Jesus Christ please help me

You have cried out from the depths, and the Lord has heard your groaning. You are ashamed of your sin, and you tremble at the thought of losing all that you hold dear. This is the very place where mercy meets misery. Know this: there is forgiveness. The sins you hide in your heart, the selfishness, the repeated failings, there is forgiveness for them all. Not because you have felt enough sorrow, but because Jesus Christ has borne the wrath they deserved. He blots out your transgressions for His own sake, and the blood of the Son of God cleanses completely. Lay hold of this: “I, even I, am he that blotteth out thy transgressions.” The Lord repeats it because we are so slow to believe it. It is a deed of forgiveness, signed and sealed in the covenant. Let this whisper drive away despair, there is forgiveness.

You fear that your constant pleading wearies God, but it is a joy to Him when a broken heart comes home. You feel you cannot ask anyone else; come then all the more boldly to the mercy seat. He has left the question open for you: there is forgiveness with Him, that He may be feared. How can that be? Why, it is the forgiven man who learns to love and reverence the Lord with a holy awe. You will never truly fear Him by trying to make yourself better first; no, forgiveness comes first, then the sacred fear follows. The Lord says, “A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within you.” He puts His fear in your heart so that you shall not depart from Him. So do not wait for a change before you believe you are forgiven; believe and the change begins.

You speak of that Jim Beam and Sprite, that cold beer, and you hate yourself for it. I do not make light of that sin; it is a cruel master. But listen: the question of your fear asks, “Will He plead against me with His great power?” The reply of faith is a resounding “No.” Shall the Almighty use His arm to crush a contrite worm? Never! Instead, He will put strength in you. That very power which once seemed your terror is now your refuge. He will lend you His omnipotence when you are weak. Cry to Him for deliverance from the bottle, and look to Him for the sustaining grace that kept Job from charging God foolishly. In all your trials, the job, the home, the coldness of your wife’s heart, He is able to keep you from sinning, and He will do it as you cling to the cross.

Think of Job, stripped of everything, yet he was upheld. Your case is heavy, but the Everlasting Arms are beneath it. As for your wife and your children, the Lord can soften hearts that seem like granite. He can give you wisdom to work diligently and on time. But seek first the full forgiveness which is in Christ Jesus, and let that love constrain you. The man who knows how much he has been forgiven, loves much and fears the Lord in truth. The forgiveness is eternal; He never plays fast and loose with men. Once pardoned, you are His child forever. Let this peace rule your heart, and then go forward, not in your own strength, but strong in the Lord and in the power of His might. He has heard your cry; you are not cast away. Believe it, and rise to serve Him.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body

 
You see the depth of your need and you cry out in fear. That very fear is a gift, a sharp pain that tells you the wound is serious. The soul that is numbed by sin feels nothing and runs headlong to destruction. You are not numb. You feel the weight. Do not despise this sorrow, but learn to use it, for there is a sorrow that leads to death and a sorrow that leads to life. The world’s sorrow is filled with despair and self-hatred, drowning itself in the very things that wounded it. You speak of lying on your bed with a drink in your hand after begging for forgiveness. This is not the sorrow of healing but the sorrow of a man beating his chest while still clutching the knife. Esau wept bitter tears, but they gained him nothing because his heart still clung to his murderous grudge. Tears without a change of will are not repentance; they are merely the grief of a pride that has been exposed.

Do not imagine that God is deaf to your cry or that He has abandoned you. Far from it. He is the physician who leans close to the festering wound, not to condemn it, but to cleanse it, if you will let Him. You ask if there is forgiveness for a man who falls again and again, even after knowing the truth. Hear this clearly: there is no second baptism, no second laver to wash you as the first did. But do not let this truth drive you to despair, for repentance has immense power. It is the plank of salvation after the shipwreck. The same Paul who warned against crucifying Christ afresh also travailed in birth again for his children until Christ was formed in them. David fell into adultery and murder, a righteous man felled by a moment of remissness. Yet he did not lie prostrate. He did not say a quick prayer and then reach for his wine. He clothed himself in sackcloth, washed his couch with tears, and poured out nights and days of lamentation. That godly sorrow worked a repentance that brought no regret, and it restored him.

This is your call. You must turn now, not with a fleeting wish to escape consequences, but with a will to hate the sin itself. The fear of losing your job, your wife, your home, this is real, but it is only the beginning. The greater fear must be the dread of offending the God who loves you. Do not say, "Forgive me as I go home to my Jim Beam and Sprite." That is to ask for a cure while swallowing poison. That is not repentance; it is a bargain with death. True repentance says, “I will arise and go to my Father. I will cut off the right hand that causes me to stumble, even if it is the hand that reaches for the bottle at the end of the day.” God does not require you to be sinless in an instant; He requires you to be honest and to struggle. But the struggle cannot be a pretense. If you plan your sin before you ask for pardon, your sorrow is not yet what it must be.

Go, then, and pour out your real fear before God, but leave your excuses and your next drink at the door. Let your prayer be, “Lord, I cannot change myself; help my unwillingness. Give me the sorrow that hates the sin, not just the consequences. Burn this selfishness out of me, whatever it costs.” He has brought you to this moment of crisis so that you might find safety in Him alone. The Church is a spiritual bath, with many medicines for the soul. Use them. Confess your specific dependence, not just to God in the quiet of your dread, but to another faithful soul who can help you walk straight. The shame of secrecy is the devil’s chain; sunlight breaks it. And when the beast of habit roars, do not lie down in defeat. Fight and fall, then fight again, but do not make peace with the enemy. Every time you refuse the bottle, you are forming Christ in your soul again.

Do not look at the mountain of your sins and say, “Why am I this way?” That question, when asked in self-pity, is a snare. Instead, look at the mercy of the Master and say, “He can make even me a vessel of honor.” He is not surprised by your weakness; He allowed you to see it so that you would finally cling to Him with desperation. The softening of your wife’s heart, the favor of your bosses, these are His to grant, but the first heart He must soften is yours. Let the fear you feel be the godly sorrow that works a repentance unto salvation, a turning that you will never regret. Cease your helpless self-loathing and rise up in the strength He gives. The work set before you today, both in a literal job and in the hidden labor of the soul, can be done well by His grace. Only do not ask Him to bless a hand that returns to uncleanness. Ask instead for the hand to be healed, even if it must be broken to be set right. He will answer that prayer, for He is mighty to save.
 
You see the depth of your need and you cry out in fear. That very fear is a gift, a sharp pain that tells you the wound is serious. The soul that is numbed by sin feels nothing and runs headlong to destruction. You are not numb. You feel the weight. Do not despise this sorrow, but learn to use it, for there is a sorrow that leads to death and a sorrow that leads to life. The world’s sorrow is filled with despair and self-hatred, drowning itself in the very things that wounded it. You speak of lying on your bed with a drink in your hand after begging for forgiveness. This is not the sorrow of healing but the sorrow of a man beating his chest while still clutching the knife. Esau wept bitter tears, but they gained him nothing because his heart still clung to his murderous grudge. Tears without a change of will are not repentance; they are merely the grief of a pride that has been exposed.

Do not imagine that God is deaf to your cry or that He has abandoned you. Far from it. He is the physician who leans close to the festering wound, not to condemn it, but to cleanse it, if you will let Him. You ask if there is forgiveness for a man who falls again and again, even after knowing the truth. Hear this clearly: there is no second baptism, no second laver to wash you as the first did. But do not let this truth drive you to despair, for repentance has immense power. It
 
Your cry reaches beyond the walls of your room, and it does not fall on deaf ears. When you lie there on your bed, weighed down by fear and another drink you wish you hadn’t poured, the God who made you sees the whole tangle of your heart. He does not flinch from your questions or your shame.

The book of Job tells us about a man who lost almost everything and didn’t understand why. His friends circled around him and argued that all this ruin must be proof of hidden sin. They were wrong about Job, and often the same mistake gets made inside our own head. We start to believe that every hardship means God has turned away, that we are just hypocrites who need to get our act together before He will listen. But while his friends were reciting tidy formulas, Job was doing something far more honest. He was pouring out his confusion and his pain straight to God. He wasn’t trying to polish up a resume of righteousness. He said, even if I were righteous, I wouldn’t try to justify myself. I would only make my plea: God, have mercy.

That plea is the most fitting one a human being can bring. You are asking for forgiveness, and you are right to. You are asking for help to change, and you need that. But do not think for a moment that you have to clean yourself up before you are allowed to speak. Job reached a point where he cried out for a mediator, someone who could lay his hand on both God and man and bridge the gulf between them. That Mediator has come. Jesus Christ stands exactly there, not waiting to condemn you for the repeated prayers or the ### and ###, but ready to give you the cleansing you cannot manufacture on your own.

You hate the pattern you fall into, and that hatred itself is a sign that the fear of the Lord is not dead in you. Real wisdom begins there: to reverence God and to turn from evil. The problem is not that you keep asking Him for help. The problem is the weight you are carrying that makes the bottle look like a refuge. Bring that specific struggle into the light. Ask God not only to soften your wife’s heart or your boss’s heart, but to break the hold of that cold beer at the end of the day. You are not an “”; you are a man in a fierce battle, and the enemy wants you isolated and too ashamed to speak. Silence is his territory. Your repeated cry for help, however broken, is already the beginning of resistance.

While you wonder if God is there, remember that the entire backstory of Job was hidden from him. He had no idea that God was boasting about him in the heavens, or that a test had been allowed that would eventually reveal a much deeper knowledge of the Lord. You cannot see the full picture either. That does not mean your situation is a punishment to be decoded or that you should sink into despair. It means you are being invited to trust the Judge of all the earth, who does right, even when your own eyes can’t trace His hand.

So tonight, before you reach for the drink, pause and make your plea afresh. Not a plea that tries to promise you’ll be perfect tomorrow, but a simple, honest cry: “God, have mercy on me. I cannot change myself. I cannot keep my job or my home by sheer willpower. I need You to save me from the inside out.” Then let the Mediator do His work. Your forgiveness is not a feeling to work up; it is a fact sealed by His blood. Let that fact be what you lay on your bed with.

Keep asking. Keep repenting. But do it not as one who is trying to earn a hearing, but as a man already seen, already heard, and being slowly made new. He will lift you up, and though you may still walk through days of uncertainty, you will not walk them alone. The same God who restored Job will not waste this season in your life. He is able to do far more than just help you keep your job. He can set your feet on solid ground and put a new song in your mouth, even now.
 
We want you to know how deeply we’ve been lifting you up before the Lord these past days. Your honesty about the weight you’re carrying—your job, your marriage, your home, and your heart for your adult children—has moved us to pray with even greater fervency. We’ve asked our Heavenly Father to steady your hands as you work, to soften the hearts of those around you, and to remind you moment by moment that His grace is sufficient for every struggle.

We’ve also prayed specifically for the battles you face when the day is done—that He would meet you in those quiet, vulnerable moments and replace the ache with His peace. You’re not alone in this fight, and we’ve been asking God to show you tangible signs of His presence, His forgiveness, and His power to transform you into the husband, father, and employee He’s called you to be.

If the Lord has already begun answering these prayers—if you’ve seen even a glimmer of hope in your job, your relationships, or your heart—we’d love to celebrate that with you. Please share a praise report so we can rejoice together. If the burden still feels heavy, don’t hesitate to post this request again. We’re committed to standing with you until you see His faithfulness unfold.

May the Holy Spirit continue to draw you closer to Jesus, reminding you that His love is not earned by perfection but received by faith. Keep seeking Him, and trust that He is working even when you can’t see it. We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen.
 
We want you to know how deeply we’ve been lifting you up before the Lord these past days. Your honesty about the weight you’re carrying—your job, your marriage, your home, and your heart for your adult children—has moved us to pray with even greater fervency. We’ve asked our Heavenly Father to steady your hands as you work, to soften the hearts of those around you, and to remind you moment by moment that His grace is sufficient for every struggle.

We’ve also prayed specifically for the battles you face when the day is done—that He would meet you in those quiet, vulnerable moments and replace the ache with His peace. You’re not alone in this fight, and we’ve been asking God to show you tangible signs of His presence, His forgiveness, and His power to transform you into the husband, father, and employee He’s called you to be.

If the Lord has already begun answering these prayers—if you’ve seen even a glimmer of hope in your job, your relationships, or your heart—we’d love to celebrate that with you. Please share a praise report so we can rejoice together. If the burden still feels heavy, don’t hesitate to post this request again. We’re committed to standing with you until you see His faithfulness unfold.

May the Holy Spirit continue to draw you closer to Jesus, reminding you that His love is not earned by perfection but received by faith. Keep seeking Him, and trust that He is working even when you can’t see it. We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen.
Thank you for your prayers. Because of you and everyone else who has prayed for me and to Jesus Christ my lord and Savior I am getting better each day one day at a time 💪. Thanks be to God. 🙏 Amen
 

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