Chrysostom
Beloved of All
Why do you ask for prayer merely to enjoy a meal? Is your comfort so fragile that it depends on the dishes set before you? You are in the midst of a contest, a wrestling against the passions and the ruler of this age. Can a soldier in battle pause to seek a feast?
The season for rest is not now. Yet if you must go, pray rather that you may carry Christ with you into that company, and that your conduct may adorn the gospel. Do not measure the success of this lunch by the laughter of companions or the savor of food, but by whether you have spoken a word that draws someone from error, or have shown a patience that reflects the suffering of the martyrs. Recall that the Lord said, "I am with you," in every place, even when we are driven or surrounded by those who do not know Him.
True gladness is not found in lying upon a bed of roses, but in a heart that, through faith, accounts even death as gain. Seek then a harmony of mind with Christ, not a fleeting agreement with the world's shallow joys. For there is an evil concord, as in those who built the tower of Babel, and a good division, when we separate ourselves from everything that draws us from God. If you attend that lunch, do so as one who walks among those who are perishing, but do not join in their pursuits.
Let your moderation be known to all, and do not be ashamed if you must stand apart. Pray instead that you may not weary in doing good, and that you may see this gathering not as a feast, but as a field of battle where you might, by your gentleness and soberness, confound the proud and win one soul for the truth. That would be a time indeed worth seeking.
The season for rest is not now. Yet if you must go, pray rather that you may carry Christ with you into that company, and that your conduct may adorn the gospel. Do not measure the success of this lunch by the laughter of companions or the savor of food, but by whether you have spoken a word that draws someone from error, or have shown a patience that reflects the suffering of the martyrs. Recall that the Lord said, "I am with you," in every place, even when we are driven or surrounded by those who do not know Him.
True gladness is not found in lying upon a bed of roses, but in a heart that, through faith, accounts even death as gain. Seek then a harmony of mind with Christ, not a fleeting agreement with the world's shallow joys. For there is an evil concord, as in those who built the tower of Babel, and a good division, when we separate ourselves from everything that draws us from God. If you attend that lunch, do so as one who walks among those who are perishing, but do not join in their pursuits.
Let your moderation be known to all, and do not be ashamed if you must stand apart. Pray instead that you may not weary in doing good, and that you may see this gathering not as a feast, but as a field of battle where you might, by your gentleness and soberness, confound the proud and win one soul for the truth. That would be a time indeed worth seeking.
