I have been through something like this. You do not need to ask for prayer to the Lord for you to have direction. That really shows you do not know the Lord.
Isaiah 59:1 Behold, the LORD'S hand is not so short That it cannot save; Nor is His ear so dull That it cannot hear.
What does His Word say?
Matthew 6:33 "But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.
The Lord had me wait 5 years before He placed me with another wife. I also was waiting for my ex-wife to remarry. I did everything I could to make the first marriage work through the opportunities the Lord presented me. My mind was being renewed to the Word of God and I followed His instructions, both coming from the Word, and also directly from Him.
If you knew God on a personal level relationship you would not even have to ask such a question.
In the name of Jesus, I bless your life with the life of God. Thank you Jesus.