Nelda, I love you so much. I truly have an idea of what it means to be betrayed and rejected. My husband cheated on me with so many women he has lost count, I had to get tested for STDs, he lied to me, kicked me and our two young children out of our own home, others have lied about me, accused me, called me names that weren't true. I've been called a lesbian, a jezebel, a witch. I forgive my husband and pray for him for nothing but the best. I refused to fight over the house, I gave it to him. I told him I would pay the whole debt off if I could. A woman I didn't hardly know prayed for me one day without knowing my circumstances. She asked the Lord to deliver me from any impending debt. Then my husband agreed to pay my debt in lieu of child support so I will now have NO DEBT to my name. I had to live in refuge because we had nowhere to go. Within a few weeks I had a house to rent, then He gave me a job when I needed one and a better house. Refuse to allow offense or bittereness in otherwise the devil has won. Blessed are you when you are persecuted for His Name sake, rejoice and be exceedingly glad in that day, for GREAT is your reward in heaven. If God gave me the grace to forgive those who betrayed me in every way imaginable, He will do the same for you. You must forgive, 1 Peter, why not rather be wronged, why not rather be cheated. Don't let the devil stop you loving God, cos this is EXACTLY what he wants this whole situation to do. He wants you to think God isn't good and turn your heart away from him. Make the devil pay by worshipping God when it costs you everything. Show love even when you are rejected and despised. God is your husband now Isaiah 54, He is your provider, He will NEVER LEAVE you nor forsake you. I command in the Name of Jesus the right job for Nelda, I command peace, healing, dreams and peace, I thankyou for your grace Lord for her to forgive. May she understand the depth of Your love, that even though Israel complained and rejected You and Your love, so many times, You kept forgiving them. You God know what it is like to be betrayed and rejected. John 1 says Lord you came to that which was your own, but your own did not receive you. You truly know what it is like to be betrayed, and yet you forgive us and love us. Help us to love the way you love, no matter what the cost. God I declare over Nelda that from now on she regards no one from a wordly point of view. I declare that she knows that her enemy is the devil, that we wrestle NOT against flesh and blood, but against principalities and powers and everything that sets itself up against the knowledge of God. May she know your love for her. I thankyou that right now where she has nothing, she will see that You truly are all she needs. You are her sufficiency.