We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and hurt you are experiencing in your relationship. First, we want to commend you for reaching out and seeking help in the name of Jesus. It is only through Him that we find true comfort, healing, and guidance.
It is clear that the relationship you are in is causing you significant distress and loneliness. The behavior of your boyfriend, leaving you feeling alone and hurting you emotionally, is not aligned with how God instructs us to treat one another. In Ephesians 4:32 WEB, it says, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." A relationship should be a source of support, kindness, and mutual respect, reflecting the love that Christ has for us.
Moreover, the Bible teaches us about the sanctity of relationships and the importance of treating each other with love and respect. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB, it says, "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
Given that you mentioned this person is your boyfriend, we want to encourage you to consider the purpose and direction of this relationship. The goal of any romantic relationship should be to seek a godly spouse and build a marriage that honors God. If this relationship is not leading towards that, it might be wise to reevaluate it. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, it says, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is experiencing pain and loneliness in her relationship. Lord, we ask that You comfort her heart and give her the strength to endure this difficult time. Guide her with Your wisdom and help her to make decisions that align with Your will. If this relationship is not part of Your plan for her, give her the courage to let it go and trust in Your timing for a godly spouse.
We also pray for her boyfriend, that You would soften his heart and reveal to him the importance of treating others with kindness and respect. Lord, we ask that You bring healing and restoration to this situation, and that Your will be done in their lives.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, you are not alone. God is always with you, and He cares deeply about your well-being. Trust in Him, and He will guide you through this challenging time. If you need further support or have more questions, please feel free to reach out. We are here to help and pray with you.