Marriage

What To Do When Your Spouse Files For Divorce

If your spouse files for divorce, you might feel lost and confused, not knowing what to do. You might be devastated, angry, or overwhelmed by emotions.

Maybe you’re even questioning, “Why should I even try to save my marriage?”

The majority of people we work with are people whose spouse filed for divorce and it seems like all hope is gone. So if you’re in that situation, saying, “But isn’t divorce, the end?”

The answer is it’s...

 

3 Step Plan To Get Your Ex Back

If you want to know what you can do to get your ex back, then this is for you. Whether you’re separated or divorced, I’m going to teach you a three-step formula you can follow in order to do the best things you can do to get your ex back.

Even if you’re not married, these principles still apply. However, I’m specifically talking to those who are in a married relationship.

We are passionate about saving marriages, and we believe that marriages can (and...

 

3 Steps To Really Understand Your Wife

If you really want to understand your wife better than you do now—or if you want your husband to better understand you than the way he does now—there are three steps that men need to take.

To start, there’s a difference in the way that men and women think in general. Now, it can get more complicated because the way people think, react, or feel also depends not just on gender, but on different personality types… and all those kinds of...

 

7 Signs NO CONTACT Is Ruining Your Life



If you’ve been trying NO CONTACT and feel stuck, confused, or don’t even know what to do next this is for you.

First of all, No Contact is not the best thing that you should do for your marriage. More times than not, it’s going to ruin your chances of saving your marriage. And even more than that, it’s probably ruining you.

Because of this, I want to share with you seven ways No Contact is actually ruining your life.

If any of...

 

How The Loss Of A Loved One Affects A Marriage

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My wife and I founded ###, a grief recovery ministry. We work with thousands of people devastated by loss. We work with many couples who experienced the devastating loss of a child and we work with couples where one spouse lost someone in their family. And what we discovered in working with thousands of couples who are grieving is experiencing a loss of a loved one together affects a marriage. It can create quite a...

 

3 Ways To End An Affair



If you’re currently in an affair, or if you know somebody who is, these three things will be extremely important to you.



If you are in an affair and deeply, emotionally connected to the other person, these three things still work if you do them.

You might be thinking, “I’m not sure I want out of the affair.” If you’re trying to make that decision, we can help. Get specific help on deciding to end an affair with the Affair Toolkit...

 

The TRUTH About “No Contact”

So, you stopped contacting your spouse. And now you’re trying this thing called “No Contact” to try and get your spouse back. You’re trying it to get them to see what they’re missing. You hope that they’ll want you back and that they will come crawling back to you… Or at least, that’s what you’ve heard.

You’re spending so much time trying to understand “No Contact.” “What are they thinking right now?” Or, “How do I know that No Contact is...

 

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Where do we get our notions of what sex is like? One place is screen sex—movies, TV, videos that show couples engaged in hot and heavy lovemaking.

But screen sex is pretend sex. It involves special lighting, camera angles, makeup and wardrobe, choreography, and acting. If we get theidea that sex is like what we see on a screen, we can feel like we’re missing out or that something is wrong with us when sex doesn’t happen that way.

Let’s talk about 7 reasons in which screen sex is not like...

 

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