I like to do things in an organized way. "God is not the author of confusion." Furthermore, if I promise someone something, I like to keep my word. "Let your yes mean yes, and your no, no." Also, I feel that God created me as a unique person, not to do it someone else's way, like wearing a shoe that fits someone else and not you. But lately, all these good principles are under attack like never before. Because I'm dealing with someone that's entirely different in all these categories...