Freedom, Protection, Restoration and Breakthrough

[Cralmilan]

Jesus, I pray for my daughter to release herself completely from this very toxic relationship with this young man swiftly with no regrets. Let her see clearly that she belong to You and not to this young man. Lord remind her that she needs to honor her parents not this young man and his family. Lord, I pray that she will see clearly that living together outside of marriage is not a marriage and for her to stop treating this arrangement as a marriage and an obligation to obey him. Lord my older daughter is being influenced by this young man's mother who encouraged them to live together outside of marriage. His mother knows of his negative behaviors but has but that bondage upon my daughter to fix and the same time his mother is enabling her son's negative behavior toward others. Lord, my older daughter is going down a dark path with this young man and she thinks it is love. I pray that she will be truthful of the toxicity and the false hope of this relationship. I pray that her friends will speak up as they see clearly how this young man has taken her kindness for granted, his exploitation, his manipulation, his dishonesty, his division, his isolation and his disrespect toward her. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. My daughter is ignoring all the red flags and giving up her independent and self worth. Lord let her see from now onward that living together outside of marriage is not Your will for her life. This young man is rebellous, dishonest, controlling and lazy, I ask Lord that You speak to his mother to let her know he is her responsiblity and for her to stop putting undue responsiblity upon my daughter and giving ungodly selfish advice. Lord I pray that my daughter will have a great and productive time at her conference today fill with Your favors and blessings. Protect my older daugther from any negative instigation by having this young man there. Let her prioritize her work over this young man and not be distracted by his disrespectful influence. Lord, show this young man that You have authority over my daughter and to block the stubborn authority he has over her and the disrespect he has over her work. God restore her gratefulness, grace and thankfulness for her work. Jesus, I ask that You protect my older daughter from this young man's ungodly selfish, disrespectful and jealous advice and lifestyle. I ask You Lord to guide my daughter out of this ungodly lifestyle and have her move back home swiftly with no regrets but only a feeling of restoring her self-worth, her respect for others, independence, and freedom in You, Lord and the unconditional love of her family you have blessed her with. I declare that this young man and his mother will not steal her peace, her purpose, or her love and unity with her family. Completely remove the stubborn ungodly hold they have upon her swiftly. Lord I ask for protection for me and my family from the disrespect and strife from this young man. Lord, speak to my daughter, let her hear Your words, “You are Mine. You are My daughter. You belong to Me, and I will protect You with every ounce of My power from this ungodly relationship with this young man.” Please continue to join me in speaking to my older daughter’s mind, heart, and spirit, open her eyes, dear Jesus to all the red flags and not to make excuses for this young man anymore. Jesus let her know, she is not being loved; she is being used. Living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. He is not her significant other, she should not idolize and obey this young man anymore or put him and his family before her God-giving family, her faith and jobs with a purpose. Her finances are not his to manage, budget or spend, and I pray his father will intervene with authority and have him return home alone swiftly. He is dishonest, selfish, disrespectful and not ready for a relationship. This man’s greed and manipulation are not love; he does not have the right to exploit her finances for his selfish benefit and control. He and his mother should not be able to instigate havoc, disrespect, division, isolation in our family, and his lifestyle is not a home for my daughter. Show him Lord that he is not ready for a relationship. Jesus help my daughter to not change the way she was raised to please this young man and his mother. Show my daughter this is a dark path she is taking with this young man and show her that being ungrateful toward her family is not the biblical teaching she was raised to follow. Block her Lord from confiding in his mother and saying this that pleases this woman's ears. Let my daughter stop trying to prove to her that our family does not matter. Lord guide my daughter to stop giving up her self worth just to get this woman's approval. Show her Lord, that disowning her family that God blessed her with just to please this young man is not Your will for her life. Let her see the spiritual attacks she and our family are under because of this ungodly relationship. The division, isolation, chaos, ungratefulness, disrespect, and exhaustion this lifestyle and relationship has caused. Lord remove the stubborn hold these people have on her and let her not want to live this lifestyle anymore. Lord whisper to her right now: “Walk away. You do not belong to this young man and his family, You don't have to obey these people, Trust and respect your family. Trust Me. I will provide, protect, and restore everything he’s trying to take from you. I am praying for supernatural clarity to flood her mind, so she sees him for who he truly is, a wolf in sheep’s clothing, not a shepherd. Lord teach this young man’s mother to stop putting undue responsibilities upon my daughter and for her to stop overstepping her boundaries. It is overwhelming, Jesus, please block these people's disrespect. She is not her mother and her to have her son move back home alone. He is not ready for a relationship. I ask Lord that his father will see the destruction he has caused in my daughter's life, let him take authority, guide his son to move back home alone swiftly. Let him have his wife focus on fixing only her children and stop the manipulation and brainwashing behaviors toward my daughter. Speak to her firmly, Lord, that my daughter is not homeless, that You have anointed a family for her Lord and block her from guiding my daughter down a dark path and to be disobedient to her parents and disown her siblings and supportive network of extended family and friends. I know with my daughter's recent promotion that God has blessed her with this lazy young man is already spending it his way and it's starting to put her on a budget that benefits him. Please Jesus, block my daughter from listening to the young man's mother and help my daughter to stop enabling him to control her, show her Lord this is not security or love, it is exploitation. Lord guide my daughter to move back home swiftly with no regret. Restore her freedom, independence, self-worth, freedom, gratefulness for her family, and satisfaction swiftly. Jesus, guide me as I navigate the difficult situation. I ask that Your presence will go in front of me as a shield from all the attacks and disrespect that I experience from following the biblical teachings against this ungodly life. Bless me Lord with supernatural strength to overcome all obstacles I face with Your courage, grace, favor, protection, and strength. I plead the blood of Jesus Christ over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. I ask for know nothing is impossible for You, Lord. I believe in the power of prayers and I put all my faith and trust in You. Jesus, I ask for a special blessing upon my family today. Lord, fill us with Your Holy Spirit in every aspect of our lives. Saturate us with Your peace, love, favor, protection, and healing. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We hear the burden of your heart for your older daughter and we join with you in prayer for her freedom, protection, restoration and breakthrough in Jesus' name. We thank you for your discernment and for bringing this before the Lord with such clarity, for you are seeing correctly that this relationship is not of God and is causing division, isolation and spiritual harm to your daughter and to your family.

We must lovingly and firmly address what Scripture teaches about this living arrangement. Living together outside of marriage is not marriage in God's eyes, and any sexual intimacy outside of marriage is fornication. It carries no covenant, no vow before God, and no obligation for her to obey this young man as if he were a husband. Heb 13:4 says let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. 1 Cor 6:18 says flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Eph 5:3 says but sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints. This young man has no biblical authority over your daughter, her work, or her finances, and his control, dishonesty, laziness and disrespect are not love but exploitation. True love does not manipulate, isolate or use. We also affirm what you have said about honoring parents. Eph 6:1-2 says children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with a promise. Ex 20:12 also commands this. For her to put this young man and his family before her God-given family and before her faith is contrary to God's order. We also grieve the ungodly counsel she is receiving. A mother who encourages cohabitation and enables her son's rebellious and controlling behavior is not giving wisdom that leads to life, and we pray God will convict her and cause the father to take rightful responsibility for his son.

We stand with you against the spiritual attack and the stubborn ungodly hold over your daughter. James 4:7 says be subject therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Rom 12:2 says don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God. 2 Cor 6:14 reminds us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity. Courtship should be with the goal of marriage to a fellow believer in Christ, not a cohabiting arrangement that pretends at marriage while dishonoring God. Your daughter's worth is not found in earning this young man or his mother's approval, but in belonging to Christ. Psalm 139:14 says we are fearfully and wonderfully made, and 1 John 4:18 says perfect love casts out fear.

We pray together now.

Father in heaven, in the name of Jesus Christ we come before Your throne of grace and we lift up this precious daughter to You. Lord, You see her clearly, You know the manipulation, the dishonesty, the division, the isolation, the disrespect and the financial exploitation she is under. We ask for supernatural clarity to flood her mind and heart right now. Remove the blinders and let her see this relationship for what it truly is, that she is being used and not loved, that this is a wolf in sheep's clothing and not a shepherd. Let her see that living together outside of marriage is not Your will and not a marriage, and that she has no obligation to obey or idolize this young man. Restore to her a deep conviction that she belongs to You.

Lord, we ask You to break every ungodly soul tie and stubborn hold this young man and his mother have upon her, swiftly and completely. Block their disrespectful and jealous advice and their instigation of strife, division and chaos in this family. Speak to this young man's mother and father, convict the mother to stop putting undue responsibility upon this daughter and to stop overstepping her boundaries, and stir the father to take godly authority and to call his son to return home alone, for he is not ready for a relationship. Protect this daughter's finances from greed and control, and protect her work and purpose which You have given her.

Father, we specifically lift up her conference today. Cover her with Your favor and blessing, let her be productive and undistracted, and block any negative instigation from this young man being there. Let her prioritize the work You have entrusted to her and restore her gratefulness, grace and thankfulness for it. Guard her from confiding in those who would lead her down a dark path and from trying to prove that her family does not matter. Turn her heart back to honoring her parents and cherishing the family and supportive network You have blessed her with.

Lord, we pray You would whisper to her spirit, You are Mine, You are My daughter, You belong to Me and I will protect You with all of My power from this ungodly relationship. Draw her out of this lifestyle and guide her to move back home swiftly with no regrets, but with restored self-worth, independence, freedom and peace in You. Heal the exhaustion and ungratefulness this has caused and restore love and unity in the family.

We also lift up this praying parent. Fill this mother with Your Holy Spirit, with supernatural strength, courage, grace and favor as she navigates this difficult situation. Go before her as a shield from every attack and disrespect she experiences for standing on biblical truth. We plead the blood of Jesus over her and her children and we declare Isa 54:17 that no weapon that is formed against you will prevail. We thank You that with God nothing will be impossible as Luke 1:37 says, and that You are working all things together for good for those who love You according to Rom 8:28.

Lord, we pray even for this young man, that You would bring him to repentance, that he would see his rebellion, dishonesty and laziness and turn from it, but that he would do so apart from this daughter. Let him learn responsibility in his own home and not at her expense.

We trust You to provide, protect and restore everything the enemy has tried to take from her and from this family. Saturate this home with Your peace, love, protection and healing. In the mighty and only name by which we are saved, Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to continue to stand firm in love and truth. Keep speaking the truth with gentleness and without wavering, keep the door of home open with unconditional love, but do not affirm or enable the cohabitation. Set clear boundaries regarding finances and respect in your home, continue to pray and fast, and invite her godly friends to speak the truth in love as well. Remind her often of who she is in Christ and that Your love for her has not changed. God is faithful and He hears your prayers. 1 Cor 10:13 says God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it. We trust He will make that way of escape clear to her very soon. Psalm 34:17-18 says the righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart. We remain with you in prayer for her complete freedom and return.

 

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We have been sitting with your prayer and we can feel how deeply you love your older daughter and how heavy this season has been for you and your family. Watching her pull away and give up so much of herself to please this young man and his mother, while you see the manipulation and disrespect so clearly, is heartbreaking and exhausting.

Your greatest hope coming through is for her to be safe, clear-eyed, and free again - able to value her work, her faith, and the family who loves her, and to make her own choices without pressure or control. It is painful when love for a child means waiting and praying while she cannot yet see what you see.

One thing that often helps in a situation like this is to keep the bridge of relationship steady and open, even while you hold healthy limits. Continuing to offer calm, loving contact without taking on responsibility for fixing him or his family keeps you connected as a safe place she can turn to, and it protects your own peace as you wait. It also helps to not carry this alone - having a trusted pastor or wise friend to talk and pray with regularly can give you strength and perspective for the days ahead, especially with her conference today on your heart.

Father, we lift this daughter to You and ask for Your protection over her today at her conference, for clarity in her mind and heart, and for freedom from pressure and control. Guard this mom and her family with Your peace, give them wisdom for each conversation, and restore what has felt strained and weary. We ask this in Jesus' name, amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

The burden you have poured out before the Lord has been heard with deep sympathy and earnest prayer, and we have carried it with you to the throne of grace. Your love for your daughter and your desire to see her walk in holiness and freedom are right and good, and the sorrow you feel over her present path is not hidden from Him who sits as a Refiner by the furnace.

We must speak plainly as Scripture speaks, for your own discernment is true. Living together outside of marriage is not marriage, and it is not the will of God for your daughter. The Word teaches that marriage is a covenant of lifelong union between one man and one woman, entered by solemn choice and vow before God, crowned with mutual delight and fidelity. It is not created by sharing a roof or by habit or by the pressure of another family, and no obligation to obey or to yield her finances, her body, or her conscience to a man who is not her husband belongs upon her. To keep herself unspotted from the world is the calling of every believer, and that means to turn away from what would muddy the soul and to cry to God to preserve her from evil. What you have described, her kindness taken for granted, exploitation and manipulation, dishonesty and control, isolation from family, is not love. Love does not use, it does not dishonor, it does not divide and weary the soul.

Yet there is hope that does not rest in arguments or in our own power to persuade. As it is written, Deliver him from going down to the Pit, I have found a ransom. No one would have thought of such a deliverance from the pit of sin and darkness except God Himself, and He has not only devised the way but has provided the ransom in Christ Jesus. Deliverance from the power of darkness is as much the work of God as deliverance from the guilt of sin, and when any soul is loosed from spiritual bondage it is the Lord Jesus who loosens the captive. It is not of him that wills nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. He alone can break a stubborn hold, open blinded eyes, and restore what has been worn away.

We have prayed therefore not that God would bless an arrangement which His Word calls outside His will, but that He would be gracious unto your daughter and say over her, Deliver her. We have asked that supernatural clarity would flood her mind, that she would see the red flags she has excused and understand that she is being used and not loved, that the false hope of this relationship would be exposed as a wolf in sheep's clothing and not a shepherd's care. We have prayed that the influence which would draw her to dishonor her parents, to disown her family, to seek the approval of those who put undue responsibility upon her, would be blocked, and that she would hear the voice of her true Father saying, You are Mine, you belong to Me, and I will keep you. We have prayed for her work this day at her conference, that God would give her favor and protection, that she would prioritize the purpose He has given her and be shielded from distraction, disrespect and jealous counsel, and that gratefulness and grace for her calling would be restored.

We have prayed also for you and for your household, that no weapon formed against you shall prosper, that the blood of Christ would be your covering, and that you would know that all your trials lie within the fence of omnipotent overruling. The Lord chastens sorely those He loves, and what comes by His permission comes from a Father's hand for profit and not for destruction. He kindles the furnace but He sits by the door and will bring forth His own in His time.

May the Lord grant your daughter a swift and sure release with no turning back, not in bitterness but in restored self worth, independence and freedom in Christ, and in renewed love and unity with the family God has anointed for her. May He teach that young man and his parents the weight of their own responsibility before God, and may He give you supernatural strength, courage and peace as you stand for biblical truth with grace. We continue to plead for a complete deliverance, that your daughter may live and declare the works of the Lord, kept unspotted and brought out of darkness into His marvelous light. In the name of Jesus our Ransom and Deliverer, Amen.

 

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Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

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