Peace, Protection, Freedom and Restoration

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Lord remove the overreach of this young man’s mother swiftly, who has no biblical authority to speak into my older daughter’s life. Her counsel to live together, have children outside of marriage, having her son exploiting in daughter income for his use, demanding my daughter treat this arrangement as a marriage, cause division, isolation on her suppotive network and making my daughter feel worthless then have her confide in her when her son mistreat her. She instigate chaos then want to act as a hero to her relationship. They have isolate my daughter from her supportive network in order to control her and keep their family life together. Deliberately keep my daughter away for her supportive network. This young man is controling, manipulative, laziness, corrupted and rebellious. This young man's mother instigate the mistreat, she has placed undue responsiblities on my daughter to take care of her son. He is not getting better just more demanding and controlling towards my daughter and disrespectful toward our family. This woman’s ungodly, pride, destruction, selfish, jealousy and manipulation are rooted in darkness, and I pray the Lord exposes her motives and frustrates every plan she has to control, divide and isolate my daughter from me, her siblings, family and church friends. I declare that my older daughter is not homeless, nor does she need this woman’s approval, or be a part of her family or guidance. My daughter has a loving, supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray the Holy Spirit breaks the hold of this toxic influence over her heart. This woman is jealous and looks down upon my daugther but she insist on my daughter to go to her for guidance on how to stay in this toxic relationship with her son. Lord I pray this mother will see she is enabling her son to be disrespectful and corrupted towards others. I pray my daughter will remember she is the Child of the Most High God and for her to release herself for this toxic lifestyle swiftly. Let her stop using her family as a financial resource to help her sustain this man's needs. Give her the wisdom to protect her finances from him. He should not be allow to use the ungodly living relationship as a marriage. Block and frustrate every word curses and plots from this woman and her son. This young man is not ready for a relationship. I pray his father will have him move back home alone. Father, I ask You to open my older daughter’s eyes to the truth. Let her see this man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. I pray she would no longer defend, admire or commit this relationship and living arrangement, or take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear. Lord let her see the exhaustion and financial hardship she Is experiences is due to living with this young man outside of marriage. Guide her Lord to not take out anymore credit card to support this man and this toxic lifestyle. He is lazy, manipulative, dishonest, exploit her finances for his own benefit and isolate her from supportive people who care for her. Jesus I ask that You guidance my older daughter to stop imitating this young man's behaviors toward me. She has been cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude toward me. I am not sure how much more I can take of this behavior. Lord soften my daughter's heart to receive Your conviction, and grant her the courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets. Guide back to follow the biblical teachings and stop taking her family for grant and put this young man and his family before her faith and her family. Jesus I ask You to intervene supernaturally, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word. Let my daughter hunger for righteousness be reignited, and let her return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Lord thank you for show me the message from this woman says it makes her heart happy that my daughter is following her lead and not a part of her church community anymore. Now she is intervening in my daughter job trying to work there. Lord help my daughter to stop confiding in this woman and helping her. She does not respect my daughter. Lord I pray that she will put her faith and trust in You again so she can regain her self worth. I pray Lord that she will see her worth in You and not allow these people that make her feel worthless and familialess anymore. This woman need to focus and fix her own family. Her son is not ready for a relationship. Lord grant my daughter the wisdom, self worth and courage to leave this unhealthy ungodly relationship swiftly. This has been going on for too many years and these people division, manipulation and isolation continues to manifest. My daughter is a child of the Most High God, she belong to You and she does not belong to this manipulating young man and his family. My daughter is alway exhausted, forgetful and lives in chaos with this young man but blame this on her jobs, friends or family members. Give her the wisdom, knowledge and courage to not put up with his bullying, dishonesty, controlling and exploitation. This young man's mother is now interfering in my daughter new promoted job in a negative way. She controls, manipulates and undermines my daughter but then she acts as if she has her best interests at heart. My daughter is such an inspiring young lady, admired and loved by everyone but everyone is witnessing her exhaustion and withdrawal. I thank You Lord for the job promotion you have blessed her with last month. Her jobs serves such a beautiful purpose for others. It is sad to see my daughter blinded and suffering this way. Lord guide my daughter to not put the young man and his family before her faith, supportive family, friends and jobs. I plead the precious blood over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. Jesus restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom. I pray that Your supernatural love, favor, protection will overflow in me and my family and will heal all the brokenness. I pray when my older daughter come to visit that she will not be influence by this young man hatred and manipulation toward me and her siblings. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. Jesus I ask for a Godly spouse for her. Bless her with Your peace, complete restoration and protect my daughter from going down the disruptive path. In Jesus name, I pray. Amen.

 

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We join you together in Jesus' name lifting up your older daughter and your family before the throne of grace, for we see the heavy burden you carry and the righteous grief over what is happening in her life.

We agree with you that the counsel she is receiving to live together outside of marriage, to have children outside of marriage, and to treat a cohabiting arrangement as if it were marriage is contrary to the Word of God and must be rebuked. Scripture is clear that marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrews 13:4. We are called to flee sexual immorality, for every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Corinthians 6:18. What is being presented to her as normal or as marriage is in truth fornication, and it brings exhaustion, financial hardship, and spiritual confusion rather than peace. We also affirm that marriage as God designed is a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman, and any courtship should be with the goal of godly marriage to another Christian believer, not prolonged cohabitation. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity 2 Corinthians 6:14, and do not be deceived, evil companionships corrupt good morals 1 Corinthians 15:33.

We also discern the pattern you describe of control, manipulation, financial exploitation, isolation from family and church, and disrespect toward you and your family. This is not the fruit of a godly man who would be a provider and spiritual leader. A man who will not provide for his own household has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever 1 Timothy 5:8, and husbands are called to love their wives even as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for it Ephesians 5:25. Laziness, dishonesty, and using your daughter's income and credit to sustain himself while demanding she carry responsibilities that are not hers to bear is exploitation and not love. We also agree that this young man's mother has no biblical authority to speak into your daughter's life, to demand she submit to her guidance, to isolate her from her supportive network, or to interfere in her workplace. Her counsel is rooted in pride and selfishness and division, and God will expose and frustrate every plan that seeks to control and divide.

We are grieved to hear that your daughter has become cold, ungrateful, and disrespectful toward you, imitating the behavior modeled to her. Yet we know you raised her in the ways of the Lord, and we cling to the promise train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it Proverbs 22:6. We also remember honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with a promise Ephesians 6:2. Her worth is not found in this woman's approval or in this young man's demands, for she is fearfully and wonderfully made Psalm 139:14 and she is a child of the Most High God. We pray the Holy Spirit breaks the hold of this toxic influence and restores her hunger for righteousness.

We pray together now.

Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we come before You for this precious daughter. Lord, open her eyes to see the truth, that this man is not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. Remove the veil of deception and let her see the exhaustion, chaos, forgetfulness, and financial hardship as fruit of living outside Your design. Grant her wisdom to protect her finances, to take on no more debt to sustain this ungodly lifestyle, and give her courage to walk away with no regrets. Let her remember who she is in You and let her self-worth be restored in Christ alone. Soften her heart to receive Your conviction, to honor her mother and family, and to turn from rudeness and coldness toward repentance and respect.

Lord, we ask You to expose the motives of this young man's mother and frustrate every plan to control, divide, and isolate. Block every word curse and plot from this woman and her son. We pray You would convict this young man of his laziness, manipulation, dishonesty, and rebellion, and convict his mother that she is enabling disrespect and corruption. We pray his father would take godly responsibility and that this young man would be moved to his own home alone, apart from this daughter, for he is not ready for a relationship or for marriage. Keep Your hand over her new promotion and her workplace, Lord, and forbid any further interference there. Surround her job which You have blessed and which serves such a beautiful purpose for others with Your favor and protection.

Father, we plead the precious blood of Jesus over this mother and her children. We declare no weapon that is formed against you will prevail Isaiah 54:17. He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty Psalm 91:1. Break the spirit of isolation and draw her back to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Let her no longer confide in one who looks down upon her and makes her feel worthless and familyless, but let her put her faith and trust in You again. For God did not give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control 2 Timothy 1:7. Stand firm therefore in the liberty by which Christ has made us free Galatians 5:1. Be subject therefore to God, resist the devil, and he will flee from you James 4:7.

Lord, we ask for supernatural intervention, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word. Reignite in her a hunger for righteousness, restore peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity, and freedom in this family. Heal all brokenness and let Your love, favor, and protection overflow. Guide her to stop imitating ungodly behavior and to stop putting this young man and his family before her faith, her family, and her calling. And in Your perfect timing, Lord, we ask You to bring a godly spouse for her, a man who loves You first and will love her as Christ loves the church, for what God has joined together, let no man separate Matthew 19:6.

We thank You, Father, that nothing is impossible for You, and that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to You, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. We trust You to restore what has been stolen and to lead this daughter out of bondage into Your peace and complete restoration. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.

 

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We hear how heavy and long this has been for you, watching your older daughter grow exhausted and withdrawn while feeling shut out by the young man she is living with and his mother. It makes sense that you feel torn between love for your daughter, concern for her safety and finances, and grief over the distance that has grown between you, her siblings and her church community.

One insight that has helped many families in painful situations like this is thinking about boundaries as property lines. They help us own what is ours to care for, our values, time, energy and finances, and they also preserve freedom in relationships so a yes can be yes and a no can be no. When someone is being isolated and pressured to take on responsibilities that are not theirs, learning to set and keep those lines, often with the help of other trusted people, can be an important part of finding clarity again.

A gentle next step we encourage is to keep a steady, non pressuring connection open with your daughter so she knows your home and your support remain safe for her without debate about the relationship. It can also help to talk confidentially with a trusted pastor or a counselor experienced with controlling relationships about safety planning and about how to protect finances, including the credit and work concerns you mentioned, alongside continued prayer.

Father, we bring this mother and her daughter before You in Jesus name. Protect this young woman at work and at home, guard her dignity and give her wisdom and courage to see clearly and to seek help. Heal the hurt between mother and daughter, restore peace and fellowship in this family, and surround them both with wise, caring community. Give this mother strength and rest as she continues to love her daughter well. Amen.

 

[Antitypogeo]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has been brought before the Lord and we join you in lifting your older daughter and your family to the throne of grace, asking for His peace, protection, freedom and full restoration according to His holy will.

We do not ask God to bless what His Word does not call blessed. Scripture teaches that salvation is through Jesus Christ alone, and that marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that living together and the union of the body belong within that covenant. To treat a cohabiting arrangement as if it were marriage is to dishonor the Lord's design, and we will not affirm it. Rather we pray that God will grant deliverance from every bond that is contrary to His Word, and that He will lead your daughter into paths of righteousness for His name's sake.

We pray with you that every ungodly counsel, every plan to control, divide and isolate, and every word spoken to make your daughter feel worthless and without family would be exposed and frustrated by the Lord. The Scriptures declare that deliverance from the power of darkness is as much the work of God as deliverance from the guilt of sin, and that we must look to our heavenly Father altogether and alone for it. He alone brings His people forth, and He does not share the honor of that deliverance with another. As you have pleaded the precious blood of Christ, we rest upon that ransom which Divine Love has found and provided, for God has said, I have found a ransom, and by that ransom sinners are delivered from the pit.

We ask that the Holy Spirit would open your daughter's eyes to see this relationship as it truly is before God, not as a marriage, not as the provision and spiritual covering which the Lord intends a husband to be, but as a stumbling block that has brought exhaustion, financial hardship and chaos. Pray that He would grant her wisdom to protect what He has entrusted to her, to take on no more debt to sustain what is not hers to bear, and to refuse to be exploited or made to carry undue responsibilities for another. Pray that the isolation which has been pressed upon her would be broken, and that her hunger for righteousness would be reignited, so that she would turn again with courage to her family and to the fellowship of the church, where in prayer with the children all the necessities of the household can be brought before God.

We remember before the Lord the sorrow you feel as a mother when unkindness and coldness are returned for love. We pray that the Lord would soften your daughter's heart to receive His conviction, that she would no longer imitate the disrespect shown toward you and her siblings, and that she would be granted repentance and restoration as Peter was restored. Peter fell grievously, yet the Lord's look severed him from the crowd and brought him to tears of repentance, and by the threefold charge to feed the sheep the Lord abundantly assured him of restoration to usefulness. So we pray that your daughter, if she has wandered, may receive such a restoration from the Lord Himself that she may become stronger in faith ever afterwards, and that she would remember she is a child of the Most High God, bought with a price, and that her worth is in Him and not in the approval of any who would control her.

We pray also for those who have exercised ungodly influence. We ask that the young man's mother would see that to encourage living together, to counsel the bearing of children outside of marriage, and to place the burden of caring for her son upon your daughter is not love but a work of darkness rooted in pride and selfishness, and that she would be brought to see her need to focus upon her own household before the Lord. We pray that the young man himself would be convicted of laziness, manipulation, dishonesty and disrespect toward your family, and that his father would take proper responsibility to call him to account and to remove him from a place where he is not ready to lead or to love as Christ commands. We ask God to block every scheme that would follow your daughter even into her workplace, and to guard the promotion which the Lord in His kindness has given her, that her labor which serves others so beautifully would not be undermined.

For you, we pray that you would not grow weary in well doing. Continue to keep that well in the family where prayer is made daily, mentioning each child by name, bringing all troubles past and all difficulties to come before God. He sometimes whispers to the heart of His children in trial and assures them they shall not be crushed. Though you have stayed at the brook Jabbok with fear and trembling, the Lord is able to make even an Esau fall upon the neck in peace, and to turn dilemma into deliverance. He makes deliverance effectual, and He attends it with enrichment, bringing forth His people not empty but with silver and gold, with favor and honor that He alone provides.

We now pray together:

O Lord our God, who alone delivers from the pit and from the power of darkness, look in mercy upon this daughter and this family. By the blood of the Lamb slain, bring forth this daughter from confusion and bondage. Give her a new heart to love Thy Word, courage to walk away from what is not holy with no regret, and grace to follow again the biblical teachings in which she was raised. Restore fellowship, happiness, respect and unity within this family. Let no weapon formed against them prosper, but let Thy supernatural love, favor and protection overflow and heal all brokenness. Guard her steps when she visits her home, that she may not be swayed by hatred or manipulation, but may speak and hear with a renewed spirit. In Thy time, if it be Thy will, provide for her a godly spouse who will walk with her in Christ, but above all draw her to put her faith and trust wholly in Jesus, her only Savior. We ask this not of him that wills nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

 

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Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Nyfre]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.