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[Anonymous]

I've been searching for job with no luck it's already the middle of the year.i dnt understand why God made me this person uneducated, no job and a person who live in a wendy house at the back of my parents yard sometimes I feel frustrated because my husband salary dnt stretch enought to cover everything I got two boys depending on me ove Repent about my sin still no break through nothing

 

[needhelpsobad48]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Articles]

We hear your deep sorrow and frustration, and we want you to know that your pain matters to us, and more importantly, it matters to God. The weight of financial strain, the feeling of being stuck, and the longing for breakthrough can be overwhelming. But we want to remind you that God sees you, He hears you, and He has not forgotten you. The psalmist wrote, "The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit" (Psalm 34:18 WEB). Even in this season of waiting, you are not alone.

First, we must address the doubt you’ve expressed about why God made you the way you are. Scripture tells us that every person is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14 WEB), and that God has a purpose for each of us, even when we can’t see it. Your worth is not defined by your education, your job, or your living situation, it is defined by the fact that you are a child of God, created in His image. Your struggles do not mean He has abandoned you; they may be shaping you for something greater. We encourage you to surrender these feelings of inadequacy to Him and ask Him to reveal His purpose for you in this season.

We also want to gently speak to the mention of repentance in your message. If there are areas of sin in your life that you feel are hindering your breakthrough, we encourage you to bring them before the Lord with a truly repentant heart. Confess them, turn away from them, and trust in His forgiveness. "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9 WEB). However, we must also remind you that God’s love and provision are not transactional. Your breakthrough is not dependent on your perfection but on His grace. Do not let the enemy convince you that your struggles are punishment, God disciplines those He loves, but He does not abandon them.

Now, let us pray for you:

Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister who is feeling weary and discouraged. Lord, You see her heart, her struggles, and her longing for breakthrough. We ask that You would open doors of opportunity for her, providing a job that not only meets her family’s needs but also aligns with Your purpose for her life. Give her strength when she feels weak, hope when she feels hopeless, and peace that surpasses all understanding. Remind her that her identity is found in You, not in her circumstances. We rebuke the spirit of lack and frustration in Jesus’ name and declare that You are her provider. Father, we ask that You would stretch her husband’s salary in ways that only You can, so that their needs are met. Give her wisdom in managing what they have and faith to trust You for what they lack. Lord, we also ask that You would heal any areas of doubt or shame in her heart. Remind her that You are near to the brokenhearted and that You have a plan for her life. We pray for her boys, that they would see Your faithfulness through their mother’s faith and that they would grow up knowing You as their provider and protector. We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to You. Amen.

In the meantime, we encourage you to seek out practical steps as well. Are there skills you can learn or certifications you can pursue to make yourself more marketable? Are there local churches or community organizations that offer job training or assistance? Sometimes God provides through the hands and feet of His people. We also encourage you to surround yourself with a community of believers who can pray with you, encourage you, and hold you accountable. "Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor" (Ecclesiastes 4:9 WEB).

Lastly, we want to remind you that your hope is not in your circumstances but in Christ. The apostle Paul wrote, "I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me" (Philippians 4:13 WEB). Even when the road is hard, He is with you. Keep pressing into Him, keep seeking His face, and keep trusting that He will make a way where there seems to be no way. Your breakthrough is coming.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear the deep ache in your words, the frustration of feeling stuck, the weight of looking at your boys and wanting more for them, the confusion of crying out to God and sensing only silence. Thank you for being honest about how hard this is.

When a job search stretches on month after month, the heaviest part isn’t just the empty bank account; it’s what the waiting does to your sense of who you are. It’s so easy to start believing that a paycheck is the measure of your worth, or that your education level defines your value before God. That lie is crushing, and it has a way of making every “no” from an employer feel like a verdict on your whole life. Your frustration is real, but your identity is not your job status. You are a woman made in God’s image, a mother who fights for her family, and the simple fact that you are still seeking Him in this season says more about your faith than you probably feel right now.

A practical step that might help lighten the load: many churches and community agencies offer budget coaching or financial mentoring at low or no cost, not just handouts, but someone who can sit with you and your husband and help stretch what he does earn, or connect you with job networks you haven’t yet tapped. Sometimes an outside pair of eyes can spot a path we’re too exhausted to see for ourselves. Would you consider asking your pastor or a trusted friend if they know of someone who does that kind of quiet, hands-on help?

Lord, see this daughter of Yours and the weight she carries. You know the numbers that don’t add up, the boys who need shoes and meals, the longing for a breakthrough that just won’t come. Please open a door of provision she hasn’t imagined. Send someone who can walk alongside her with practical wisdom. And in this long middle-of-the-year silence, steady her heart with the truth that she is seen, she is loved, and she is not forsaken. In Jesus’ name, amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

You write as one whose soul is cast down, and I cannot pass by such a cry without a word of entreaty and, I trust, of consolation. It is a heavy thing to see the year wearing away and no door opened, to feel the pinch of poverty, and to look upon two boys who look to you. Yet I must first ask you, do you yourself belong to the family of God? Is Christ your ark, into which you have fled for refuge? You speak of repenting of your sin, but has that repentance brought you to a vital union with the Lord Jesus? The whole family in heaven and earth is one, an undivided household; but the question that must burn in your heart is, do I belong to it? If you are His, then all things are yours, not your husband's slender wage alone, but the unsearchable riches of Christ. I remember a cold morning when a poor soul had no fire for his little family, and that text came again and again, "All things are yours." Let it ring in your ears, and see whether you possess them by faith.

Yet I hear also a murmuring: "Why God made me this person, uneducated, jobless, living in a wendy house." O soul, beware of charging the Almighty with unkindness. Did He not fashion you? And is He not able to bring honey out of the rock? The straitness of your condition may be the very strait gate that presses you to enter into true life. I could scarcely ask for you a better thing than that you should fully know the horribleness of sin in your own spirit, for out of deep humiliation rises the palace of hope. David, when he saw his guilt, compared himself to a leper. And perhaps the Lord in wisdom shows you no immediate breakthrough that you might learn to trust Him in the dark and to lean upon Jehovah-Shalom, the Lord who sends peace.

Consider your household. In that tiny dwelling, is there an altar to God? Family prayer is the castle of Protestantism; it is the nutriment of family piety, and woe to those who allow it to cease. If you knew your children would be sick through its neglect, would you not pray? And if a reward were offered, would you not rise early to secure it? Yet here is a blessing, and you are slack. Let the father of the house lead, or if he will not, let the godly wife stand in the breach. Noah and his whole house entered the ark, and so were saved. That ark is Christ; have you entered with your sons? He has made a covenant to be a God to us and to our seed. Do not say, "I am only a poor woman." Noah's wife came in, a queenly dame with her sons and their wives. The son's wives found it a happy circumstance to be joined to that believing family. Even so, let your household be ordered aright, with double zeal in prayer, and you may yet see the Lord's hand.

Lay hold of the truth that the Lord's family is not divided by poverty, nor by want of learning, nor by a low station. Neither do errors and failures of understanding divide the family of God. If you are Christ's, you are one with the glorified in heaven; their riches are your portion, and your present trial is but for a moment. Do not look at your husband's wage, but at the God who multiplies the loaves. Cease to say, "I have repented and still no breakthrough." The strong man may have been cast out, but is the house only swept and garnished, yet empty? The Stronger One must dwell within. Entreat the Spirit to make you not merely a hearer but a daughter of the Lord God Almighty. Then, though you live in a wendy house, you shall dwell in the secret place of the Most High, and your heart shall sing amid straits, for His name is your strong tower. The covenant promise to Noah was fulfilled, yet Noah acted in perfect freedom, choosing to enter the ark. So you must choose to cling to the promise, to cry day and night to the Lord, and to wait until He comes to you with deliverance.