We are deeply grieved to hear of the suffering and oppression you are enduring in what should be your place of peace—the home your mother left you. Your kindness in sharing it with a family member has been met with betrayal, bullying, and disrespect, and we mourn with you over this injustice. The fear, isolation, and physical toll this situation has taken on you are heartbreaking, and we want you to know that God sees your affliction. He is a Father to the fatherless, a Defender of the weak, and a Refuge for the oppressed. You are not forgotten, and He will act on your behalf.
First, we must address the despair that has led you to pray for death. While we understand the depth of your pain, we gently but firmly rebuke this thought in the name of Jesus. Your life is precious to God, and He has a purpose for you even in this season of suffering. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but Jesus came to give you life abundantly. Do not let despair have the final word. Instead, cry out to the Lord, who hears the cries of the afflicted and delivers them from their troubles (Psalm 34:17-19). He is your strength when you are weak, and He will sustain you.
The Bible is clear about how we are to treat one another, especially within families. Your relative and her boyfriend have sinned against you by their bullying, manipulation, and lack of gratitude. Scripture warns, *"Do not oppress the widow, the fatherless, the foreigner, or the poor"* (Zechariah 7:10), and *"Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever"* (1 Timothy 5:8). Their actions are not only ungodly but also a violation of basic human decency. You have every right to reclaim your home and your peace, and we will pray boldly for God to intervene.
We also urge you to take practical steps while trusting God for a miracle. You mentioned seeking low-income housing, and we encourage you to pursue this diligently. Contact local churches, Christian legal aid organizations, or social services that may assist you in navigating this transition. If you are in the U.S., organizations like Legal Aid or local advocacy groups for seniors and disabled individuals may offer support. Do not let fear paralyze you—God is with you, and He will provide wisdom and favor as you take these steps (James 1:5).
As for your relative, we pray for conviction in her heart. The Holy Spirit is faithful to reprove sin (John 16:8), and we ask God to open her eyes to the harm she has caused. However, your safety and well-being must come first. If possible, set boundaries immediately. You have the right to demand that she and her boyfriend leave your home. If you fear retaliation, involve authorities or a trusted advocate to ensure your protection. Remember, *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men"* (Romans 12:18), but this does not mean enduring abuse.
Lastly, we want to address the spiritual aspect of this battle. You are under attack, but greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). Put on the full armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18) and stand firm in prayer. Declare God’s promises over your life, such as:
- *"The Lord is my light and my salvation. Whom shall I fear? The Lord is the strength of my life. Of whom shall I be afraid?"* (Psalm 27:1)
- *"The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles."* (Psalm 34:17)
- *"Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you."* (1 Peter 5:7)
Now, let us pray over you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our sister to You, the God of justice and mercy. Lord, You see the oppression she is suffering in her own home—the bullying, the fear, the physical and emotional toll this has taken on her. We ask You to rise up as her Defender and Deliverer. Break the power of those who seek to harm her, and expose their sin. Convict their hearts and bring them to repentance, but if they refuse, Lord, remove them from her home by Your mighty hand. Make a way where there seems to be no way. Open doors for her to secure safe, peaceful housing quickly. Give her wisdom, strength, and favor with every authority and organization she reaches out to. Heal her body from the stress and anxiety, and restore her mind with Your peace that surpasses all understanding.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of fear and despair in Jesus’ name. Fill her with Your hope and the assurance that You are working all things for her good (Romans 8:28). Surround her with Your angels for protection, and let her feel Your presence in a tangible way. Remind her that she is not alone—You are her ever-present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).
We also pray for her salvation if she does not yet know You personally. Lord, reveal Your love to her in this dark hour, and draw her closer to You. Let this trial be a testimony of Your faithfulness, and may she emerge stronger, wiser, and more dependent on You.
In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer, we pray. Amen.
Our sister, we stand with you in this fight. You are not powerless—you have the authority of Jesus Christ behind you. Do not give up. Keep praying, keep seeking help, and trust that God will bring you into a place of safety and rest. We will continue to lift you up, and we ask that you update us as God moves in your situation. You are loved, and your life matters deeply to Him. Be strong and courageous, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go (Joshua 1:9).
Pray for the salvation of your family, friends, those you care about, and all those God place on your heart. 
