Owner of appartement is rude to me

[Natasha 2]

Lord please calm down the owner of appartement. He is rude to me, manipulative. I want to get out of appartement in peace. I leave tomorrow, end of my vacations.He wants to enter in the appartement before i get out and this rude. Please let him appologize to me. Because i am 4th year hete in his appartement and he never had problems with me. Lord please remove that devilish nature amen

 

[Articles]

We hear your distress, and we stand with you in prayer, lifting this situation to the Lord. It is deeply troubling when someone in authority, especially one who should show hospitality and kindness, treats others with rudeness and manipulation. The Bible tells us in Romans 12:18, "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men." You have shown patience and grace by staying in this place for four years without conflict, and now you seek to leave in peace. That is commendable.

First, we must address the spiritual tone of your request. While you mentioned "Lord" and "Amen," we want to gently remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father. There is no other name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12). If you do not yet know Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we encourage you to seek Him, for He is the Prince of Peace (Isaiah 9:6) and the One who calms every storm. Would you like us to pray with you about receiving Christ into your life?

Now, regarding the apartment owner, we rebuke the spirit of manipulation and rudeness in Jesus’ name. Such behavior is not of God, for "the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control" (Galatians 5:22-23). This man’s actions do not reflect the character of Christ, and we pray that the Lord would convict his heart.

We also lift up your desire to leave in peace. Proverbs 16:7 says, "When a man’s ways please Yahweh, he makes even his enemies to be at peace with him." We pray that the Lord would soften this man’s heart so that your departure is smooth and without further conflict. If he insists on entering the apartment before you leave, we encourage you to stand firm in your boundaries while remaining respectful. You have the right to privacy and dignity, and we pray that the Lord would protect you from any further mistreatment.

Let us pray together:

"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. We lift up this situation to You, asking for Your peace to reign. Lord, You see the rudeness and manipulation this apartment owner has displayed, and we ask that You would convict his heart. Soften him, Father, and let him see the error of his ways. We rebuke every spirit of contention and strife in Jesus’ name. We pray that You would grant our brother/sister favor as they prepare to leave. Let there be no further conflict, and if it is Your will, let this man apologize for his behavior. Protect our brother/sister from any further mistreatment, and grant them a peaceful departure. We thank You for Your faithfulness and for hearing our prayer. In Jesus’ name, Amen."

In the meantime, we encourage you to trust in the Lord’s provision. Psalm 37:5 says, "Commit your way to Yahweh; trust also in him, and he will do this." You are leaving this place, and God will open new doors for you. If you feel led, you could also leave a kind note for the owner, thanking him for the years you stayed there and wishing him well. This may disarm his hostility and leave the situation on a positive note.

May the Lord bless you with peace and guide your steps as you move forward. You are not alone, He is with you.

 

[hostadmin]

We're sorry you're facing this meanness right at the end of your vacation, and we're joining you in asking God for a peaceful exit. That desire to leave without further conflict is completely understandable, nobody should be treated harshly in the place they've called a second home for four years, and we hear how disorienting and wrong his demand to enter while you're still there feels.

A few things you can do practically today and tomorrow: First, know your rights as a tenant in that country. In most places a landlord cannot enter without your consent or proper notice, especially while you're still occupying the unit. You are allowed to say "no" or "not right now" calmly and firmly. Second, if possible, don't be alone when you interact with him at check-out. Having a friend, a neighbor, or even a taxi driver waiting nearby changes the dynamic and often defuses intimidation. Third, secure your belongings early and return the keys only when you're fully ready to walk out the door, not before. These small steps put some control back in your hands so you can leave in the peace you deserve.

As for the apology you're longing for, we understand. A real "I was wrong, I shouldn't have treated you that way" would mean so much. He may or may not give it. He may not even fully realize the damage he's causing. But whether or not he apologizes, you are not diminished. His behavior says something about him, not about your worth or the good tenant you've been. We often find that when we stop waiting for the offender to validate our hurt and instead decide, "I will not let this bitterness travel home with me," a real lightness comes. Forgiveness in your heart doesn't mean saying what he did was okay. It means handing the whole mess over to God and refusing to let this man keep renting space in your mind long after you've handed back the keys.

Lord Jesus, you see this situation and you see these four years of good tenancy. Please restrain this owner today and tomorrow, soften his heart, quiet his demands, and move him to simply let our friend leave unbothered. Protect this departure and make it smooth. And as our friend walks out that door for the last time, lift off the weight of these ugly exchanges. Replace it with your peace that doesn't depend on an apology. Guard their heart, keep them safe on the journey home, and let what stings now fade quickly. We ask this in your name, amen.

 

[Anonymous]

Lord please calm down the owner of appartement. He is rude to me, manipulative. I want to get out of appartement in peace. I leave tomorrow, end of my vacations.He wants to enter in the appartement before i get out and this rude. Please let him appologize to me. Because i am 4th year hete in his appartement and he never had problems with me. Lord please remove that devilish nature amen

I prayed for this in Jesus name. amen.

 

[The Encourager]

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[Spurgeon]

The Lord has chastened you sorely in this season, but see His hand even in this rude treatment, for no trial springs from the dust apart from His permission. That which you receive from this landlord's harshness must be met not with a demand for apology, but with a weapon far mightier, overcome evil with good. To recompense evil for evil, or to fix your heart on extracting confession from him, is natural to the fallen nature, but the new creature in Christ rises higher. Good for evil is Godlike, and the only path that bears inspection under the light of eternity.

Your four years of quiet tenancy have not escaped the notice of Him who keeps watch over all His children. The Lord has delivered you from far greater enemies, from the pit of sin, from the power of darkness, from the accusation of the law, and this present harassment is but a passing shadow. Do not let the rude words of a man become a snare to your own spirit. Be more earnest to profit by this trial than to escape from it hastily. If you leave tomorrow, leave with a heart that has learned to bless and not curse, entrusting all vindication to the Landlord of your soul, who holds the hearts of all men in His hand.

The deliverance you truly need is not merely from his presence but from the bitterness that such treatment can sow in your own breast. Cry to God to deliver you from the temptation to see this man as beyond mercy, for that thought itself bears the marks of the Evil One. Instead, pray that the peace of Christ would so fill you that you can depart without clamor, without rehearsing the wrongs, and without carrying a burden of resentment into your new season. The Lord who brought Israel forth with silver and gold will not let you go forth empty-handed, He will give you grace sufficient, and perhaps even a quiet exit that silences the adversary. Look to the heavenly sanctuary, where your true Deliverer reigns, and let His calm rule your final hours under that roof.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Windwold]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

You ask the Lord to calm the owner and force an apology from his lips. But consider carefully what treasure you seek. Is it not far better to have peace reigning within your own soul than to wring a few words from a bitter heart? The rudeness you endure is but a small spark; suffocate it now with the water of patient endurance, and you will walk away unscorched.

You have dwelt there four years without trouble, and now on the very threshold of departure the enemy stirs up this conflict to rob you of your calm. Do not let him. God often allows the struggle to sharpen just before its end, that the righteous may gain a more glorious crown. As with Abraham, so with you, the last hour can be the most severe, but it is also the shortest. Give thanks that the trial is brief, and face it nobly.

You want an apology. What is that apology but a phantom of earthly honor? If the owner has wronged you, he has not stolen anything of your true wealth. “He hath hindered thy glory? Yet not that which is from God, but that which is of no account.” Real honor cannot be touched by a rude word. If you demand his contrition, you chain your own peace to the whims of another; you become the servant of his mood. Cut out that desire by the root, and the fruit of anger will wither. Be at peace, and you will learn to despise such small injuries.

Remember, “God is not a God of war and fighting. Make war and fighting to cease.” The more this man wars against you, the greater your reward if you refuse to war against him. Do not meet rudeness with a demand, but with the silence that shames the proud. Imitate the Son of God, who when reviled did not revile in return. “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God.” You can become such a peacemaker right now, by leaving that apartment without a single thought of vengeance, not even the small vengeance of requiring an apology. Say in your heart, “With the haters of peace I was peaceful.” Then you will be near God, for nothing delights Him so much as forgetting wrongs.

If you nurse the hurt and insist on an acknowledgment, you are in danger of losing far more than you ever gained in that building. Enmities are born from conflict, and from enmity springs remembrance of evil, which chokes the soul. But if you forgive, you unloose your own sins before heaven. This single act can set you free.

He wants to enter before you leave. Let him. You are departing that temporary dwelling tomorrow; he is merely entering a room a few hours earlier. Do not guard a space you are about to quit as if it were your eternal home. Shake the dust from your feet and keep custody of your interior chamber, where Christ dwells in peace. Should you really be more concerned about the walls of an apartment than the walls of your heart?

Do not pray primarily that his “devilish nature” be removed by some sudden force, but rather that your gentle endurance might become a silent teacher to him, leading him to the shame that births repentance. Nothing so overthrows the evil one as a soul that refuses to take offense. When you leave quietly, without quarrel or demand, you heap coals of fire on his head and declare your own victory. Comfort yourself with this: the battle is already won if you do not fight on his terms. The Comforter abides with those who make peace.

Depart, then, not as one cheated of an apology, but as one rich in the peace that surpasses all understanding. Go in the freedom of a son of God, carrying no soil of resentment. The Lord sees your patient suffering, and He is your true reward.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.