Too much

[Anonymous]

Over r the past few years every time Thai I am in public there is at least one person who tries to block my path or get too close to me in a menacing way. Secondly there are no trusted people around. A manager kept putting their hands in me atvwork and wouldn’t stop until I lest I sis put in a written complaint before resigning but no one believed me. Do I have to continue putting up with people. Will never be able to accomplish anything at this rate. Peoolgevakwataxaayvummaoertvtoure going through this but never help I’m tired and my vkiid count is dropping

 

[Articles]

We have read your request and we hear how exhausted and overwhelmed you are feeling. For years you have felt menaced in public, blocked and crowded, and then you endured unwanted touching at work by a manager who would not stop until you made a written complaint and resigned, and even then you were not believed. We are so sorry you have gone through this, and we want you to know that God sees you, He believes you, and He cares deeply about what has happened to you. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit Psalm 34:18.

What was done to you at work was wrong. God created each person with dignity and worth, and no one has the right to put their hands on you without your consent. That behavior is sinful and it is not something you are required to simply endure. While scripture calls us to live at peace with all men as far as it depends on us Romans 12:18, that never means remaining in harm or allowing abuse to continue. You did the right thing to set a boundary and to put your complaint in writing, even when others did not support you. God is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble Psalm 46:1, and He is faithful when people around you have not been trustworthy.

We understand why you feel there are no trusted people around and why you are asking if you have to keep putting up with people. You do not have to keep carrying this alone, and you do not have to accept being harassed or touched against your will in order to accomplish something in life. We encourage you to seek safe community, ideally a Bible believing church where you can be known and supported, and to consider reaching out to a trusted counselor or pastor for ongoing support. If you are still experiencing threatening behavior in public or at work, please consider documenting what happens and seeking help from appropriate authorities or workplace protections. We also hear that you are tired and that your health is suffering, and we urge you to seek care for your physical health with a medical professional, and to allow yourself rest. Jesus invites those who are weary, Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest Matthew 11:28. God still has purpose for your life, for we know His plans are to give you a future and a hope Jeremiah 29:11, even when it feels impossible to move forward right now. Do not be afraid, for I am with you. Do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you Isaiah 41:10.

We noticed your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and we want to gently share why His name matters so much to us. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God, for Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6. There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. When we pray in Jesus name, we come to God not on our own merit, but through the forgiveness and relationship that Jesus made possible by His death and resurrection. If you have not already, we encourage you to put your trust in Him, to confess your need for Him and to follow Him as Lord.

We pray together for you now.

Father, in the name of Jesus Christ we lift up this dear one to You. You see every time they have been blocked, crowded, and menaced, and You saw what happened at work, and You know the pain of not being believed. Lord, be their protector and their comforter. Surround them with Your presence, bring safe and trustworthy people into their life, and lead them to a community where they will be heard and valued. Heal the exhaustion in body and spirit, restore their health and strength, and renew their hope that they can still accomplish the good works You have prepared for them. Give them wisdom for boundaries, courage to seek help when needed, and peace that passes understanding. Show them how much You love them and that they are precious in Your sight. Draw them close to Jesus, and let them know the rest and salvation that is found in Him alone. We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, amen.

 

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We hear how heavy and wearing this has been for you. To feel crowded or blocked when you are just trying to move through public places, to have had a manager put hands on you at work and then not be believed when you put it in writing, and to feel there are no trusted people nearby would leave anyone exhausted and on edge. It makes sense you are asking if you have to keep living like this.

What you did in making a written complaint and then stepping away from that job took courage, even though the response you got was painful. When boundaries have been crossed and you were not heard, it can leave a deep sense of powerlessness, as if you have to stay braced everywhere you go. That feeling is understandable, and it does not reflect your worth.

We would gently encourage you not to carry this alone going forward. If you do not have a trusted person nearby, a counselor or advocate outside work can be a steady, confidential place to talk through safety and next steps at your own pace. You also mentioned your count dropping and feeling tired, please consider seeing a medical provider promptly alongside prayer, so you can get care for your health.

You deserve to be treated with dignity and safety, and you do not have to sort out what is next by yourself.

Father, we bring our friend to You and ask for Your protection and nearness. Give wisdom for each step, provide safe and trustworthy help, and bring rest and healing where there has been hurt and weariness. Guide the doctors and helpers involved and remind this one they are seen and valued by You. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[Jrnuaser]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Please pray for ###'s healing and protection. They are facing deep sorrow and feeling betrayed and disbelieved, especially at work. Pray for ###'s safety and health, and that the Lord would bring truth to light and vindicate what is true. Pray for ### to find trusted people and a safe place, and for healing of body and spirit. May the Lord restore ###'s strength and bring comfort and peace.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Chrysostom]

I have read what you shared and I am grieved to hear how much you have carried. Being blocked or approached in a menacing way in public, having no trusted people nearby, and enduring unwanted touching at work that was not believed when you reported it, would leave anyone exhausted and on edge. What happened at work was wrong. You were right to set a boundary and to put your complaint in writing, and it is painful that you were not heard and felt you had to resign. You do not have to continue putting up with people violating your body or threatening your safety.

God sees what is done in secret and in public, and He cares about justice and about your dignity as one made in His image. He also sees your weariness now and your concern about your health. When you say you are tired and your count is dropping, please seek medical care promptly with a doctor or clinic you can reach, and if you ever feel unsafe or that you might harm yourself, please reach out right away to a trusted medical provider, a pastor, or emergency help in your area. You do not need to face these health concerns alone.

It is understandable to feel that you will never be able to accomplish anything when every outing feels unsafe and help has not come. That feeling is real, but it is not the end of your story. The Lord does not measure your worth by what you can produce while under such strain. He invites you to come to Him for rest and protection, and He often provides that help through other people. Even when it feels that no trusted people are around, I encourage you to keep looking for one or two safe supports. That could be a pastor or mature believer in a local church, a counselor, a medical provider, or a safe community organization. You do not have to share everything at once, but having someone who will listen, believe you, and help you make a safety plan for public places and for work matters.

For practical steps, consider keeping a simple written record of when and where these threatening encounters happen, staying in well lit and populated areas when possible, and letting a safe person know where you are. For the workplace harm you experienced, keeping copies of what you submitted and seeking wise counsel about next steps can help you know your options. Above all, guard your body and your boundaries. Scripture teaches that our bodies matter to God, and no one has the right to touch you without your consent.

I want to pray for you now. Father, I lift up this dear one who is tired and feels alone and unsafe. You know every moment of being crowded, blocked, and touched without consent, and every time help did not come. Have mercy and bring protection, justice, and healing. Provide trusted people who will listen and stand nearby, give wisdom to doctors and counselors, and restore strength day by day. Show Your presence and Your salvation through Jesus Christ, who suffered and who draws near to the weary, and give hope that even in this hard season You are at work for good. Give courage to take the next small step toward safety and care, and remind this one that they are seen, valued, and not forgotten. Amen.

If you can, please reach out again soon to a local church, counselor, or medical provider and let someone near you know how you are doing. You are not alone, and continued support matters.