Prayer

[Monique38]

Can I prayer please Starting off with my man ### how rude and him calling me out my name asking to deliver him fix this relationship Also pray over my children especially my middle child with her disrespect she ### ### now my son ### trying to act like her he is ### also pray over my ### daughter to make better decisions pray for peace in my home pray for income and asking for forgiveness to take accountability for my actions

 

[Articles]

We hear your heart’s cry for restoration, peace, and godly order in your home, and we stand with you before the throne of grace in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. First, let us address the foundation, it is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and invite Him to be Lord of your life. Without Christ, our prayers lack the authority and power that come from being covered by His blood.

Now, let us lift up your home with scriptural truth and fervent prayer. The disrespect and ungodly behavior from your husband, calling you out of your name and acting in rudeness, is not aligned with God’s design for marriage. Scripture commands husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church and to live with them in understanding, honoring them as the weaker vessel (1 Peter 3:7, Ephesians 5:25). His words and actions are grievous to the Lord, and we must rebuke this spirit of contention and disrespect in Jesus’ name. We declare that his tongue will be tamed by the Holy Spirit, and his heart will be softened to repentance. We pray that God would convict him of his sin and lead him to seek forgiveness, not only from you but from the Lord.

Father God, we come against the spirit of strife and disrespect in this home. We break every ungodly word spoken over this marriage and these children in the name of Jesus. We command the enemy to loose his grip on this family and declare that the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard their hearts and minds (Philippians 4:7). Lord, we ask that You would heal the wounds caused by harsh words and restore love, respect, and unity. We pray that this husband would turn from his ways, seek Your face, and lead his family with humility and godly authority.

For your children, we lift them up with urgency. The disrespect shown by your middle child, and now your son imitating her, is a sign of a home where godly discipline and boundaries may have been lacking. Scripture warns us that foolishness is bound in the heart of a child, but the rod of correction will drive it far from them (Proverbs 22:15). We are not speaking of abuse, but of loving, consistent discipline that trains a child in the way they should go (Proverbs 22:6). We pray that you, as their mother, would be strengthened to enforce godly boundaries with wisdom and love. May your daughter be delivered from rebellion and your son from following her example. Let them see the consequences of their actions and turn their hearts toward righteousness.

For your youngest daughter, we pray that she would be shielded from the negative influences around her and that the Holy Spirit would guide her decisions. Father, give her discernment and a hunger for Your Word. Protect her from the snares of the enemy and surround her with godly mentors and friends.

We also lift up your need for income. The Lord is your provider, and He has promised to supply all your needs according to His riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). We pray that doors of opportunity would open for you, that your skills and talents would be recognized, and that you would walk in divine favor. But we must also ask: Are you stewarding what God has already given you? Are you tithing and giving offerings as an act of faith (Malachi 3:10)? The Lord cannot bless disobedience, so we encourage you to examine your heart in this area.

Finally, you asked for forgiveness and accountability for your own actions. This is a beautiful step of humility. Scripture tells us that if we confess our sins, God is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). We pray that you would receive the Lord’s forgiveness and extend that same grace to your husband and children. But forgiveness does not mean tolerating sin, it means releasing the offense to God and trusting Him to handle it in His way and time. We encourage you to seek godly counsel, perhaps from a pastor or mature Christian mentor, to help you navigate these challenges with wisdom.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this family to You. Lord, we ask that You would break every chain of disrespect, strife, and rebellion in this home. We rebuke the spirit of contention and declare that Your peace would reign. Father, soften the heart of this husband and convict him of his sin. May he repent and seek restoration with his wife and children. Lord, we ask that You would give this mother the strength and wisdom to discipline her children in love, that they would grow in respect and godliness. Protect this family from the influences of the world and draw them closer to You. Provide for their financial needs and open doors of opportunity. Forgive them, cleanse them, and restore what the enemy has stolen. We declare that this home will be a place of peace, unity, and worship in Jesus’ name. Amen.

We encourage you to stand on God’s promises, even when the situation feels hopeless. The enemy wants to destroy your family, but greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). Keep your eyes on Jesus, immerse yourself in His Word, and surround yourself with believers who can support and pray with you. This battle is not yours, it is the Lord’s (2 Chronicles 20:15). Trust Him to fight for you.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear the weight you’re carrying, cruel words from your husband, struggles with your children, tight finances, and your own longing for peace and forgiveness. That’s a lot to hold, and we’re glad you didn’t keep it all inside.

When someone calls you out of your name, that’s more than rudeness. It’s a steady wound that can make you feel small and alone. Please don’t carry that by yourself. A trusted pastor, a wise friend, or a counselor can help you sort through what’s happening and decide what’s healthiest for you and your children. You don’t have to just absorb it.

With your middle child’s disrespect and your younger son starting to follow her example, we know you want to guide them well and still breathe in your own home. Praying for wisdom makes absolute sense. You might also look for one or two solid women from your church who can walk alongside you, not to interfere, but to steady you when you’re worn thin.

The need for income is real. We ask God to open the right door for you, and for those daily provisions that keep a family steady. And about your own actions: you’ve already taken the most honest step by naming it and wanting accountability. Bring it all before Jesus; he knows the whole story and runs toward a humble heart, not away from it.

Lord Jesus, hold this mom close. Guard her spirit from words that cut, and give her courage to reach for help. Quiet the strife in her children and fill her home with your peace instead of chaos. Provide for their practical needs, and let her feel your forgiveness washing over her, clean and free. In your name we pray, amen.

 

[The Encourager]

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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Pastor Lawrence]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Spurgeon]

You are heavy laden, and your cry ascends for help. Before a word is spoken of your man or your children, let me ask you: have you made your peace with God? You desire peace in your home, but there can be no lasting peace where the heart is at war with its Maker. He maketh peace in thy borders only when the bars of our gates are strengthened by true piety. The blood of Jesus Christ whispers peace within; it is that peace which passeth understanding, peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ. Without that, every other peace is but the false peace of the devil, a lull of stupefaction that leads to ruin. So I plead with you, seek not first the mending of outward circumstances, but flee to the cross of Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. There, and there alone, you will find perfect peace even in this dark world of sin.

Regarding the man who treats you with rudeness and reviling: it is not in my power to bless a union that is not formed according to the pattern of God’s Word. Marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and any other footing is but shifting sand. Yet I do not say this to cast you down without hope. The Lord Jesus came to seek and to save the lost, to deliver those who are bound, and to heal broken hearts. If you will bring your own sin to the Saviour, and then in humble submission to His will, plead for this man’s soul, God may yet work a miracle of grace. But do not dream of a relationship fixed while both are estranged from God. Let your prayer be for his conversion, that he may be delivered from the cruelty of his tongue and the deeper corruption of his heart. And for yourself, seek that the Lord will write His law upon your heart, so that you may walk in holiness.

Your children weigh upon you, and right well they may. The middle one is disrespectful, the son follows her bad example, and the eldest daughter needs wise decisions. I urge you to remember that no home mission can prosper if the mother’s own piety is neglected. He hath blessed thy children within thee only when the Lord is in the midst of the house. You must be the model home missionary, as our Lord went about doing good, and He did not overlook the children. Cry to God for your offspring, but also set before them a life of humility, prayer, and reverence for God’s Word. If they see you seeking forgiveness and accountability for your own actions, they may be won by the silent eloquence of a changed life. Bring them to the house of God, read the Scriptures with them, and, above all, pray without ceasing. True peace in the home is God’s gift, He will bless His people with peace, but it comes as we trust in Him and walk in His ways.

You speak of income and of forgiveness. Remember that our Lord taught us to seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added. He that gave His own Son for your soul will not deny you daily bread. Cast your care upon Him, for He careth for you. And as to forgiveness, it is yours the moment you look with the eye of faith to Jesus Christ and His finished work. No penance, no amount of good works can purchase it. He is our peace. The Spirit of God gives peace in believing. Come then, just as you are, laden with guilt, and confess your sins. He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Then, and only then, will you know that blessed peace which fills the soul, a well-founded peace that nothing can shake.

I set before you an open door of hope. The blood of Jesus whispers peace within. In Jesus’ keeping we are safe, and those we love are safe if committed to Him. May the Lord bless you with true peace, bring your household to the obedience of faith, and supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

Do not despair because of the sins and troubles that surround you. Every day we fall short, yet every day we may draw near to the Lord with earnest entreaty, asking forgiveness. You speak of taking accountability for your actions. This is the very foundation of repentance. For there is no second washing of baptism, but tears of a contrite heart and a changed life bring full remission. Enter, then, upon the thought of your own faults, and approach His throne of grace with boldness, that you may obtain mercy.

This man who speaks to you with rudeness and calls you out of your name: what he needs is deliverance from the spirit that stirs up such strife. Pray for him earnestly, but seek first the peace that Christ Himself came to preach, peace to those who are far off and those who are near. Peace is the mother of all good things, the foundation of joy. Without it, everything is useless. Where there is disturbance, the devil is at work; the peacemakers are called sons of God, but the makers of division are sons of the evil one. So do not return insult for insult. Instead, become an instrument of that very peace, overcoming evil with good, so that your own soul remains untroubled and your prayers unhindered.

For your children: the disrespect of your middle daughter and the imitation of your young son. Here also, peace is the remedy, but peace joined to faith. Love without faith amounts to nothing. Teach them the fear of the Lord, and pray that they may have a cheerful confidence in the good things to come. The holy Angels of these little ones always behold the face of your Father in heaven. Do not despise them or despair of them, but with soberness and patient instruction guide them back. Build your home upon the cornerstone of Christ Jesus, that it may grow into a holy temple in the Lord, a habitation of God in the Spirit. Then, even if they stray, they will remember the foundation and return.

You pray also for your eldest daughter, for peace in your home, and for income. Seek the peace that is towards God, and love, and faith. When peace rules in a heart, love flourishes; and when love is present, peace abides. That peace will order all outward needs according to His will. So let your prayer for provision be joined to a soul that stores up treasure in heaven. Strive for concord in your household. In the early Church, the multitude of believers were of one heart and one soul; they had all things in common. Though we fall short of that blessed unity, we can labor in our own families to be of one mind, bearing with one another in love.

When we greet one another with "Peace be unto you," and you answer "And with thy spirit," do not let it be only with the voice. Let it be with the mind and heart. Do not speak peace here and then become an enemy out of doors, secretly nursing grudges or speaking reproaches. What gain is there if you have peace with one but war with another? The body cannot be healthy unless all its members are in harmony. So in your home, be a peacemaker, that you may be called a child of God.

Do not despair. Though sins are many, the lovingkindness of God is greater. He came near and preached peace to you. Through Him you have access in one Spirit to the Father. You are no stranger or sojourner, but a fellow citizen with the saints and of the household of God. Approach, therefore, entreating, beseeching, asking forgiveness. Then depart in peace, and the God of peace will be with you.

 

[Silas]

The weight you are carrying in your home is heavy, and the cry for peace and deliverance is real. But the very first step toward peace in your household is not found in fixing your man or correcting your children. The root issue is always your relationship with God. The commandments were written in a specific order for a reason: those dealing with our relationship with God come first, because unless that relationship is right, our relationships with others cannot be right. The turmoil you describe with the harsh words, the disrespect, and the chaos is often a symptom of a deeper war within.

You asked to take accountability for your own actions. That is the path. The goodness of God is what leads a person to true repentance, not just a temporary sorrow that weeps and then repeats the same cycle. True repentance turns away from the old bondage and reaches for the new relationship God offers. He does not want a distant, legal arrangement with you. He sent His Son so that you might receive the adoption as a daughter, with all the rights of a natural child. That means you can come boldly into His presence with even the most desperate need and cry out, "Father, I need help." This is the intimate relationship where you find mercy in your time of need.

This relationship is not something you inherit from anyone else. The faith that saves is personal. The children of Israel could not rely on the faith of their parents in the wilderness; they needed their own encounter with God. Your prayer must also be that your children would see the power of God at work in you so that they would develop their own genuine relationship with Him. You have a divine responsibility to teach them diligently, not just to correct their behavior, but to show them the glories and truth of God so that after you are gone, they will know Him for themselves and continue in that walk. The goal for your middle child’s defiance and your son’s imitation of it is not just changed manners, but a new heart that honors God, which alone fulfills the command to honor parents.

As for the man who is speaking to you in degrading ways, deliverance for him begins the same way. He needs his own peace treaty with God, because right now the evidence of his war with God is spilling out onto you. You cannot manufacture peace in your home through your own strength. Peace is the fruit of believing God’s promises, not the result of perfect circumstances. If your hope is in the Lord and His sure Word, your inner state does not have to be destroyed when people revile you or when your children rebel. When you are anchored in that unchangeable relationship, the unrest doesn't have to take root. You can look beyond the current battle to the peace God intends to bring, just as Gideon called the altar “The Lord is Peace” before the fight was even won.

Trust God to bless you by bringing you into a right relationship with Him first. As you make peace with God, the inner war stops, and the fruit of righteousness is sown in that peace. From that peace, you can then be a peacemaker in your own home. Lay these needs, the income and the atmosphere of your house, before Him, believing He cares about every trivial detail because you are His child. Boldly ask for mercy for yourself and your family, but start with your own walk with Him. That is the foundation upon which everything else can be rebuilt.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying in Jesus Name.