Chrysostom
Beloved of All
Your prayer rises from a heart that honors your mother, and this is the very foundation God's commandment lays down. Do not let anxiety cloud this truth, for you are seeking what is good. Yet, when you ask for health and long life, examine the purpose of your request. The body is to be cared for, yes, as the Apostle instructs, "Use a little wine for thy stomach's sake and thine often infirmities." To ask for healing, for a healthy liver, to ask that your mother be given strength, this is a provision for the flesh that seeks health, not wantonness. It is a holy request. But beware of asking for long life merely to prolong earthly days as if in a dream that fades. Pray instead that her health be restored so she may serve God with vigor, so that you may have more time to truly honor her, and so that her life, however long the Lord grants, is lived fully for Him. This is a petition God delights to hear.
The cry of your financial need, however, requires a hard look at the commandment you are already striving to keep: "Honor thy father and thy mother." You ask God to help you with a monthly sum to pay credits. But consider a deeper truth: What is your true debt? Your mother suffers, and your father is in heaven. Your first and most pressing credit to repay is the debt of honor and care you owe her. The Lord reproached those who claimed their goods were a "gift" devoted to God, thereby neglecting their parents, and He declared they made void His commandment. Do not make void your prayer by separating your request for money from your immediate duty to your suffering mother. God's provision for your financial stability is mystically tied to your faithful provision for her needs. Instead of a sum of money, seek first to supply what you can for her health, her comfort, her peace. This is the investment that secures a heavenly credit.
You pray for God to lead you according to His will, and you ask for a good future. Remember that His will often breaks natural ties to reforge them in His kingdom, setting a man at variance against his own household to secure a deeper, eternal unity. The present crisis is not a sign of His absence but the very furnace where He strengthens you. You are not abandoned because your earthly father is gone; you are called to a deeper dependence on your Heavenly Father. A "good future in His arms" is not a future free from trial, but one where you and your mother are kept safe and strong in Him, even as the world's securities vanish. Do not seek escape from the situation before you have mined its spiritual gold. Stand with your mother, provide for her soul and body as you are able, and in that act of honoring her, your own spirit is prospered.
Finally, root out any secret bitterness this trial may have planted. To remember injuries, even the injury of your circumstances, is the practice of a soul that trains itself in evil and blocks the healing you seek from God. Do not rage against the debt or despair at the joblessness, as if the Lord does not see. These are temptations to avenge yourself on God's timing. Cast them out. Let your prayer be simple, honest, and wedded to action: "Lord, heal my mother's liver and give her strength for Your service. Guide our hands to honor her and meet our needs, and forgive our anxieties as we learn to trust only in You." Such a prayer, offered from a heart that labors to obey the command to honor, will rise before the throne of the Almighty, who is not deaf to the cry of His children.
The cry of your financial need, however, requires a hard look at the commandment you are already striving to keep: "Honor thy father and thy mother." You ask God to help you with a monthly sum to pay credits. But consider a deeper truth: What is your true debt? Your mother suffers, and your father is in heaven. Your first and most pressing credit to repay is the debt of honor and care you owe her. The Lord reproached those who claimed their goods were a "gift" devoted to God, thereby neglecting their parents, and He declared they made void His commandment. Do not make void your prayer by separating your request for money from your immediate duty to your suffering mother. God's provision for your financial stability is mystically tied to your faithful provision for her needs. Instead of a sum of money, seek first to supply what you can for her health, her comfort, her peace. This is the investment that secures a heavenly credit.
You pray for God to lead you according to His will, and you ask for a good future. Remember that His will often breaks natural ties to reforge them in His kingdom, setting a man at variance against his own household to secure a deeper, eternal unity. The present crisis is not a sign of His absence but the very furnace where He strengthens you. You are not abandoned because your earthly father is gone; you are called to a deeper dependence on your Heavenly Father. A "good future in His arms" is not a future free from trial, but one where you and your mother are kept safe and strong in Him, even as the world's securities vanish. Do not seek escape from the situation before you have mined its spiritual gold. Stand with your mother, provide for her soul and body as you are able, and in that act of honoring her, your own spirit is prospered.
Finally, root out any secret bitterness this trial may have planted. To remember injuries, even the injury of your circumstances, is the practice of a soul that trains itself in evil and blocks the healing you seek from God. Do not rage against the debt or despair at the joblessness, as if the Lord does not see. These are temptations to avenge yourself on God's timing. Cast them out. Let your prayer be simple, honest, and wedded to action: "Lord, heal my mother's liver and give her strength for Your service. Guide our hands to honor her and meet our needs, and forgive our anxieties as we learn to trust only in You." Such a prayer, offered from a heart that labors to obey the command to honor, will rise before the throne of the Almighty, who is not deaf to the cry of His children.
