Pray for my relationship

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In the name of jesus need lots of prayers for my relationship with this girl that God has chosen for me, i pray that we always get along together with no conflicts, and fully understand each other and support and fully transform our brains and characters to build each other really well in a peaceful good way, pray that our times together will be all in grace ,love and peace in the fullness of the ftuits of the holy spirit, we pray that jesus will be in all our conversations and speak always through us, we pray for full protection and full decerment for every detail of what god wants for our life, we pray that out consecrated ministries will be so fruitful and as God's heart planned and pleases and that we will bring his kingdom to earth to the fullest potential🥲🙏🙏🙏
 
We join with you in prayer for this relationship and we thank you for seeking to put Jesus at the center of it, for it is in His name we have access to the Father and it is through Him that every good thing is established.

We are encouraged by your desire for grace, love, peace and the fruit of the Holy Spirit to abound between you, and your desire to see your lives and ministries bring glory to God. Scripture says in Gal 5:22-23 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law. This is a beautiful desire and we pray God will cultivate this fruit in both of you as you walk with Him.

We also want to encourage you with biblical wisdom concerning courtship. We believe that a relationship between a man and a woman is to be a courtship with the clear goal of godly marriage, for marriage is to be held in honor as a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman. Heb 13:4 says Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. Therefore if you are pursuing this young woman as a girlfriend, we encourage you to see this as pursuing a future wife, and to pursue her in purity and holiness. 1 Thess 4:3-4 says For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to control his own body in sanctification and honor. We pray you both will honor God with your bodies and keep your times together pure until marriage, fleeing from fornication and keeping Christ as Lord over every conversation and every touch.

We also gently encourage you regarding discernment. You mention this girl is the one God has chosen for you. While we rejoice in your confidence, we remind you that God's will is proved through the renewing of the mind and through godly counsel and confirmation over time. Rom 12:2 says Don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God. And 2 Cor 6:14 says Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? We encourage you to be certain you are both born again believers in Jesus Christ, equally yoked, and to seek confirmation through prayer, the Word, and wise counsel from mature believers. True transformation of character does not come from merely trying to change each other, but from both of you being transformed by the Holy Spirit daily.

Your prayer for no conflicts is understandable, but even godly relationships will face disagreements as two sinners grow together. The goal is not the absence of conflict but handling conflict in a Christlike way. Eph 4:2-3 says with all lowliness and humility, with patience, bearing with one another in love; being eager to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. And Prov 3:5-6 says Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. We pray you will learn to extend forgiveness, speak the truth in love, and support and build each other up as Eph 4:29 teaches.

We pray together now for you both.

Father, in the name of Jesus we lift this brother and this young woman before Your throne of grace. We ask that You be Lord over this courtship and that Your will be done above all else. Renew their minds and transform their characters into the image of Christ, that they may prove Your good and perfect will. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit and cause Your fruit to abound in their lives and in their conversations, that every word would be spoken in love and truth and that Jesus would be heard through them. Grant them full discernment for every detail of Your plan for their lives, and protect them from temptation, deception, and the schemes of the enemy. Keep them sexually pure and holy before You, honoring You in body and spirit as they wait upon marriage if it is Your will to lead them there. Teach them to bear with one another in love, to forgive quickly, to understand each other with patience and humility, and to support one another in a peaceful and godly way. Bless and make fruitful the consecrated ministries You have given them, that they would bear much fruit for Your kingdom and bring Your light to the earth as You have planned. Lead them step by step, and if it is Your will, establish them in a Christ centered marriage that glorifies You all their days. We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ our Lord, amen.
 
Thank you for letting us pray with you about this relationship. We can hear your heart to honor Jesus in how you speak to each other, support each other, and serve Him together, and we are grateful for that desire.

One thing we have learned walking with couples is that even the healthiest relationships still have moments of misunderstanding. Wanting no conflict at all can put a lot of pressure on both of you. What tends to build peace over time is learning how to share your real thoughts and feelings clearly and to listen well when the other is speaking, including the quiet cues beyond words. That kind of honesty, practiced with grace, helps you grow together rather than just avoid tension.

It may help to build a simple rhythm together, a regular unhurried time to talk and pray about what is on your hearts and what you sense God is showing you for your next steps, and to invite a mature pastor or couple you both trust to give you perspective as your ministries develop.

Father, we lift this brother and his relationship to You. Give them growing love, patience and understanding for each other, wisdom to discern Your will in each detail, and protection as they seek You. Shape their character and their conversations to reflect You, and make their work for Your kingdom fruitful in the way You have planned. In Jesus' name, amen.
 
Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.
 
We have heard your request and we bring it before the Lord with you, asking that His will be done and His name glorified in both your lives.

You ask for grace, love and peace, for understanding and mutual support, and for minds and characters transformed to build one another up. This is a good desire, and Scripture shows us how it is fulfilled. We are transformed by the renewing of our minds through the Word of God, and the fruit of the Spirit, love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance, grows only where Christ dwells by faith. Apart from Him we can do nothing.

We pray that you will both know the peace which Christ Himself gives. He said, Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you. This is not a peace that comes from never having a conflict, for in this world duties will press and sorrows will surge round. The prophet says, Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee, because he trusteth in thee. That perfect peace is a present possession within, even when circumstances are difficult, because the blood of Jesus whispers peace within and has made full atonement. There is a false peace which cries Peace, peace where there is no peace, and we should dread to seek peace at the expense of truth. True peace is first peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, who alone is the way of salvation, and then peace in the conscience which flows from it as a crystal stream from its fountain.

Therefore we do not pray simply that you will never face disagreement, but that you will keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace by walking in truth and holiness. If this relationship is to honor the Lord, it must be ordered according to His design. Marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and both sexual union and living together belong within that covenant alone. Any path outside it cannot bring the blessing of God, for how can a man hope for peace while he wars with the laws of holiness. We pray that you will both be found in Christ, trusting Him alone for salvation, and that you will pursue purity, honesty and self control, forsaking all that would grieve the Holy Spirit.

We pray for full discernment for every detail of what God wants for your lives. Do not assume that every strong affection is the voice of God. Bring your relationship into the light of Scripture, seek counsel from godly and mature believers, and ask the Lord to make His will plain. If it be His will to lead you toward holy marriage, pray that He will prepare you both for that covenant in faithfulness and self denial. If not, pray for grace to submit to His wiser purpose, for we cannot judge God and He does all things well.

We join you in praying that your lives and any ministry entrusted to you will be consecrated and fruitful as the Lord Himself has planned, that Christ will be in all your conversations and speak through you, and that you will seek first His kingdom. May the Lord bless His people with peace, and keep you both stayed upon Him, trusting in Jesus who has vanquished death and all its powers, and who will at last call His own to Heaven's perfect peace.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
 

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