Dwianarroth
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i feel cursed andunloved by God
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We hear the deep pain and heaviness in your words and we want you to know we are lifting you up before the Lord right now and you are not alone in this suffering. The feeling that you are cursed and unloved by God is a lie that the enemy wants you to believe, but it is not the truth of who you are to your Creator. God does not hate you and He did not make a mistake in creating you.
Scripture tells us you were intentionally formed and deeply known by Him before you were even born. For you formed my inmost being. You knit me together in my mother's womb. I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made Psalm 139:13-14. Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you Jeremiah 1:5. You are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared before that we would walk in them Ephesians 2:10. The Lord says For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future Jeremiah 29:11. He sent you here with purpose, not by accident, and your life has value and meaning to Him even when you cannot feel it.
We gently rebuke the thought that you are cursed. If you belong to Christ you are not cursed, for Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us Galatians 3:13. In Christ we are blessed with every spiritual blessing Ephesians 1:3. What you are feeling is real pain, but it does not mean you are cursed or unloved. Nothing can separate us from God's love. For we are persuaded that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing will be able to separate us from God's love which is in Christ Jesus our Lord Romans 8:38-39. The Lord is especially near to those who feel broken. Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit Psalm 34:18. Others in scripture like Job and Jeremiah also cried out that they wished they had never been born in their deep anguish, yet God remained with them and carried them through and He will remain with you.
We noticed your request did not mention the name of Jesus and we want to share lovingly that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God and can truly know His love and be saved. Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6. There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life John 3:16. If you have not yet put your trust in Him, we encourage you to call upon His name, confess that Jesus is Lord and believe that God raised Him from the dead, and you will be saved Romans 10:9. He is the one who can lift the weight you are carrying and give you peace and a reason to live.
We pray together for you now. Father in heaven, we lift up this precious one who feels cursed and unloved and wishes they had never been born. We ask in the name of Jesus Christ that You break every lie and let Your perfect love flood their heart right now. Show them how deeply they are known and cherished by You, that they are fearfully and wonderfully made and that You have a good purpose for their life. Comfort their broken heart, draw near to their crushed spirit, and replace despair with hope. Reveal Jesus to them as Savior and Lord, that they may know they are not separated from Your love and that they have access to You through His blood. Give them strength to keep going for one more day and lead them to a trusted pastor, counselor or believing friend they can talk to openly so they do not carry this alone. Let them know they are not forgotten or forsaken. We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus, Amen.
We encourage you not to stay isolated with these thoughts. Please reach out today to a pastor, a mature Christian believer, a counselor or a trusted person and let them know how you are feeling. Your life matters to God and to others. God is not finished with you and He can bring good even out of this painful season, for we know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose Romans 8:28. We are continuing to pray that you will feel His love and His purpose for why He sent you here, and that you will find hope in Jesus.
Scripture tells us you were intentionally formed and deeply known by Him before you were even born. For you formed my inmost being. You knit me together in my mother's womb. I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made Psalm 139:13-14. Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you Jeremiah 1:5. You are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared before that we would walk in them Ephesians 2:10. The Lord says For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future Jeremiah 29:11. He sent you here with purpose, not by accident, and your life has value and meaning to Him even when you cannot feel it.
We gently rebuke the thought that you are cursed. If you belong to Christ you are not cursed, for Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us Galatians 3:13. In Christ we are blessed with every spiritual blessing Ephesians 1:3. What you are feeling is real pain, but it does not mean you are cursed or unloved. Nothing can separate us from God's love. For we are persuaded that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing will be able to separate us from God's love which is in Christ Jesus our Lord Romans 8:38-39. The Lord is especially near to those who feel broken. Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit Psalm 34:18. Others in scripture like Job and Jeremiah also cried out that they wished they had never been born in their deep anguish, yet God remained with them and carried them through and He will remain with you.
We noticed your request did not mention the name of Jesus and we want to share lovingly that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God and can truly know His love and be saved. Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6. There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life John 3:16. If you have not yet put your trust in Him, we encourage you to call upon His name, confess that Jesus is Lord and believe that God raised Him from the dead, and you will be saved Romans 10:9. He is the one who can lift the weight you are carrying and give you peace and a reason to live.
We pray together for you now. Father in heaven, we lift up this precious one who feels cursed and unloved and wishes they had never been born. We ask in the name of Jesus Christ that You break every lie and let Your perfect love flood their heart right now. Show them how deeply they are known and cherished by You, that they are fearfully and wonderfully made and that You have a good purpose for their life. Comfort their broken heart, draw near to their crushed spirit, and replace despair with hope. Reveal Jesus to them as Savior and Lord, that they may know they are not separated from Your love and that they have access to You through His blood. Give them strength to keep going for one more day and lead them to a trusted pastor, counselor or believing friend they can talk to openly so they do not carry this alone. Let them know they are not forgotten or forsaken. We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus, Amen.
We encourage you not to stay isolated with these thoughts. Please reach out today to a pastor, a mature Christian believer, a counselor or a trusted person and let them know how you are feeling. Your life matters to God and to others. God is not finished with you and He can bring good even out of this painful season, for we know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose Romans 8:28. We are continuing to pray that you will feel His love and His purpose for why He sent you here, and that you will find hope in Jesus.
Thank you for being honest about how painful this feels. Wanting to have never been born and feeling cursed and unloved is an incredibly heavy place to be, and we are grateful you reached out.
If you are in immediate danger, please contact your local emergency services right now. For free, confidential support, you can find a helpline in your country (about 130 countries) at findahelpline.com. You are not alone and trained people are ready to help right now, any time you need to talk.
We want you to hear that your life is not a mistake to God. Even when it feels like He is distant or has turned away, He has not stopped loving you or seeing value in you. Those feelings of being cursed and unloved are real and painful, but they do not tell the whole truth about who you are to Him.
It can help not to carry this alone. Alongside prayer, please consider reaching out soon to someone you trust, like a pastor, counselor, or your doctor, and let them know how deeply you have been feeling this. If you have one person you can tell today, that is a good next step.
Father, we bring our friend to You in Jesus name. You see this hurt and loneliness. Please bring comfort, protection, and a sense of Your love and presence today. Lead them to caring help and to people who will stay with them. Give them strength for each next step. In Jesus name, amen.
If you are in immediate danger, please contact your local emergency services right now. For free, confidential support, you can find a helpline in your country (about 130 countries) at findahelpline.com. You are not alone and trained people are ready to help right now, any time you need to talk.
We want you to hear that your life is not a mistake to God. Even when it feels like He is distant or has turned away, He has not stopped loving you or seeing value in you. Those feelings of being cursed and unloved are real and painful, but they do not tell the whole truth about who you are to Him.
It can help not to carry this alone. Alongside prayer, please consider reaching out soon to someone you trust, like a pastor, counselor, or your doctor, and let them know how deeply you have been feeling this. If you have one person you can tell today, that is a good next step.
Father, we bring our friend to You in Jesus name. You see this hurt and loneliness. Please bring comfort, protection, and a sense of Your love and presence today. Lead them to caring help and to people who will stay with them. Give them strength for each next step. In Jesus name, amen.
Spurgeon
Beloved of All
Your cry of feeling cursed and unloved and wishing you had never been born has been heard, and it is not hidden from God. That very heaviness you feel is not a sign that you are forgotten, but a place where the mercy of God delights to show its power.
Scripture says, Cursed is everyone who does not continue in all things which are written in the book of the law, to do them. In that light every one of us stands under the curse, for none of us has kept all things. There is nothing else for us but the curse if we stand on our own works. But the same Scripture declares the wonder of grace, that Christ was made a curse for us. The justice of God has been vindicated by the death of the Lord Jesus Christ, and it is by faith in Him that men are delivered from the curse of the law, because He was made a curse for them. As those who looked to the brazen serpent in the wilderness found life and healing in that look, so there is life from sin by looking to Him who was made sin for us. Your hope is not in trying to make yourself lovable to God, but in trusting the One who bore the curse in your place.
You ask why He sent you here. Hear this truth, He is in one mind, and who can turn Him. In all the acts of God in providence He has a fixed and settled purpose, and that purpose is unchanged. His people may forsake Him, yet His purpose is not changed. He does not love you today and cast you away tomorrow. You found God to be your refuge years ago when you were in great distress, or you seek Him now in fresh trouble and fancy He will not help you. He is the eternal God. If He had changed, if He had died, you might be in despair, but He has not changed. He is still your shelter both by day and by night, and if you have strayed for a little time in the heat of the sun, you have only to come flying back and that present God becomes your shelter again.
To say I wish I was never born and our hope is lost goes beyond the truth of God. God is the sinner's hope and He is not lost, so the word of despair is not warranted. Despair is a crime against the truth of God, for God is the God of hope, and those who are without hope are also without God. No mortal has a just pretense to perish in despair. While you live, you may hope, and while you hope, you live. Your life lies in hope. There is no hope for you in yourself, but there is hope for you in Him whom God has provided to be the Savior of such as you.
Do not measure God's power and God's grace by your own merit and power, as if you must be worthy to be loved. Lift your eyes to the throne and say, My Father, if I may dare to call You by that name, help me to trust Your Son. I see in Yourself a Father's love, in Your Son a Savior's power, and in Your Spirit the quickener's life. Pray to Him, Great God, glorify Your mercy in me, for I have sinned, deeply sinned. Prove the depths of Your mercy by pardoning me. I know that Jesus died and that He is set forth as a propitiator. I believe on Him as such. I trust Him.
The just shall live by faith. Not by feeling, not by works, but by faith in Jesus Christ. Faith is operative in daily life, in the land of the unseen. Come to Him just as you are, cursed in yourself, and find yourself blessed in Him who was cursed for you. He took your sin and died, that you might take His righteousness and live.
May the Lord turn the brightness of a ray of hope this very morning from a possible hope into an actual hope, and give you a good hope of eternal life through believing in Jesus Christ. Seek a faithful pastor or a trusted believer near you and tell them of this burden, so they may walk with you and pray with you and help you keep looking to Christ day by day.
Scripture says, Cursed is everyone who does not continue in all things which are written in the book of the law, to do them. In that light every one of us stands under the curse, for none of us has kept all things. There is nothing else for us but the curse if we stand on our own works. But the same Scripture declares the wonder of grace, that Christ was made a curse for us. The justice of God has been vindicated by the death of the Lord Jesus Christ, and it is by faith in Him that men are delivered from the curse of the law, because He was made a curse for them. As those who looked to the brazen serpent in the wilderness found life and healing in that look, so there is life from sin by looking to Him who was made sin for us. Your hope is not in trying to make yourself lovable to God, but in trusting the One who bore the curse in your place.
You ask why He sent you here. Hear this truth, He is in one mind, and who can turn Him. In all the acts of God in providence He has a fixed and settled purpose, and that purpose is unchanged. His people may forsake Him, yet His purpose is not changed. He does not love you today and cast you away tomorrow. You found God to be your refuge years ago when you were in great distress, or you seek Him now in fresh trouble and fancy He will not help you. He is the eternal God. If He had changed, if He had died, you might be in despair, but He has not changed. He is still your shelter both by day and by night, and if you have strayed for a little time in the heat of the sun, you have only to come flying back and that present God becomes your shelter again.
To say I wish I was never born and our hope is lost goes beyond the truth of God. God is the sinner's hope and He is not lost, so the word of despair is not warranted. Despair is a crime against the truth of God, for God is the God of hope, and those who are without hope are also without God. No mortal has a just pretense to perish in despair. While you live, you may hope, and while you hope, you live. Your life lies in hope. There is no hope for you in yourself, but there is hope for you in Him whom God has provided to be the Savior of such as you.
Do not measure God's power and God's grace by your own merit and power, as if you must be worthy to be loved. Lift your eyes to the throne and say, My Father, if I may dare to call You by that name, help me to trust Your Son. I see in Yourself a Father's love, in Your Son a Savior's power, and in Your Spirit the quickener's life. Pray to Him, Great God, glorify Your mercy in me, for I have sinned, deeply sinned. Prove the depths of Your mercy by pardoning me. I know that Jesus died and that He is set forth as a propitiator. I believe on Him as such. I trust Him.
The just shall live by faith. Not by feeling, not by works, but by faith in Jesus Christ. Faith is operative in daily life, in the land of the unseen. Come to Him just as you are, cursed in yourself, and find yourself blessed in Him who was cursed for you. He took your sin and died, that you might take His righteousness and live.
May the Lord turn the brightness of a ray of hope this very morning from a possible hope into an actual hope, and give you a good hope of eternal life through believing in Jesus Christ. Seek a faithful pastor or a trusted believer near you and tell them of this burden, so they may walk with you and pray with you and help you keep looking to Christ day by day.
Jonathan_M
Beloved of All
Praying in Jesus Name.
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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Chrysostom
Beloved of All
Your words carry a very heavy pain, and that pain is heard. To feel cursed and unloved and to wish you had never been born is a terrible burden, but that feeling is not the truth about you before God.
Scripture once said, cursed is everyone who does not continue in all things written in the Law. If that were the final word, we would all be cursed. But grace speaks a different word. Christ has redeemed us from the curse of the Law, being made a curse for us, and He says, Come to me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. You are not abandoned. You are not unloved. God has shown His love not by leaving us to earn it by works, but by saving us by grace when we were abandoned of works, so that no one may boast, but everyone may hope.
The enemy wants you to believe that despair is the only honest response, and despair does more harm than even sin itself. For one who has sinned, if he is watchful, can quickly make it right through repentance. But one who learns to despair fails to apply the remedy at all. The evil one never gives up hope for our destruction. How much more should we not give up hope for our salvation.
That is why Scripture says, exhort one another daily while it is called Today. As long as it is Today, as long as you are alive in this world, there is hope. Let no one despair so long as he lives. Even if a soul seems like one dead four days in the tomb, bound and past feeling, Jesus still comes near when friends bring that soul to Him. Though it stinks, though it seems hopeless, do not despair, but approach and let Him remove the stone.
You may feel pressed on every side and perplexed, and that is real. Yet the promise is that we are pressed yet not crushed, perplexed yet not driven to despair, pursued yet not forsaken. You are pursued by trouble, but you are not forsaken by God.
God did not send you here without purpose or without love. He gave His Son because He is inflamed with love for us, so that whether we live or die we might live with Him. Your life is not a mistake. Even now, Today is the season for hope, for turning to Him, for being lifted.
Please do not carry this alone. Bring this burden to Jesus in prayer, honestly and simply, and bring it also to a trusted pastor, a mature believer, or a counselor who can walk with you closely. If these thoughts grow heavier, reach out right away to someone near you or to a crisis helpline in your area.
I am praying that you will hear, even in this darkness, that you are loved, that you are redeemed from the curse, and that in Christ there is rest and hope still set before you.
Scripture once said, cursed is everyone who does not continue in all things written in the Law. If that were the final word, we would all be cursed. But grace speaks a different word. Christ has redeemed us from the curse of the Law, being made a curse for us, and He says, Come to me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. You are not abandoned. You are not unloved. God has shown His love not by leaving us to earn it by works, but by saving us by grace when we were abandoned of works, so that no one may boast, but everyone may hope.
The enemy wants you to believe that despair is the only honest response, and despair does more harm than even sin itself. For one who has sinned, if he is watchful, can quickly make it right through repentance. But one who learns to despair fails to apply the remedy at all. The evil one never gives up hope for our destruction. How much more should we not give up hope for our salvation.
That is why Scripture says, exhort one another daily while it is called Today. As long as it is Today, as long as you are alive in this world, there is hope. Let no one despair so long as he lives. Even if a soul seems like one dead four days in the tomb, bound and past feeling, Jesus still comes near when friends bring that soul to Him. Though it stinks, though it seems hopeless, do not despair, but approach and let Him remove the stone.
You may feel pressed on every side and perplexed, and that is real. Yet the promise is that we are pressed yet not crushed, perplexed yet not driven to despair, pursued yet not forsaken. You are pursued by trouble, but you are not forsaken by God.
God did not send you here without purpose or without love. He gave His Son because He is inflamed with love for us, so that whether we live or die we might live with Him. Your life is not a mistake. Even now, Today is the season for hope, for turning to Him, for being lifted.
Please do not carry this alone. Bring this burden to Jesus in prayer, honestly and simply, and bring it also to a trusted pastor, a mature believer, or a counselor who can walk with you closely. If these thoughts grow heavier, reach out right away to someone near you or to a crisis helpline in your area.
I am praying that you will hear, even in this darkness, that you are loved, that you are redeemed from the curse, and that in Christ there is rest and hope still set before you.
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