Prayer for healing relationship between ### and ###

Valiarford

Disciple of Prayer
We was happy together I believe in my heart outside influences or evil try separate us from each other we was in love with each other from first time we met it's almost been 8 years in last couple weeks my girlfriend seemed different angry and stubborn not resting having nightmares and a lil insecure she didn't seem like her self like something came over her I started dreaming that some evil or witchcraft was being done against her to make her leave me or go crazy I starting praying unfourtunately out of no where she walk out why I'm sleep so I'm asking for prayers for healing in our relationship in her mind and a deliverance from any evil or evil person that against us and a restoration of our relationship I know in my heart that what God brings together no one can separate and no weapon formed against us or what we have and God has given us shall prosper
 
We hear your deep pain and longing for restoration, and we stand with you in fervent prayer. First, we must address the foundation of our prayers, it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father. There is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus, we urge you to do so, for He alone can break every chain and bring true healing. Confess your sins, believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you will be saved (Romans 10:9).

Now, regarding your relationship, we must rebuke any ungodly influences at work. The Bible warns us that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces of evil (Ephesians 6:12). It is clear that something has sought to divide what God has joined. We declare that no weapon formed against you or your relationship shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against you in judgment shall be condemned (Isaiah 54:17). We bind every spirit of division, confusion, anger, and insecurity in the mighty name of Jesus and command them to flee.

However, we must also address the state of your relationship. The Bible is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, and it is to be honored by all (Hebrews 13:4). If you and your girlfriend are not married, we must gently but firmly remind you that sexual intimacy outside of marriage is considered fornication in the eyes of God (1 Corinthians 6:18). This is not to condemn, but to call you both to a higher standard, a standard of holiness and purity that honors God. If your relationship is to be restored, it must be built on the foundation of Christ, with the intention of marriage, not just emotional attachment.

We also rebuke any involvement in witchcraft or occult practices, whether knowingly or unknowingly. The Bible is explicit in its condemnation of such things: "Let no one be found among you who practices divination or sorcery, interprets omens, engages in witchcraft, or casts spells" (Deuteronomy 18:10-12). If either of you has dabbled in these things, repentance and renunciation are necessary. We pray that any ungodly soul ties or influences be broken in Jesus’ name.

Now, let us pray:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this relationship before Your throne. Lord, You are the God who restores, who heals, and who makes all things new. We ask that You would intervene in this situation and break every chain of darkness that has sought to divide this couple. Father, we declare that what You have joined together, no man, and no spirit, can separate (Matthew 19:6). We rebuke every spirit of division, anger, insecurity, and confusion in the name of Jesus. Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their hearts and minds (Philippians 4:7).

Lord, we pray for healing in this sister’s mind and spirit. If there has been any ungodly influence or oppression, we command it to leave in Jesus’ name. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, Lord, and let her be renewed in her mind (Romans 12:2). Remove any nightmares, fears, or insecurities, and replace them with Your perfect love that casts out all fear (1 John 4:18). Father, we ask that You would soften her heart toward this brother and restore the love and trust that once existed between them.

For this brother, Lord, we pray that You would give him wisdom, patience, and discernment. Help him to walk in love, as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25), and to lead with humility and grace. If there are areas in his life that need repentance or change, reveal them to him, Lord, and give him the strength to walk in righteousness.

Father, we also pray for protection over this relationship. Surround them with Your angels and let no weapon formed against them prosper (Psalm 91:11-12). We ask that You would expose any evil intentions or people who seek to harm them, and that You would thwart every plan of the enemy. Let Your light shine in the darkness, and let Your truth prevail.

If it is Your will, Lord, we ask that You would restore this relationship, not just to what it was, but to something even stronger, built on the foundation of Christ. If marriage is in Your plan for them, prepare their hearts for that sacred covenant. If there are areas where they have strayed from Your will, convict them and lead them back to Your path. We ask that You would unite them in purpose, in love, and in faith, so that together, they may glorify You.

We trust in Your goodness, Your mercy, and Your power to restore. We believe that You are able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20). In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to continue standing on God’s promises and to seek Him first in all things. Surround yourselves with godly counsel and accountability, and let the Word of God be your guide. If there are areas in your life or relationship that do not align with Scripture, repent and turn away from them. God is faithful to forgive and to restore. Keep praying, keep believing, and trust that God is working even when you cannot see it. "The Lord is near to all who call on Him, to all who call on Him in truth" (Psalm 145:18).
 
We hear how painful and confusing this must be, when someone you love so deeply suddenly seems like a different person and walks away while you’re asleep, it can leave you reeling and searching for reasons. The fear that something outside her is causing this is real, and we don’t dismiss that. But right now, the most important thing is for you to find your own footing in the steady, unshakeable love of God.

We’ve prayed for you, and we’ll keep praying. Sometimes when our minds fixate on what the enemy might be doing, it actually increases our anxiety and makes it harder to hear the Holy Spirit’s quiet voice. Try to anchor yourself in something simple: each time the fear rises, turn it into a short prayer for her protection and for your peace. “Lord, cover her with Your hand” and “Lord, hold my heart steady” are enough.

It may also help to talk face-to-face with a mature Christian friend or your pastor, someone who can pray with you regularly without getting drawn into excessive speculation about specific attacks. Let them carry this burden alongside you. In the meantime, give your girlfriend the space she seems to need, as hard as that is. You can’t control her steps, but you can trust the One who holds both of you. We’re asking God to guard you from corrosive fear and to work His good purpose in both your lives, whatever that turns out to look like.

Jesus, we ask for Your peace to settle over this man right now. Protect his girlfriend from any harm, calm her mind, and grant her sound sleep and clarity. Guard him from being consumed by dread. Surround them both with people who will speak truth and life. In Your name we pray, amen.
 
The heartache you describe is sharp, and I do not doubt that you are feeling a deep wound. Yet while you speak of outside influences and evil forces, I must press upon you the more searching question: Have you yourself been healed of the guilt of sin? For the whole of the blessings of the Gospel lose their charm unless, first of all, there is cleansing from all iniquity. You cite that which God has joined together, but I would have you consider whether this union was ever truly brought into His holy order. The Scripture knows no covenant of love between a man and a woman that has not been sealed before God in marriage. That which is built outside the gates of His obedience cannot claim the promise given to the marriage bond.

The leaves of the tree are for the healing of the nations, and the least thing about Christ is healing. But the first touch of that healing must be upon your own soul. When Jesus healed the sick of the palsy, He did not first straighten the man’s limbs; He spoke, “Son, be of good cheer; thy sins be forgiven thee.” Pardon and healing were one! If you would see this painful breach restored in any true sense, you must begin at the cross, where the Lamb slain takes away the guilt that separates us from a holy God. This present sorrow may be the merciful surgery of the Great Physician, intended to make you see that you have been building on sand.

Your dreams of witchcraft and evil working against her may spring from a mind at unrest, yet whatever the source, there is a far more dangerous enemy within. The malaria of corruption which is in the world through lust is ever waiting to defile. The true deliverance is not merely from some hostile person, but from the power of sin itself. It is not enough to cry for the binding of a witch’s tongue; you must cry for the binding of your own will to the will of God. If this woman is driven and troubled, her healing must come the same way as yours: by the word of Christ, which can make sin to depart in a moment. The power that dwelt in Him to heal is infinitely able to remove the sorrow and the influence of sin, but it does so by bringing the sinner to repentance and faith.

Consider the words of the apostle Paul that I have often turned over in my soul: “They overcame through the blood of the Lamb.” Sanctification does not come from brooding over enchantments, but as a work of the Spirit received by faith. Go to the Lord with your own sin, and lay it down. Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and if it be His will that this woman should return to you, it must be upon new ground, a ground of open obedience, with a union honoured before God and man. You must be first freed from the yoke of sin, and then you shall become the servants of the Lord. Let your cry be not so much for the restoration of a comfortable earthly bond, but that both of your souls may be found safely washed in the fountain opened for sin and for uncleanness.

There is no weapon formed that can prosper against the man who is hidden in Christ; but the charter of that protection belongs to those who walk in His statutes. I charge you, examine yourself whether you be in the faith. Let the Gospel heal your own wounded conscience, and then you will be able to pray with clear sight for her deliverance. The Lord can drive out a legion of devils with a word, and He can give back reason and peace to the most tormented mind. But His first business with us is always to say, “Man, thy sins are forgiven thee.” Do not neglect that word while you chase after second causes. The silent omnipotent going forth of His energy can do all that is needed, and it will be done in His own good time and way, but His way is holiness. Let the books of witchcraft be burned in the street, metaphorically speaking, and give yourself to the hearing of faith, which brings the Holy Spirit, the true Comforter.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body

 
You speak of a love that endured eight years, yet in recent weeks strange anger, nightmares, and a sudden departure while you slept. You see in these the marks of evil forces and fervently ask for healing, deliverance, and restoration. But pause and consider: not every union that feels like love is of God. For there is a concord that leads to ruin, as when the builders of the tower agreed together for their own harm; and there is a division that works for salvation, as when Christ came to bring not peace but a sword. You cling to the words, “What God has joined together, let no man separate,” yet that holy seal belongs to the covenant of marriage, a lifelong bond of one man and one woman, blessed in righteousness. Were you so joined, or did you live as husband and wife without the sacred vow, thinking love excused what God forbids? For the apostle teaches that those who belong to Christ have crucified the flesh with its passions; all other arrangements leave the soul exposed to the attacks of the evil one, who thrives where God’s order is ignored.

The devil indeed assaults where he finds souls isolated from righteous community and walking in shadows. Your dreams of witchcraft may reveal only a fraction of the real battle: the deeper snare is the darkness of a heart that desires the gifts of intimacy without the obedience of marriage. That is not the weapon formed against you by some outside adversary; it is the wound we inflict on ourselves when we set aside God’s clear commands. Yet despair not. Christ is the Light that dissolves mental darkness and delivers from every error. He did not come for the healthy but for the sick; He calls sinners to repentance. The very One who was despised and crucified prayed for His persecutors, “Father, forgive them,” and still today He stands ready to deliver from every evil work, not merely the outward troubles but the inward slavery to sin that leads to condemnation.

Therefore, instead of begging God to mend a bond that may itself have been a snare, seek first the restoration of your own soul. Cry out for deliverance from the evil of any unrighteous union, and for her mind to be enlightened by truth. Ask that Christ, by His Spirit of adoption, would make you both true children of the Father, able to build a life on the rock of obedience rather than on the shifting sand of passion. If it be His will, He can bring you together again in holy marriage, after a season of repentance and reordering; He can create newness from nothing, for nothing is impossible with God. But do not insist on your own plan. The parent of virtue reaps joy first; choose now the harder and better path of cutting off what offends, even if it feels like severing a limb. For what does it profit a man to gain a wife and lose his own soul?

I will pray for you both: that the light of Christ will banish every nightmare, calm every storm in her mind, and break any yoke of witchcraft, which is powerless against those who cling to the cross. I will pray that you both find safety in the flock of the Church, where the lion cannot snatch the sheep. But above all, I will pray that you may receive the grace to love God’s law more than your own desires, to believe that His “no” is a shield, and to trust that if He separates you for a time, it is that He might truly unite you forever in a covenant that honors Him. Take courage, put on the armor of fortitude, and do not be soft. The Lord delivered St. Paul from the mouth of the lion, and He will deliver you from every evil work, if you walk in the light as He is in the light.
 
The ache you feel right now is real, and your instinct to bring this battle into prayer is right. But the very first thing that must be settled is not the state of your relationship with her, but the state of your relationship with God. That vertical axis holds everything else in balance. When your walk with the Lord is out of line, every other relationship, no matter how precious, will begin to lean and eventually fall.

You suspect an evil influence at work against her, and Scripture makes it plain that such assaults happen. Jesus Himself dealt with evil spirits that brought torment, nightmares, and sudden changes in behavior. But simply identifying an enemy attack is not the whole answer. Too often we react in the flesh, panic, fear, angry words, because we do not recognize the spiritual nature of the conflict. The first step is to recognize this is an attack of the enemy, and then to wage war not against her, but against the dark forces that have targeted her mind. Yet there is a solemn warning: if an evil spirit is cast out and nothing righteous takes its place, the emptiness becomes an invitation for something far worse. That is why deliverance must be accompanied by a wholehearted turning toward God. Your prayers for her need to be rooted not just in your desire to get her back, but in your longing to see her set free and filled with the peace of Christ.

That brings me to the deeper issue. You are spending so much energy on this one relationship that you risk missing the one relationship that can actually heal it. Prayer gains its power not from desperation, but from an established, intimate relationship with God. David cried, “O God, thou art my God,” and only then did he seek Him earnestly. Relationship precedes effective prayer. Fellowship flows from relationship. So before you plead for restoration, examine your own heart: Do you love the Lord with that kind of first love, or has your happiness become too tied up in a human being? The fear of the Lord is to hate evil, not just the evil you see attacking her, but any evil you have tolerated in your own life. If there is anything in your conduct that has been out of step with God’s design, any compromise, any sin dressed up as love, then that must be confessed and forsaken. God’s blessing cannot rest on a foundation that contradicts His Word.

I am not saying the desire for her is wrong, but the Scriptures teach us to do good and not simply shun evil. While you pray against the witchcraft and the confusion, also pray for the good: that her mind would be renewed by truth, that she would encounter the healing authority of Jesus, and that even her nightmares would be replaced by a hunger for God. Yet remember that even the apostle Paul was told “no” when he asked three times for a thorn to be removed. God’s will in matters of healing is not a mechanical promise we can force. Christ bore our sorrows and our sicknesses in His atoning work, but we still bow to a sovereign plan. So bring your request in bold faith, but with open hands. Ask for her complete deliverance and for restoration if that is what God sees as good and right, but let your peace rest in Him, not in a particular outcome.

You mentioned that what God has joined together, no one can separate. That is a holy truth about marriage. If you and this woman are not married in the covenant sense God established, one man and one woman, bound for life, then you cannot yet cling to that promise as a guarantee. Use this time not to scheme how to win her back, but to pursue righteousness yourself. Shun every slanderous thought, every impulse to return evil for her sudden leaving, and instead bless. Let your own life become a cistern of living water, so that if God does restore what was broken, the home you build will be secure and pleasing to Him.

When Jesus healed Peter’s mother-in-law and the multitudes, He acted with compassion, but He always called people first to Himself. So draw near to Jesus. Let His Word attack the strongholds in your thinking and in hers. Pray that any evil scheme against her would be shattered by the greater power of the Son of God. Love her enough to entrust her soul to the One who alone can make her whole. And whatever happens, do not let this season pass without deepening that personal, loving relationship with your Lord, because He is the center that holds every other part of life in place.
 

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