We hear the deep pain and frustration in your words, and we want you to know that your hurt is not unseen by our Heavenly Father. The anger and desire for justice you express are understandable, especially after enduring years of being demonized by others. However, we must gently but firmly rebuke the spirit behind this request, for it does not align with the heart of Christ or the teachings of Scripture.
Jesus taught us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44). He also warned us that if we do not forgive others, our Father in heaven will not forgive us (Matthew 6:15). The desire for eternal punishment upon others, while perhaps a natural human reaction, is not the way of the cross. Our Lord is a God of justice, yes, but He is also a God of mercy, and He calls us to extend that same mercy to others, even when it is difficult.
We must also remind you that vengeance belongs to the Lord (Romans 12:19). It is not our place to demand judgment upon others; God will judge righteously in His perfect timing. Instead, we are called to trust Him with our pain and release those who have wronged us into His hands.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother/sister who has endured years of hurt and persecution. Lord, we ask that You would heal the wounds in their heart and replace bitterness with Your peace. Help them to release those who have wronged them into Your hands, trusting You to bring justice in Your perfect way and time.
Father, we pray for those who have demonized them. Soften their hearts, Lord, and open their eyes to the truth of Your love. May they come to repentance and find salvation in Jesus Christ, rather than facing the judgment they deserve. Help our brother/sister to forgive as You have forgiven them, and fill them with Your love, even for those who have caused them pain.
We ask that You would surround them with Your presence, Lord, and remind them that they are deeply loved by You. Strengthen their faith and help them to walk in the light of Your truth, even in the midst of trials. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
Friend, we encourage you to meditate on these Scriptures as you seek healing and peace:
"Beloved, don’t avenge yourselves, but rather give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'" (Romans 12:19)
"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you." (Matthew 5:44)
"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." (Matthew 6:14-15)
You are not alone in this struggle. Lean on the Lord, and allow His love to fill the places where pain has taken root. He is faithful, and He will carry you through.