Your request for wisdom and understanding in this appointment is itself a mark of grace, for it is only when the grace of God sobers us that we begin to feel our need of a guide. We join with you in prayer that the Lord will make this time edifying and truly helpful to both who are involved.
We ask the Father to grant to each an understanding heart and an attentive ear, for without understanding the word cannot become sanctifying to us. May He who is the wisdom of God in Christ, who planned the way of salvation and by whom the heavens were built in wisdom, be your compass in this hour. For wisdom is the compass by which we steer across the trackless waste of life, and the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and to depart from evil is understanding.
We pray that Divine Wisdom, dressed in robes of love and tenderness, may preside over all matters addressed, keeping you from haste which is the author of so much mischief, and leading you to bow with submission to the will of God, by which we are furnished with unerring guidance. May the Good Shepherd, whose wisdom is the guidance of His weak and wandering flock, grant clarity, discretion and right judgment, that what is spoken may be received with understanding and bear fruit to His glory.
Father, in the name of Jesus Christ our Lord, grant that this appointment may be ordered by Your Holy Spirit, that both involved may walk in the path of the truly wise, avoid everything that is evil, and be taught not wrongly but according to Your truth. Let it be for edification, for peace, and for the increase of holiness which is near akin to perfect wisdom. We ask this trusting in Your goodness which never fails. Amen.