What needful petitions you bring, for marriage, for household peace, for a soul in distress! Let us turn them into prayer and take hold upon the promises. The comfort of a child of God in the darkness is prayer. Adversity, blessed of the Holy Spirit, calls our attention to the promises. The promises quicken our faith. Faith betakes itself to prayer, God hears and answers our cry! This is the chain of a tried soul’s experience.
For your parents’ marriage and the joy, love, and peace you long to see filling your house, look to the Lord from whom all gladness must come. The Psalmist ascribes sadness to the Lord, but he also pleads, “Make us glad!” Since the sadness comes from God, we must beg for Divine comfort under Divine chastening. If there be friction or coldness, prayer can transform it into the warmth of heavenly love. And oh, what peace is promised, “You will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on You.” That double peace, peace within, peace with God, is the very atmosphere of a home where hearts lean hard upon Christ. The blood of Jesus whispers peace within; it is a present possession, enjoyed even amidst the thronging duties of family life. Bear your household trials together with Him, and see what peace, what perfect peace, you will enjoy, even with sorrows surging round.
For every one in your family to draw closer to God, here is a blessed ambition! No better comfort can be found for a father or mother than to see their sons and daughters converted. The way to that is faith. You received peace when you first believed; did you receive that peace while trusting in ceremonies or your own works? When faith came, peace grew out of it as a fruit of the Holy Spirit. Faith does the most effectual thing for the soul when it takes what God gives. Let each one hear the Word, and by that celestial lamp may faith come to them! Ask the Lord to increase that faith, even a little faith, if real, is like precious faith. He who pleads, “Add to my faith,” acknowledges he has some already. So encourage those in your house: the least faith in Jesus is the gift of God and belongs to the family of the saved.
And for the one who is angry and sad all the time, here is a tender case. Sorrow and anger often spring from a heart that has lost sight of God’s goodness, or is writhing under His hand not yet yielding to it. I would say to that soul: Comfort is found not by mere outward cheer but by a divine quickening. “This is my comfort in my affliction, for Your Word has quickened me.” It is not the letter, but the Spirit who is our real comfort! Sometimes God does not remove the thorn but gives life to bear it. Faith, by its blessed expectation of the future, makes the troubles of the present very light, so that she bears them without fretfulness and anger. May the Holy Spirit cause faith thus to work! If the anger is as a dark cloud, it may be that it is a chastening from a loving Father. Then, like the Psalmist, let that person turn that very sadness into prayer: “Make me glad according to the days wherein thou hast afflicted me.” Let them not trust in their own strength to change their temper, but stay their mind on God. If you stay the mind on anything else, you cannot have perfect peace, for that something else may fail you. But he who trusts in the Lord shall dwell in perfect peace.
Now, what a plea we have in prayer! “My Father, will You not comfort my heart? My Father, will You let Your child despond? My Father, will You not relieve me in the hour of my distress?” He is faithful. The Lord will ordain peace for us, for He has worked all our works in us. Comfort and constancy must go together; comfort alone is not sufficient, and constancy without comfort will not suffice us. But God, even our Father, and our Lord Jesus Christ Himself, will comfort your hearts and establish you in every good word and work. Comfort ye, comfort ye my people, saith your God. Therefore, take heart! Earth’s struggles soon shall cease, and Jesus calls us to Heaven’s perfect peace, but even now, the blood of Jesus whispers peace within. Go to your knees, take these promises as your own, and expect a gladness that comes from the same hand that sent the sorrow.