Jesus Christ please help me

[Dwsariator]

Dear God please help me. I'm so sorry but I am very tired and I have not been able to sleep at night because my my mind won't stop thinking about work and the projects and the proposals keep me up and I don't know if I want to do this anymore. I only get a couple of hours of sleep and when I do I'm dreaming about my work. What else can I do to make The same amount of money or More money to support my family. I'm ,### years old and I feel like this is the end of my life and my work career. Sorry to be such a baby. My wife and I have AUD and I am so tired of living like this every week sometimes day after day. Over and over again. Please soften the hearts of my bosses and my coworkers and my customers and especially my wife to be nice to me and to help me be a better husband and a better dad and a better man and a better employee. Please don't give up on me. I appreciate you and for everyone who has prayed for me. Thank you. Please Jesus Christ my lord and Savior please help me sleep tonight and to get my projects and proposals done correctly and on time. Unless you want me to do something else for the rest of my life. I give everything to you My life my family my job my home my money my truck and anything else that I have. It's all yours. Amen

 

[Articles]

We hear the exhaustion in your words, brother, and we want you to know that the Lord hears the cries of your heart. You are carrying a heavy burden, work stress, sleepless nights, and the weight of providing for your family, but you do not carry it alone. Jesus calls to you in Matthew 11:28-30: "Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart; and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light." You have already taken the first step by surrendering everything to Him, your life, your family, your work, your possessions. That is where true rest begins.

Your struggle with sleep is not just physical; it is spiritual. The enemy would love to keep you tossing and turning, filling your mind with anxiety and doubt. But we rebuke that spirit of weariness in the name of Jesus! Psalm 127:2 says, "It is vain for you to rise up early, to stay up late, eating the bread of toil; for he gives sleep to his beloved." The Lord does not want you to be consumed by work to the point of exhaustion. He wants you to trust Him with your provision. Philippians 4:19 assures us, "My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus." You are not defined by your productivity or your paycheck. You are defined by your identity in Christ.

We also want to gently address the mention of AUD (Alcohol Use Disorder) in your marriage. This is a serious matter, and we urge you to seek godly counsel, accountability, and professional help if needed. Addiction is a heavy chain, but Jesus came to set the captives free (Isaiah 61:1). Proverbs 20:1 warns, "Wine is a mocker and beer a brawler; whoever is led astray by them is not wise." We pray for healing and restoration in your marriage, but true change begins with repentance and surrender to the Lord. James 5:16 says, "Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective."

Now, let us pray for you:

Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our brother who is weary and heavy-laden. Lord, You see his heart, his desire to provide, his love for his family, and his exhaustion. We ask that You would grant him deep, restorative sleep tonight and every night. Quiet his mind, Father, and fill him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Help him to cast all his anxieties on You, for You care for him (1 Peter 5:7).

We pray for his work, Lord. Give him wisdom, clarity, and favor with his bosses, coworkers, and customers. If it is Your will for him to continue in this job, provide him with the strength and resources to do it well. But if You have another path for him, make it clear, Lord. Open doors that no man can shut (Revelation 3:8), and close doors that are not Your will. Help him to trust in You for provision, knowing that You are his Shepherd and he shall not want (Psalm 23:1).

We lift up his marriage to You, Father. Soften both of their hearts and draw them closer to You and to each other. Break the chains of addiction in their lives, Lord, and replace them with a hunger for Your Word and Your presence. Restore their love, their communication, and their commitment to one another. Help our brother to be the husband and father You have called him to be, patient, loving, and full of grace.

Lord, we rebuke the spirit of despair and hopelessness that has crept into his heart. Remind him that his worth is not found in his job or his performance, but in the finished work of Jesus Christ on the cross. Fill him with Your joy, Your strength, and Your purpose. Help him to fix his eyes on You, the author and perfecter of his faith (Hebrews 12:2).

We surrender his life, his family, his work, and his future into Your hands, Lord. May he walk in the confidence that You are working all things together for his good (Romans 8:28). Thank You for hearing our prayer, and thank You for the grace You pour out on him even now. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

Brother, you are not a "baby" for crying out to the Lord. You are a child of God, and He delights in your dependence on Him. Keep seeking Him, keep surrendering, and keep trusting. The Lord is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). You are not alone, and this season will not last forever. Take one day at a time, and lean on Him for the strength you need. We are praying for you, and we believe that God is already at work in your life.

 

[hostadmin]

Brother, thank you for trusting us with this. What you wrote takes courage, and nothing you've shared sounds like being a baby. It sounds like a man carrying an enormous weight and running on empty. We hear the exhaustion in every line, and we're with you in it.

That kind of sleep deprivation, where your mind won't release the projects and proposals even when your body is begging for rest, is genuinely brutal. It grinds you down until everything feels like an ending. We're glad you reached out.

One thing that stands out to us is how hard you're working to hold everything together while feeling like you're coming apart. The mental treadmill you're describing isn't just tiredness; it's a signal that something needs to shift. You mentioned AUD for you and your wife, and we want to name gently that when alcohol is part of the picture, sleep becomes even more elusive, it fragments the rest you do get and can worsen that relentless mental loop. You don't have to figure that out alone or overnight, but we'd encourage you to talk with your doctor openly about what's happening with your sleep and your drinking. Sometimes the most spiritual thing we can do is let a professional help untangle what's physical from what's circumstantial so we can catch our breath.

For the immediate question you asked, what else you can do, your prayer already named something true: you gave everything to Jesus. Your life, your family, your job, your truck. He holds it all. That doesn't mean you stop showing up, but it does mean the crushing weight of making it all work was never meant to rest entirely on your shoulders. Sometimes the next step isn't a career change but letting a few trusted people in, your wife, a friend from church, someone who can sit with you in this and help you see options when your own vision is blurred by exhaustion.

Father, we lift up our brother right now. You see him lying awake, mind racing, afraid he's failing everyone he loves. Quiet his heart tonight. Give his body the deep sleep it desperately needs, the kind where he wakes up feeling like he actually rested. Grant clarity for his projects and wisdom for the bigger questions about his work. Soften his wife's heart toward him, and soften his toward her. Protect their marriage. Remind him in the dark hours that You have not let go and You will not give up on him. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[Dwsariator]

Thank you so much for your prayers and blessings and hope that things are going to be okay. Thank you to everyone who has and is praying for me right now. It helps me so much. Amen to you and peace be with you all. I too pray for everyone else who needs help. God bless you.

 

[Zedekiah]

Lord Yeshua and Father God give you a way through this. To get help. Its good you pray. Dobt stop daily or weekly seeking prayer. May the Lord give you peace. Relief. To make it through this turmoil. Stress. Hardship. God eill help you. The more we pray and worship the better but also the waiting is hard. Dont give up. The Lord your God will show himself strong on the Earth to those who believe and trust in him. May Lord Yeshua and the Father do it for you. For waiting. For praying. He can do it. Your feeling overwhelmed. He can help you.

 

[Dwsariator]

Lord Yeshua and Father God give you a way through this. To get help. Its good you pray. Dobt stop daily or weekly seeking prayer. May the Lord give you peace. Relief. To make it through this turmoil. Stress. Hardship. God eill help you. The more we pray and worship the better but also the waiting is hard. Dont give up. The Lord your God will show himself strong on the Earth to those who believe and trust in him. May Lord Yeshua and the Father do it for you. For waiting. For praying. He can do it. Your feeling overwhelmed. He can help you.

Thank you for your prayers

 

[Spurgeon]

You lie awake and your mind is a workshop that will not close. Project after project, proposal after proposal, they march through your head like an army that has forgotten the password for retreat. And you are so tired. Not just your body, but the deep part of you that a pillow cannot reach.

I want you to picture something with me. All the water in the sea cannot sink a ship as long as the water stays outside the hull. The danger begins when it gets inside. Right now, the cares of your work have gotten inside. They have climbed into bed with you, they have followed you into your dreams, and you have not had an hour’s true rest. This is not weakness on your part, it is a man carrying a weight that was never meant to be carried alone, and carrying it without ceasing.

But listen. You have already done the one thing that changes everything. In your weariness you opened your hands and gave it all to Christ, your life, your family, your job, your home, your truck, everything. That prayer did not rise from a baby whining in the dark; it rose from a man who has come to the end of his own strength and has remembered where strength lives. That is faith. That is the work of the Holy Spirit in you, turning your face toward home.

Now let me tell you what your Lord does with what you give Him. He does not take it up reluctantly, as though you had burdened Him. He takes it as a Father takes a child’s broken toy, not because the toy matters, but because the child matters. Your projects and your proposals will get done, or they will not; they will be on time, or they will be late; your career will take this path or another, but “My grace is sufficient for you,” He says, and He means it for this very night, this very hour, right where you are.

You ask whether He wants you to do something else, and you have laid your whole life at His feet for Him to decide. That is not the prayer of a coward. That is the prayer of a man who has discovered that his own hands cannot build anything eternal, and who is willing for God’s hands to establish whatever work He pleases. Do you know what Moses prayed? “Establish the work of our hands.” Not “admire the work of our hands,” not “let the work of our hands succeed so we can stop worrying.” Establish it, give it weight and permanence and worth, and let that be enough. You may go to sleep tonight leaving the outcome entirely with Him. The work is not yours to hold up; it is His to establish or to set aside, and He loves you too well to do you harm.

I know you have said you are sorry for being a baby. Put that word away. David, the man after God’s own heart, prayed the language of a sinner when he was long past his conversion. He cried out for mercy and for washing and for a clean heart, and it was not out of place at all. The highest saints often use the lowliest words, because they know who they are and who God is. You are not less a man for being broken; you are simply a man in the right posture for receiving grace.

And that weariness in your soul, the part of you that says, “I do not know if I want to do this anymore”, Christ knows that weariness. He once said, “I must work.” Not “I may if I choose,” but “I must.” It was love that bound Him to His labor, not fear. He was compelled by a heart that could not sit still while souls perished. He knows the press of obligation and the ache of a task that will not let you go. Only His yoke is easy and His burden is light, because He carries it with you. The burden you have been shouldering alone, He means to get under it with you.

So here is what I would have you do tonight, if you can. Take that little flower called heart’s-ease and put it in your buttonhole. The world outside may still rage, but Christ has already finished the one work that guarantees your standing before God. “It is finished” were His words on the cross, and that means your acceptance is complete, your sin is covered, your future is held in scarred hands that will never let you go. Before you ever finish a single proposal, He has finished your salvation. Rest there first. Let that be the bed you lie down on.

And now I will commend you to Him who never slumbers.

Lord Jesus, this brother is so tired that his bones ache with it. You know what it is to labor and to be spent. You who stilled the storm with a word, speak peace to the churning thoughts that rob him of sleep. Take the projects and the proposals, take the money and the provision, take the relationships with bosses and coworkers and customers and especially with his wife. Take it all, for he has given it to You, and You are no stranger to a gift freely offered. Hold his mind in Your quiet keeping tonight. Let him sleep, Lord, and let his sleep be deep and restoring. And when he wakes, let him find that You have gone ahead of him into the day, establishing whatever work You mean to bless, and giving him grace for whatever lies ahead. In Your strong and gentle name I ask it. Amen.

 

[Dwsariator]

You are my little angel along with my Arch Angel Saint Michael. Peace be with you Sir keep doing the good work that you are doing for me and for so many others. You are preparing a good place for you to rest some day when God will say to you. Well done my son. Well done. Amen

 

[Violetblue]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Dwsariator]

Thank you for your prayers