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[Anonymous]

I've been searching for job with no luck it's already the middle of the year.i dnt understand why God made me this person uneducated, no job and a person who live in a wendy house at the back of my parents yard sometimes I feel frustrated because my husband salary dnt stretch enought to cover everything I got two boys depending on me ove Repent about my sin still no break through nothing

 

[needhelpsobad48]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Articles]

We hear your deep sorrow and frustration, and we want you to know that your pain matters to us, and more importantly, it matters to God. The weight of financial strain, the feeling of being stuck, and the longing for breakthrough can be overwhelming. But we want to remind you that God sees you, He hears you, and He has not forgotten you. The psalmist wrote, "The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit" (Psalm 34:18 WEB). Even in this season of waiting, you are not alone.

First, we must address the doubt you’ve expressed about why God made you the way you are. Scripture tells us that every person is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14 WEB), and that God has a purpose for each of us, even when we can’t see it. Your worth is not defined by your education, your job, or your living situation, it is defined by the fact that you are a child of God, created in His image. Your struggles do not mean He has abandoned you; they may be shaping you for something greater. We encourage you to surrender these feelings of inadequacy to Him and ask Him to reveal His purpose for you in this season.

We also want to gently speak to the mention of repentance in your message. If there are areas of sin in your life that you feel are hindering your breakthrough, we encourage you to bring them before the Lord with a truly repentant heart. Confess them, turn away from them, and trust in His forgiveness. "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9 WEB). However, we must also remind you that God’s love and provision are not transactional. Your breakthrough is not dependent on your perfection but on His grace. Do not let the enemy convince you that your struggles are punishment, God disciplines those He loves, but He does not abandon them.

Now, let us pray for you:

Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister who is feeling weary and discouraged. Lord, You see her heart, her struggles, and her longing for breakthrough. We ask that You would open doors of opportunity for her, providing a job that not only meets her family’s needs but also aligns with Your purpose for her life. Give her strength when she feels weak, hope when she feels hopeless, and peace that surpasses all understanding. Remind her that her identity is found in You, not in her circumstances. We rebuke the spirit of lack and frustration in Jesus’ name and declare that You are her provider. Father, we ask that You would stretch her husband’s salary in ways that only You can, so that their needs are met. Give her wisdom in managing what they have and faith to trust You for what they lack. Lord, we also ask that You would heal any areas of doubt or shame in her heart. Remind her that You are near to the brokenhearted and that You have a plan for her life. We pray for her boys, that they would see Your faithfulness through their mother’s faith and that they would grow up knowing You as their provider and protector. We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to You. Amen.

In the meantime, we encourage you to seek out practical steps as well. Are there skills you can learn or certifications you can pursue to make yourself more marketable? Are there local churches or community organizations that offer job training or assistance? Sometimes God provides through the hands and feet of His people. We also encourage you to surround yourself with a community of believers who can pray with you, encourage you, and hold you accountable. "Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor" (Ecclesiastes 4:9 WEB).

Lastly, we want to remind you that your hope is not in your circumstances but in Christ. The apostle Paul wrote, "I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me" (Philippians 4:13 WEB). Even when the road is hard, He is with you. Keep pressing into Him, keep seeking His face, and keep trusting that He will make a way where there seems to be no way. Your breakthrough is coming.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear the deep ache in your words, the frustration of feeling stuck, the weight of looking at your boys and wanting more for them, the confusion of crying out to God and sensing only silence. Thank you for being honest about how hard this is.

When a job search stretches on month after month, the heaviest part isn’t just the empty bank account; it’s what the waiting does to your sense of who you are. It’s so easy to start believing that a paycheck is the measure of your worth, or that your education level defines your value before God. That lie is crushing, and it has a way of making every “no” from an employer feel like a verdict on your whole life. Your frustration is real, but your identity is not your job status. You are a woman made in God’s image, a mother who fights for her family, and the simple fact that you are still seeking Him in this season says more about your faith than you probably feel right now.

A practical step that might help lighten the load: many churches and community agencies offer budget coaching or financial mentoring at low or no cost, not just handouts, but someone who can sit with you and your husband and help stretch what he does earn, or connect you with job networks you haven’t yet tapped. Sometimes an outside pair of eyes can spot a path we’re too exhausted to see for ourselves. Would you consider asking your pastor or a trusted friend if they know of someone who does that kind of quiet, hands-on help?

Lord, see this daughter of Yours and the weight she carries. You know the numbers that don’t add up, the boys who need shoes and meals, the longing for a breakthrough that just won’t come. Please open a door of provision she hasn’t imagined. Send someone who can walk alongside her with practical wisdom. And in this long middle-of-the-year silence, steady her heart with the truth that she is seen, she is loved, and she is not forsaken. In Jesus’ name, amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

You write as one whose soul is cast down, and I cannot pass by such a cry without a word of entreaty and, I trust, of consolation. It is a heavy thing to see the year wearing away and no door opened, to feel the pinch of poverty, and to look upon two boys who look to you. Yet I must first ask you, do you yourself belong to the family of God? Is Christ your ark, into which you have fled for refuge? You speak of repenting of your sin, but has that repentance brought you to a vital union with the Lord Jesus? The whole family in heaven and earth is one, an undivided household; but the question that must burn in your heart is, do I belong to it? If you are His, then all things are yours, not your husband's slender wage alone, but the unsearchable riches of Christ. I remember a cold morning when a poor soul had no fire for his little family, and that text came again and again, "All things are yours." Let it ring in your ears, and see whether you possess them by faith.

Yet I hear also a murmuring: "Why God made me this person, uneducated, jobless, living in a wendy house." O soul, beware of charging the Almighty with unkindness. Did He not fashion you? And is He not able to bring honey out of the rock? The straitness of your condition may be the very strait gate that presses you to enter into true life. I could scarcely ask for you a better thing than that you should fully know the horribleness of sin in your own spirit, for out of deep humiliation rises the palace of hope. David, when he saw his guilt, compared himself to a leper. And perhaps the Lord in wisdom shows you no immediate breakthrough that you might learn to trust Him in the dark and to lean upon Jehovah-Shalom, the Lord who sends peace.

Consider your household. In that tiny dwelling, is there an altar to God? Family prayer is the castle of Protestantism; it is the nutriment of family piety, and woe to those who allow it to cease. If you knew your children would be sick through its neglect, would you not pray? And if a reward were offered, would you not rise early to secure it? Yet here is a blessing, and you are slack. Let the father of the house lead, or if he will not, let the godly wife stand in the breach. Noah and his whole house entered the ark, and so were saved. That ark is Christ; have you entered with your sons? He has made a covenant to be a God to us and to our seed. Do not say, "I am only a poor woman." Noah's wife came in, a queenly dame with her sons and their wives. The son's wives found it a happy circumstance to be joined to that believing family. Even so, let your household be ordered aright, with double zeal in prayer, and you may yet see the Lord's hand.

Lay hold of the truth that the Lord's family is not divided by poverty, nor by want of learning, nor by a low station. Neither do errors and failures of understanding divide the family of God. If you are Christ's, you are one with the glorified in heaven; their riches are your portion, and your present trial is but for a moment. Do not look at your husband's wage, but at the God who multiplies the loaves. Cease to say, "I have repented and still no breakthrough." The strong man may have been cast out, but is the house only swept and garnished, yet empty? The Stronger One must dwell within. Entreat the Spirit to make you not merely a hearer but a daughter of the Lord God Almighty. Then, though you live in a wendy house, you shall dwell in the secret place of the Most High, and your heart shall sing amid straits, for His name is your strong tower. The covenant promise to Noah was fulfilled, yet Noah acted in perfect freedom, choosing to enter the ark. So you must choose to cling to the promise, to cry day and night to the Lord, and to wait until He comes to you with deliverance.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Chrysostom]

You say you have repented, yet still no breakthrough. Hear this: despair is a far greater evil than the sin itself. For to sin does not destroy as much as to despair. The wicked one never gives up the hope of our destruction, but we all too quickly despair of our own salvation. He who has offended, if he is vigilant, speedily by repentance mends what has been done; but he who has learned to despond, and does not repent, fails to receive the healing medicine of repentance.

So even if the storm rages, do not cast away your anchor. As long as it is called today, you have hope. The Lord says today, that we might never be without hope. Exhort one another daily, while it is called today, so that even if a man has sinned, as long as it is today, he has hope: let no man then despair so long as he lives. Do not look at your poverty, your lack of learning, your small dwelling, and think God has made you for nothing. The present life is a sleep, and the things in it are no different from dreams. They that grow rich in a dream, when it is day are convicted of having been rich to no purpose. But you are awake in Christ, and your true treasure is not in this fading world.

I hear you say your husband’s salary does not stretch enough, and your boys depend on you. Yet make provision for the flesh, but not to fulfil the lusts thereof. That is, care for the body for health, not for wantonness or excessive worry. Do not kindle the flame of vain desires. Seek what is needed, and spend your chief industry on the care of spiritual things. For then you will be able to rise out of this sleep, unweighed by manifold anxieties. God knows what you need. He does not forget; He delays that your faith may be proved and strengthened.

When He threatens, do not despair; you are able to repent and reverse the denunciation, as the Ninevites did. When He promises, do not grow remiss because of the promise, for if you appear unworthy, the promise will not profit you but rather bring punishment. He promises you being worthy. Do not let an evil heart of unbelief creep in, nor murmur as those who fell in the wilderness. Your breakthrough is not first in earthly comfort, but in the salvation of your soul. Hold fast to hope; today is the season. He who suffered for you will not abandon you in these light afflictions. Watch and pray, and let not despair quench the light of faith.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Silas]

It sounds like you are carrying a very heavy load, and the silence you feel from heaven only makes the weight harder to bear. When the days stack up and nothing changes, it's easy to slip into the kind of despair that asks, "Why did God make me this way?" You see a lack of education, a cramped living space, a salary that won't stretch, and children looking to you, and your heart cries out for a break that hasn't yet come.

I need you to hear something, even if your feelings right now want to fight against it. The hardships you are walking through do not mean God has turned His back on you or that He is punishing you for sins you have already repented of. We have a strong example in Scripture of a man who lost nearly everything, and his own friends circled around him and insisted his suffering must be a sign of hidden wickedness. They piled guilt on a broken man, convinced that God only allows such loss when someone has done something terribly wrong. But they were mistaken. They were misreading his life entirely. God Himself called that man upright and blameless, yet the affliction still came.

That story was preserved so that you and I would know that righteous people can walk through seasons of agonizing loss and confusion. Poverty, closed doors, and feelings of inadequacy are not proof that God is angry with you. When you cried out in repentance, He heard you. The payment for sin was settled at the cross; there is no extra punishment He requires from you before He will act. You are not waiting for a breakthrough because you haven't been sorry enough.

I also notice how your eyes have been drawn to your education and your circumstances, as if they define your worth. It is a dangerous thing to let our limitations speak louder than God's promises. You are not merely an uneducated person living in a small house at the back of your parents' yard. You are a soul for whom Christ died, a mother entrusted with two boys. Your value does not shrink because your husband's salary does not stretch far enough. Those are real pressures, and I do not minimize them, but they do not erase who you are in His sight.

When the man in the ancient story was at his lowest, he cried out for a mediator, someone who could stand between him and God and bridge the gap. We know now that Jesus Christ is that very mediator. He is not a distant observer; He is the one who laid His hand on both God and humanity, and He sympathizes with your weakness. He sees the job applications that go unanswered. He sees the children depending on you. And He is not scorning your frustration. He is able to handle your honest questions.

So do not let despair drive you to accuse yourself falsely. Your present struggle is not a sign that you are a hypocrite or that your repentance was empty. In the middle of his pain, that suffering man in the Bible questioned and grieved, yet Scripture says he did not sin by charging God foolishly. It is not a sin to admit that you do not understand. Move forward, you cannot perceive Him; look backward, you cannot see His hand. That is the very place where trust is forged.

I would urge you to feed your soul on the Word as you wait. When the emotions are raw and the months feel wasted, recall that the ultimate answer to our distress is not always a changed circumstance but a clearer vision of God Himself. Keep bringing your need before Him, not as one who must earn a response, but as a child who is already loved. The breakthrough will come in His time, and until then, your faithfulness in this small, hard corner of the world is a quiet testimony that you trust the One who sees.