We hear your cry for justice and provision, dear sister, and we stand with you in prayer before the throne of God, who sees every injustice and holds the hearts of all men in His hands. The situation you describe is deeply troubling, not only the financial burden but the hardness of heart and deceit being shown toward you. We lift this matter to the Lord with urgency, knowing that He is a God of righteousness and restoration.
First, we must address the foundation of this relationship. Scripture is clear that intimacy outside of marriage is not God’s design. The Bible calls it fornication, and while we do not condemn you, we must gently remind you that God’s best for His children is purity and holiness. "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s" (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). We encourage you to examine your heart and surrender any past mistakes to the Lord, trusting in His forgiveness and grace. He is faithful to cleanse and restore.
Now, regarding the money owed to you, this is a matter of justice, and God cares deeply about justice. The Lord says in Proverbs 22:22-23, "Don’t exploit the poor because he is poor; and don’t crush the needy in court; for the Lord will plead their case, and plunder the life of those who plunder them." Your ex-boyfriend’s refusal to repay what he owes is not just a financial issue; it is a moral one. We rebuke the spirit of greed, deceit, and hardness of heart that is operating in him. We declare that the Lord will soften his heart, convict his conscience, and move upon him to do what is right. "The king’s heart is in the Lord’s hand like the watercourses. He turns it wherever he desires" (Proverbs 21:1). We pray that the Lord would turn his heart toward repentance and restitution.
We also pray for wisdom and protection over you and your children. The enemy would love to see you overwhelmed by fear, anxiety, or bitterness, but we declare that you will not be shaken. "Cast your burden on the Lord, and he will sustain you. He will never allow the righteous to be moved" (Psalm 55:22). We pray that God would open doors for provision in ways you cannot imagine, whether through legal means, unexpected blessings, or divine intervention. The Lord is your Provider, and He knows your needs before you even ask (Matthew 6:8). We stand on His promise in Philippians 4:19: "My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus."
Let us pray together now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the Name above all names, the only Name by which we can be saved and the only Name by which we have access to You. Lord, we lift up this sister and her children to You. You see her need, her pain, and her urgency. You are a God who hears the cries of the oppressed and the fatherless, and we ask that You would move mightily on her behalf.
Lord, we ask that You would break the hardness of heart in her ex-boyfriend. Soften him, convict him, and lead him to repentance. Let him see the error of his ways and move him to repay what he owes. We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against her in judgment, You will condemn (Isaiah 54:17). We rebuke the spirit of delay and deception in this situation, and we command justice to flow like a river in Jesus’ name.
Father, we ask for Your provision to cover her medical procedures and the needs of her children. Open doors that no man can shut, and provide in ways that only You can. Give her peace that surpasses all understanding, guarding her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Strengthen her faith and remind her that You are her Jehovah Jireh, her Provider.
We also pray for her spiritual growth and protection. Guard her heart from bitterness, resentment, or fear. Fill her with Your love, joy, and peace. Help her to walk in holiness and to seek Your will for her future, including godly relationships that honor You. If she is not yet married, we pray that You would prepare her for a husband who loves You and will cherish her as Christ cherishes the Church.
Lord, we thank You for hearing our prayer. We trust in Your perfect timing and Your unfailing love. May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified. In Jesus’ mighty name we pray, Amen.
In the meantime, we encourage you to seek godly counsel, whether through your church, a trusted pastor, or even legal advice if necessary. The Bible says in Proverbs 15:22, "Where there is no counsel, plans fail; but in a multitude of counselors they are established." Do not try to carry this burden alone. The Lord often works through His people to bring about justice and provision.
We also encourage you to continue seeking the Lord in prayer and in His Word. Spend time in His presence, pouring out your heart to Him. He is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Let your faith be anchored in Him, knowing that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).
Lastly, we want to remind you of the hope found only in Jesus Christ. If you have not already, we encourage you to surrender your life fully to Him. He is the Way, the Truth, and the Life, and no one comes to the Father except through Him (John 14:6). Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not confessed Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we invite you to do so today. Repent of your sins, believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord (Romans 10:9-10). He will forgive you, cleanse you, and give you a new life in Him.
You are not alone, dear sister. We stand with you in faith, believing that God will move on your behalf. Keep trusting Him, and watch how He works all things together for your good.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. 
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