord Jesus Christ, who alone is the ransom found by God for sinners, will grant your daughter supernatural clarity. May the Lord whisper to her heart, You are Mine, and sever her by His gracious look from the crowd that would hold her, as Peter was severed and restored by the look of Christ. Though she may have wandered, restoration is near to those whom Christ calls. We pray that she will see this young man for who he truly is, not a shepherd and not a provider and not ready for such a holy trust, and that she will see the counsel that has kept her in this way for what it is. May she remember the biblical values upon which she was raised, and may she have courage and wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely, to walk away without regret, and to trust her family and to trust her God who will provide and protect and restore what has been taken.

We pray for her freedom and protection and healing, that the Lord would restore her faith, her independence, her self worth, her peace and her fellowship with those who love her most. We pray that she would desire a pure and peaceful courtship that honors the Lord, rather than a weariness that drains and divides. We pray that the Lord would make her deliverance effectual, for He brought them forth, and He alone brings His people out with a strong hand. It is not of him that wills, nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. He feels, as every humbled soul must feel, that if she ever rises from this despondency she can take no honor to herself, it must be of free grace only. And free grace is sufficient.

For your whole family we ask a special blessing this day and this night. Lord, fill this household with Your Holy Spirit in every aspect of life. Saturate each heart with Your peace and love and favor and protection and healing. Let there be deliverance from discord within your borders, and let gratitude be deeper as you see His hand. Though the Lord has chastened sorely, you shall not be crushed. You shall live and declare the works of the Lord, for He has not shut His ear to your prayer, but will move His arm to work deliverance for you.

Continue to pray and to declare these truths over your daughter. The clock of mercy strikes in Heaven at the hour appointed by eternal purpose, and God has found a ransom. Sinner, do not doubt your deliverance, for God has said it. We stand with you until that deliverance is fully seen, trusting that what He has begun He will complete.

In the name of Jesus Christ our only hope and our glorious habitation, we pray. Amen.
 
Father, humbly ask for Your power to intervene. Please meet deepest spiritual, physical, emotional, financial needs according to Your Will and timing in Jesus Name Amen
"May the Lord bless you and protect you. May the Lord smile on you and be gracious to you. May the Lord show you his favor and give you his peace." Numbers 6:24-26
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
 

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