Peace, Protection, Freedom and Restoration

[Cralmilan]

Lord remove the overreach of this young man’s mother swiftly, who has no biblical authority to speak into my older daughter’s life. Her counsel to live together, have children outside of marriage, having her son exploiting in daughter income for his use, demanding my daughter treat this arrangement as a marriage, cause division, isolation on her suppotive network and making my daughter feel worthless then have her confide in her when her son mistreat her. She instigate chaos then want to act as a hero to her relationship. They have isolate my daughter from her supportive network in order to control her and keep their family life together. Deliberately keep my daughter away for her supportive network. This young man is controling, manipulative, laziness, corrupted and rebellious. This young man's mother instigate the mistreat, she has placed undue responsiblities on my daughter to take care of her son. He is not getting better just more demanding and controlling towards my daughter and disrespectful toward our family. This woman’s ungodly, pride, destruction, selfish, jealousy and manipulation are rooted in darkness, and I pray the Lord exposes her motives and frustrates every plan she has to control, divide and isolate my daughter from me, her siblings, family and church friends. I declare that my older daughter is not homeless, nor does she need this woman’s approval, or be a part of her family or guidance. My daughter has a loving, supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray the Holy Spirit breaks the hold of this toxic influence over her heart. This woman is jealous and looks down upon my daugther but she insist on my daughter to go to her for guidance on how to stay in this toxic relationship with her son. Lord I pray this mother will see she is enabling her son to be disrespectful and corrupted towards others. I pray my daughter will remember she is the Child of the Most High God and for her to release herself for this toxic lifestyle swiftly. Let her stop using her family as a financial resource to help her sustain this man's needs. Give her the wisdom to protect her finances from him. He should not be allow to use the ungodly living relationship as a marriage. Block and frustrate every word curses and plots from this woman and her son. This young man is not ready for a relationship. I pray his father will have him move back home alone. Father, I ask You to open my older daughter’s eyes to the truth. Let her see this man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. I pray she would no longer defend, admire or commit this relationship and living arrangement, or take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear. Lord let her see the exhaustion and financial hardship she Is experiences is due to living with this young man outside of marriage. Guide her Lord to not take out anymore credit card to support this man and this toxic lifestyle. He is lazy, manipulative, dishonest, exploit her finances for his own benefit and isolate her from supportive people who care for her. Jesus I ask that You guidance my older daughter to stop imitating this young man's behaviors toward me. She has been cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude toward me. I am not sure how much more I can take of this behavior. Lord soften my daughter's heart to receive Your conviction, and grant her the courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets. Guide back to follow the biblical teachings and stop taking her family for grant and put this young man and his family before her faith and her family. Jesus I ask You to intervene supernaturally, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word. Let my daughter hunger for righteousness be reignited, and let her return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Lord thank you for show me the message from this woman says it makes her heart happy that my daughter is following her lead and not a part of her church community anymore. Now she is intervening in my daughter job trying to work there. Lord help my daughter to stop confiding in this woman and helping her. She does not respect my daughter. Lord I pray that she will put her faith and trust in You again so she can regain her self worth. I pray Lord that she will see her worth in You and not allow these people that make her feel worthless and familialess anymore. This woman need to focus and fix her own family. Her son is not ready for a relationship. Lord grant my daughter the wisdom, self worth and courage to leave this unhealthy ungodly relationship swiftly. This has been going on for too many years and these people division, manipulation and isolation continues to manifest. My daughter is a child of the Most High God, she belong to You and she does not belong to this manipulating young man and his family. My daughter is alway exhausted, forgetful and lives in chaos with this young man but blame this on her jobs, friends or family members. Give her the wisdom, knowledge and courage to not put up with his bullying, dishonesty, controlling and exploitation. This young man's mother is now interfering in my daughter new promoted job in a negative way. She controls, manipulates and undermines my daughter but then she acts as if she has her best interests at heart. My daughter is such an inspiring young lady, admired and loved by everyone but everyone is witnessing her exhaustion and withdrawal. I thank You Lord for the job promotion you have blessed her with last month. Her jobs serves such a beautiful purpose for others. It is sad to see my daughter blinded and suffering this way. Lord guide my daughter to not put the young man and his family before her faith, supportive family, friends and jobs. I plead the precious blood over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. Jesus restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom. I pray that Your supernatural love, favor, protection will overflow in me and my family and will heal all the brokenness. I pray when my older daughter come to visit that she will not be influence by this young man hatred and manipulation toward me and her siblings. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. Jesus I ask for a Godly spouse for her. Bless her with Your peace, complete restoration and protect my daughter from going down the disruptive path. In Jesus name, I pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We join with you in prayer for your older daughter and we hear the deep pain, burden and righteous concern you carry for her as her mother. We stand with you against every ungodly influence that seeks to control, isolate and diminish her, and we pray for her swift deliverance and restoration to the Lord and to her supportive family and church community.

We must address clearly what the Scriptures call this living arrangement. Living together outside of marriage, sexual intimacy outside of marriage, and having children outside of marriage is fornication, and it is sin before God. This is not a marriage in the eyes of God, and it must not be treated as one. The counsel this young man and his mother are giving to live together as if married, to bear children outside of marriage, and to exploit your daughter's income is ungodly counsel and must be rejected. The Bible says Flee sexual immorality 1 Corinthians 6:18 and Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrews 13:4. A boyfriend is not a husband, and courtship should only be with the goal of marriage to a fellow believer in Christ, not cohabitation. We also affirm that this young man's mother has no biblical authority to speak into your daughter's life, to demand she treat fornication as marriage, or to isolate her from her parents, siblings and church. Blessed is the man who doesn’t walk in the counsel of the wicked Psalm 1:1. Her counsel is rooted in selfishness and manipulation and leads to destruction, and we pray the Lord exposes it completely.

We also see the pattern you describe of control, manipulation, laziness, exploitation of finances, disrespect toward your family, and isolation, which are not the fruit of a godly man who would be a husband, provider and spiritual leader. A man who will not work and exploits a woman is in rebellion against God's design. The Bible warns Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness and iniquity 2 Corinthians 6:14 and Have no fellowship with the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but rather even reprove them Ephesians 5:11. The exhaustion, financial hardship, chaos and forgetfulness your daughter is experiencing are the natural consequences of living outside of God's order, and of carrying burdens that are not hers to bear. Every wise woman builds her house, but the foolish one tears it down with her own hands Proverbs 14:1. We rebuke the spirit of laziness, dishonesty, bullying and financial exploitation operating through this young man, and the jealousy, pride and divisive control operating through his mother.

We also lovingly address your daughter's behavior toward you. Even in her confusion, she is called to honor her father and mother, which is the first commandment with a promise Ephesians 6:2-3. Her coldness, ingratitude and rudeness toward you grieves the Lord and grieves you, and we pray for her repentance in this as well. We encourage you not to enable this ungodly lifestyle further. To continue to provide financial resources that sustain fornication and laziness is not love, and we encourage you to protect your finances and set clear biblical boundaries with wisdom. If anyone will not work, neither let him eat 2 Thessalonians 3:10.

We pray together now.

Father, in the name of Jesus Christ we come before Your throne of grace and we lift up this precious daughter to You. She is Your child, created in Your image, raised in Your ways, and she belongs to You and not to this young man or his family. Lord, open her eyes to see the truth. Let her see this man not as a husband but as a stumbling block, not as a provider or spiritual leader but as one who is controlling, lazy and exploitive. Remove the spiritual blindness and break the hold of this toxic influence over her heart and mind. Grant her wisdom and understanding, for You give wisdom generously to all who ask James 1:5. Give her the spirit of power, love and self-control 2 Timothy 1:7 to walk away from this bondage with no regrets and with courage.

Lord, we ask You to frustrate every plan to control, divide and isolate her. Expose the motives of this young man's mother and block every word curse and plot formed against this family. No weapon that is formed against you will prevail Isaiah 54:17. We plead the blood of Jesus over this mother and her children and her household. Break the cycle of division and cause every scheme of darkness to fail, for we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities and spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places Ephesians 6:12. Let this daughter hunger and thirst for righteousness again Matthew 5:6 and return to the safety and wisdom of her family and her church community.

Father, we pray she will immediately flee sexual immorality, end the cohabitation, and no longer take on responsibilities that are not hers or take out credit to support this man. Give her wisdom to protect her finances and to steward what You have provided, including this promotion You have blessed her with, for Your glory. Soften her heart to receive Your conviction and to honor her mother and family again. Heal the brokenness, restore peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom in this family. Let her remember her worth is in You, that she is fearfully and wonderfully made Psalm 139:14 and that she is not homeless or worthless but deeply loved and valued.

Lord, we pray for this young man and his mother as well, that You would bring them to repentance, that the young man would turn from his corrupted and rebellious ways, learn to work with his own hands and become responsible, and that his father would take proper responsibility for him and have him move back home alone if that is Your will to bring separation. Let this woman focus on her own household and cease her overreach.

Father, we thank You that nothing is impossible for You Luke 1:37. We ask that You restore this daughter completely, protect her from going further down this destructive path, and in Your perfect timing, if it is Your will, bless her with a godly spouse, a Christian husband who will love her as Christ loved the church Ephesians 5:25 and lead her in righteousness within the sanctity of marriage. Guard her new job from interference and let her shine as a light for Your purposes. Heal all exhaustion and chaos and replace it with Your peace that surpasses all understanding Philippians 4:7.

We trust You to intervene supernaturally, to remove every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word, and to bring this daughter home to You and to her family. We ask all of this in the mighty and only saving name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

 

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We hear how heavy and long this has been for you as a mother, watching your older daughter grow exhausted and withdrawn while feeling unable to reach her. It makes sense you feel torn between loving her deeply and feeling hurt by the coldness and disrespect that has come into your relationship with her.

What you describe, the isolation from family and church friends, the financial pressure and control, the repeated demeaning and chaos, are the kinds of patterns that wear a person down over time and make it very hard to see clearly or to ask for help. It is also understandable that you feel burdened carrying responsibilities that are not yours to carry.

One steady way we can love someone in this place is to keep healthy boundaries while keeping the door open. Boundaries are like a property line that help us own what is ours, our time, energy, finances, and choices, and to not take on what belongs to another. That can look like continuing to be a calm, safe presence for your daughter without funding the arrangement that is harming her, speaking truth in love when invited, and leaning on other trusted people, family, church community, a pastor or Christian counselor, to support both you and her. If you have not already, it may help to talk confidentially with a pastor or counselor about a safety plan and next steps for staying connected.

Father, we lift this mother and her daughter to You in Jesus' name. Protect them, grant wisdom and courage, and surround them with safe, supportive community. Soften and clear her daughter's heart to know her worth in You and to find freedom and peace again, and comfort this mother as she trusts You day by day. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has been laid before the Lord, and we have heard the burden of a mother's heart that longs for her daughter's freedom and restoration. The sorrow you describe, the exhaustion and confusion, the isolation and the financial hardship that has come with a life lived outside the covenant of marriage, is not hidden from Him who sees and who saves.

We do not ask God to bless what His Word calls sin, for marriage is the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and the living together and the union that belongs within it are holy only there. To treat what is not marriage as if it were marriage brings not blessing but bondage, and we pray not for its continuance but for deliverance from it. There is a higher restoration than mere relief from outward trouble, even deliverance from the pit itself. When a soul seems about to be dragged down, the voice from the excellent glory says, Deliver him from going down to the pit, and infinite mercy snaps the bands and sets the captive free. That voice you shall always hear, if you are a child of God, when you get into a fix, when you are brought into peril and trouble, for God has given commandment to save His own.

We pray with you that the Holy Spirit would break the hold of every toxic influence over your daughter's heart. Scripture teaches that deliverance from the power of sin is as much the work of God as deliverance from the guilt of sin, and where we look for justification there must we also look for sanctification. It is the Lord alone who delivers from the fascinating power of sin, from the power of darkness. He has taught many to say, He has delivered us, and He can teach your daughter the mischief that comes from loving the world and the things thereof, so that temptation shall be in vain. We ask that He would open her ears and seal her instruction, that He may withdraw her from a purpose that is not His and hide pride from her, and turn her feet back to the safety and wisdom of her family and her church.

We join you in praying that every plan to control, divide and isolate her would be frustrated and exposed, that every word spoken against her worth and every plot to keep her from her supportive network would come to nothing. We pray that the young man and his mother would be brought to see their own need of repentance, that the mother would cease to enable what is corrupting and rebellious, and that the father would exercise godly responsibility. Above all we pray that your daughter would see this relationship for what it is, not a marriage, not a provision, not a spiritual covering, but a stumbling block in her walk with Christ, and that she would find courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets.

We thank God with you for the promotion He has graciously given her in her work, and we pray that she would be given wisdom to protect what He has entrusted to her, to take on no more debt to sustain what is draining her, and to steward her finances with prudence and not as a resource for another's demands. We pray that the Lord would soften her heart where it has grown cold toward you, that He would grant her to hunger again for righteousness, to remember that she is a child of the Most High God, redeemed by the blood of Jesus Christ alone, for there is no other name by which we are saved. May she look away from herself and look unto Christ, for it is all she has to do, to look and live.

The Lord chastens those He loves, and that which we receive from the rod of His fatherly hand bears a blessed aspect and is made profitable to us. Though affliction is sore, the believer may yet say, I shall not die, but live, and declare the works of the Lord. We pray that this would be your testimony and hers, that perfect restoration would be known, for Christ has redeemed us from the curse, and when a wandering soul returns there is music and rejoicing, and God will commune with His child from the mercy seat and be her constant companion.

We plead the precious blood of Christ over you and your children, and we ask for supernatural love, favor and protection to overflow in your home, that peace, fellowship, happiness, respect and unity would be restored. May the Lord keep your daughter from going down a disruptive path, guard her new employment from interference, keep her from withdrawing from those who love her most, and guide her, if it be His will, in due time to a godly spouse within His holy ordinance. Until then, keep close to Christ yourself, be communicative of His faithfulness, remain steadfast in prayer, walk in quiet composure of mind and freedom from fretful anxiety, delighting yourself in a faithful God, and trust that He who has begun a good work will perfect it.

We will continue to bear you and your daughter before the throne, asking that the Lord would do what is impossible with man, that He would grant wisdom, self worth rooted in Christ, and courage to leave what is unhealthy and ungodly, and to return to the paths of righteousness for His name's sake. In the name of Jesus Christ our only Savior, Amen.

 

[Windwold]

Praying with you in Jesus'name, Amen

 

[Nyfre]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.