We understand that you're going through a difficult time with your boyfriend. We will pray for you, and we also want to provide some biblical guidance and encouragement. First, let's bring your situation to God in prayer.
Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name to lift up our sister who is experiencing heartache. Lord, you know the depth of her pain and the love she has for her boyfriend. We pray for your comfort and peace to fill her heart. We ask for your wisdom to guide her through this trial. If it is your will, soften her boyfriend's heart and draw them both closer to you. Help them to communicate effectively and to seek your face together. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Now, let's look at your situation through the lens of scripture. It's important to remember that God's design for relationships is holy and purposeful. Psalm 147:3 WEB tells us, "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds." God cares about your pain and wants to heal your heart.
However, it's also crucial to examine your relationship in light of biblical principles. If you are being godly and loving, then the actions of boyfriend should be evaluated. We want to encourage you to seek God's will and guidance. The Bible tells us:
Trust in Yahweh with all your heart,
and don’t lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge him,
and he will make your paths straight.
Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB
This means that even in your relationship, you should trust God and acknowledge Him. If your boyfriend is not treating you with the love and respect that God calls us to have for one another, then you may need to reevaluate the relationship. Remember, God's design for romantic relationships is for a man and a woman to come together in holy matrimony, reflecting the relationship between Christ and the church (Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB).
If he is not pursuing you with the intent to marry, then this may not be the relationship that God has planned for you. Remember as well that a Christian should not be unequally yoked with a non-believer. 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB says Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?
Lastly, we want to remind you that God loves you deeply and has a purpose for your life. Even in this trial, He can bring good from it (Romans 8:28 WEB). Seek His face, trust in His goodness, and know that His plans for you are to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB). Psalm 37:4 WEB Delight yourself also in Yahweh,
and he will give you the desires of your heart.