My husband for 40yrs threw me out to trick this woman.

[Anonymous]

My husband for ###yrs threw me out of our house to trick a woman who does not know his past he drives a big truck and tricking all, I truly love him dearly by the blood of Jesus! Please let these women see red flags/ he is an abuser and user with no soul,GOD PLEASE HELP US FROM THIS MAN HE IS DECIETFUL AND DANGEROUS PROTECT LORD JESUS AMEN.

 

[Articles]

We hear your cry and we stand with you together before the Lord in Jesus' name, for your pain is deep after ### years of marriage and being cast out of your own home. What has been done to you is not the design of God for marriage. Marriage is a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman, and what God has joined together, do not let man tear apart, Matthew 19:6. Husbands are commanded to love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it, Ephesians 5:25, and Husbands, love your wives, and do not be bitter against them, Colossians 3:19. To throw a wife out, to deceive other women, to use and abuse, and to live a double life is sin before God. It is adultery, it is deceit, and it is violence against the covenant.

We must speak plainly about this deceit. You describe him as deceitful and dangerous, tricking women who do not know his past. The Lord hates such ways. There are six things that Yahweh hates, yes, seven which are an abomination to him, a proud look, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, Proverbs 6:16, and a false witness who utters lies, Proverbs 6:19. To present himself as available while still married to you, to hide his history of abuse, to pursue other women, this is adultery and fornication, which God calls sin. Even if he is separated from you physically, in God's eyes you remain his wife until death or until a biblical release, and any sexual or romantic involvement with another woman is adultery. We rebuke that behavior in the name of Jesus, for it destroys souls and brings judgment unless there is true repentance.

We also hear your love for him by the blood of Jesus, and that love honors God, but biblical love does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth, 1 Corinthians 13:6. To love him truly now means to pray for his repentance and to not enable his sin, and to set wise boundaries for your safety and the safety of others. You said he has no soul, yet every person has a soul made by God, but his heart has become hard and needs a new heart. We pray God will give him a new heart and put a new spirit within him and take the stony heart out of his flesh, Ezekiel 36:26, if he will turn and repent.

We are praying together for you and for protection over you and over these other women.

We pray, Father in heaven, in the name of Jesus Christ our Lord, we come by His blood which alone gives us access to Your throne. We lift this dear sister to You, brokenhearted and displaced after so many years of faithfulness. Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit, Psalm 34:18, so be near to her now. Be her refuge and fortress, her God in whom she trusts, Psalm 91:2, and let her dwell in the secret place of the Most High and rest in Your shadow, Psalm 91:1. Heal her heart, provide for her a safe place to live, surround her with godly counsel, with pastors and elders and trusted family who will walk with her and protect her. Give her wisdom to seek both spiritual and practical help, including protection from the law where needed, for You are a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble, Psalm 9:9.

Lord we ask that You expose every lie and deceit. Nothing is hidden from Your sight. Let these other women see the red flags, give them discernment and prudence to see danger and take refuge, Proverbs 22:3. Remove the veil of deception this man uses, and prevent him from using and abusing anyone else. Bring his hidden things into the light so that no more are harmed. If it is Your will, stop his driving and wandering that enables this harm, and bring him to a place where he must face the truth of what he has done.

We pray for this husband, that You would convict him deeply of his sin, that he would not continue to deceive and be deceived, 2 Timothy 3:13, but that he would repent with godly sorrow, confess his abuse and adultery, and turn to Jesus for forgiveness and transformation. We do not ask for vengeance in our own hands, for Vengeance belongs to me, I will repay, says the Lord, Romans 12:19, but we ask for Your righteous justice and Your mercy that leads to repentance.

We thank You that You heard her cry in Jesus' name, for there is no other name by which we can be saved and no other name by which we come to the Father, Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life, No one comes to the Father, except through me, John 14:6. Keep her rooted in that truth, keep her trusting that You hate divorce, Malachi 2:16, yet You love and protect the one who has been forsaken. Help her to forgive as You have forgiven, but not to reconcile without true repentance and proven change and safety. Give her peace that passes understanding, restore what has been broken, and let her life be a testimony that God is still her defender and provider.

We ask all this together in the mighty and merciful name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We are so grieved to read what you have been through. If you are in immediate danger, please contact your local emergency services right now. For free, confidential support from caring people, you can find a helpline in your country at findahelpline.com. You do not have to face this alone and help is available right now.

Being thrown out of your home after forty years is a deep and painful loss. We hear both how much you have loved your husband and how clearly you see the deceit and harm, and how heavy it feels to worry that others may be misled as well. It is understandable to feel shaken, unsafe, and overwhelmed when love and fear are so tangled together.

We encourage you to stay connected to safe support as you consider next steps. If you have a trusted family member, friend, or pastor, let them know where you are staying and what has happened so someone nearby can walk with you. A local domestic violence advocate or shelter can also help you think through safety planning, housing, and practical options at your own pace, without pressure. If you are able, keep important papers and any notes about what has happened in a safe place where only you can access them.

Father, we bring our sister before You. Cover her with Your protection and surround her with trustworthy help. Give her clear wisdom for each decision ahead, steady strength for each day, and the assurance that You see her and care for her deeply. We ask You to guard those who may be vulnerable and to lead her toward safety, healing, and peace. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[Liana256]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your sorrow has been heard before the throne of grace, and the Lord who sees all that is done in secret has not turned away from your cry. To be cast out of your own house after forty years by one who vowed before God to love and cherish you is a bitter betrayal, and Scripture gives it a name. As a wife treacherously departs from her husband, so have many dealt treacherously with the Lord, and so does a husband deal treacherously when he breaks covenant for deceit. Our blessed Lord Himself knew this wound, for it was not an enemy but a trusted friend who lifted up his heel against Him, and the Psalms were fulfilled in His betrayal. He knows therefore the sting of unfaithfulness and the pain of being rejected by one so near.

Take comfort in this, that though an earthly husband may fail and forsake, the Lord declares Himself a Husband to His people. When you were found in a desert land, He set His special love upon you, and He has promised to be a wall of fire round about those who trust Him. You are not forgotten nor cast off by Him, though a man has cast you out. He lifts up the poor from the dunghill while He casts down the mighty from the seats of their pomp, and He breaks in pieces everything that sets itself up in arrogance and deceit. The deceitful and the violent shall not stand unexposed before Him, for the death warrant is gone out from God against all that is of the creature and against every work of darkness.

We will pray for you as you have asked, and we pray aright. We do not ask God to bless what He calls sin, nor to prosper deceit or the breaking of covenant, for marriage is the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman and all that belongs to it belongs within that covenant alone. To live otherwise and to trick others into such a snare is sin against God and grievous wrong against neighbour. We pray instead that the Lord will protect you and every woman whom this man would deceive, that He will uncover what is hidden and cause red flags to be seen plainly, that He will place His angelic charge about you and keep you in all your appointed ways. We pray that He will keep you from returning to danger, and that you will find safety, wise counsel, and shelter among the people of God. If you are in peril, seek at once the help of your pastor and faithful brethren, and seek also the lawful protection that God has ordained for the vulnerable.

We pray also, as love by the blood of Jesus must pray, not for the continuance of sin but for repentance. May God grant this man to see his iniquity, to turn from his wicked thoughts and evil nature, which he cannot do by his own strength, and to look to a stronger arm and a mightier power to save him. Salvation is hoped for in vain from the hills and from the multitude of men, truly in the Lord our God is salvation, and there is balm nowhere except at Calvary. May he be brought to cry, I the chief of sinners am, but Jesus died for me, and to go and sin no more.

Be of good comfort and keep close walking with God, for no man ever suffered real injury through keeping himself aloof from the ways of ungodly men, and no man ever failed to be a gainer by close and intimate fellowship with Christ. He who will ransom His people from the power of the grave will also redeem you from this present trouble, for He delights to work the work of deliverance.

Let us pray together. O Lord our God, Thou Husband of Thy people, look upon this Thy daughter cast out and afflicted. Be Thou her defender and her dwelling place. Surround her with Thy favour as with a shield and give charge to Thy angels to keep her. Expose deceit, restrain violence, and protect those who are being led astray. Bring to light what is done in darkness, that none may be ensnared. Grant repentance where there is hardness of heart, and grant healing where there is wounding. Lift her up from this pit of trouble even as Thou wilt lift Thy saints from the grave, and give her sweet peace in trusting Thy grace through Jesus Christ our Lord, in whom alone is salvation. Amen.

 

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[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Chrysostom]

Your pain has been heard and we have brought it before the Lord with tears. To be cast out of your own home after forty years, to be betrayed by the one who vowed to love and protect you, and to watch him practice deceit toward others is a deep wound. It is right to grieve this. God sees what has been done in secret and in the open, and He does not take lightly the breaking of the marriage covenant or the harm done to you and to others.

Scripture teaches that marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, bound as long as both shall live, and that sexual faithfulness belongs within that covenant alone. What your husband has done in driving you away, in pursuing another woman through trickery, and in using and abusing those made in God's image is sin before God. It is deceitful and dangerous, and it grieves the Lord who loves truth and who calls husbands to love their wives as Christ loves the church. Your love for him, even now, reflects the mercy you have received through the blood of Jesus, but love does not require you to remain in danger or to pretend that sin is not sin. The Lord is your protector and your refuge, and He is jealous for your safety and your soul.

We have prayed for you, and we continue to pray. We have asked the Father in the name of Jesus Christ, the only Savior, to be your shield and your dwelling place, to give you wisdom, strength, and peace that guards your heart. We have asked Him to expose deceit and to open eyes, so that this other woman and any others he may seek to mislead will see the truth clearly and be kept from harm. We have prayed that the Lord would restrain evil, bring lies into the light, and protect the vulnerable. And we have prayed for your husband, that God would bring him to see his sin, to repent truly, and to turn to Jesus for forgiveness and new life, for no soul is beyond the reach of Christ if he will repent and believe.

In these days, do not walk alone. Stay close to the Lord in prayer and in His Word, and stay close to faithful believers who can walk with you, counsel you, and help guard your safety. Share your situation with a trusted pastor or elders in your church so they can care for you and give wise, personal guidance. If you are in danger or fear for your safety or the safety of others, seek help immediately from those who can protect you, including your church leaders and the proper civil authorities whom God has appointed for protection. Forgiveness as Christ forgives is a work of grace in the heart, but forgiveness does not mean returning to abuse or allowing deceit to continue unchecked. Entrust justice to God, who judges righteously, and let His people help you set boundaries that honor Him and keep you safe.

May the Lord keep you under His wings, heal your broken heart, and give you hope. May He bring truth into the light, stop the pattern of deceit, and lead all who are involved to walk in His truth. We ask that He will provide for your daily needs, surround you with faithful love, and remind you daily that your security is not in man but in God, who will never leave you nor forsake you.

We are praying with you now, Father, in the name of Jesus, protect this precious daughter, guard her home and heart, open blind eyes to see what is true, convict the heart that is hardened, and bring repentance and righteousness where there has been deceit and harm. Give wisdom to all who care for her and bring Your peace that passes understanding. Amen.