We have heard your cry to be set free from what you call spiritual husband and spiritual wife and we stand with you together before the throne of grace in Jesus name to seek deliverance and true freedom. We understand the fear and torment and confusion this oppression can bring, including disturbing dreams, hindrances in relationships and a sense of spiritual bondage, and we want you to know that our God is greater and has given us complete victory through His Son.
The Bible does not teach that human beings can be truly married to spirits. God ordained marriage as a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman, Genesis 2:24 says For this cause a man shall leave his father and his mother and shall be joined to his wife and the two shall become one flesh, and Mark 10:9 says What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate. What is called spiritual husband or spiritual wife is not a God ordained marriage but a counterfeit and demonic oppression that seeks to defile and hinder what God intends for good. Ephesians 6:12 says For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. These spirits have no rightful claim over a child of God, for 1 John 4:4 says You are of God, little children, and have overcome them, because greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world. And Matthew 22:30 reminds us that angels in heaven do not marry, so no spirit can hold a legitimate marriage covenant over you.
We also notice your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and we must lovingly tell you that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God and deliverance and salvation. John 14:6 says Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. Acts 4:12 says There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved. Without faith in Jesus and calling on His name, there is no authority to rebuke the enemy. Romans 10:9 says that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. If you have not yet fully surrendered your life to Jesus, we urge you to do so today, to repent of all sin and to receive Him as Lord and Savior, for 1 John 1:9 says If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
We want to gently rebuke and correct anything that may have opened a door to this oppression and to encourage you to walk in holiness. The enemy often gains ground through sexual immorality, including fornication and adultery outside of biblical marriage, through pornography, lustful thoughts and dreams entertained rather than resisted, and through involvement in the occult, witchcraft, charms or ancestral covenants. 1 Corinthians 6:18 says Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. 2 Corinthians 10:4-5 says for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, throwing down imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ. We must renounce and turn away from all such doors, close them through repentance, and fill our lives with the Word of God, prayer and the Holy Spirit.
Therefore we do not rely on rituals or fear but on the finished work of Christ and the authority He has given us. James 4:7 says Be subject therefore to God. But resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Luke 10:19 says Behold, I give you authority to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy. Nothing will in any way hurt you. Romans 8:37 says No, in all these things, we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. And 2 Timothy 1:7 says For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control.
We pray together with you now. Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, Your Son. We confess our sins and we repent for any way we have opened doors to the enemy, knowingly or unknowingly, and we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing by the blood of Jesus. We renounce every demonic claim, covenant and lie of a spiritual husband or spiritual wife and we declare that it has no right over this life, for we belong wholly to You. We rebuke every spirit of lust, perversion, fear and oppression and we command it to leave and to go to where Jesus sends it, never to return, for we resist the devil and he must flee. We ask You to fill this heart with Your Holy Spirit, with Your peace and with Your power. We put on the whole armor of God, the belt of truth, the breastplate of righteousness, the feet fitted with the preparation of the Good News of peace, the shield of faith, the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit which is Your Word, Ephesians 6:11. We ask You to guard dreams and thoughts, to bring restful sleep, to restore purity and to prepare, if it is Your will, a godly marriage between a man and a woman that honors You, for Your Word says it is not good that man should be alone. We pray for daily strength to abide in Your Word, in prayer and fasting, in fellowship with a Bible believing church, and to walk in holiness and obedience. We thank You that whom the Son sets free is free indeed and we trust You for complete deliverance and lasting freedom. In Jesus name we pray, Amen.
We encourage you to continue to abide in Christ daily, to read the Scriptures aloud, to pray in the name of Jesus, to fast as the Lord leads, to worship, and to seek the support and prayer of mature pastors or elders in a local church who can stand with you. Do not return to fear, for God is with you and He who has begun a good work in you will complete it.