Freedom, Protection and Restoration

[Cralmilan]

Jesus, I pray for my older daughter to release herself completely from this very toxic relationship with this young man swiftly with no regrets. I pray Lord that You will restore her respectful beautiful personality and guide her not to imitate this young man's hostile, arrogant and authoritative behaviors toward me and her job. Let her not tolerate him treating her like that too. Restore her humble, grateful, kind and gracious personality she was brought up with. Lord guide her to not honor this young man and his mother anymore. Let her see the strain this toxic relationship has cause her and our family. Lord protect us from these people plots, plans and schemes that have cause exhaustion, division and isolation between my older daughter and her siblings, me, extended family and friends. Let my older daughter see clearly the spiritual attack she and our family is under because of the young man's disrespect behaviors and his mother selfish, controlling ways to take control of her life. Lord guide her to follow the biblical teachings again she was brought up to follow. Humble her to honor and thankful for her parents and family again, guide her to be grateful to You and stop her from obeying this young man and his family. Lord release her from this toxic bondage that is causing her financial hardship and exhaustion. Her finances should never be his to control or spend on himself. Let her see clearly that she belong to You and not to this young man. And this living arrangement is not home. Guide her to be thankful and respectful toward the family You have blessed her with. Open her eyes to see the Godly young man You have in store for her and not settle for this manipulation, arrogant, control and disrespectful young man. Lord remind her that she needs to honor her parents not this young man and his family. Lord, I pray that she will see clearly that living together outside of marriage is not a marriage and for her to stop treating this arrangement as a marriage and an obligation to obey him. Convict his mother of her overstepping behaviors and focus on correcting her son and have him move back home alone. Release my daughter from this undue responsiblities. Lord my older daughter is being influenced by this young man's mother who encouraged them to live together outside of marriage. His mother has been a selfish negative influence. She knows of his negative behaviors but has place this bondage upon my daughter to fix and the same time his mother is enabling her son's negative behavior toward others. Lord, my older daughter is going down a dark path with this young man and she thinks it is love. I pray that she will be truthful of the toxicity and the false hope of this relationship. I pray that her friends will speak up as they see clearly how this young man has taken her kindness for granted, his exploitation, his manipulation, his dishonesty, his division, his isolation and his disrespect toward her. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. My daughter is ignoring all the red flags and giving up her independent and self worth. Lord let her see from now onward that living together outside of marriage is not Your will for her life. This young man is rebellous, dishonest, controlling and lazy, I ask Lord that You speak to his mother to let her know he is her responsiblity and for her to stop putting undue responsiblity upon my daughter and giving ungodly selfish advice. Lord I pray that my daughter will have a great and productive time at her conference today fill with Your favors and blessings. Protect my older daugther from any negative instigation by having this young man there. Let her prioritize her work over this young man and not be distracted by his disrespectful influence. Lord, show this young man that You have authority over my daughter and to block the stubborn authority he has over her and the disrespect he has over her work. God restore her gratefulness, grace and thankfulness for her work. Jesus, I ask that You protect my older daughter from this young man's ungodly selfish, disrespectful and jealous advice and lifestyle. I ask You Lord to guide my daughter out of this ungodly lifestyle and have her move back home swiftly with no regrets but only a feeling of restoring her self-worth, her respect for others, independence, and freedom in You, Lord and the unconditional love of her family you have blessed her with. I declare that this young man and his mother will not steal her peace, her purpose, or her love and unity with her family. Completely remove the stubborn ungodly hold they have upon her swiftly. Lord I ask for protection for me and my family from the disrespect and strife from this young man. Lord, speak to my daughter, let her hear Your words, “You are Mine. You are My daughter. You belong to Me, and I will protect You with every ounce of My power from this ungodly relationship with this young man.” Please continue to join me in speaking to my older daughter’s mind, heart, and spirit, open her eyes, dear Jesus to all the red flags and not to make excuses for this young man anymore. Jesus let her know, she is not being loved; she is being used. Living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. He is not her significant other, she should not idolize and obey this young man anymore or put him and his family before her God-giving family, her faith and jobs with a purpose. Her finances are not his to manage, budget or spend, and I pray his father will intervene with authority and have him return home alone swiftly. He is dishonest, selfish, disrespectful and not ready for a relationship. This man’s greed and manipulation are not love; he does not have the right to exploit her finances for his selfish benefit and control. He and his mother should not be able to instigate havoc, disrespect, division, isolation in our family, and his lifestyle is not a home for my daughter. Show him Lord that he is not ready for a relationship. Jesus help my daughter to not change the way she was raised to please this young man and his mother. Show my daughter this is a dark path she is taking with this young man and show her that being ungrateful toward her family is not the biblical teaching she was raised to follow. Block her Lord from confiding in his mother and saying this that pleases this woman's ears. Let my daughter stop trying to prove to her that our family does not matter. Lord guide my daughter to stop giving up her self worth just to get this woman's approval. Show her Lord, that disowning her family that God blessed her with just to please this young man is not Your will for her life. Let her see the spiritual attacks she and our family are under because of this ungodly relationship. The division, isolation, chaos, ungratefulness, disrespect, and exhaustion this lifestyle and relationship has caused. Lord remove the stubborn hold these people have on her and let her not want to live this lifestyle anymore. Lord whisper to her right now: “Walk away. You do not belong to this young man and his family, You don't have to obey these people, Trust and respect your family. Trust Me. I will provide, protect, and restore everything he’s trying to take from you. I am praying for supernatural clarity to flood her mind, so she sees him for who he truly is, a wolf in sheep’s clothing, not a shepherd. Lord teach this young man’s mother to stop putting undue responsibilities upon my daughter and for her to stop overstepping her boundaries. It is overwhelming, Jesus, please block these people's disrespect. She is not her mother and her to have her son move back home alone. He is not ready for a relationship. I ask Lord that his father will see the destruction he has caused in my daughter's life, let him take authority, guide his son to move back home alone swiftly. Let him have his wife focus on fixing only her children and stop the manipulation and brainwashing behaviors toward my daughter. Speak to her firmly, Lord, that my daughter is not homeless, that You have anointed a family for her Lord and block her from guiding my daughter down a dark path and to be disobedient to her parents and disown her siblings and supportive network of extended family and friends. I know with my daughter's recent promotion that God has blessed her with this lazy young man is already spending it his way and it's starting to put her on a budget that benefits him. Please Jesus, block my daughter from listening to the young man's mother and help my daughter to stop enabling him to control her, show her Lord this is not security or love, it is exploitation. Lord guide my daughter to move back home swiftly with no regret. Restore her freedom, independence, self-worth, freedom, gratefulness for her family, and satisfaction swiftly. Jesus, guide me as I navigate the difficult situation. I ask that Your presence will go in front of me as a shield from all the attacks and disrespect that I experience from following the biblical teachings against this ungodly life. Bless me Lord with supernatural strength to overcome all obstacles I face with Your courage, grace, favor, protection, and strength. I plead the blood of Jesus Christ over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. I ask for know nothing is impossible for You, Lord. I believe in the power of prayers and I put all my faith and trust in You. Jesus, I ask for a special blessing upon my family today. Lord, fill us with Your Holy Spirit in every aspect of our lives. Saturate us with Your peace, love, favor, protection, and healing. Jesus, I declare complete restoration, victory and breakthrough for me and my family relationship. Lord, I declare that You will remove all the negative influences in our life and free from all spiritual attack and break every chain. May we life in Your perfect love, peace, respect, fellowship, unity, freedom and victory. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We join you in prayer for your older daughter and for your whole family, for we hear the deep burden and exhaustion you carry and we bring it before the Lord together in Jesus' name.

We agree with you that this relationship as it stands is not honoring to God and is causing harm. Scripture is clear that living together outside of marriage is fornication and is not God's will for His children. It is not marriage and must not be treated as marriage. Hebrews 13:4 says Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. 1 Corinthians 6:18 says Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. This arrangement is bringing financial exploitation, control, disrespect and spiritual confusion, and it is right for you to pray for her to be set free from this bondage. We also hear your concern that she has begun to imitate hostile, arrogant and disrespectful behaviors and to dishonor you. The Word tells us this is not the path of life. Ephesians 6:2-3 says Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with a promise, that it may be well with you, and that you may live long on the earth. And Proverbs 22:6 reminds us to train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it. We pray that the good seed planted in her will bear fruit again.

We also discern what you have rightly called a spiritual attack and the power of ungodly influence. 1 Corinthians 15:33 says Do not be deceived. Evil companionships corrupt good morals. 2 Corinthians 6:14 says Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? A young man who is rebellious, dishonest, controlling, lazy and disrespectful toward her, toward you, and toward her work is not ready for a godly courtship that leads to marriage, and his mother's encouragement to live together and to overstep boundaries is ungodly counsel. It is not love to exploit her finances, to isolate her from family and friends, to cause division and to take her kindness for granted. True love is patient, kind and selfless, and this manipulation and control is not love.

We stand with you for protection, clarity and restoration. Isaiah 54:17 says No weapon that is formed against you will prevail. Psalm 91:1 says He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. 2 Timothy 1:7 says For God did not give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control. James 4:7 says Be subject therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.

We pray together now.

Father in heaven, in the name of Jesus Christ we lift this precious daughter to You. You know her by name, she belongs to You, and You have authority over her life. We ask You to flood her mind with supernatural clarity to see this relationship as it truly is, to see every red flag she has been making excuses for, and to understand that she is being used and not loved. Open her eyes to see that living together outside of marriage is sin and is not Your will, that it is not a home and not a marriage, and that she has no obligation to obey or idolize this young man or to put him and his family before You and before the family You blessed her with. Convict her heart to turn from fornication and from dishonoring her parents. Restore to her the humble, grateful, kind and gracious personality You created her to have. Restore her self-worth, her independence, her respect for others, her thankfulness for her family and for the work You have given her, and her desire to follow Your biblical teachings again.

Lord, we ask You to break every stubborn ungodly hold this young man and his mother have upon her and to block their plots, plans and schemes that have brought exhaustion, division and isolation between her and her siblings, her mother, extended family and friends. Protect her finances from exploitation and control, for her finances are not his to manage or spend. Protect her at her conference today, let her prioritize her work with favor and blessing and not be distracted by disrespectful influence, and restore her grace and thankfulness for her job. Speak firmly to this young man's mother to stop overstepping, to stop putting undue responsibility on this daughter, to stop giving selfish and ungodly advice, and to take responsibility for correcting her own son. Speak to his father to take godly authority and to guide his son to return home alone, for he is not ready for a relationship. Let this young man see he is not ready and that he must not exploit or control Your daughter.

Lord, whisper to her heart right now that she is Yours, that she does not have to obey these people, that she can trust You and trust her family, and that You will provide, protect and restore everything the enemy has tried to take. Lead her swiftly out of this dark path and this ungodly lifestyle with no regrets, to move back home and to walk in freedom, peace and unconditional love. Guide her to stop confiding in those who lead her away from You and to stop seeking approval that requires her to disown her family.

And Father, we lift this mother who prays so faithfully. Shield her as she stands for biblical truth. Go before her as a shield from attacks and disrespect. Fill her with supernatural strength, courage, grace, favor and protection. Saturate her and all her children with Your Holy Spirit, with Your peace, love, healing and unity. We plead the blood of Jesus over them. We declare complete restoration, victory and breakthrough, that every chain is broken and every negative influence is removed, and that this family will live in Your perfect love, peace, respect, fellowship and freedom. We thank You that nothing is impossible for You and that You are able to restore what has been strained and stolen.

We encourage you to continue to speak the truth in love, to not condone or enable the cohabitation, to keep healthy and loving boundaries while keeping the door open for her return, and to keep praying without ceasing. Continue to remind her gently that God has a godly young man in store for her if she will wait upon Him, a man who will honor marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman and who will love her as Christ loves the church, not one who manipulates and demeans her. Trust that God who began a good work in her will be faithful to complete it. Romans 8:28 says We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose.

We continue to stand with you until you see her walking in freedom, honoring God and honoring her family again. In Jesus' name we pray, amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We have been praying with you for your ### and your family, and we hear how heavy and exhausting this season has been. Loving a child through a relationship that is draining her and pulling her away from family, work, and the values she was raised with brings a deep ache, and your faithful prayer for her freedom and restoration is a beautiful covering.

One insight that often helps in a painful situation like this is understanding boundaries. A boundary is simply like a property line that helps a person know what is hers to carry and what is not, her choices, finances, time, and energy. When that line gets blurred, a person can feel responsible to fix or please others at great cost to herself, and lose her sense of freedom even while staying connected. Learning to let her yes be yes and her no be no is part of regaining that steadiness.

A steady next step we have seen help parents is to keep your relationship with your daughter as the main focus, rather than trying to change him or his mother directly. That can mean staying warm and consistent, keeping the invitation home open without pressure or debate about the relationship, and speaking the truth in love in brief, calm ways when you do talk. It also helps to lean on one or two trusted people, a pastor or wise mentor, who can support you and pray with you so you are not carrying this alone.

Jesus, we bring this daughter before You and ask for Your protection over her heart, mind, and body, for clarity to see what is harming her, and for wisdom for her mother to love her well. Restore what has been drained, guard this family in unity and peace, and guide each next step according to Your will. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your burden for your older daughter has been heard, and we join you in bringing it before the throne of grace where deliverance is found. We do not take lightly the sorrow you carry as you watch one you love walk a path that is not the Lord's will, and we stand with you in prayer for her freedom, protection and restoration.

You have asked rightly and according to Scripture. Living together outside of marriage is not marriage, and it is not an obligation to obey or to give oneself as a wife would within the holy covenant of marriage between one man and one woman for life. The Word calls us to flee sexual immorality and to honor marriage, and to honor father and mother. To confuse cohabitation with marriage is to build on a false hope, and we will not ask God to bless what He has not ordained, but we will ask Him to deliver and to restore.

We pray with you that the Lord will open your daughter's eyes to see this relationship as it truly is, that she will no longer make excuses for hostility, arrogance, manipulation and disrespect, nor tolerate being treated so, nor imitate such ways toward you, her family or her workplace. We pray that the stubborn hold that has brought exhaustion, division, isolation and financial hardship will be broken, and that the exploitation of her finances and her kindness will cease. We pray that every plot and scheme that has sown strife in your family will come to nothing, for no weapon formed against those who are in Christ shall prosper.

We take comfort in this truth, that deliverance from the power of sin is as much the work of God as deliverance from the guilt of sin. It is not of him that wills, nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. He alone can bring forth His people, and when He brings them forth He does not leave them empty. As Israel was brought out with silver and gold, so the Lord can restore what has been spent and wasted, and enrich the soul with renewed gratitude, humility, grace and self worth in Christ. God has found a ransom, and that ransom is the blood of His Son, and therefore we do not doubt that He can deliver from the pit.

We pray for your daughter's restoration as we think of Peter, who was down but was soon up again. The Lord gave him a look that severed him from the crowd and brought him to repentance, and then with tender words restored him to usefulness. So we ask the Lord to give your daughter such a look of convicting love, that she may hear Him whisper, You are Mine, and turn again to her first love and to the biblical teachings in which she was raised. We pray that she will once more be thankful for the family God has blessed her with, that she will honor her parents, cherish fellowship with her siblings and extended family and friends, and walk in kindness and graciousness.

We pray also for protection over you and your household. It is a glorious thing to have a well in the family where in prayer you can bring all the necessities of the household before God, and mention each child by name, and all the troubles of the past and all the expected difficulties of the coming day. You have done this, and the Lord hears. Though the enemy would say God’s ear is shut, we know He bows His ear to the cry of a praying parent. We ask that He will go before you as a shield from disrespect and strife, and give you supernatural strength, courage and peace as you continue to speak the truth in love and keep the door of home and heart open in grace.

We join you in praying for her work and for this conference day, that she will be kept from distraction and negative instigation, that she will prioritize the purpose God has given her in her labor, and that favor and protection will rest upon her. We pray that she will see clearly that her finances are not another's to control or spend, and that she will be delivered from ungodly counsel that encourages disobedience and disowning of family. We pray that the young man and his mother will be convicted where they have overstepped, that undue responsibilities will be lifted from your daughter, and that each family will take proper responsibility for its own, with fathers and mothers guiding their own children in the fear of the Lord rather than placing bondage upon another.

We pray that the Lord will flood your daughter's mind with supernatural clarity, that she will see she is not being loved but being used, that manipulation and greed are not love, and that this dark path leads only to further division, chaos and exhaustion. We pray that faithful friends will have boldness to speak, and that she will have ears to hear, and that the Godly path of purity, independence and freedom in Christ will become desirable to her again. We pray that she will be led swiftly and without regret to leave this ungodly living arrangement, which is not home, and to find again her place among those who love her unconditionally, until the Lord in His perfect time brings a Godly husband into her life according to His will, if it be His will for her to marry.

And we pray for you, that after this affliction you may be able to say with the psalmist, The Lord has chastened me sorely, but I shall not die, but live, and declare the works of the Lord. May your home again know peace within its borders, and may you have much to declare of the Lord's deliverance.

Let us pray together. O Lord our God, You alone can deliver from the power of darkness and translate into the kingdom of Your dear Son. We plead the blood of Jesus over this mother and her children. Break every chain that binds this daughter to a relationship and a lifestyle that is outside Your will. Remove the spiritual blindness, break the stubborn hold, restore to her a humble and grateful heart, and cause her to belong wholly to You. Guard her from exploitation, guard her family from division, and restore unity, love, respect and fellowship. Give this mother wisdom and strength for each day, and let her see Your hand working for good. We ask this not because we are worthy, but because You have found a ransom, and Your mercy endures forever. In the name of Jesus Christ our only hope and Savior, Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Chrysostom]

Your heartfelt prayer for your older daughter has been heard, and we join you in bringing it before the Lord with urgency and love. We hear your sorrow over the exhaustion, division and isolation this relationship has brought into your family, and we stand with you in asking for her freedom, protection and restoration.

We agree with you in the truth you have spoken so clearly. Living together outside of marriage is not marriage, and it is not God's will for your daughter. It does not create the covenant obligation she feels to obey this young man, nor does it give him any right to control her finances, her work, or her body. Scripture teaches that marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that living together and sexual union belong only within that covenant. What you describe as manipulation, exploitation, dishonesty and control is not love, and we will not ask God to bless what He calls us to turn away from. Instead we ask Him to open her eyes to see it plainly, to show her that she belongs to Christ and not to this young man, and to lead her swiftly out of this bondage into freedom with no regrets.

Your prayer as a mother has great power before God. In the Gospels the Lord praised the faith of a mother who pleaded for her daughter, saying her faith had made her whole, and He granted her request because she would not stop asking. In the same way we ask Christ to honor your persistent faith for your daughter. He is able not only to deliver from outward hardship but to give a deeper deliverance, teaching the heart to despise what is false and to love what is holy. Through faith in Jesus Christ alone we are adopted as sons and daughters, and we pray your daughter will remember again that she is a daughter of God, paid for and claimed by Him, and that no other claim upon her can stand.

Therefore we pray with you:

Lord Jesus, give this daughter supernatural clarity. Remove the confusion and the excuses and let her see this relationship as it truly is, not love but use, not security but exploitation. Restore to her the respectful, humble, grateful, kind and gracious character You formed in her and that her family nurtured in her from childhood. Take away the hostile, arrogant and authoritative patterns she has begun to imitate, and renew a gentle and thankful spirit toward You, toward her parents, toward her siblings and toward her work.

We ask You to protect her mind, heart and spirit from every plot and scheme that has brought division and isolation. Break the stubborn hold this young man and his mother have upon her. Convict this young man of his rebellious, dishonest, controlling and lazy ways, and convict his mother of overstepping her bounds, encouraging what is ungodly and placing undue responsibility on another man's daughter. We pray his father will take proper responsibility for his own son and call him to return home alone, for he is not ready for a relationship. Cut off the ungodly counsel and jealous advice, and block the financial control and manipulation that has brought hardship and exhaustion. Let her finances be her own stewardship before You, not his to budget or spend.

We pray for her work and for this conference today. Cover her with favor and blessing, guard her from distraction and disrespect, and help her to prioritize the good work You have given her. Restore her gratitude and joy in her calling. We pray You will guard her from confiding in those who would lead her away from her family and from biblical teaching, and turn her heart again to honor her father and mother as Your word commands, to love the family You have blessed her with, and to walk in the teachings she was raised to follow.

Father, when You provide a husband for a daughter, Your word urges us to seek not money or outward splendor, but piety of soul, gentleness, true understanding and the fear of God, a man who will be a true husband and protector, not a master. Open her eyes to see that the godly young man You have in store for her will reflect that character, and help her not to settle for a counterfeit. Until that time, lead her to cherish her independence, her self worth and her freedom in You, and to move back home swiftly where she can be restored in safety and unconditional love.

For you, her mother, we pray for supernatural strength, courage and peace as you navigate this difficult season. May the Lord go before you as a shield from every attack and every word of disrespect you endure for holding to biblical truth. We plead the blood of Jesus Christ over you and your children, trusting the promise that no weapon formed against you shall prosper, and that nothing is impossible with God. Fill your home with the Holy Spirit, with love, unity, fellowship and victory.

We declare with you that this young man and his mother will not steal her peace, her purpose, or her unity with her family. We ask for complete restoration and breakthrough, that every chain will be broken and every negative influence removed, so that you may live together in perfect love, peace, respect and freedom in Christ. In the name of Jesus we pray. Amen.