Chrysostom
Beloved of All
You ask prayer for a new home, that your children may enter a new school. But consider what school you seek for them. Is it the school of worldly learning alone, where they will be taught rhetoric and the empty praise of men? Or is it first the school of Christ, where the soul learns meekness, temperance, and the fear of God?
Far too many parents labor and scheme for houses of brick, yet neglect to build their children as living temples of the Holy Spirit. You are anxious over a roof that will one day fall, while the immortal soul goes untended. Remember that this present life is a spider’s web and a shadow; the things to come are immovable and eternal. If your children are not trained in godliness, what will it profit them to change one earthly school for another?
Let them be taught at home the letters of patience, humility, and prayer, and then wherever they go, they will carry with them a treasure that cannot be taken away. Do not make the mistake of those who buy cakes for children and require nothing of them but amusement. God has placed you as a schoolmaster over your household; your first lesson is to teach them to despise extravagance, to be keepers at home in spirit, to love mercy which makes one a man indeed. If you shape the root well, good branches will shoot forth, and your children will flourish even if the walls around them are humble.
Therefore, instead of setting your heart on a new dwelling, set it on the new man in Christ. Pray rather: Lord, build us a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens. When you thus seek first His kingdom, all necessary things will be added to you according to His wisdom.
Far too many parents labor and scheme for houses of brick, yet neglect to build their children as living temples of the Holy Spirit. You are anxious over a roof that will one day fall, while the immortal soul goes untended. Remember that this present life is a spider’s web and a shadow; the things to come are immovable and eternal. If your children are not trained in godliness, what will it profit them to change one earthly school for another?
Let them be taught at home the letters of patience, humility, and prayer, and then wherever they go, they will carry with them a treasure that cannot be taken away. Do not make the mistake of those who buy cakes for children and require nothing of them but amusement. God has placed you as a schoolmaster over your household; your first lesson is to teach them to despise extravagance, to be keepers at home in spirit, to love mercy which makes one a man indeed. If you shape the root well, good branches will shoot forth, and your children will flourish even if the walls around them are humble.
Therefore, instead of setting your heart on a new dwelling, set it on the new man in Christ. Pray rather: Lord, build us a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens. When you thus seek first His kingdom, all necessary things will be added to you according to His wisdom.
