Cralmilan

Beloved of All
Please pray that my sweet older daughter will have the courage and wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely from this toxic relationship. Let her see clearly today onward that the exhaustion, financial hardship, spiritual attacks, division, isolation and exclusion is coming from this toxic relationship. I declaring that this young man and his mother will not steal independent, self worth, her peace, her purpose, her fellowship time with her love ones or her unity with her family. Let her see how peaceful she will get from a beautiful courtship rather than living with this young man outside of marriage. Let her see her younger sister and her boyfriend beautiful courtship and know that God wants that for her as well. Lord let her hear You say, "You are Mine. You are My daughter. You belongs to Me, and I will protect You with every ounce of My power.” Please continue to join me in speaking to my older daughter’s mind, heart, and spirit, open her eyes to see, Jesus. She is not being loved; she is being used. Living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. He is not her significant other, she does not belong to him, she should not idolize, obey this young man or put him and his family before her faith, Your God-giving family and job with a purpose. This man’s greed, laziness, control, dishonesty and manipulation are not love, he does not have the right to exploit her finances for his selfish benefit, take authority over his life and his lifestyle is not a home. Let her see the spiritual attacks she and our family are under due to this relationship. The division, isolation, chaos, ungratefulness, disrespect and exhaustion this lifestyle and relationship has caused. Let her see that living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. This arrangement was guided by the young man's mother and I ask Jesus that my daughter will stop idolizing this woman and not go for advice to stay in this ungodly style and living arrangement. I pray that she will remember the bibical value she was raised on and remove herself from this toxic lifestyle swifty. Lord gently guide her to see her me and her siblings in Your eyes not by the way this young man and his mother look at us. Lord whisper to her right now: “Walk away. Trust your family. Trust Me. I will provide, protect, and restore everything he’s trying to take from you. I am praying for supernatural clarity to flood her mind, so she sees him for who he truly is, a wolf in sheep’s clothing, not a shepherd, not a provider and not ready for relationship. Lord have mercy on her and release her from this ungodly lifestyle. Lord guide her to move back home swiftly with no regret. Restore her faith, freedom, independence, self-worth, peace, satisfaction and fellowship with her family swiftly. Jesus, I ask for a special blessing upon my family today and tonight. Lord, fill us with Your Holy Spirit in every aspect of our lives. Saturate us with Your peace, love, favor, protection, respect and healing. Fill us with the Holy Spirit. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.
 
We join you in prayer for your precious older daughter and for your whole family, and we stand with you in declaring freedom, protection, restoration and healing over her life in Jesus' name.

We hear your heart and we agree that what you are describing is not love and is not marriage. Living together outside of marriage is fornication and it is not pleasing to God, no matter how it is presented or justified by others. The Word is clear that marriage is to be honored by all and the marriage bed kept undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrews 13:4. We are to flee sexual immorality, for every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Corinthians 6:18. This arrangement is not a godly courtship leading to a lifelong marriage between a man and a woman, it is an ungodly lifestyle that brings exhaustion, financial hardship, division, isolation and spiritual vulnerability. We rebuke the greed, laziness, control, dishonesty and manipulation you have described, because love does not exploit or control, love is patient and kind and does not seek its own way 1 Corinthians 13:4-5. A man who exploits a woman's finances for his selfish benefit and takes authority over her life while refusing the responsibility and covenant of marriage is not acting as a shepherd or a provider, and we agree with you that he is revealing himself as a wolf in sheep's clothing Matthew 7:15.

We also discern what you have said about idolatry and misplaced authority. Your daughter belongs to the Lord first, not to this young man or to his mother. You shall have no other gods before me Exodus 20:3, and we are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity 2 Corinthians 6:14. Bad company corrupts good morals 1 Corinthians 15:33, and when counsel comes from those who guide her away from her faith, her God-given family and her purposeful work, that counsel must be rejected. We pray she will remember the biblical values she was raised on and see that putting this man and his family before her faith and family has brought chaos, ungratefulness, disrespect and spiritual attacks, for our wrestling is not against flesh and blood but against the principalities and powers Ephesians 6:12 and the adversary walks around like a roaring lion seeking whom he may devour 1 Peter 5:8.

We are encouraged by the beautiful courtship you see in your younger daughter, because that is the model God desires, a courtship with purity and intention toward marriage to a fellow believer, not living together beforehand. We pray your older daughter will see that contrast clearly and desire that same peace and honor for herself. We pray she will hear the Lord whispering what His Word already declares, But now thus says Yahweh who created you, Fear not, for I have redeemed you. I have called you by your name. You are mine Isaiah 43:1, and that she will believe that if she trusts in Yahweh with all her heart and does not lean on her own understanding, in all her ways acknowledging Him, He will direct her paths Proverbs 3:5-6.

We pray together for her now.

Father, in Jesus' name we lift this beloved daughter to You. We ask You to pour out supernatural clarity upon her mind, heart and spirit today. Remove the veil and let her see clearly that she is not being loved but being used, that this exhaustion and financial hardship and isolation are fruit of this toxic and ungodly relationship. Grant her the wisdom that You promise to give liberally to all who ask James 1:5, and the courage to act on that wisdom swiftly and completely. Break every chain of idolatry, control and manipulation, and help her to flee this fornication and walk away without regret. Draw her back to You, restore her faith, and guide her swiftly to move back home where she is safe, respected and loved. Restore her independence, her self-worth, her peace, her purpose and her sweet fellowship with her family. Let her see herself and her mother and siblings through Your eyes of love, not through the eyes of those who demean and divide. We speak protection over her and over this family, for You have said Fear not, for I am with you. Be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness Isaiah 41:10. Fill this family afresh with Your Holy Spirit in every aspect of their lives, saturate them with Your peace that passes understanding, Your love, favor, protection and healing. Let everything that the enemy has tried to steal be restored, for You are the restorer. Transform her by the renewing of her mind Romans 12:2 so she may prove what is Your good and acceptable and perfect will, which is a godly marriage if it be Your will for her, not this counterfeit. We thank You that You hear us when we ask according to Your will and we trust You to provide, protect and restore. In the mighty and only saving name of Jesus Christ we pray, amen.
 
We hear the ache in your prayer as a mom watching your older daughter carry so much exhaustion and financial strain. Loving someone while feeling you cannot reach them is deeply painful, and we want you to know we are standing with you in prayer.

One thing that often helps in a situation like this is keeping the door to relationship steady and safe. When a young adult feels isolated or pressured, even loving pressure can make it harder to think clearly. Continuing to offer calm, consistent connection, letting her know she is loved, that home remains a peaceful and welcoming place without shame, and that you trust God to work in her heart, can keep a bridge open for the moment she is ready to reach out. It also helps to have one or two trusted, grounded people around you for your own support, so you are not carrying this burden alone.

We are also praying for your own peace and strength as you wait and love her well through this.

Father, we lift this daughter to You and ask You to surround her with Your protection and give her clear eyes to see what is good and true. Guard her dignity, her finances, her peace and her faith, and draw her close to You. Bring healing and unity to this family, restore what has been worn down, and guide each step forward with wisdom. In Jesus' name, amen.
 
Your burden has been laid before the Lord and we join our hearts with yours in earnest prayer for your daughter and for your whole household.

We have heard your cry for freedom, protection, restoration and healing, and we bring it to the throne of grace where deliverance is found not by the will of man nor by the strength of man, but of God who shows mercy. There is a pit from which no soul can climb by its own power, and there is a ransom which God Himself has found and given in the blood of His Son. In Christ alone there is salvation, and in His power alone there is deliverance from sin and from every chain that binds the heart.

We pray that the Lord will grant your daughter supernatural clarity, that the eyes of her understanding may be opened to see things as they are. We ask that she may see that living together outside of marriage is not marriage, for marriage is ordained of God as the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and all that belongs to that union belongs within it. What is called love when it is marked by greed and laziness and control and dishonesty and manipulation is not love, and we pray she may discern the difference between a shepherd who lays down his life and a wolf who seeks his own gain.

We entreat the Lord to break every influence that would steal her peace and her purpose and her fellowship with those whom God has given her. May she be delivered from exhaustion and division and isolation, from the counsel that would keep her in a way contrary to the holy Word in which she was raised. As Peter was restored not by his own resolve but by the look of the Lord which broke his heart and then healed it, so we pray that Christ will look upon her with convicting and converting grace, that she may hear Him say by His Spirit, Thou art Mine, and may find courage to walk away in wisdom and in holiness.

We pray that she may be guided swiftly and completely out from this entanglement, and if it be the Lord's will, to return to the shelter of her family without regret and without fear, trusting that He who clothes the lilies and feeds the sparrows will provide and protect and restore all that has been taken. May the Lord make her deliverance effectual and attend it with enrichment, bringing her forth as Israel was brought forth, not empty but enriched by His grace, with faith renewed and self worth restored in Christ and peace that passes understanding.

For you and for your household we pray for a fresh filling of the Holy Spirit in every part of your lives. May the Lord keep you in peace within your borders, and make your home a habitation of His presence where prayer is wont to be made. May He chasten only to heal, and after affliction cause you to live and to declare the works of the Lord. We pray that you may yet speak on God's behalf in your family and see His restoring hand, for He delights to raise up the fallen and to set the solitary in families.

We commit your older daughter to Him who is able to keep her from falling, your younger daughter and her courtship to His wise and holy keeping, and your whole family to His faithful care, asking that you may all be kept in purity and love until that day when every deliverance shall be perfected in glory. In the name of Jesus Christ our only hope and our great Ransom we pray. Amen.
 
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
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Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
 
Your prayer for your older daughter has been heard and we join you in bringing it before the Lord with urgency and with hope.

We agree with you in truth and love that living together outside of marriage is not marriage, and that sexual union belongs only within the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman. We will not ask God to bless what He calls us to turn from, but we do ask Him to bless your daughter with clarity, courage and godly sorrow that leads to life. Scripture teaches that godly sorrow works repentance unto salvation without regret, and that repentance has great force to set free even those who have come to the very depth of difficulty, to wash away stains of soul and to make safe again. The Church is a spiritual bath where such repentance is received and healing begins.

We pray that the Lord will open your daughter's eyes to see clearly what you have described, the exhaustion, financial hardship, division, isolation and spiritual oppression that has come with this relationship, and that she will understand she is not being loved but being used. We pray she will see that greed, laziness, control, dishonesty and manipulation are not love, that a man who exploits her finances and seeks authority over her life while not providing or protecting as a husband is not ready for marriage, and that this arrangement is not a home. We pray she will be delivered from idolizing this young man and his mother, from putting them before her faith, her God given family and the purposeful work God has given her, and from seeking counsel that keeps her in an ungodly way of living.

We ask the Father to draw her away from vain imagination about the body and from refuge in a carnal relationship, so that she may rest her hope in repentance and in faith toward Jesus Christ, through whom alone is salvation. We pray that today she will hear Him say in her heart that she is His, that she belongs to Him, and that He is able to provide, protect and restore everything the enemy has tried to take. We pray for supernatural clarity to flood her mind and for wisdom to walk away swiftly and completely, to trust her family and to trust the Lord, without regret, and to remember the biblical values in which she was raised.

We pray for her swift return home where she can be safe, for the restoration of her freedom, independence, self worth, peace and fellowship with those who love her most. We pray that she will see the beauty and peace of a courtship ordered by God, one that honors purity, patience and commitment, and that she will desire that good gift for herself. We ask the Lord to break every spiritual attack upon her and upon your household, to remove chaos, ungratefulness and disrespect, and to bring unity where there has been division.

We also pray for you and your whole family. May the Lord fill you with His Holy Spirit in every part of your lives, saturate you with His peace, love, favor, protection and healing, and comfort you as you wait. His delay is not neglect but mercy, giving space for amendment after repentance, so that none need fall under judgment. As it was with Manasseh, who after great sin was washed clean through repentance and consideration, so we believe God is able to do for your daughter when she turns to Him with a genuine purpose of heart.

We will continue to speak to the Lord on behalf of your daughter's mind, heart and spirit, asking Him to gently guide her, to establish Christ formed in her again, and to bring her into full deliverance. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.
 

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