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[Galiomore]

Lord, my name is ###. I feel like after my divorce ### is going to need me for something. Then I'm going to tell her no then she going to throw up in my face all the times she helped me then thats going to light that flame. I ask that after I get a job. I pray that I hold it for a long time in Jesus name. I ask ### what she say to ### about me. She said she talk good about me to ###. She said that she told him that I always help her and I'm always there for her. But ### said that ### told him that I cant keep a job. And that I said I didn't want to work with him. I ask that you reveal the truth to me. I feel like ### is trying to keep me from meeting ### for some reason. I pray that I meet him at right time. And I pray that the truth about everything come out. I ask that you bring peace in all this. I ask that you work everything out. I ask that you take care ### and ### because everything thats going on is not right. I ask that you work this out in my favor. In Jesus name amen.

 

[Articles]

We hear the pain and confusion in your heart as you navigate the aftermath of divorce and the tangled web of relationships that follow. First, we want to affirm that you are coming to God in the name of Jesus, which is the only way we can approach the Father (John 14:6). There is no other name by which we can be saved or find true peace (Acts 4:12). If you have not already, we encourage you to examine your heart and ensure you have placed your full trust in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, repenting of sin and surrendering your life to Him. This is the foundation for all healing and wisdom.

The situation you describe reveals deep wounds, betrayal, manipulation, and unresolved conflict. We must address the sin of gossip and slander, which is rampant here. Scripture warns us, "A perverse man stirs up dissension, and a gossip separates close friends" (Proverbs 16:28). It is clear that words have been spoken behind your back that are untrue or twisted, and this is not of God. We rebuke the spirit of deception and division in this situation. The enemy seeks to destroy relationships and sow discord, but God calls us to truth and reconciliation (Ephesians 4:25-27).

You mention feeling like your ex-wife may need you again, only to throw past help in your face. This is a painful cycle, and we must guard your heart against bitterness. "See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many" (Hebrews 12:15). Forgiveness is not optional, even when it feels impossible. We are called to forgive as Christ forgave us (Colossians 3:13). This does not mean trusting her again or allowing yourself to be manipulated, but it does mean releasing her to God and refusing to let anger control you.

You also express concern about being kept from meeting someone, possibly a potential spouse. We must caution you here: if this person is not a believer, Scripture is clear that we are not to be unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14). If you are seeking a godly marriage, you must first seek God’s will and timing. Rushing into relationships, especially with someone connected to your ex-wife’s circle, could lead to more heartache. We pray that if this person is meant to be in your life, God will make it undeniably clear in His perfect timing.

Your request for stability in employment is valid. God promises to provide for our needs (Philippians 4:19), but we must also walk in wisdom and diligence. "The one who is unwilling to work shall not eat" (2 Thessalonians 3:10). We pray that God opens the right door for you and gives you the strength to persevere in your job, honoring Him with your work ethic.

Now, let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the only name by which we can approach You. Lord, we lift up this dear brother to You, asking for Your healing touch on his heart. Heal the wounds of betrayal, Lord, and guard him from bitterness. Reveal the truth in every situation, exposing lies and deception. Give him wisdom to navigate these relationships with discernment and grace.

Father, we ask for stability in his employment. Open the right doors for him, and give him favor with employers. Help him to work as unto You, with integrity and diligence. Provide for all his needs according to Your riches in glory.

Lord, we pray for clarity regarding the relationships in his life. If there is a godly spouse in his future, prepare his heart and theirs, and bring them together in Your perfect timing. If this is not Your will, give him peace to wait on You. Protect him from manipulation and from entering into relationships that do not honor You.

We rebuke the spirit of division and gossip in this situation. Let truth prevail, and let Your peace rule in every heart involved. Father, we ask that You work all things together for his good, as You promise in Romans 8:28. Strengthen his faith, Lord, and help him to trust You completely.

We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.

We encourage you to seek godly counsel, perhaps from a pastor or trusted Christian mentor, as you navigate these challenges. Surround yourself with believers who can speak truth into your life and hold you accountable. Remember, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit" (Psalm 34:18). You are not alone in this. Keep your eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2).

 

[hostadmin]

Brother, we hear the exhaustion in your words. You're carrying so much at once: the ache of a marriage that ended, the pressure to find and keep a job, and a tangled web of relationships where it feels like you're always bracing for the next hit or hidden agenda. That's a heavy load, and we're standing with you.

When you describe that fear, that someone will need help, you'll say no, and then the past will get thrown back in your face, it’s like you’re already living in a fight that hasn't happened yet. Divorce stirs up deep pain and confusion, and it often leaves people stuck in exhausting patterns of conflict that can last a long time. One of the most practical and valuable steps you could take right now is to look for a divorce recovery group at a local church. It gives you a steady place to process the grief, sort through the emotions, and learn how to break free of those painful cycles so you're not constantly on edge about what comes next. It may also help you find some solid ground beneath the job search and the uncertainty about these other relationships.

About your job, we hear that prayer too: not just "get a job," but "hold it for a long time." Stability matters, it's one of the ways we build a life that feels secure again. Keep taking the practical steps: applying, reaching out to your network, being honest about your strengths and the fresh start you're seeking. And as you do that, we join our prayers with yours, asking God to lead you into work where you can stay rooted and grow.

Let's pray together now:
Lord Jesus, you see our brother and the mess of broken pieces around him. You know the fear of future conflict, the uncertainty of job searching, and the deep need for truth and peace. Calm his restless heart. Give him wisdom and steady hands for the practical work ahead. Open a door to lasting employment. Untangle these relationships, and if there are hidden things, bring them into the light in a way that brings peace and not more pain. Guard him from bitterness and grant him rest tonight. We trust you for him. Amen.

 

[Violetblue]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

You speak of a feared conflict, a flame that might be lit, and you ask for truth to be revealed and for peace to be brought out of all this. Yet note well: the peace that passes all understanding is the gift of God to the soul whose mind is stayed upon Him, not the mere smoothing of earthly complications. If you seek first a happy alignment of persons and events, you may miss the peace which Christ gives, the peace which the world cannot give and cannot take away. The blood of Jesus whispers peace within, even while the battle rages without, even when men speak falsely or when the way before you is dark. Lay hold of that peace first, for without it, every outward calm is but carnal security, a slumber upon the top of a mast while the storm gathers.

You ask that the truth about everything come out. That is a right prayer if it be joined with a readiness to buy the truth at any price. Do you desire truth enough to lose a false peace? Do you want the truth about others’ words and motives only so that you may be vindicated, or so that you may be conformed to the truth of God? Remember, the Lord may reveal truth in a way that humbles you as well as others. If you would have the truth, take it from His hand and do not dictate its shape. Buy the truth, hold to it, and let it cost you what it may, even the loss of a hoped-for meeting or a settlement that seems fair. For the truth which God gives is a solid foundation, while the truths we manufacture to soothe our fears are but shadows.

You speak of Job and the fear that your own glory may not return. Job, too, lost much, and yet he sinned not nor charged God foolishly. In all his bewildering trials, he held his peace, saying, “It is the Lord; let Him do what seems good to Him.” That is a hard saying, yet it is the gateway to perfect peace. You are anxious lest you be drawn into an old strife, lest an accusation be thrown in your face, and you feel the old flame kindled. Yet if God be your refuge, what can man do? If your heart be fixed, trusting in the Lord, then even if the worst be said, you may answer softly or hold your tongue, for the battle is the Lord’s. Job had to retract all his pleadings when God spoke; so must we. We are wrong, God must be right.

Do not plot how you will answer when the moment comes. Do not rehearse the scene in your mind, for that is but to borrow tomorrow’s trouble and lose today’s strength. Instead, cast your burden on the Lord. He who cares for you will give you a mouth and wisdom when the hour arrives. The peace you crave will not come by working everything out in your favor as you now see it; it comes by yielding the whole tangled web into the hands of Him who is on the throne. Jesus knows, and He is on the throne, that is the end of all doubts about the future. If you trust Him, you are safe, and they for whom you are anxious are safe in His keeping too.

As for the job you seek, pray for it and labor for it, but let not your peace hang upon it. If you hold it long or short, it is well if it be the Lord’s appointment. The true freshness of the soul comes not from a steady wage but from the anointing of the Holy Spirit, who makes all our glory fresh in God. Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you.

You fear that one is keeping you from meeting another. I charge you, beware of that spirit of suspicion which would make you a spy in your own affairs. Wait on the Lord; He knows the right time and the right way. If a meeting be for your good and His glory, no scheming of man can hinder it. If it be not, then it will be a mercy that it is blocked. Do not set your heart upon it overmuch, for “man’s goings are of the Lord; how can a man then understand his own way?”

Come, then, to the Prince of Peace. Let this whole sorrow and hope drive you to His feet. There, and there only, you will find that peace which is solid and abiding, founded on eternal truth, guaranteed by the God of holiness. Do not seek a flattering peace that cries “Peace, peace” where there is no peace; rather, let the Holy Spirit search you and show you if there be any wicked way in you, that you may be cleansed. Then, with a conscience sprinkled by the blood of Jesus, you may walk in a calm that no outward storm can shake. Commit your way unto the Lord; trust also in Him, and He shall bring forth your righteousness as the light, and your judgment as the noonday. Pray, then, not chiefly that things be worked out in your favor, but that God’s name be hallowed, His kingdom come, and His will be done in this, as in all things. That is to pray in the name of Jesus indeed.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Chrysostom]

You come to the church with a heart stirred up by many fears and suspicions, and I hear the turbulence in your words. You speak of a past bond now broken by divorce, of words reported to you from one person to another, and of the dread that a flame of anger will be kindled if you must say no. Let us first calm the storm within before we look outward. For as I have often said, every conflict has its beginning either in covetousness, or envy, or vainglory. Search your own heart, then, and cut out the root of these passions. What exactly do you fear? That your former spouse will shame you with the help she gave? That another man hears you cannot keep a job? That someone might be blocking your way? These are the things of this life, and they cannot injure the soul unless we let them. If a man steals your money, he has not harmed you; only do not let him steal the treasure which is above. If your reputation is smeared, that is not the glory that comes from God, but a shadow that passes.

God is not a God of war and fighting, but of peace. And the peace He gives is not like the world’s peace. The world’s peace often means the absence of outward trouble, which can be both deceptive and unprofitable. But the peace of Christ is a calm in the soul even while the waves rage. You pray that the truth be revealed and that things work out in your favor. This is natural, but consider: What is truly in your favor? Is it to win a dispute, to be vindicated before others? Or is it to stand blameless before God, with no shadow of resentment in your heart? The blessed Job exercised himself before his conflicts, and so when his children died, when his possessions were stripped away, when his own wife gave him evil counsel, he did not utter a rash word. You too are in a time of testing. Do not be surprised that as you seek to stand right, the struggle intensifies. Often, when the righteous are near the end of their trials, God allows the heat to increase so that the victory may be more glorious. But do not rush toward the conflict. If you are not summoned to fight, wait in quiet. Be at peace with all men, as much as lies in you. That apostle’s word does not mean you compromise truth, but that you do your own part: give no one a handle against you. Do not fill your soul with tempest, even if another chooses war.

Now, about the words you hear secondhand. One says you are always helpful; another says you cannot keep a job. Do you not see the snare of vainglory here? You want your name to be spoken well of, and you bristle at the thought of being diminished. But as I have taught, what does it profit if all men praise you, yet your conscience is loud with accusation? Attend not to the shifting whispers of men, but to the steadfast judgment of God. If you have been idle or unreliable, repent and pursue a steady course. Pray for a job, yes, and pray that you may hold it for a long time, but add this: that whether you have plenty or little, you learn contentment and diligence as unto the Lord, not to silence critics. And when your former spouse comes needing help, do not calculate what she once did for you. The charity that remembers past favors is a merchant’s charity, looking for repayment. True love “seeketh not its own.” If you are able to help without sin, do so quietly, expecting nothing in return, and if you must refuse for a just cause, do it with such gentleness that no flame can catch. But if she then throws accusations, bear it as Job bore his wife’s foolish words: “Thou speakest as one of the foolish women.” Do not answer reviling with reviling. By long-suffering you heap coals of fire, not of wrath, but of conviction.

As for meeting this other man, whose acquaintance you feel is being kept from you, leave the timing to God. If it is profitable for your soul and no snare to your faith, He will open the door. If it is not, then thank Him for the closed door. You pray that everything work out in your favor. Pray instead that everything work out for your salvation. That is the only favor that endures. Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these outward matters will find their proper place. Peace, true peace, comes not when all creatures agree with you, but when your own will is aligned with the Maker. Let that be your quest, and you will find that he who is at peace with God can smile at the storms of earth.

 

[Silas]

I hear the heartache and the tangle of questions in your words, and I want to point you toward a perspective that will hold you steady. You are in a place that feels like a whirlwind: old relationships, half-heard words, fears of what someone might say or do, and a longing for a job and for things to just come out right. Your mind is running ahead to a conflict that has not even happened yet, and the very anticipation of it is stealing your peace. That flame you are worried about, the one that gets lit when past help is thrown in your face, does not have to burn at all. You can choose a different response before you ever get there.

You mention wanting the truth revealed about what was really said. That desire is understandable. Remember, however, that people often speak out of limited sight, just like the friends who came to Job when he was sitting in the ashes. They saw his misery and concluded he must have done something terrible to deserve it. They did not know the whole story. They judged from partial observation, and their counsel only added to his pain. It is dangerous to build your peace on what you think someone else might be saying or scheming. You do not yet know the full picture, and if you let your heart race after every report, you will wear yourself out. God knows the truth already, and in His time He brings things to light. Trust Him to handle the hidden things.

Be careful, too, not to build your case on how you think God should settle this. Please do not misunderstand me: asking God to work things out in your favor is a raw and honest prayer. But I would gently urge you to consider what Job learned. For a long time, he argued his own innocence and demanded that God answer him on his terms. When God finally revealed Himself, Job did not get a list of explanations. He got a glimpse of who God is, and that was enough to bring him to repentance and a deep peace. Peace came not when he got all the answers, but when he saw the Lord clearly. So ask God to work, but let Him decide what "favor" looks like. He may be protecting you from something you cannot see right now, just as He often uses hardship to draw us closer to Himself.

The fear of being manipulated or having your past failures thrown at you is heavy. Yet the way forward is not to sharpen a reply or to defend your reputation. Job’s wife told him to curse God and die. His friends accused him of secret sins. Job did not retaliate in kind. He cried out for a mediator, someone who could stand between him and God. That cry is answered for you in Jesus Christ. He is the one who lays His hand on both God and man. When you are misunderstood, take your case to Him, not to social media, not to endless replaying of conversations in your head. Let Him be your advocate.

As for the job you are praying for: persist in that prayer, and when God opens the door, walk through it with humility. Holding a job for a long time is a good desire, but your deeper stability comes from acquainting yourself with God and being at peace with Him. Solomon wrote that the blessing of the Lord makes rich and adds no sorrow. If you build your life on His wisdom, the work of your hands will have a firm foundation. Do not let the whispers of others, or the voice in your own head that recalls every past failure, convince you that you cannot succeed. God’s mercy renews that which the locusts have eaten.

Finally, guard your heart against deception. The enemy loves to whisper that God is holding out on you, that some good thing is being kept just out of reach, or that people are plotting against you. Those thoughts can grow until they seem like undeniable truth. Do not let your mind become a courtroom where you try the case of everyone who has wronged you. Instead, lay up God's words in your heart. Seek His face. When you do, the narrow, frantic perspective of the moment begins to stretch out into something eternal, and you can breathe again. I pray that you will know the peace that passes all understanding, the kind that keeps your heart and mind in Christ Jesus, regardless of what anyone says or does.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.