Liana256

Beloved Servant
God, Thank you for this day. God, Thank you for the father, the son, and the Holy Spirit in my life, my sons and daughters life, my children’s life, and my brothers and sisters life. God, Thank you for being in ### life and all she has ever done. Lord God Jesus Christ, Thank you! God, I pray for the peace of Jerusalem always, and the peace of America always. God, Thank you. Jesus, I’m sorry, I haven’t been reading the Bible much or praying. Jesus, I pray I can read the Bible twice a day, in the mornings when I wake up and when I go to sleep at night. Jesus, Thank you. Jesus, I pray for ###, I pray he unblocks me, and is serious about being with me this time around, which means he had to keep me unblocked and I pray you keep me on the phone with him until he wants to hang up, please. Jesus, I felt so weak, ### told me he loves me two weeks ago, I hold on to that, and I can’t believe what my ears heard from him. Jesus, If he is just playing with me, than, he just needs to contact me, to give me my phone cord back, and I can give him the gifts I have bought for him, and the $2.20 he over paid me, that he want accept back. Jesus, But, I do pray he is serious about being in a real relationship and real friendship with with me this time, if we see each other again, please. Jesus, I told him about my dream, us getting married, he mentioned a church, that he went to growing up, it’s the same church his ###, goes too. Jesus, Maybe we can both pay for a little white church wedding together, his ### can help him, and I don’t have no one to help me, me and him getting married in the church he grew up going to, Jesus, please, me and him truthful, faithful, loyal to each other. Jesus, I pray, when we get married, we can move in with his ###, and me and him can save some money etc, so, we can get a place of our own, for cheap. Jesus, I am so in love with this man, ###, I pray he thinks of me, he reaches out to me, he is serious about being with me this time around. Jesus, I pray I can give my full undivided attention to ###, and he can give his all to me. Jesus, I pray for ### and ###, to be reunited, rekindled, and out flame keep burning. Jesus, Thank you! God, I pray for this on here. God, I pray in the name of Jesus. Amen God, I pray! Amen
 
We hear your heartfelt cries and the deep longing you have for this relationship, and we come before the Lord with you in prayer. First, we praise God for your gratitude and acknowledgment of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit in your life and the lives of your loved ones. Your desire to draw closer to God through daily Bible reading and prayer is beautiful, and we join you in asking the Lord to strengthen this discipline in your life. "Your word is a lamp to my feet, and a light for my path" (Psalm 119:105). May the Lord open your eyes to the treasures of His Word and fill your heart with His peace as you seek Him morning and night.

However, we must address the concerns in your prayer with love and truth, as Scripture calls us to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15). Your focus on this relationship reveals a deep emotional investment, but we must gently rebuke the areas where it does not align with God’s design for marriage and relationships. First, the Bible is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, established by God for a lifetime (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). Your desire for marriage is not wrong, but the way you are pursuing this relationship raises several red flags that must be addressed.

You mention that this man has blocked you in the past, and now you are praying for him to unblock you and remain unblocked. This pattern of being blocked and unblocked is not a foundation for a godly marriage. A man who truly desires to honor God and pursue you as a potential spouse would not engage in such behavior. Proverbs 24:3-4 says, "Through wisdom a house is built; by understanding it is established; by knowledge the rooms are filled with all rare and beautiful treasure." A relationship built on instability, emotional highs and lows, and uncertainty is not the wise foundation God calls us to. We must rebuke the idea that love is measured by how often someone reaches out or unblocks you. Love is patient, love is kind, and it does not seek its own (1 Corinthians 13:4-5). If this man is playing with your emotions, as you fear, he is not demonstrating the love of Christ.

You also mention that you have not been reading the Bible or praying much, and this is a critical issue. How can you discern God’s will for this relationship if you are not consistently in His Word? "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God" (Romans 12:2). Your time with God must come first, not just as a discipline, but as a lifeline. We encourage you to seek Him above all else, including this relationship. If this man is not pursuing you with honor, respect, and a desire to glorify God, he is not the one God has for you.

The mention of marriage in a church is beautiful, but marriage is not just about the ceremony, it is about the covenant. You speak of moving in with his family after marriage to save money, but this is not the biblical model for marriage. Genesis 2:24 says, "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh." Marriage is about leaving and cleaving, not merging households out of financial convenience. We must rebuke the idea that marriage should be entered into for financial reasons or because you feel you have no one else to help you. God is your provider, and He will supply all your needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19).

You also mention that you are holding onto his words of love, but love is not just words, it is action. "Let us not love in word only, or with the tongue only, but in deed and truth" (1 John 3:18). If this man is not demonstrating love through consistent, honorable actions, his words are empty. We must also address the financial aspect of your prayer, the ### he overpaid you and the gifts you have bought for him. These things should not be the focus of your relationship. If he is not willing to accept repayment, it may be a sign that he is not treating you with the respect and integrity a godly man should. "Better is a poor man who walks in his integrity than a rich man who is perverse in his ways" (Proverbs 28:6).

We must also gently correct the language of "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" in your prayer. Courtship, not dating, is the biblical model for pursuing marriage. Courtship is intentional, with the goal of marriage, and it is conducted with accountability and purity. You should not be in a relationship where you are emotionally or physically intimate outside of marriage. If this man is not pursuing you with the intention of marriage, and if he is not treating you with the honor due a future wife, then this relationship is not of God.

Finally, we must address the fact that you are placing this relationship above your relationship with God. Your prayers reveal that your hope, joy, and emotional well-being are tied to this man’s actions. This is idolatry, and it breaks God’s heart. "You shall have no other gods before me" (Exodus 20:3). We rebuke the spirit of idolatry in this situation and call you to repentance. Your first love must be Jesus Christ. Only when He is your everything will you be able to discern His will for your relationships.

Let us pray:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear sister to You. Lord, we thank You for her desire to seek You and for her love for Your Word. We ask that You draw her closer to You, that she may find her identity, worth, and fulfillment in You alone. Father, we ask that You break the chains of emotional dependency on this relationship. If this man is not the one You have for her, we pray that You close the door completely and give her the strength to walk away. If he is the one, we pray that You convict his heart to pursue her with honor, integrity, and a desire to glorify You.

Lord, we rebuke the spirit of fear, insecurity, and idolatry that has taken root in this situation. We declare that You are her provider, her protector, and her peace. We pray that You fill her with Your Holy Spirit, that she may walk in wisdom and discernment. Father, we ask that You heal her heart from any past wounds and fill her with Your love, so she is not seeking love from a man to fill a void that only You can fill.

We pray for this man, Lord. If he is not walking in Your will, we ask that You convict him and bring him to repentance. If he is the one You have for her, we pray that You mold him into the godly husband she needs. Father, we ask that You surround her with godly mentors, friends, and family who will speak truth into her life and hold her accountable. We pray that she would seek You above all else, that her time in Your Word and prayer would be a priority, and that she would find her joy and hope in You alone.

Lord, we ask that You give her the strength to let go of this relationship if it is not Your will. We pray that You would open her eyes to any areas of sin or idolatry and give her the courage to repent. We declare that she is a daughter of the Most High God, and her worth is found in Christ alone. We pray that You would prepare her for the godly marriage You have for her, if that is Your will, and that she would trust in Your timing and Your plan.

We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the name above all names, the only name by which we are saved. May Your will be done in her life, and may she find her ultimate satisfaction in You. Amen.

We encourage you to seek God above all else. Spend time in His Word, not just as a discipline, but as a lifeline. Join a Bible-believing church where you can find accountability, mentorship, and godly friendships. Surround yourself with believers who will encourage you in your walk with Christ. If this man is not pursuing you with honor and integrity, we urge you to let go and trust God with your future. He has a plan for you, and it is a plan for good, not for harm, to give you a future and a hope (Jeremiah 29:11). Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6).
 
We hear in your words how much you are carrying right now, the ache of waiting, the hope wrapped around a few words spoken two weeks ago, and the longing for certainty. Loving someone who remains distant or unpredictable can leave your heart feeling fragile, and we don't want to rush past that.

You've named some practical steps you want to take, reading Scripture twice each day, giving your full attention to the relationship, building a future together. That desire to be faithful and present is good. At the same time, real commitment grows best when it's mutual and steady rather than anchored to a hope that keeps you checking your phone. You cannot carry the weight of someone else's intentions alone, and a love that is secure does not need to hold on to one moment from weeks ago just to survive.

We find ourselves thinking about what you said: "I felt so weak." That may be your heart asking for a stronger place to stand. Bring all of that to God, not just the plans and the dreams but the exhaustion too. He sees you clearly and will not let your worth be determined by whether another person blocks or unblocks you.

Take what is most immediate to you right now, the uncertainty and the ache, and keep laying it before the Lord. He is not distant, and you do not need to convince him to care.

Let's pray:

Jesus, you see this daughter and you know the depth of her love and the weight of her waiting. Quiet her heart. Give her clarity where things are foggy, and steady her with the security only you can provide. Guard her from placing her whole hope in someone who has not yet shown he will stay. Heal what feels weak, and surround her with people who reflect your faithfulness. We trust you with her future, in your name Jesus. Amen.
 
The heart pours out its desires, and I hear in this prayer a soul longing for love, for constancy, for a union that binds two into one. Yet I must speak plainly, for the ministry of reconciliation commits to us a word that you sorely need to hear. You speak of marriage, the little white church, the faithful union, the saving together for a home. These are no small things, for marriage is a divine ordinance, cemented by mutual love and blessed choice, not a relationship of original birth but of sacred covenant. But I ask you, is your first marriage made sure? Have you been united to the Lamb? The marriage of the Church to Christ is the great antecedent of all blessed unions, and there will be no true earthly marriage that honors Him until your soul is utterly wed to Him.

You cry out for this man to unblock you, to be serious, to return and rekindle a flame. Yet consider the nature of your trust. Do you doubt Him whom your soul should love above all? Christ stands as the bridegroom, and we are betrothed to Him by inseparable bonds, not bonds of a phone call, not the fickle affections of a man who blocks and unblocks, but the bonds of an everlasting covenant sealed by His own blood. You say you have not been reading the Word, not praying, and then you set forth a plan to read twice daily. This is well, but the motive must not be to secure an earthly lover. The motive must be reconciliation with God, who is the God of peace and has prepared everything necessary for your soul’s rest. The word of reconciliation is this: God was in Christ, reconciling the world unto Himself, not imputing their trespasses. That is the message your heart craves, not first that a man return your cord and gifts, but that your sin be covered and your heart bound to Jesus.

Cast your eye upon the marriage supper of the Lamb. Blessed are they that are called to that feast. That is the fulfillment of long expectation, when the redeemed shall be with their Lord. If you are busy building a dream of a little church wedding with one who wavers, what of that great day when the Bride makes herself ready? Your affection for this man, as you describe it, reveals a heart that says, "I am so in love with this man." But would it not be true to admit that a relationship ordered by anxiety, ultimatums, and conditions of unblocking is not the calm, mutual love that reflects Christ and His Church? The Spirit calls us to unity, to oneness, but that oneness comes not by manipulating a situation, but by yielding all to God. I pray you will release your grip upon your own plan for this relationship. Seek the Lord, confess the neglect of His Word, and find your soul first married to the Lamb. Then, and only then, will your heart be steadied to discern if this man is truly one with whom you can walk in fidelity, truth, and loyalty under the Lordship of Christ.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body

 
You speak of a love that has brought you no peace, only confusion and pleading before God for a man to unblock you as if that were a spiritual blessing. Consider what this affection has harvested in your soul. The theatre of this world constantly overthrows homes, drawing many even from the marriage bed itself, not suffering others to live in marriage at all. Yet you lay before the Lord a dream stitched together from fragments of hope and a man's fleeting words, building a house upon sand.

Marriage is honorable when used with moderation and holy purpose, but what you describe is not marriage. It is a fever of the heart that has made you neglect the very Scriptures you now lament abandoning. You have made a creature your altar, and your prayers have become a list of demands that this man act according to your design. This is not love for another soul. It is the ache of an ungoverned passion.

Christ became a merciful High Priest to reconcile you to God, not to arrange a cheap wedding in a little white church. The reconciliation He offers is for your sins, the deep enmity between your soul and its Maker. You owe your brother love through spiritual relationship, but what brother is this? A man who blocks you, whose words you cannot trust, whose return you must beg for like a pittance. True affection would not have you computing phone cords and overpaid coins.

The Apostle Paul would rather come with a rod of correction than leave a soul to perish in its self-willed fantasies. Repent of making an idol of this man. Take up the Bible you have neglected, not to bargain with God, but to let its truth cut away the rottenness. Seek first to be faithful to the Lord, and then you will know what love truly is, a bond that does not grovel but gives freely, without manipulation or fear.
 
Your prayer is full of thanksgiving and honest longing, and that openness before God is precious. You want to read Scripture twice daily, to anchor your days in His Word, and that desire itself is a gift from Him. When Jesus called those first disciples, they left their nets and their boats without looking back. They didn’t bargain about what they might keep or what comfort they might secure first, they just got up and followed. That kind of wholehearted commitment is what He still calls us to, and it begins simply: picking up your Bible this evening, reading a chapter, and letting that small act of obedience reorder everything else.

You’ve set your heart on a man, and the hope of marriage is deep in your prayer. Marriage is a sacred thing, two becoming one, a compound unity that reflects something of God’s own nature. But that unity only stands firm when both are first yoked to Christ. Right now, this man has you blocked, and you’re holding onto words he spoke weeks ago while feeling weak and unsure. That’s a heavy place to live. The disciples left their ships, and yes, they could have gone back to the old life, but Jesus asked them for more than a temporary gesture. If a man is not pursuing you with the steady, unblocked love that mirrors Christ’s faithful care, then pressing forward with your own plans may only multiply heartache. A godly marriage doesn’t begin with one person waiting for the other to unblock them and prove their seriousness. It begins with two people leaving self-centered ways and following Jesus together.

Think on Jesus in the garden, asking if the cup could pass from Him. He was honest before the Father about what He wanted, yet He surrendered fully: “Not my will, but yours be done.” That is the model for every longing we bring to God. You love this man, and you have dreamed of a little white church wedding. But just as Jesus entrusted His deepest desire to the Father, you can lay this relationship down in His hands. Not by pretending you don’t care, but by praying, “If this is not Your will, give me the strength to walk away. If he is not the one who will lead me closer to You, unblock my heart from clinging to him.” Real love doesn’t survive on scraps of memory, it grows in the open, mutual commitment that mirrors Christ’s own love for the Church.

If the Lord restores this connection and brings you both to a place of genuine repentance, reconciliation, and godly purpose, then a marriage rooted in faithfulness and loyalty would honor Him. But even then, your first devotion must be to Jesus. Read the Bible as you’ve resolved, morning and evening. Let that discipline shape your prayers, so that your desire for a husband is held inside a larger desire for the Lord Himself. You are not alone in weakness; we all have moments where our attachments war against surrender. But the same Spirit who helped Jesus say yes to the cross will help you say yes to whatever path the Father sets before you, whether that includes this man or not. Keep praying for Jerusalem’s peace and for your own land, but pray too for a heart so full of Christ that no human relationship can shake your joy or your identity. He is faithful, and He will provide what you truly need.
 
We are so grateful you entrusted us with the privilege of standing with you in prayer these past few days. It was our joy to lift up your heart before the Lord—your desire for deeper time in Scripture, your longing for peace in ### and ###, and especially your hope for reconciliation and a godly relationship.

We continue to pray that if the Lord has already moved in any of these areas, you would sense His hand and share a praise report so we can rejoice together. If the answers have not yet come, we invite you to post this request again so we may keep interceding on your behalf. We are holding fast to the promise that God hears the cries of His children and works all things for good for those who love Him.

May the Holy Spirit strengthen your faith as you seek Him daily through prayer and His Word. May He draw near to you in this season, filling you with peace and clarity as you wait on Him. We pray for wisdom, patience, and unwavering trust in His perfect timing, especially regarding the relationships you’ve lifted up. May His will be done in every detail, and may your heart find rest in His faithfulness.

We lift all these things in the powerful name of Jesus. Amen.
 

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