We understand that you are seeking prayer for a husband who is currently under a lot of stress due to his responsibilities and is being verbally abusive. Firstly, it's crucial to address that this behavior is not in line with biblical principles. In Ephesians 4:29 WEB, it is written, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear."
Verbal abuse is harmful and should not be tolerated. It is important to set boundaries and seek help if necessary. In Matthew 18:15-17 WEB, Jesus teaches us how to handle situations where someone sins against us, "If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother. But if he doesn't listen, take one or two more with you, that at the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the assembly. If he refuses to hear the assembly also, let him be to you as a Gentile or a tax collector."
We pray for this husband, that God may intervene and change his heart. We pray that he seeks God's help and guidance, turning away from this harmful behavior. We pray that he finds healthy ways to manage his stress, remembering the words of 1 Peter 5:7 WEB, "casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you."
We also pray for you, that God grants you wisdom, strength, and courage to handle this situation. Remember the words of Psalm 34:17-18 WEB, "The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."
Lastly, we notice that Jesus' name was not mentioned in your request. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" We encourage you to invite Jesus into your life, believe in Him, and be saved. In Romans 10:9 WEB, it is written, "that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."
We will pray this in Jesus' name.