Cralmilan

Beloved of All
Lord remove the overreach of this young man’s mother swiftly, who has no biblical authority to speak into my older daughter’s life. Her counsel to live together, have children outside of marriage, having her son exploiting in daughter income for his use, demanding my daughter treat this arrangement as a marriage, cause division, isolation on her suppotive network and making my daughter feel worthless then have her confide in her when her son mistreat her. She instigate chaos then want to act as a hero to her relationship. They have isolate my daughter from her supportive network in order to control her and keep their family life together. Deliberately keep my daughter away for her supportive network. This young man is controling, manipulative, laziness, corrupted and rebellious. This young man's mother instigate the mistreat, she has placed undue responsiblities on my daughter to take care of her son. He is not getting better just more demanding and controlling towards my daughter and disrespectful toward our family. This woman’s ungodly, pride, destruction, selfish, jealousy and manipulation are rooted in darkness, and I pray the Lord exposes her motives and frustrates every plan she has to control, divide and isolate my daughter from me, her siblings, family and church friends. I declare that my older daughter is not homeless, nor does she need this woman’s approval, or be a part of her family or guidance. My daughter has a loving, supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray the Holy Spirit breaks the hold of this toxic influence over her heart. This woman is jealous and looks down upon my daugther but she insist on my daughter to go to her for guidance on how to stay in this toxic relationship with her son. Lord I pray this mother will see she is enabling her son to be disrespectful and corrupted towards others. I pray my daughter will remember she is the Child of the Most High God and for her to release herself for this toxic lifestyle swiftly with no regrets. Let her stop using her family as a financial resource to help her sustain this man's needs. Give her the wisdom to protect her finances from him. He should not be allow to use the ungodly living relationship as a marriage. Help and guide my daughter to not imitate this young man stubbishness, gossiping and mocking behaviors to other and lrectore her grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerating manner. Block and frustrate every word curses and plots from this woman and her son. This young man is not ready for a relationship. Open my daughter's eyes to see this and put herself before him. I pray his father will have him move back home alone. Father, I ask You to open my older daughter’s eyes to the truth. Let her see this man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. I pray she would no longer defend, admire or commit this relationship and living arrangement, or take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear. Lord let her see the exhaustion and financial hardship she Is experiences is due to living with this young man outside of marriage. Guide her Lord to not take out anymore credit card to support this man and this toxic lifestyle. He is lazy, manipulative, dishonest, exploit her finances for his own benefit and isolate her from supportive people who care for her. Jesus I ask that You guidance my older daughter to stop imitating this young man's behaviors toward me. She has been cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude toward me. I am not sure how much more I can take of this behavior. Lord soften my daughter's heart to receive Your conviction, and grant her the courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets. Guide back to follow the biblical teachings and stop taking her family for grant and put this young man and his family before her faith and her family. Jesus I ask You to intervene supernaturally, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word. Let my daughter hunger for righteousness be reignited, and let her return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Lord thank you for show me the message from this woman says it makes her heart happy that my daughter is following her lead and not a part of her church community anymore. Now she is intervening in my daughter job trying to work there. Lord help my daughter to stop confiding in this woman and helping her. She does not respect my daughter. Lord I pray that she will put her faith and trust in You again so she can regain her self worth. I pray Lord that she will see her worth in You and not allow these people that make her feel worthless and familialess anymore. This woman need to focus and fix her own family. Her son is not ready for a relationship. Lord grant my daughter the wisdom, self worth and courage to leave this unhealthy ungodly relationship swiftly. This has been going on for too many years and these people division, manipulation and isolation continues to manifest. My daughter is a child of the Most High God, she belong to You and she does not belong to this manipulating young man and his family. My daughter is alway exhausted, forgetful and lives in chaos with this young man but blame this on her jobs, friends or family members. Give her the wisdom, knowledge and courage to not put up with his bullying, dishonesty, controlling and exploitation. This young man's mother is now interfering in my daughter new promoted job in a negative way. She controls, manipulates and undermines my daughter but then she acts as if she has her best interests at heart. My daughter is such an inspiring young lady, admired and loved by everyone but everyone is witnessing her exhaustion and withdrawal. I thank You Lord for the job promotion you have blessed her with last month. Her jobs serves such a beautiful purpose for others. It is sad to see my daughter blinded and suffering this way. Lord guide my daughter to not put the young man and his family before her faith, supportive family, friends and jobs. I plead the precious blood over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. Jesus restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom. I pray that Your supernatural love, favor, protection will overflow in me and my family and will heal all the brokenness. I pray when my older daughter come to visit that she will not be influence by this young man hatred and manipulation toward me and her siblings. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. Jesus I ask for a Godly spouse for her. Bless her with Your peace, complete restoration and protect my daughter from going down the disruptive path. In Jesus name, I pray. Amen.
 
We hear the deep burden you carry for your older daughter and we join you together before the Lord in Jesus' name, asking for His peace, protection, freedom and complete restoration over her life and over your family.

We stand with you in discerning that the counsel she is receiving is not from the Lord. To encourage a couple to live together, to have children outside of marriage, and to treat an ungodly living arrangement as if it were marriage is contrary to Scripture and must be rebuked. The Word says, Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. Hebrews 13:4 and Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. 1 Corinthians 6:18. What is being presented as marriage is fornication, and it brings exhaustion, financial hardship, confusion and bondage rather than the blessing God intends for marriage between a man and a woman for life. We also affirm that courtship should be with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, not prolonged cohabitation. Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? 2 Corinthians 6:14. A young man who is controlling, manipulative, lazy, dishonest and exploits a woman financially is not ready to be a husband, provider or spiritual leader, and a mother who has no biblical authority over your daughter should not be speaking into her life with ungodly, selfish and jealous counsel.

We grieve with you over the isolation, division, and control you describe. It is not God’s will for your daughter to be cut off from her loving family and her church community who raised her in the ways of the Lord. Blessed is the man who doesn’t walk in the counsel of the wicked, nor stand on the path of sinners, nor sit in the seat of scoffers. Psalm 1:1 and Have no fellowship with the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but rather even reprove them. Ephesians 5:11. The pattern of instigating chaos and then presenting as a hero, of undermining while claiming to have her best interests at heart, of interfering even in her workplace and enjoying that she is no longer part of her church, is rooted in darkness and manipulation. We pray the Lord exposes every motive and frustrates every plan to control, divide and isolate her. We also see the financial exploitation you mention, the pressure to take on credit card debt to sustain this man and this lifestyle, and we agree that this is not stewardship. The wisdom of God will teach her to protect what He has entrusted to her and to no longer use her family as a financial resource for this ungodly arrangement.

We also must lovingly address that your daughter has begun to imitate the stubbornness, gossip, mocking, coldness and disrespect she is surrounded by, even toward you. Scripture calls children to honor their parents, Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with a promise. Ephesians 6:1-2, and we pray that chain is broken. She is not homeless, she is not without family, and she does not need this woman’s approval to have worth. Her worth is in Christ. See how great a love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God. 1 John 3:1 and You are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation. 1 Peter 2:9. She is a child of the Most High God and she does not belong to this young man or his family.

We lift her before the Father now together.

Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we come boldly to Your throne of grace for this precious daughter. You see her exhaustion, her forgetfulness, her living in chaos, and how she blames her jobs, friends or family while the true weight is this yoke outside of marriage. Lord, open her eyes to see this man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block to her walk with You. Soften her heart to receive Your conviction and grant her courage to walk away swiftly with no regrets. Break every ungodly soul tie, every word curse and plot from this woman and her son, and let no weapon that is formed against her or her family prevail. Isaiah 54:17. We plead the precious blood of Jesus over this mother and her children and ask that You frustrate every word and scheme meant to control and diminish her.

Lord, renew her mind that she may not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of her mind. Romans 12:2. Restore to her a grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate spirit, and remove the cold, ungrateful and degrading behavior she has shown toward her mother. Heal the brokenness between mother and daughter, between siblings, and restore fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom in this home. We ask that You block the overreach of this young man’s mother, that You convict her and her son of enabling disrespect and corruption, and that You move this young man back to his own father’s house alone, apart from Your daughter, so that she may have space to hear Your voice again.

Father, give this daughter wisdom to protect her finances, to take on no more debt for this man, and to steward her promotion which You so graciously gave her last month for Your purposes. Let her no longer confide in one who does not respect her, but let her hunger for righteousness be reignited and let her return to the safety and wisdom of her family and her church community. Let her put her faith and trust in You again, for You are her helper. My help comes from Yahweh, who made heaven and earth. Psalm 121:2. If therefore the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed. John 8:36. We thank You that You heal the brokenhearted and bind up their wounds. Psalm 147:3 and that You will restore what has been stolen.

We also thank You that this mother has not grown weary in praying, and we ask You to strengthen her. Let her not be weary in doing well, for in due season she will reap, if she doesn’t give up. Galatians 6:9. Fill her with Your supernatural love, favor and protection, and let Your peace that surpasses understanding guard her heart.

Lord, we agree with this mother’s prayer for a godly spouse for her daughter in Your perfect timing, a marriage that honors You, not a counterfeit. Until then, keep her pure, keep her free, keep her close to You. We ask all of this through Jesus Christ our Lord, for Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. John 14:6 and There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved. Acts 4:12. It is only through Jesus that our prayers are heard and our lives are redeemed, and we cling to His name now.

We encourage you to continue to love your daughter with truth and grace, to maintain healthy boundaries especially regarding finances, to keep the doors of home and church open without endorsing the sin, and to seek wise pastoral counsel together with your church family for ongoing support and accountability. Keep praying, keep speaking the Word over her, and trust that the Holy Spirit is working even when you cannot yet see the breakthrough. We are standing with you for her swift release, her restored joy, and for your family to walk in unity and peace again.
 
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We hear how heavy this has been, watching your older daughter grow exhausted and withdrawn while you feel shut out by the people influencing her. Loving a daughter through isolation and financial pressure is heartbreaking, and it makes sense you feel worn down by the coldness you have experienced from her.

One insight that helps many families in this kind of strain is thinking about boundaries as a property line around what each person is responsible for, our values, time, money, choices and relationships. When those lines get blurred it becomes hard to say yes and no freely. You cannot make those choices for your daughter, but you can keep your own lines clear and keep the door open for her. Staying steady, warm and available without trying to control her decisions often keeps connection alive more than pressing for a quick break. It also helps to stay connected to your own support, family, church friends, and a pastor or counselor you trust, so you are not carrying this alone.

If you are worried about her exhaustion or safety, gently encourage her to see a medical professional alongside prayer, and let her know where she can find confidential help if she ever feels unsafe.

Father, we lift this mother and her daughter to You in Jesus' name. Protect them, guard their hearts and finances, give them wisdom and courage for each next step, and surround them with safe community. Bring peace and restoration to this family and lead her daughter into freedom and wholeness. Amen.
 
"So do not fear, for I am with you;
do not be dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you and help you;
I will uphold you with My righteous right Hand" (Isaiah 41:10)

I prayed with you for this, in Jesus' powerful Name, Amen.

Proverbs 3:5-6: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight".
 
Your prayer for your older daughter has been brought before the Lord with deep heaviness of heart, and with thankfulness for your faithful love as a mother who has raised her in the ways of the Lord and who continues to plead for her at the mercy seat.

We do not ask God to bless what His Word calls sin, for He has ordained marriage to be a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and He has reserved living together and the gift of children to be within that holy covenant. Salvation and worth are found in Jesus Christ alone, not in any human approval or ungodly arrangement. Therefore we pray not for the strengthening of this cohabiting bond, but for deliverance from it, that your daughter may be loosed from every chain that holds her and restored to walk in righteousness before Him.

We have entreated the Lord to remove the overreach of this young man's mother, who has no biblical authority to speak into your daughter's life, and to expose and frustrate every plan to control, divide and isolate. Where there has been counsel to live together outside of marriage, to treat that arrangement as though it were marriage, to exploit your daughter's income and to place upon her responsibilities that are not hers to bear, we pray that the Lord would bring that counsel to nothing. We ask Him to block every word curse and every plot, to frustrate the designs rooted in pride and selfishness and manipulation, and to let your daughter see clearly that this influence is not love but darkness that would keep her from her family, her church and her God.

We pray for your daughter herself, that the Holy Spirit would open her eyes to see this young man not as a husband, for he is not, nor as a provider or spiritual leader, but as a stumbling block in her walk with Christ. He has shown himself controlling and demanding, idle and dishonest, using her finances for his own benefit and drawing her into exhaustion, forgetfulness and chaos. We ask the Lord to give her wisdom to protect what He has entrusted to her, to take on no more debt to sustain this toxic manner of life, and to cease imitating the stubbornness, gossip and mocking that have made her cold and ungrateful toward you who love her. May the Lord soften her heart to receive His conviction, remind her that she is a child of the Most High God bought with a price, and grant her courage to release herself swiftly from this bondage with no regrets, remembering her worth in Christ and no longer allowing any to make her feel worthless or without family.

We know that deliverance from sin and from the power of darkness is as much the work of God as deliverance from its guilt. It is not of him that wills nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. He alone has found a ransom. When the Lamb was slain, He brought His people forth, and He did not bring them forth empty but with enrichment. So we look to our heavenly Father altogether and alone for your daughter's deliverance, believing that the clock of mercy can strike in heaven the hour of her freedom, for nothing is impossible with Him. As Peter was restored not by his own resolve but by a look from the Lord that severed him from the crowd and brought him to bitter and blessed repentance, so we pray that Christ would look upon your daughter, turn her, and restore her to her first love.

We pray also for you, that you would not faint under this long trial. There is a well in the family where in prayer with the children you can bring all the necessities of the household before God. Continue there. Tell Him of the interference even in her promoted work, of the weariness you feel when she is cold and degrading toward you, of the division sown among siblings and friends. He does not shut His ear to the cry of His people. He will hear. And when He delivers, you shall live to declare the works of the Lord, for if we had no troubles we would have less to declare, and those who have been in deep waters have most to sing of when Barak's victory is outdone by Christ's greater salvation.

We ask the Lord to grant peace within your borders and deliverance from ecclesiastical discord, to draw your daughter back to hunger for righteousness, to the safety and wisdom of her family and her church community, and to heal what has been broken. We pray that every obstacle and every voice that contradicts His Word would be removed, that the young man would be led to return alone to his father's house and to face his own need of repentance, and that his mother would be led to focus upon her own household rather than to control another's. We plead the precious blood of Christ over you and your children, trusting that no weapon formed against you shall prosper, and we ask for supernatural love, favor and protection to overflow in your home.

For your daughter's future we do not ask God to prosper sin, but to keep her pure and to restore her to Himself first. If it be His will in His perfect time, we ask Him to provide a godly spouse, a man who will love Christ and lead a household in holiness, but above all we ask that she would be kept from this destructive path and be made whole in Him.

May the Lord who chastens and yet delivers, who wounds and yet binds up, grant you to see your daughter loosed, grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate again, serving her beautiful calling with joy and no longer blaming others for the exhaustion that comes from living outside His design. We commit you and her to Him who is able to deliver effectually and to bring forth with joy. In the name of Jesus Christ our only hope and ransom we pray, Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
 

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