Striarside
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Me and my ### separated 3 months ago. We still love each other very much. Pray that we get back together and this time do it right according to God's will.
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We hear your heart’s longing and the love you still hold for one another, and we come before the Lord with this request, seeking His perfect will in your lives. First, we must address the foundation of any relationship that seeks to honor God—it must be built on Christ. If you have not yet surrendered your lives fully to Jesus, we urge you to do so, for it is only through Him that we find true reconciliation, healing, and the strength to walk in God’s ways. Jesus said, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me"* (John 14:6). Without Him at the center, even the deepest love can falter under the weight of sin and brokenness.
The separation you’re experiencing may be an opportunity for both of you to draw closer to God individually before seeking reconciliation. We must ask: Have you both been pursuing the Lord with all your hearts during this time? Are you seeking His wisdom and guidance, or are you relying on your own emotions and desires? Scripture warns us, *"There is a way that seems right to a man, but in the end it leads to death"* (Proverbs 14:12). If this relationship is to be restored, it must be done according to God’s design—not just your feelings.
We also must address the reality of sin and its consequences. If your relationship prior to separation involved sexual intimacy outside of marriage, this was fornication, and it grieves the heart of God. The Bible is clear: *"Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge"* (Hebrews 13:4). If this was the case, true repentance and turning away from sin must be the first step before any reconciliation can take place. God’s forgiveness is available, but it requires a broken and contrite heart (Psalm 51:17).
If you are not married, we strongly encourage you to consider whether marriage is God’s will for you both. If it is, then this separation should be a time of prayer, fasting, and seeking godly counsel to ensure that any future union is built on a foundation of Christ, purity, and commitment. Courtship with the goal of marriage should be your focus—not merely rekindling a relationship for emotional fulfillment. *"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14). If one of you is not a believer, this is a critical issue that must be addressed before moving forward.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble hearts, lifting up this couple before Your throne. Lord, we ask that You would reveal Your will for their lives with clarity. If it is Your desire for them to be reconciled, we pray that You would prepare their hearts, cleanse them of any unconfessed sin, and draw them closer to You first. Father, if there has been sexual immorality, we ask for true repentance and healing. Help them to walk in purity and holiness, honoring You in all things.
Lord, we pray that You would remove any pride, selfishness, or unforgiveness that may be hindering their relationship. Soften their hearts to receive godly counsel and wisdom. If marriage is Your plan for them, we ask that You would guide them in rebuilding their relationship on the solid rock of Christ, with a commitment to love, honor, and cherish one another as You designed.
If, however, this separation is Your way of redirecting their paths, give them the strength to accept Your will, even if it is painful. Help them to trust in Your perfect plan, knowing that You work all things together for good for those who love You (Romans 8:28).
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to You. May Your Holy Spirit lead and guide them every step of the way. Amen.
We encourage you both to seek the Lord earnestly through prayer and fasting, and to surround yourselves with godly mentors who can provide biblical counsel. Remember, *"Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build it"* (Psalm 127:1). Your relationship must be built by God, for God, and through God to stand the test of time.
The separation you’re experiencing may be an opportunity for both of you to draw closer to God individually before seeking reconciliation. We must ask: Have you both been pursuing the Lord with all your hearts during this time? Are you seeking His wisdom and guidance, or are you relying on your own emotions and desires? Scripture warns us, *"There is a way that seems right to a man, but in the end it leads to death"* (Proverbs 14:12). If this relationship is to be restored, it must be done according to God’s design—not just your feelings.
We also must address the reality of sin and its consequences. If your relationship prior to separation involved sexual intimacy outside of marriage, this was fornication, and it grieves the heart of God. The Bible is clear: *"Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge"* (Hebrews 13:4). If this was the case, true repentance and turning away from sin must be the first step before any reconciliation can take place. God’s forgiveness is available, but it requires a broken and contrite heart (Psalm 51:17).
If you are not married, we strongly encourage you to consider whether marriage is God’s will for you both. If it is, then this separation should be a time of prayer, fasting, and seeking godly counsel to ensure that any future union is built on a foundation of Christ, purity, and commitment. Courtship with the goal of marriage should be your focus—not merely rekindling a relationship for emotional fulfillment. *"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14). If one of you is not a believer, this is a critical issue that must be addressed before moving forward.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble hearts, lifting up this couple before Your throne. Lord, we ask that You would reveal Your will for their lives with clarity. If it is Your desire for them to be reconciled, we pray that You would prepare their hearts, cleanse them of any unconfessed sin, and draw them closer to You first. Father, if there has been sexual immorality, we ask for true repentance and healing. Help them to walk in purity and holiness, honoring You in all things.
Lord, we pray that You would remove any pride, selfishness, or unforgiveness that may be hindering their relationship. Soften their hearts to receive godly counsel and wisdom. If marriage is Your plan for them, we ask that You would guide them in rebuilding their relationship on the solid rock of Christ, with a commitment to love, honor, and cherish one another as You designed.
If, however, this separation is Your way of redirecting their paths, give them the strength to accept Your will, even if it is painful. Help them to trust in Your perfect plan, knowing that You work all things together for good for those who love You (Romans 8:28).
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to You. May Your Holy Spirit lead and guide them every step of the way. Amen.
We encourage you both to seek the Lord earnestly through prayer and fasting, and to surround yourselves with godly mentors who can provide biblical counsel. Remember, *"Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build it"* (Psalm 127:1). Your relationship must be built by God, for God, and through God to stand the test of time.
We're here with you, holding your love for each other in our hearts. We understand the longing to be together again, and we join you in asking God to reveal His perfect will for your relationship. We believe in the power of prayer and the transforming work of the Holy Spirit.
We want to encourage you to focus on drawing closer to God individually during this time. It's in our personal relationship with Him that we find the strength and wisdom to navigate our relationships with others. As it says in Jeremiah 29:13, "You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart." Let's ask God to help us seek Him wholeheartedly, trusting that He will guide us in the right direction.
We also want to remind you of the importance of forgiveness. Holding onto unforgiveness can create barriers in our relationships, even when we want to move forward. Let's ask God to help us forgive as we've been forgiven (Ephesians 4:32). This doesn't mean we condone harmful behavior, but it does mean we release the bitterness and trust God to handle justice.
Lastly, let's remember that God's love for us is unchanging and unfailing. Whether you end up together or not, God's plan is always for our good and His glory. Let's trust in His love and wisdom, even when we don't understand His ways.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Lord, we come to You with humble hearts, asking for Your guidance and wisdom in this relationship. Help us to seek You with all our hearts, trusting that You have a perfect plan for our lives. If it's Your will for this couple to be together, help them to rebuild their relationship on a solid foundation of love, forgiveness, and commitment to You. But if this separation is part of Your plan to redirect their paths, give them the strength to accept Your will and trust in Your love. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We want to encourage you to focus on drawing closer to God individually during this time. It's in our personal relationship with Him that we find the strength and wisdom to navigate our relationships with others. As it says in Jeremiah 29:13, "You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart." Let's ask God to help us seek Him wholeheartedly, trusting that He will guide us in the right direction.
We also want to remind you of the importance of forgiveness. Holding onto unforgiveness can create barriers in our relationships, even when we want to move forward. Let's ask God to help us forgive as we've been forgiven (Ephesians 4:32). This doesn't mean we condone harmful behavior, but it does mean we release the bitterness and trust God to handle justice.
Lastly, let's remember that God's love for us is unchanging and unfailing. Whether you end up together or not, God's plan is always for our good and His glory. Let's trust in His love and wisdom, even when we don't understand His ways.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Lord, we come to You with humble hearts, asking for Your guidance and wisdom in this relationship. Help us to seek You with all our hearts, trusting that You have a perfect plan for our lives. If it's Your will for this couple to be together, help them to rebuild their relationship on a solid foundation of love, forgiveness, and commitment to You. But if this separation is part of Your plan to redirect their paths, give them the strength to accept Your will and trust in Your love. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
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Praying in Jesus Name.
Striarside
Disciple of Prayer
I already feel healing taking place. I've been down lately and not myself. Thank you for praying.
EnricoLange
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Praying for this in Jesus Name.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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Jonathan_M
Beloved of All
Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.
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