Cralmilan

Beloved of All
Please pray that my older daughter will have the courage and wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely from this toxic relationship. Let her see clearly that the exhaustion, financial hardship, spiritual attacks, division, isolation and exclusion is coming from this relationship. I declaring right now that this young man and his mother will not steal independent, self worth, her peace, her purpose, her fellowship time with her love ones or her unity with her family. The Lord is saying, “She is Mine. She is My daughter. She belongs to Me, and I will protect her with every ounce of My power.” Please continue to join me in speaking to my older daughter’s mind, heart, and spirit, open her eyes, Jesus. She is not being loved; she is being used. Living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. He is not her significant other, she does not belong to him, she should not idolize, obey this young man or put him and his family before her faith, Your God-giving family and job with a purpose. This man’s greed, laziness, control, dishonesty and manipulation are not love, he does not have the right to exploit her finances for his selfish benefit, take authority over his life and his lifestyle is not a home. Let her see the spiritual attacks she and our family are under due to this relationship. The division, isolation, chaos, ungratefulness, disrespect and exhaustion this lifestyle and relationship has caused. Let her see that living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. This arrangement was guided by the young man's mother and I ask Jesus that my daughter will stop idolizing this woman and not go for advice to stay in this ungodly style and living arrangement. I pray that she will remember the bibical value she was raised on and remove herself from this toxic lifestyle swifty. Lord gently guide her to see her me and her siblings in Your eyes not by the way this young man and his mother looks at us. Lord whisper to her right now: “Walk away. Trust your family. Trust Me. I will provide, protect, and restore everything he’s trying to take from you. I am praying for supernatural clarity to flood her mind, so she sees him for who he truly is, a wolf in sheep’s clothing, not a shepherd, not a provider and not ready for relationship. Lord have mercy on her and release her from this ungodly lifestyle. Lord guide her to move back home swiftly with no regret. Restore her faith, freedom, independence, self-worth, peace, satisfaction and fellowship with her family swiftly. Jesus, I ask for a special blessing upon my family tonight and today. Lord, fill us with Your Holy Spirit in every aspect of our lives. Saturate us with Your peace, love, favor, protection, respect and healing. Fill us with the Holy Spirit. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.
 
We join you together in Jesus name lifting up your older daughter before the throne of grace, and we agree with you that she belongs to the Lord and that no man or family has the right to steal what God has given her. We hear your anguish as a mother and we stand with you in prayer for her freedom, protection, restoration and healing.

We affirm what you have spoken so clearly, that living together outside of marriage is not marriage and is not honored by God. Scripture calls this fornication and tells us to flee from it, not to remain in it. We must lovingly but firmly rebuke this lifestyle because it brings spiritual harm, division and exhaustion. 1 Cor 6:18 says Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Heb 13:4 says Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. A courtship between a man and a woman should be with the purpose of discerning marriage to a fellow believer in Christ, not a prolonged arrangement of living together, sharing finances and intimacy without covenant. 2 Cor 6:14 says Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity. Or what fellowship has light with darkness. When a relationship is marked by greed, laziness, control, dishonesty and manipulation, that is not love. 1 Cor 13:4-5 teaches that love is patient and kind, love does not envy or boast and is not proud, it does not dishonor others and is not self seeking. To idolize or obey a young man and his mother above God, above her God given family and above her God given purpose for work is idolatry and misplaced authority, and God calls us to have no other gods before Him and to honor our father and mother.

We also agree with you that the exhaustion, financial hardship, isolation, division and spiritual attacks you are describing are the fruit of this ungodly arrangement. Eph 5:11 says Have no fellowship with the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but rather even reprove them. James 4:7 says Be subject therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. The enemy seeks to isolate and divide families, but where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty. 2 Cor 3:17 says Now the Lord is the Spirit and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty. And John 8:36 promises If therefore the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed.

We pray together now for your daughter and for your whole family.

Father in heaven, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ we come before You and we thank You that this daughter is Yours. You say she is Your daughter, she belongs to You, and You will protect her with all of Your power. We ask You to flood her mind, heart and spirit with supernatural clarity. Open her eyes, Lord Jesus, to see that she is being used and not loved, that this young man is not a shepherd, not a provider and not ready for a godly marriage, but a wolf in sheep's clothing. Remove the spiritual blindness and break every chain of manipulation, control and idolatry that has caused her to put this young man and his mother before You, before her family and before the purpose You have for her life. Give her courage and wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely from this toxic and fornicating living arrangement. Whisper to her even now to walk away, to trust You and to trust the family You gave her, knowing that You will provide, protect and restore everything the enemy has tried to take. Call her back to the biblical values she was raised on, to remember who she is in Your eyes, not in the eyes of this man and his mother. Lead her to move back home swiftly and without regret if it is Your will, and restore to her faith, freedom, independence, self worth, peace, satisfaction and sweet fellowship with her loved ones. Heal the division, chaos, disrespect and exhaustion this lifestyle has caused in the entire family.

Lord, we ask for Your special blessing upon this mother and her children today and tonight. Fill this family with Your Holy Spirit in every aspect of their lives. Saturate them with Your peace, love, favor, protection, respect and healing. Psalm 91:1 promises He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. Let them dwell there. Isaiah 41:10 reminds us Do not be afraid, for I am with you. Do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness. Strengthen this mother to continue to speak truth in love, to not enable what is ungodly, and to keep praying without ceasing while trusting Your timing. Prepare a future that honors You, whether that be a season of singleness devoted to You or in Your perfect time a godly marriage to a believing husband who will love her as Christ loves the church. We declare freedom and restoration over her life, for You make all things new. In Jesus name we pray, Amen.
 
We hear how much you love your older daughter and how heavy this season has felt for you and your whole family. Watching her carry exhaustion and financial strain and feeling a growing distance from the fellowship and peace you want for her is painful, and we are joining you in prayer for her and for all of you.

What you named about finances, energy, and isolation points to how important clear boundaries are. A boundary is simply like a property line that helps a person know what is theirs to own and protect, their values, time, energy, choices and resources, and to stay connected to others while still being free to say yes or no as they need to. When those lines get blurred it is hard to see clearly or to make free decisions. Loving her well can include holding that kind of steadiness yourself.

One gentle next step that often helps is to keep your communication with her as calm and open as you can, so she knows home remains a safe place to return to without shame or pressure. It also helps to have support for yourself as you walk through this, a trusted pastor or counselor who can listen, help you think through how to handle financial requests and difficult conversations, and care for your own peace and your family’s unity while you wait on the Lord.

Father, we lift this daughter to You and ask for Your protection over her mind, heart and spirit. Give her clarity and courage and wisdom for each decision, and keep her safe. Bring healing where there has been division and exhaustion, and restore peace and fellowship in this family in Your way and timing. Fill this home with Your presence, comfort and guidance today. In Jesus' name, amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
 
Your prayer for your older daughter has been heard and we join you in bringing it before the throne of grace with urgency and love. We stand with you in asking the Lord for her freedom, protection, restoration and healing, and for peace and unity to be restored to your household.

You have spoken rightly and we affirm it with you before God, that living together outside of marriage is not marriage. The Scripture teaches that marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that intimacy and the sharing of a home in that way belong within that covenant alone. What you have described, the exhaustion, financial hardship, division, isolation and confusion, bears the marks of a path apart from God's good design, and we will not ask God to bless what He calls us to turn from. Instead we ask Him to bring conviction, clarity and deliverance, for His desire is to lead your daughter into what is holy, pure and truly loving, where she is cherished and not used.

We pray that the Lord who alone can work deliverance from a cruel captivity will bring it to pass by His own hand and outstretched arm. As it has been said, He brought them forth, and He alone must do it. No chain of control, dishonesty, manipulation or greed can hold where Jehovah decrees liberty. We ask that He will find the ransom in Christ and speak deliverance from the pit, for God has found a ransom in His Son, and through that blood there is pardon and healing in happy conjunction. The very leaves of the tree of life are for the healing of the nations, and even the least thing about Christ is full of healing virtue to change the life blood and make the nature new. May that Sun of Righteousness rise upon your daughter with healing in His wings, and upon your family, purging every evil and causing abundant streams of healing to flow down.

We pray now for supernatural clarity to flood her mind, heart and spirit. That the Lord would give her the courage and wisdom to release herself swiftly and completely from this entanglement, that He would open her eyes to see that she is not being loved but being used, and that a wolf in sheep's clothing is not a shepherd, not a provider, and not ready for a godly union. We ask that the Lord would gently whisper to her, Walk away, trust Me, and that she would remember the biblical values upon which she was raised, cease to idolize or obey voices that counsel her to remain in an ungodly arrangement, and no longer put this young man and his family before her faith, her God given family and the purpose God has for her work and life. We pray that every attempt to steal her independence, self worth, peace, purpose and fellowship with those who love her would be broken, for she is the Lord's daughter, she belongs to Him, and He keeps His own night and day, for He neither slumbers nor sleeps.

We also lift your family before Him, as a household that brings all its necessities before God in prayer, mentioning each child by name and laying every trouble of the past and every difficulty of the coming day at His feet. We ask for that well of family prayer to be deep and constant, that you may know deliverance from the archers of discord and have peace within your borders. May the Lord sever your daughter from the crowd that holds her, as Christ's look severed Peter and brought him to restoration, and may He restore her faith, freedom, independence, self worth, peace and joyful fellowship with you and her siblings. May He guide her steps swiftly toward home without regret, providing, protecting and restoring all that has been taken, and making her a testimony of free grace alone.

Lord, fill this family with Your Holy Spirit in every aspect of life this day and tonight. Saturate each heart with Your peace, love, favor, protection, respect and healing. Let what has been cast down be lifted up, let what has been wounded be healed and pardoned through Jesus Christ our Lord. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.
 

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