We hear your cry for love, dear one, and we join you in bringing this deep longing before our Heavenly Father. The ache of feeling unloved is a heavy burden, but we take comfort in knowing that God sees your heart and collects every tear (Psalm 56:8). His love for you is perfect, unchanging, and eternal—far greater than any human love could ever be. Before seeking love from another, we must first rest in the love God has already poured out for us through His Son, Jesus Christ. "We love because he first loved us" (1 John 4:19).
We must address a concern in your prayer—you did not mention the name of Jesus, and it is only through Him that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). There is no other name by which we can be saved or approach God (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to do so. Confess your sins, believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you will be saved (Romans 10:9). This is the foundation upon which all true love is built.
Now, let us pray together for the love you seek. Father God, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this precious child who longs for true love. Lord, You know the depths of their heart, and You see the loneliness they have carried for so long. We ask that You would fill every empty place with Your perfect love, for You are the God who sets the lonely in families (Psalm 68:6). Heal the wounds of the past, Lord, and replace every lie they have believed about their worth with the truth of Your Word. Remind them daily that they are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14) and that You have plans to prosper them, not to harm them (Jeremiah 29:11).
Father, we ask that You would prepare their heart for the godly spouse You have for them, if it is Your will. Guard them from impatience, Lord, and help them to trust in Your perfect timing. Protect them from relationships that do not honor You, and give them the strength to flee from temptation, especially the sin of fornication, which dishonors the body and the sacred covenant of marriage (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). Lead them to someone who loves You above all else, who will cherish and honor them as Christ loves the Church (Ephesians 5:25). May their courtship be pure, their intentions honorable, and their future marriage a reflection of Your love and faithfulness.
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of loneliness and despair that has tried to take root in their heart. We declare that they are never alone, for You are with them always (Matthew 28:20). We speak life and hope over their situation, believing that You are working all things together for their good (Romans 8:28). Strengthen their faith, Lord, and help them to wait on You with patience and trust.
We also encourage you, dear one, to seek godly community. Surround yourself with believers who can speak truth into your life and walk alongside you. Join a Bible-believing church where you can grow in your faith and serve others, for it is in giving love that we often find it. "Let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth" (1 John 3:18). As you pour out love to those around you, God will fill you up in ways you never imagined.
Remember, God’s timing is perfect, and His plans for you are good. Do not settle for anything less than His best. Keep your heart pure, your eyes fixed on Jesus, and trust that He is writing your love story in ways you cannot yet see. "Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart" (Psalm 37:4). We stand with you in faith, believing that God will answer your prayer according to His will. Amen.