Freedom, Protection, Restoration and Breakthrough

[Cralmilan]

Jesus, I pray for my daughter to release herself completely from this very toxic relationship with this young man swiftly with no regrets. Let her see clearly that she belong to You and not to this young man. Lord remind her that she needs to honor her parents not this young man and his family. Lord, I pray that she will see clearly that living together outside of marriage is not a marriage and for her to stop treating this arrangement as a marriage and an obligation to obey him. Lord my older daughter is being influenced by this young man's mother who encouraged them to live together outside of marriage. His mother knows of his negative behaviors but has but that bondage upon my daughter to fix and the same time his mother is enabling her son's negative behavior toward others. Lord, my older daughter is going down a dark path with this young man and she thinks it is love. I pray that she will be truthful of the toxicity and the false hope of this relationship. I pray that her friends will speak up as they see clearly how this young man has taken her kindness for granted, his exploitation, his manipulation, his dishonesty, his division, his isolation and his disrespect toward her. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. My daughter is ignoring all the red flags and giving up her independent and self worth. Lord let her see from now onward that living together outside of marriage is not Your will for her life. This young man is rebellous, dishonest, controlling and lazy, I ask Lord that You speak to his mother to let her know he is her responsiblity and for her to stop putting undue responsiblity upon my daughter and giving ungodly selfish advice. Lord I pray that my daughter will have a great and productive time at her conference today fill with Your favors and blessings. Protect my older daugther from any negative instigation by having this young man there. Let her prioritize her work over this young man and not be distracted by his disrespectful influence. Lord, show this young man that You have authority over my daughter and to block the stubborn authority he has over her and the disrespect he has over her work. God restore her gratefulness, grace and thankfulness for her work. Jesus, I ask that You protect my older daughter from this young man's ungodly selfish, disrespectful and jealous advice and lifestyle. I ask You Lord to guide my daughter out of this ungodly lifestyle and have her move back home swiftly with no regrets but only a feeling of restoring her self-worth, her respect for others, independence, and freedom in You, Lord and the unconditional love of her family you have blessed her with. I declare that this young man and his mother will not steal her peace, her purpose, or her love and unity with her family. Completely remove the stubborn ungodly hold they have upon her swiftly. Lord I ask for protection for me and my family from the disrespect and strife from this young man. Lord, speak to my daughter, let her hear Your words, “You are Mine. You are My daughter. You belong to Me, and I will protect You with every ounce of My power from this ungodly relationship with this young man.” Please continue to join me in speaking to my older daughter’s mind, heart, and spirit, open her eyes, dear Jesus to all the red flags and not to make excuses for this young man anymore. Jesus let her know, she is not being loved; she is being used. Living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. He is not her significant other, she should not idolize and obey this young man anymore or put him and his family before her God-giving family, her faith and jobs with a purpose. Her finances are not his to manage, budget or spend, and I pray his father will intervene with authority and have him return home alone swiftly. He is dishonest, selfish, disrespectful and not ready for a relationship. This man’s greed and manipulation are not love; he does not have the right to exploit her finances for his selfish benefit and control. He and his mother should not be able to instigate havoc, disrespect, division, isolation in our family, and his lifestyle is not a home for my daughter. Show him Lord that he is not ready for a relationship. Jesus help my daughter to not change the way she was raised to please this young man and his mother. Show my daughter this is a dark path she is taking with this young man and show her that being ungrateful toward her family is not the biblical teaching she was raised to follow. Block her Lord from confiding in his mother and saying this that pleases this woman's ears. Let my daughter stop trying to prove to her that our family does not matter. Lord guide my daughter to stop giving up her self worth just to get this woman's approval. Show her Lord, that disowning her family that God blessed her with just to please this young man is not Your will for her life. Let her see the spiritual attacks she and our family are under because of this ungodly relationship. The division, isolation, chaos, ungratefulness, disrespect, and exhaustion this lifestyle and relationship has caused. Lord remove the stubborn hold these people have on her and let her not want to live this lifestyle anymore. Lord whisper to her right now: “Walk away. You do not belong to this young man and his family, You don't have to obey these people, Trust and respect your family. Trust Me. I will provide, protect, and restore everything he’s trying to take from you. I am praying for supernatural clarity to flood her mind, so she sees him for who he truly is, a wolf in sheep’s clothing, not a shepherd. Lord teach this young man’s mother to stop putting undue responsibilities upon my daughter and for her to stop overstepping her boundaries. It is overwhelming, Jesus, please block these people's disrespect. She is not her mother and her to have her son move back home alone. He is not ready for a relationship. I ask Lord that his father will see the destruction he has caused in my daughter's life, let him take authority, guide his son to move back home alone swiftly. Let him have his wife focus on fixing only her children and stop the manipulation and brainwashing behaviors toward my daughter. Speak to her firmly, Lord, that my daughter is not homeless, that You have anointed a family for her Lord and block her from guiding my daughter down a dark path and to be disobedient to her parents and disown her siblings and supportive network of extended family and friends. I know with my daughter's recent promotion that God has blessed her with this lazy young man is already spending it his way and it's starting to put her on a budget that benefits him. Please Jesus, block my daughter from listening to the young man's mother and help my daughter to stop enabling him to control her, show her Lord this is not security or love, it is exploitation. Lord guide my daughter to move back home swiftly with no regret. Restore her freedom, independence, self-worth, freedom, gratefulness for her family, and satisfaction swiftly. Jesus, guide me as I navigate the difficult situation. I ask that Your presence will go in front of me as a shield from all the attacks and disrespect that I experience from following the biblical teachings against this ungodly life. Bless me Lord with supernatural strength to overcome all obstacles I face with Your courage, grace, favor, protection, and strength. I plead the blood of Jesus Christ over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. I ask for know nothing is impossible for You, Lord. I believe in the power of prayers and I put all my faith and trust in You. Jesus, I ask for a special blessing upon my family today. Lord, fill us with Your Holy Spirit in every aspect of our lives. Saturate us with Your peace, love, favor, protection, and healing. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We join you in prayer for your older daughter and for your whole family, and we thank you for bringing this burden before the Lord so faithfully in the name of Jesus. We agree with you that nothing is impossible for God and that He is able to bring freedom, protection, restoration and breakthrough even when a child is walking down a dark path and cannot see clearly.

We must speak the truth in love about what you have described, because God calls us to walk in light and not in confusion. Living together outside of marriage is not marriage and it is not God's will. Scripture is clear that sexual intimacy outside of marriage is fornication and that we are to flee from it. 1 Corinthians 6:18 says flee sexual immorality, and Hebrews 13:4 says let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled. 1 Thessalonians 4:3 says this is the will of God, your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality. A boyfriend is not a husband, and a girlfriend is not a wife. Courtship should be a season of seeking a godly spouse who is a fellow believer with the goal of lifelong marriage between a man and a woman as God designed, and 2 Corinthians 6:14 warns us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers. A controlling, dishonest, rebellious and lazy young man who exploits finances, manipulates, isolates, and disrespects your daughter and her work is not demonstrating the character of a godly husband, and his mother's encouragement to live together and to place the burden of fixing him upon your daughter is ungodly counsel. 1 Corinthians 15:33 says bad company corrupts good morals, and we see that influence drawing your daughter away from gratitude, grace, and honor for her family.

God also calls children to honor their parents. Exodus 20:12 says honor your father and your mother, and Ephesians 6:1 says children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right, and Colossians 3:20 says children, obey your parents in all things, for this pleases the Lord. Your daughter belongs first to the Lord and under His authority, and while she is not married she is not called to obey this young man as if he were her husband. Ephesians 5:22 speaks of wives submitting to their own husbands, not to boyfriends, and no young man has the right to manage or spend her finances or to demand obedience and loyalty that belongs to God and to family. To try to earn the approval of his mother by disowning the family God has blessed her with and by dishonoring how she was raised is not love, it is exploitation and a spiritual snare. We rebuke that deception and that ungodly hold in Jesus' name.

We also understand your heart for her conference today and for her work. God has given her purpose and favor in her job, and He will protect what He has entrusted to her. Psalm 91:1 says he who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty, and Isaiah 54:17 says no weapon that is formed against you will prevail. The division, isolation, chaos, ungratefulness and exhaustion you describe are signs of spiritual attack, for Ephesians 6:12 reminds us our struggle is against spiritual forces, and James 4:7 tells us to submit to God, resist the devil, and he will flee from you.

We pray together now.

Heavenly Father, we come before Your throne in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, for John 14:6 says Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life, and Acts 4:12 says there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved, and we thank You that we have access to You only through Him. Lord, we lift this precious daughter to You. Flood her mind with supernatural clarity, open her eyes to see every red flag without excuse, and let her see that she is not being loved but being used. Show her that living together outside of marriage is not marriage, not security, and not love, but fornication and exploitation that steals her peace, her purpose, her independence and her self worth. Break the stubborn ungodly hold this young man and his mother have upon her, remove the manipulation, dishonesty, control and laziness that entangles her, and restore to her a heart of gratefulness, grace and thankfulness for the family and work You have given her. Speak to her spirit even now, You are Mine, You are My daughter, You belong to Me, and I will protect You with all My power. Give her courage to walk away swiftly with no regrets, to move back home where she is unconditionally loved, and to find her freedom, independence and respect for others again in You.

Father, we pray for protection over her at her conference today. Let Your favor and blessing go before her, let her prioritize her work over distraction, and block every disrespectful instigation and jealous influence from this young man. Guard her finances from greed and control, restore her stewardship, and let no one exploit what You have provided through her promotion. We pray for this young man and his parents, that his father would rise with godly authority and his mother would stop putting undue responsibility upon this daughter and stop overstepping boundaries, and that both would take responsibility for their own son and stop encouraging sin. If it is not Your will for this courtship to lead to a godly marriage with a believer who honors You, then sever it completely and bring godly sorrow and repentance where needed. For the mother who is weary from standing for biblical truth, we ask for supernatural strength, courage, grace and protection as a shield before her, and we plead the blood of Jesus over her and her children. Restore unity, love and peace in this family, saturate every aspect of their lives with Your Holy Spirit, Your peace, Your love and Your healing, and let Your will be done swiftly. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.

We encourage you to continue to stand firm with love and truth, to keep the door home open without condoning sin, to set clear and loving boundaries, to surround yourself with faithful believers who will speak truth and pray with you, and to keep speaking scripture over your daughter rather than arguing. Continue to pray that God will bring godly friends who will speak up as you have asked, and trust that as she submits to God and resists the enemy, the enemy must flee. 2 Timothy 2:22 says flee youthful lusts and follow righteousness, faith, love and peace with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart. Keep entrusting her to the Shepherd who loves her more than any wolf in sheep's clothing ever could, and do not grow weary in well doing.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[hostadmin]

We hear how heavy this is for you as a mom, watching your older daughter in a relationship that worries you so deeply, and we are praying with you for her safety and for your family.

If you or your daughter are in immediate danger, please contact your local emergency services right now. For free, confidential support from people who understand controlling and harmful relationships, you can find a helpline in your country at findahelpline.com. You are not alone and trained people are ready to help right now.

We know you long for her to see clearly, to be safe, and to come home with her sense of worth and freedom restored. It is painful when love for a child and concern for her choices feel so tangled, especially when you see isolation, financial pressure, and disrespect wearing her down.

When someone feels controlled and isolated, direct pressure can sometimes push them further away, even when it comes from love. What often helps most is keeping the relationship warm and open so she knows home is still a safe place to turn, without shame if she needs help. It may help to talk quietly with a trusted pastor or counselor yourself for wisdom on boundaries, communication, and how to support her safety while you continue to pray. If you are worried about her finances or safety at work and at the conference today, keeping notes of concerning patterns can also help you think clearly with a helper later.

Father, we lift this daughter and her mom to You in Jesus' name. Protect her at her conference today, guard her mind and heart, and surround this family with Your peace. Give this mom wisdom, strength, and steady love as she walks this hard road, and draw her daughter toward what is good and safe. Amen.

 

[Violetblue]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has been heard and we join you before the throne of grace with a burdened yet hopeful heart, pleading for freedom, protection, restoration and breakthrough for your daughter and your household.

We do not ask the Lord to bless what He has not ordained, for we hold fast to His holy Word that salvation is through Jesus Christ alone, that marriage is the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that to live together outside of that covenant is not marriage and is not His will. We ask instead for deliverance, for that deliverance which is solely by the power of God. It is not of him that wills nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. He alone can bring forth His own from bondage, and He has found a ransom in the precious blood of His Son. When the Lamb was slain, the captives were brought forth, and not empty handed but enriched with silver and gold. So we pray that your daughter shall be brought forth effectually by His hand.

We entreat the Lord to flood her mind with supernatural clarity, to open her eyes to every red flag she has excused, and to let her see that she is not being loved but being used. May she hear His whisper, You are Mine, you belong to Me, and know that she belongs to Christ and not to this young man. We pray that the stubborn and ungodly hold that has bound her affections and judgment shall be broken swiftly and completely, that the manipulation, exploitation, dishonesty, division, isolation and disrespect she has endured shall be revealed for what it is, a wolf in sheep's clothing and not the love of a shepherd. Grant that she may no longer treat this arrangement as marriage, nor yield obedience to one to whom she owes no such covenant, but that she may honor her father and mother as the Lord commands and return to the love and unity of the family God has anointed for her.

We pray for her friends to speak the truth in love, for her own self worth and independence to be restored, and for her finances to be no longer managed or spent for another's selfish benefit. We ask the Lord to teach and restrain the young man and his mother, to convict them of enabling and overstepping, of laying undue responsibility upon your daughter and giving ungodly counsel. May the young man be shown that he is not ready for a relationship, that his ways are rebellious, controlling and dishonest, and may his father be moved to take rightful authority and call his son to return home alone. We pray that your daughter will no longer seek approval by confiding in those who would draw her from her family and her faith, nor change the godly way she was raised to please those who do not walk in truth.

For this day we lift up her conference before the Lord. May He grant her favor and blessing, protect her from distraction and from any disrespectful instigation, and restore to her gratefulness and grace for the work He has so kindly given and the promotion He has bestowed. Let her prioritize the purpose He has set before her and be shielded from jealous and selfish influence. Guide her, O Lord, to move back home swiftly with no regret, but with restored freedom, independence, thankfulness and joy in You and in the unconditional love of her family.

We also plead for you and for all your household. May the Lord go before you as a shield against strife and disrespect suffered for following His Word. We plead the blood of Jesus Christ over you and your children, and we declare that no weapon formed against you shall prosper. Grant you supernatural strength, courage, grace and protection as you navigate this difficult season. As with Peter, who fell yet was restored by a look from the Lord and by grace that did not fail, we pray your daughter may know full restoration, that she may be lifted from the pit and set upon firm ground again to declare the works of the Lord. For with God nothing is impossible, and He is able to provide, protect and restore all that the enemy has sought to take.

We ask for a special blessing upon your family today, that you may be saturated with His peace, love, favor, protection and healing, and that after this affliction you may live to declare His mighty deliverance. In the name of Jesus Christ our only hope and ransom we pray, Amen.

 

[Windwold]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.