Please pray for me to be all that I am supposed to be as a Christian by God's grace as I never want to be a bad influence on anyone around me especially the many children in my church who I now realize might be influenced by me even if I don't realize it or don't have children myself. I have never really had to be accountable to other believers like this as I've never truly experienced belonging to a church and being involved in it. Thank you.
Influence
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What a beautiful and humble heart you have, recognizing the weight of influence and the responsibility we carry as followers of Christ—especially in the lives of children and fellow believers. Your desire to walk in godliness and be a light rather than a stumbling block is a reflection of the Holy Spirit working in you. We are deeply encouraged by your willingness to submit this area to the Lord, for Scripture reminds us that *"whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to stumble, it would be better for him if a huge millstone were hung around his neck and that he were sunk in the depths of the sea"* (Matthew 18:6, WEB). Yet we also know that God’s grace is sufficient, and He equips those He calls.
Your realization of accountability within the body of Christ is a vital step in spiritual growth. The Bible tells us, *"Let us consider how to provoke one another to love and good works, not abandoning our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching"* (Hebrews 10:24-25, WEB). You are no longer walking alone—you are part of a family where iron sharpens iron, where brothers and sisters in Christ help one another stay rooted in truth. This is a gift, even if it feels unfamiliar or daunting at first.
We also want to gently remind you that your worth and ability to influence others for Christ do not rest in your own strength but in the power of the Holy Spirit working through you. Jesus said, *"Apart from me, you can do nothing"* (John 15:5, WEB), but with Him, you can bear much fruit. Rest in the truth that God is faithful to complete the work He has begun in you (Philippians 1:6). Your fear of being a bad influence is actually a sign of a tender heart—one that God can mold and use mightily.
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister before You, thanking You for the work You are doing in their heart. Lord, they desire to be a vessel of Your grace, a light in their church, and a godly influence—especially to the children around them. We ask that You fill them afresh with Your Holy Spirit, giving them wisdom, discernment, and a deep sensitivity to Your leading. Guard their words, actions, and even their thoughts, that they may reflect Christ in all things. Where they feel inadequate, remind them that Your strength is made perfect in weakness. Surround them with godly mentors and friends who will speak truth into their life, sharpen them, and hold them accountable in love.
Father, we rebuke any fear or anxiety that would try to take root in their heart. Replace it with a holy confidence that comes from abiding in You. Let them walk in the freedom of knowing they are Your child, covered by the blood of Jesus, and empowered by Your Spirit. Use them mightily in their church, Lord, to point others—especially the little ones—to You. May their life be a testament to Your transforming grace.
We pray all this in the precious and mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone is worthy of all praise and glory. Amen.
As you continue to walk in this new season of accountability and influence, we encourage you to stay rooted in Scripture, seek out mature believers for guidance, and remember that your identity is in Christ alone. You are not just avoiding being a bad influence—you are being shaped to be a *godly* influence, and that is a high and holy calling. Keep pressing into Jesus, and He will faithfully lead you every step of the way.
Your realization of accountability within the body of Christ is a vital step in spiritual growth. The Bible tells us, *"Let us consider how to provoke one another to love and good works, not abandoning our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching"* (Hebrews 10:24-25, WEB). You are no longer walking alone—you are part of a family where iron sharpens iron, where brothers and sisters in Christ help one another stay rooted in truth. This is a gift, even if it feels unfamiliar or daunting at first.
We also want to gently remind you that your worth and ability to influence others for Christ do not rest in your own strength but in the power of the Holy Spirit working through you. Jesus said, *"Apart from me, you can do nothing"* (John 15:5, WEB), but with Him, you can bear much fruit. Rest in the truth that God is faithful to complete the work He has begun in you (Philippians 1:6). Your fear of being a bad influence is actually a sign of a tender heart—one that God can mold and use mightily.
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister before You, thanking You for the work You are doing in their heart. Lord, they desire to be a vessel of Your grace, a light in their church, and a godly influence—especially to the children around them. We ask that You fill them afresh with Your Holy Spirit, giving them wisdom, discernment, and a deep sensitivity to Your leading. Guard their words, actions, and even their thoughts, that they may reflect Christ in all things. Where they feel inadequate, remind them that Your strength is made perfect in weakness. Surround them with godly mentors and friends who will speak truth into their life, sharpen them, and hold them accountable in love.
Father, we rebuke any fear or anxiety that would try to take root in their heart. Replace it with a holy confidence that comes from abiding in You. Let them walk in the freedom of knowing they are Your child, covered by the blood of Jesus, and empowered by Your Spirit. Use them mightily in their church, Lord, to point others—especially the little ones—to You. May their life be a testament to Your transforming grace.
We pray all this in the precious and mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone is worthy of all praise and glory. Amen.
As you continue to walk in this new season of accountability and influence, we encourage you to stay rooted in Scripture, seek out mature believers for guidance, and remember that your identity is in Christ alone. You are not just avoiding being a bad influence—you are being shaped to be a *godly* influence, and that is a high and holy calling. Keep pressing into Jesus, and He will faithfully lead you every step of the way.
We're right there with you, praying for God's grace to be evident in your life, especially in your influence on those around you. It's a big responsibility, but we know God equips those He calls. Let's keep seeking Him together, asking for wisdom and discernment. We're cheering you on, believing that God will use you mightily for His glory. Keep trusting, keep growing, and keep shining that light!
EnricoLange
Beloved of All
Father please help them, us and all in need. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray Lord Jesus. Amen.
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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We are deeply grateful that you entrusted us with the privilege of standing with you in prayer as you seek to walk in the fullness of God’s purpose for your life. It has been on our hearts to continue lifting you up before the Lord, asking Him to strengthen you in every way so that your influence—whether seen or unseen—would reflect the light of Christ to all around you, especially the precious children in your church.
We’ve been praying that the Holy Spirit would guide your steps, guard your words, and shape your actions so that you may be a vessel of His grace, never causing others to stumble but instead pointing them to Jesus. It’s a beautiful thing to see how God is stirring in you a heart of accountability and belonging, and we ask Him to deepen those roots in your life. May He surround you with fellow believers who will walk alongside you, encourage you, and help you grow in faith.
If you’ve seen God move in this area—whether in your own heart, your relationships, or the lives of those around you—we would love to hear a praise report so we can rejoice with you. If you’re still waiting and feel the need for continued prayer, please don’t hesitate to share your request again. We are committed to standing with you in this journey, trusting that God is at work even when we can’t see it.
May the Lord bless you abundantly as you seek to honor Him in all you do. May His peace fill your heart, His wisdom direct your path, and His love overflow through you to everyone you encounter. We pray all these things in the powerful name of Jesus. Amen.
We’ve been praying that the Holy Spirit would guide your steps, guard your words, and shape your actions so that you may be a vessel of His grace, never causing others to stumble but instead pointing them to Jesus. It’s a beautiful thing to see how God is stirring in you a heart of accountability and belonging, and we ask Him to deepen those roots in your life. May He surround you with fellow believers who will walk alongside you, encourage you, and help you grow in faith.
If you’ve seen God move in this area—whether in your own heart, your relationships, or the lives of those around you—we would love to hear a praise report so we can rejoice with you. If you’re still waiting and feel the need for continued prayer, please don’t hesitate to share your request again. We are committed to standing with you in this journey, trusting that God is at work even when we can’t see it.
May the Lord bless you abundantly as you seek to honor Him in all you do. May His peace fill your heart, His wisdom direct your path, and His love overflow through you to everyone you encounter. We pray all these things in the powerful name of Jesus. Amen.
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