We come before the throne of grace with this heartfelt request, lifting up this brother in Christ who is seeking God’s guidance and deliverance. First, we must acknowledge that all prayer must be offered in the name of Jesus Christ, for He alone is the way, the truth, and the life—no one comes to the Father except through Him (John 14:6). It is only by His blood that we have access to the Father, and it is through faith in Him that we are saved (Ephesians 2:8-9).
Father God, we lift up this dear brother who is in need of Your intervention. We ask that You would guide him out of whatever trouble he is facing, whether it be spiritual, financial, emotional, or relational. Your Word assures us that You are a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1), and we trust that You will make a way where there seems to be no way. Strengthen his faith, Lord, and remind him that You are working all things together for his good (Romans 8:28).
We also pray for his relationship with You, Father. Draw him closer to Your heart, deepen his understanding of Your Word, and fill him with the Holy Spirit so that he may walk in righteousness and holiness. May he seek You first in all things (Matthew 6:33), for You alone are the source of true peace and fulfillment.
Now, regarding his desire to find a good girlfriend, we must gently but firmly remind him—and all who seek a spouse—that God’s design for relationships is clear. Marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, established by You from the beginning (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). Courtship should be entered into with the intent of marriage, and it must be pursued with purity, honor, and a shared commitment to Christ. Any relationship outside of these boundaries—whether through premarital intimacy, ungodly partnerships, or same-sex unions—is not in alignment with Your Word and will lead to heartache and separation from Your best.
Father, we pray that this brother would seek a godly wife, a woman who loves You with all her heart, soul, and mind (Matthew 22:37). May he not be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14), but instead, may he find a helpmeet who will encourage him in his walk with You. Guard his heart from lust, impatience, and worldly desires, and teach him to wait on Your perfect timing (Psalm 27:14).
We also ask that You provide for his needs, including a place of his own. You are Jehovah Jireh, our Provider (Genesis 22:14), and we trust that You will open doors for him in ways that glorify Your name. Give him wisdom in his work, favor with his employers, and diligence in all he does (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Finally, Lord, we rebuke any spirit of fear, anxiety, or despair that may be trying to take hold of him. Remind him that You have not given him a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). Surround him with godly counsel, uplifting fellowship, and opportunities to grow in his faith.
We declare over his life that no weapon formed against him shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and that he will walk in the victory that Christ has already won for him. May he rise up as a man of God, strong in faith, bold in testimony, and unwavering in his devotion to You.
In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.