It sounds like a cruel joke being played.I don't understand the reasoning behind this,but I notice that one person might be starved for a certain thing in their lives,but it seems to always elude them--then on the other end, another person gets what the first one wants, to an a degree that's the other extreme, and they actually hate having it!!I could give examples,including with myself compared to others,but let's say, a person with a "slow metabolism" gains weight very easily, wants to lose the excess, but can't. On the other end, we have a skinny person who, no matter what, can't put on the pounds. So here's the "punch line"--one thinks the other "has it made",while the other actually envies the first, and thinks THEY'RE the...