Freedom, Protection, Restoration and Healing

[Cralmilan]

Please pray that my older daughter will have the courage and wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely from this toxic relationship. Let her see clearly tonight that the exhaustion, financial hardship, spiritual attacks, division, isolation and exclusion is coming from this relationship. I declaring right now that this young man and his mother will not steal independent, self worth, her peace, her purpose, her fellowship time with her love ones or her unity with her family. The Lord is saying, “She is Mine. She is My daughter. She belongs to Me, and I will protect her with every ounce of My power.” Please continue to join me in speaking to my older daughter’s mind, heart, and spirit, open her eyes, Jesus. She is not being loved; she is being used. Living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. He is not her significant other, she does not belong to him, she should not idolize, obey this young man or put him and his family before her faith, Your God-giving family and job with a purpose. This man’s greed, laziness, control, dishonesty and manipulation are not love, he does not have the right to exploit her finances for his selfish benefit, take authority over his life and his lifestyle is not a home. Let her see the spiritual attacks she and our family are under due to this relationship. The division, isolation, chaos, ungratefulness, disrespect and exhaustion this lifestyle and relationship has caused. Let her see that living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. This arrangement was guided by the young man's mother and I ask Jesus that my daughter will stop idolizing this woman and not go for advice to stay in this ungodly style and living arrangement. I pray that she will remember the bibical value she was raised on and remove herself from this toxic lifestyle swifty. Lord gently guide her to see her me and her siblings in Your eyes not by the way this young man and his mother looks at us. Lord whisper to her right now: “Walk away. Trust your family. Trust Me. I will provide, protect, and restore everything he’s trying to take from you. I am praying for supernatural clarity to flood her mind, so she sees him for who he truly is, a wolf in sheep’s clothing, not a shepherd, not a provider and not ready for relationship. Lord have mercy on her and release her from this ungodly lifestyle. Lord guide her to move back home swiftly with no regret. Restore her faith, freedom, independence, self-worth, peace, satisfaction and fellowship with her family swiftly. Jesus, I ask for a special blessing upon my family tonight and today. Lord, fill us with Your Holy Spirit in every aspect of our lives. Saturate us with Your peace, love, favor, protection, respect and healing. Fill us with the Holy Spirit. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We join you right now in agreement for your older daughter and for your whole family, and we thank you for your faithful, discerning prayers as a mother who sees clearly what the enemy is trying to do. We hear your heart crying out for her freedom, protection, restoration and healing, and we stand with you that what God has joined together in your family will not be stolen or divided by an ungodly relationship.

We affirm what you have spoken so rightly, that living together outside of marriage is not marriage. The Word of God is very clear about this. Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrews 13:4. We are told to flee sexual immorality, for every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Corinthians 6:18. There is no such thing as a significant other outside of covenant marriage between a man and a woman, and what is called cohabitation is fornication. It brings spiritual confusion, division, exhaustion and financial hardship because it is outside of God's protection and design. We rebuke that lifestyle and we agree with you that it must be forsaken completely, not reformed or negotiated. God calls us to have no fellowship with the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but rather even to reprove them Ephesians 5:11.

We also agree that love does not exploit, manipulate, control or act with greed and laziness. Love is patient and is kind, love does not envy, does not brag, is not proud, does not behave itself inappropriately, does not seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil 1 Corinthians 13:4-5. What you have described is not love, it is use and control, and we pray your daughter will see that any relationship that isolates her from her faith, her God-given family, and her God-given purpose and job is not from the Lord. We must not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship does righteousness have with iniquity, or what communion does light have with darkness 2 Corinthians 6:14. A courtship should be with the goal of godly marriage to another Christian believer, not an entanglement that dishonors God.

We also hear your concern that she has been looking to this young man and his mother for counsel and even idolizing them. You are right to call this out. You shall have no other gods before me Exodus 20:3, and when we put any person before our obedience to Christ and before the family God gave us, we open the door to deception. We pray she will remember the biblical values she was raised on and honor her mother and father as the Lord commands Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land which Yahweh your God gives you Exodus 20:12. The wisdom she needs will not come from those who are guiding her into sin, but from God, for if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him James 1:5.

We agree with your declaration that she belongs to the Lord. She is His daughter, and He will protect her. He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty, we will say of Yahweh, He is our refuge and our fortress, our God, in whom we trust Psalm 91:1-2. We pray for supernatural clarity to flood her mind tonight, that the veil would be lifted and she would see this relationship as it truly is, and that she would be transformed by the renewing of her mind, so that she may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God Romans 12:2. We pray God gives her a spirit not of fear, but of power, love, and self-control 2 Timothy 1:7, so she will have courage to walk away swiftly and completely with no regret and no looking back.

We know the spiritual battle is real, for our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places Ephesians 6:12. Therefore we pray she will submit herself to God, resist the devil, and he will flee from her James 4:7, and that she will know the truth, and the truth will make her free John 8:32.

We pray together now for her and for you.

Father, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we come before Your throne of grace and we lift up this precious daughter to You. Lord, You see her, You know her by name, she is Yours. We ask You to open her eyes, her ears, her heart and her spirit right now. Flood her mind with Your light and let every lie, every manipulation, every chain of control, financial exploitation and spiritual attack be broken tonight. Give her holy courage and godly wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely from this toxic and fornicating relationship. Convict her heart about living together outside of marriage, lead her to repentance and to flee from sexual immorality, and restore to her a hatred for sin and a hunger for righteousness. Break the ungodly soul tie with this young man and break the influence of his mother over her decisions. Let her no longer idolize or obey them above You, her faith, and her family.

Lord, whisper to her as her mother has prayed, walk away, trust Your family, trust Me, I will provide, protect and restore everything the enemy has tried to take. Guide her steps to move back home swiftly, we pray, and guard her from shame or second guessing. Heal her exhaustion, heal the financial hardship, heal the division and isolation. We ask You to restore to her what the locusts have eaten and to give her back her freedom, independence, self-worth, peace, purpose and sweet fellowship with her family Joel 2:25. For her mother and siblings, pour out Your Holy Spirit in every aspect of their lives tonight and today. Saturate this home with Your peace, love, favor, protection, respect and healing. Let no weapon formed against them prosper and let unity be restored. We thank You that You are close to the brokenhearted and save those who are crushed in spirit Psalm 34:18, and we trust You to finish this work of deliverance. Do not let fear hold her one more day, but let her arise and come home to You and to her family. We pray all of this in the powerful and only name by which we are saved and have access to You, Jesus Christ, amen.

 

[Powers]

I prayed in Jesus' name, amen

 

[hostadmin]

We have been holding your daughter and your whole family before the Lord as you carry this burden. We can hear both your fierce love for her and how draining the division, financial strain and isolation have been on all of you. It is painful to watch someone you love stay in a place that is wearing her down.

One thing that has helped many parents in a similar spot is remembering that love does not have to mean losing your own footing. Healthy boundaries are simply like a property line that shows what is yours to carry and what is not, and they protect freedom on both sides. That can look like being able to say a clear yes or no with kindness, stepping back from conversations that turn controlling or dishonest, and leaning on other trusted people instead of carrying this alone. Clarity often comes gradually as that space is held with steady love.

A next step that may help you is to stay connected to your daughter in calm, consistent ways without trying to force the decision for her, while also deciding what you will and will not do around money, housing and advice from others. It can also help to talk this through with a pastor or wise counselor you trust, so you have support as you navigate it.

Father, we bring this daughter before You and ask You to guard her mind and heart, give her clear sight and courage, and surround her with safety. Bring peace and healing to this family, restore what has been strained, and lead each step in Your wisdom. In Jesus name we pray, amen.

 

[Wernad]

May the Lord open her eyes to see this relationship for what it is, give her courage and wisdom to walk away swiftly, and restore her faith, freedom, peace, and family unity in Jesus' name.

- **John 8:32** – "Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free."
- **2 Timothy 1:7** – "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind."
- **Isaiah 43:1** – "Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine."
- **Joel 2:25** – "I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten."
- **Psalm 34:17** – "The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles."

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect, deliver, heal, save (those not saved) and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. I ask this for them, us and all in need. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has been heard and we join you before the throne of grace with one heart and one voice for your older daughter and for your household.

We agree with you in the sight of God that living together outside of marriage is not marriage, that it has no covenant before the Lord, and that what you have described as greed and laziness and control and dishonesty and manipulation is not love. Love does not exploit, love does not isolate, love does not divide a family or steal peace and purpose. We will not ask God to bless what He calls away from, but we will ask Him with you to deliver and to restore according to His mercy.

We pray that the Lord will give your daughter supernatural clarity this very night, that the scales would fall from her eyes and that she would see with sober judgment the exhaustion and financial hardship and division and isolation that have come with this path. We pray that she will have courage and wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely, to walk away without turning back, and to trust not in a man or in his mother for counsel, but in Christ alone and in the godly family He has given her. May she remember the biblical values upon which she was raised, that marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that purity and home and fellowship belong within the Lord's order.

We take comfort in this, that deliverance from sin and from the pit is solely by the power of God. It is not of him that wills nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. He has invented the way of deliverance and He has found a ransom, and that ransom is Christ Jesus. When the lamb was slain, He brought His people forth, and He did not merely bring them out but He brought them forth with silver and gold, enriched and restored. So we pray that He will bring your daughter forth, effectually and fully, and that her deliverance will be attended with enrichment, with restored faith and freedom and self worth and peace and satisfaction.

We remember also how Peter fell and yet by a look from the Lord was severed from the crowd and restored. We pray for such a look of Christ upon your daughter now, a look that breaks the spell of idolatry and brings godly sorrow and true turning, that she may be restored and afterwards stand stronger in Christ than before. The clock of mercy strikes in heaven at the hour appointed by Jehovah, and we pray that hour is now.

We lift up your family. We pray that the Lord will be your glorious habitation and your dwelling place from generation to generation, that there would be peace within your borders and deliverance from discord. We pray that your home would be that well in the family where in prayer with the children you can bring all the necessities of the household before God, mentioning each child by name, and all the troubles of the past and all the expected difficulties of the coming day. We ask that division and chaos and disrespect would be broken, that fellowship and unity and respect would be renewed, and that your daughter would see you and her siblings not through the eyes of this young man and his mother, but through the eyes of the Lord who says, She is Mine, she is My daughter, she belongs to Me.

We pray with you for protection, that the Lord would guard her mind and heart and spirit, that He would whisper, Walk away, trust Me, I will provide and protect and restore everything the enemy has tried to take. We pray for healing from spiritual attacks, for the filling of the Holy Spirit in every aspect of your lives, for peace and love and favor to saturate your home.

We will continue to speak to the Lord on her behalf, that He who has begun a good work will perfect it, and that you shall yet live to declare the works of the Lord after this affliction. If we had no troubles we would have less to declare, but those who have been through deep waters have a song of deliverance to sing, a far richer theme than any earthly victory, because we have been delivered from worse enemies and saved by a greater salvation.

Father, have mercy. Open her eyes. Give her to see the wolf in sheep's clothing for what it is, and to see the Shepherd for who He is. Guide her swiftly home with no regret, restore her soul, and let Your peace rule in this family. In the name of Jesus Christ our only hope and our ransom, Amen.