Thoughts

[Anonymous]

My thoughts are very intrusive and i rly cant control them and it is rly affecting my relationship with God It rly distracts me and i rly feel like im drifting away from God I rly dun want to but i rly cant control these thoughts I tried distracting it by singing more worship songs but it comes back

 

[Articles]

We hear the heaviness in your heart and we want you to know you are not alone in this struggle, and you have not drifted beyond the reach of our loving Father. Intrusive thoughts can feel overwhelming and even frightening, especially when you love God and long to stay close to Him. We want to gently rebuke the lie that these unwanted thoughts mean God has left you or that you are failing Him beyond repair. That is not the truth of who He is or how He sees you.

God knows our minds completely and He understands the battle that takes place there. His Word tells us that we are in a spiritual battle and that we are to be bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ, 2 Corinthians 10:5. This shows us that thoughts will come that need to be taken captive, they are not always a reflection of our true heart or our will. We are also taught not to be conformed to this world, but to be transformed by the renewing of our minds, Romans 12:2, and to think about whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, Philippians 4:8. Your desire to sing worship songs is beautiful and honoring to God, yet we understand how discouraging it is when the thoughts return. Distraction alone is often not enough, God calls us to replace the intrusive thoughts with His truth, to actively renew our minds with Scripture, to pray honestly about what we are experiencing, and to resist the enemy.

We also notice you speak of your relationship with God but you do not mention Jesus, and we want to lovingly share that it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father and peace with Him. Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me, John 14:6. There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved, Acts 4:12. If you have not already, we encourage you to place your full trust in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, believing He died for your sins and rose again, and to come to God in His name. It is in Jesus that we have forgiveness, cleansing, and the promise that nothing will be able to separate us from God’s love, Romans 8:38-39.

We encourage you to bring these thoughts into the light with God without shame, for He is near to those who have a broken heart, Psalm 34:18. You can pray honestly, Search me, God, and know my heart. Try me, and know my thoughts. See if there is any wicked way in me, and lead me in the everlasting way, Psalm 139:23-24. Memorize and speak Scripture aloud when the thoughts intrude, stay in the Word daily even when your feelings are distant, and consider sharing this struggle with a mature Christian believer or pastor who can pray with you and walk with you consistently. We are called to resist the devil and he will flee from you, James 4:7, and God promises He will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you, Isaiah 26:3.

We pray together for you now.

Father in heaven, we lift up this dear one to You in the name of Jesus Christ. You see the intrusive thoughts that feel uncontrollable and the distress they cause. We ask You to bring Your perfect peace over this mind and heart. Help us to take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ and to renew our minds with Your truth. Replace fear and confusion with Your presence, Your promises, and Your love. Draw this dear one close and give assurance that nothing can separate us from Your love in Christ Jesus. Strengthen faith to trust not in feelings but in Your unchanging Word, and lead us in worship and in the Word that honors You. Fill us with Your Holy Spirit and keep us in perfect peace as our minds stay on You. We ask all this in the precious and powerful name of Jesus, our only hope and Savior, Amen.

We encourage you to keep seeking Him, even in the moments the thoughts feel loudest. God is faithful and He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear, and with the temptation He will also make the way of escape, 1 Corinthians 10:13. Keep coming to Him through Jesus, keep feeding on His Word, and trust that He is holding you even when you feel like you are drifting.

 

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We hear how heavy this has been, wanting to stay close to God and feeling pulled away by thoughts you did not invite and cannot seem to stop. It makes sense you would feel distracted and tired, especially when you have tried to sing and worship through it and the thoughts still return. That does not mean you are failing or that God has moved away from you.

Intrusive thoughts are a common way anxiety shows up in the mind, and fighting them directly often makes them louder. We have found it helps to think of spiritual growth more like training than trying to win one moment. It is steady, small steps over time, not a single victory that fixes everything at once.

One gentle practice you could try is to notice a thought without arguing with it, briefly name it to the Lord as it is, and then turn your attention back to what you were doing. You might simply say in your heart, Lord, here is that thought again, I give it to you, and keep walking with Him in that ordinary moment. If these thoughts stay intense or keep interfering with sleep, daily life, or peace, it can be a good step to talk with a trusted pastor or counselor and also with your doctor alongside prayer.

We are praying for you.

Father, we lift our friend to You and ask for Your nearness and calm. Quiet the noise that distracts and help them to rest in Your steadiness and love. Give wisdom for each day and patient hope as You continue Your gentle work in them. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your heart's cry has been heard, and it is one that many of the true children of God have uttered in deep distress before you. You speak of a multitude of thoughts within you, intrusive and unbidden, which you cannot control and which distract you and make you fear that you are drifting away from God. Be assured, this very fear is no sign that He has cast you away. The wanderings of our thoughts toward inferior objects are a burden to gracious souls, and they are continually longing to get nearer to God.

One of the most difficult things in the spiritual life is the restraining of loose and wandering thoughts. Do not think that you are alone in this conflict, nor that your struggle proves you to be graceless. God not only watches our thoughts, but He knows our frame. And here is your comfort, that when your thoughts flag and tire and soon die, His thoughts toward you do not fail. Your thoughts of God may be poor and broken things, but His thoughts of you are precious and strong, like God Himself. They are as unbreakable cords firmly fastened to you, drawing you always nearer to Him even when you feel you are drifting. If your thoughts cannot bear you up to Him, His thoughts can bring Him down to you. How precious also are His thoughts unto you, O child of God, how great is the sum of them.

You must understand that your nearness to God does not depend upon the steadiness of your thoughts, but upon the precious blood of Jesus Christ. We never get to God by the perfection of our own musings, but by pleading that blood which has brought us nigh. Christ Himself is near to God in character and in acceptance, having finished the work given Him to do, and those who are one with Him must be near also. When you awake and find your mind still vexed, you may yet say, I am still with You, not because you have held fast to Him, but because He has held fast to you. The living God is not far from any one of us, for in Him we live and move and have our being.

Therefore do not merely seek to distract the mind, though singing worship is a good and holy exercise. Seek rather to turn the heart to Christ Himself. In the multitude of your thoughts within you, let His comforts delight your soul. Look to the atoning sacrifice which the living Saviour presents before the throne. Behold the wounds of Jesus and let them invite you to draw near. There is music in a groan and beauty in a tear before the Lord, and He has heard the desire of the humble even when the lips could only utter broken prayer.

Abound much in thoughts of submission to God. Each morning put your soul into His hands, that He may deal with you according to His will all the day, and each night review the day and thank Him for it all, knowing that what He orders must be best. And seek to have many longing thoughts after Christ, longing to be with Him where He is. If thoughts are as wings and the Spirit is as wind, you shall yet fly away to Him.

Do not measure your standing by the quietness of your thoughts, but by the faithfulness of your Saviour. Even if every thought within you were tumultuous, stand to this word, Let God be true. Believe the promise though everything should seem to give the lie to it. Cry to Him in your lowliness, for low thoughts of ourselves are the companions of prevailing prayers, and God is quick to hear the lowliest prayer. He prepares the heart to pray when He is prepared to bless it.

Continue to pray, continue to sing, but above all continue to look to Jesus, the one Mediator between God and men. Trust not in the strength of your hold upon Him, but in His strong hold upon you, and you shall find that His comforts within you become effectual comforts to you, and your soul shall be kept near to Him by His own grace.