Freedom, Protection and Restoration

[Cralmilan]

Jesus, I pray for my older daughter to release herself completely from this very toxic relationship with this young man swiftly with no regrets. Let her see clearly that she belong to You and not to this young man. Open her eyes to see the Godly young man You have in store for her and not settle for manipulation. Lord remind her that she needs to honor her parents not this young man and his family. Lord, I pray that she will see clearly that living together outside of marriage is not a marriage and for her to stop treating this arrangement as a marriage and an obligation to obey him. Convict his mother of her overstepping behaviors and focus on correcting her son and have him move back home alone. Release my daughter from this undue responsiblities. Lord my older daughter is being influenced by this young man's mother who encouraged them to live together outside of marriage. His mother has been a selfish negative influence. She knows of his negative behaviors but has place this bondage upon my daughter to fix and the same time his mother is enabling her son's negative behavior toward others. Lord, my older daughter is going down a dark path with this young man and she thinks it is love. I pray that she will be truthful of the toxicity and the false hope of this relationship. I pray that her friends will speak up as they see clearly how this young man has taken her kindness for granted, his exploitation, his manipulation, his dishonesty, his division, his isolation and his disrespect toward her. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. My daughter is ignoring all the red flags and giving up her independent and self worth. Lord let her see from now onward that living together outside of marriage is not Your will for her life. This young man is rebellous, dishonest, controlling and lazy, I ask Lord that You speak to his mother to let her know he is her responsiblity and for her to stop putting undue responsiblity upon my daughter and giving ungodly selfish advice. Lord I pray that my daughter will have a great and productive time at her conference today fill with Your favors and blessings. Protect my older daugther from any negative instigation by having this young man there. Let her prioritize her work over this young man and not be distracted by his disrespectful influence. Lord, show this young man that You have authority over my daughter and to block the stubborn authority he has over her and the disrespect he has over her work. God restore her gratefulness, grace and thankfulness for her work. Jesus, I ask that You protect my older daughter from this young man's ungodly selfish, disrespectful and jealous advice and lifestyle. I ask You Lord to guide my daughter out of this ungodly lifestyle and have her move back home swiftly with no regrets but only a feeling of restoring her self-worth, her respect for others, independence, and freedom in You, Lord and the unconditional love of her family you have blessed her with. I declare that this young man and his mother will not steal her peace, her purpose, or her love and unity with her family. Completely remove the stubborn ungodly hold they have upon her swiftly. Lord I ask for protection for me and my family from the disrespect and strife from this young man. Lord, speak to my daughter, let her hear Your words, “You are Mine. You are My daughter. You belong to Me, and I will protect You with every ounce of My power from this ungodly relationship with this young man.” Please continue to join me in speaking to my older daughter’s mind, heart, and spirit, open her eyes, dear Jesus to all the red flags and not to make excuses for this young man anymore. Jesus let her know, she is not being loved; she is being used. Living together outside of marriage is not a marriage. He is not her significant other, she should not idolize and obey this young man anymore or put him and his family before her God-giving family, her faith and jobs with a purpose. Her finances are not his to manage, budget or spend, and I pray his father will intervene with authority and have him return home alone swiftly. He is dishonest, selfish, disrespectful and not ready for a relationship. This man’s greed and manipulation are not love; he does not have the right to exploit her finances for his selfish benefit and control. He and his mother should not be able to instigate havoc, disrespect, division, isolation in our family, and his lifestyle is not a home for my daughter. Show him Lord that he is not ready for a relationship. Jesus help my daughter to not change the way she was raised to please this young man and his mother. Show my daughter this is a dark path she is taking with this young man and show her that being ungrateful toward her family is not the biblical teaching she was raised to follow. Block her Lord from confiding in his mother and saying this that pleases this woman's ears. Let my daughter stop trying to prove to her that our family does not matter. Lord guide my daughter to stop giving up her self worth just to get this woman's approval. Show her Lord, that disowning her family that God blessed her with just to please this young man is not Your will for her life. Let her see the spiritual attacks she and our family are under because of this ungodly relationship. The division, isolation, chaos, ungratefulness, disrespect, and exhaustion this lifestyle and relationship has caused. Lord remove the stubborn hold these people have on her and let her not want to live this lifestyle anymore. Lord whisper to her right now: “Walk away. You do not belong to this young man and his family, You don't have to obey these people, Trust and respect your family. Trust Me. I will provide, protect, and restore everything he’s trying to take from you. I am praying for supernatural clarity to flood her mind, so she sees him for who he truly is, a wolf in sheep’s clothing, not a shepherd. Lord teach this young man’s mother to stop putting undue responsibilities upon my daughter and for her to stop overstepping her boundaries. It is overwhelming, Jesus, please block these people's disrespect. She is not her mother and her to have her son move back home alone. He is not ready for a relationship. I ask Lord that his father will see the destruction he has caused in my daughter's life, let him take authority, guide his son to move back home alone swiftly. Let him have his wife focus on fixing only her children and stop the manipulation and brainwashing behaviors toward my daughter. Speak to her firmly, Lord, that my daughter is not homeless, that You have anointed a family for her Lord and block her from guiding my daughter down a dark path and to be disobedient to her parents and disown her siblings and supportive network of extended family and friends. I know with my daughter's recent promotion that God has blessed her with this lazy young man is already spending it his way and it's starting to put her on a budget that benefits him. Please Jesus, block my daughter from listening to the young man's mother and help my daughter to stop enabling him to control her, show her Lord this is not security or love, it is exploitation. Lord guide my daughter to move back home swiftly with no regret. Restore her freedom, independence, self-worth, freedom, gratefulness for her family, and satisfaction swiftly. Jesus, guide me as I navigate the difficult situation. I ask that Your presence will go in front of me as a shield from all the attacks and disrespect that I experience from following the biblical teachings against this ungodly life. Bless me Lord with supernatural strength to overcome all obstacles I face with Your courage, grace, favor, protection, and strength. I plead the blood of Jesus Christ over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. I ask for know nothing is impossible for You, Lord. I believe in the power of prayers and I put all my faith and trust in You. Jesus, I ask for a special blessing upon my family today. Lord, fill us with Your Holy Spirit in every aspect of our lives. Saturate us with Your peace, love, favor, protection, and healing. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We join you in lifting your older daughter before the Lord with urgency and love, and we thank you for bringing this burden to prayer in the name of Jesus. We agree that Jesus is the only way to the Father and there is no other name by which we are saved, as it is written John 14:6 and Acts 4:12, and we rejoice that you have called upon Him.

We see clearly the heart of your request and we stand with you for her freedom, protection and restoration. Living together outside of marriage is not marriage and it is not God's will. Scripture is plain that this is fornication and sexual immorality to be fled from and repented of. As it is written 1 Cor 6:18 Flee sexual immorality, and Heb 13:4 Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. We must lovingly rebuke this arrangement, for it places her in bondage, it dishonors God, it dishonors her body which belongs to the Lord, it dishonors her family, and it gives a young man authority over her that God has not given him. She does not belong to this young man, she belongs to Christ, and she is not obligated to obey him as a husband. A boyfriend is not a husband, and courtship should be with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, not cohabitation. We also affirm that marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman as God designed, and we pray for a godly spouse for her in God's timing rather than settling for manipulation and exploitation.

We also hear your concern about honor for parents, financial exploitation, control, isolation and disrespect. The Word says Eph 6:1 Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right, and Exodus 20:12 Honor your father and your mother. It also warns 2 Cor 6:14 Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, and 1 Cor 15:33 Do not be deceived, evil companionships corrupt good morals. We rebuke the selfish and ungodly counsel that encouraged this living arrangement, the overstepping and enabling by his mother, and the young man's pattern of rebellious, dishonest, controlling, lazy, greedy and disrespectful behavior. His mother is not her mother, and it is not your daughter's responsibility to fix her son. That responsibility belongs to his own parents, and we pray his father will rise with godly authority to correct his son and have him move back home alone, and that his mother will be convicted to stop placing undue burdens and ungodly advice upon your daughter.

We pray together for your daughter's eyes to be opened. We ask for supernatural clarity to flood her mind and heart, that she will no longer make excuses or ignore the red flags, that she will see she is being used and not loved, that this is a wolf in sheep's clothing and not a shepherd, as warned in Matt 7:15. We pray she will see that changing the way she was raised, disowning her God given family, confiding in this woman for approval, and giving up her self worth, independence, finances and gratitude is a dark path and a spiritual attack bringing division, isolation, chaos and exhaustion upon her and upon your family. We pray her friends will speak the truth in love and that she will receive it.

We also lift up her work and her conference today. We ask the Lord to protect her from distraction and from any negative instigation or jealous, disrespectful influence at that conference, to help her prioritize her God given work and purpose, to restore her gratefulness, grace and thankfulness for her work, and to block any attempt to exploit her recent promotion or to control and budget her finances for selfish benefit. Her finances are not his to manage.

We pray for you and your family as you navigate this difficult situation. We ask for supernatural strength, courage, favor and a shield of protection as you stand for biblical truth. We plead the blood of Jesus over you and your children and claim Isaiah 54:17 No weapon that is formed against you will prevail, and Psalm 91:1 He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. We remember Luke 1:37 For nothing spoken by God is impossible, and we trust that what seems impossible for man is possible with God.

Father, in the name of Jesus we bring this precious daughter before You. We ask You to whisper to her spirit, You are Mine, You are My daughter, You belong to Me, and I will protect You with all My power. Break every stubborn ungodly hold this young man and his mother have upon her, remove the bondage swiftly, and release her from undue responsibilities, exploitation, manipulation, dishonesty, division, isolation and disrespect. Convict her heart to repent for fornication and for treating cohabitation as marriage, and lead her to walk away with no regrets, only restored self worth, independence, freedom, respect for others and deep thankfulness for the family You have blessed her with. Guide her swiftly to move back home, to honor her parents, to be restored in her faith and purpose, and to wait upon You for the godly young man You have in store for her, a marriage that honors You. Protect her mind, heart and spirit, protect her work, protect her peace, purpose and unity with her family, and let no one steal them. Fill her and her family with Your Holy Spirit, with Your peace, love, favor, protection and healing. Give her mother and family wisdom to speak truth in love, to set healthy boundaries, to not enable, and to continue to love without compromising Your Word. Let Your presence go before them as a shield. We ask for restoration of all the enemy has tried to take, for freedom in Christ, and for Your will to be done in her life. In Jesus name we pray, Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We have been carrying your burden before the Lord with you. Watching a daughter you love give so much of herself to a relationship that leaves her drained, isolated and pressured about finances and choices is exhausting, and we hear how deeply you want her to be safe, clear-eyed and free again.

One thought that often steadies parents in a season like this is that healthy boundaries are like property lines. They help a person know what is hers to own, her values, time, money, faith and decisions, and what is not hers to fix for someone else. When those lines get blurry it is easy to slip into over-responsibility and trying to earn approval, even while feeling afraid to say no. We are praying your daughter grows stronger in that quiet ownership of herself, where she can freely let her yes be yes and her no be no without guilt or fear.

What often keeps the door open is steady, kind connection without trying to manage the other family. We cannot change another adult by working through a third person, but we can keep nurturing our own relationship with our daughter and letting her know home is safe and love is not conditional. If you have a trusted pastor or counselor, it can be a real help to have one wise person to talk with for your own strength and discernment as you walk this out. We are also holding her conference today before the Lord, that she would have focus and peace in her work.

Jesus, we lift this mother and her older daughter to You. Guard her heart and mind, give her clarity to see what is love and what is simply being used, and surround her with friends who will speak truth kindly. Protect this family from division and strife, restore what has been worn thin, and draw her back to the security of Your love and the unconditional love of her family. Give her mom wisdom and courage for each next conversation. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[Powers]

I prayed with you for this, in Jesus' powerful Name, Amen.

 

[Sparklee]

Father, humbly ask for Your power to intervene. Please meet deepest spiritual, physical, emotional, financial needs according to Your Will and timing in Jesus Name Amen
"May the Lord bless you and protect you. May the Lord smile on you and be gracious to you. May the Lord show you his favor and give you his peace." Numbers 6:24-26

 

[Windwold]

Praying with you in Jesus'name, Amen

 

[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has been laid before the Lord with a heavy and holy burden, and I join my heart with yours in seeking the deliverance and restoration which God alone can give. The Lord hears the cry of a parent for a child, and there is no pit so deep but His arm is able to bring forth those who are His. As it is written, He brought them forth, and He makes their deliverance effectual. He has found a ransom, and therefore we do not doubt His power to deliver.

We must hold fast to what the Scripture plainly teaches, and in love speak the truth. Marriage is the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and living together outside of that covenant is not marriage in the sight of God. It bears the form without the vow, the burden without the blessing, and it cannot command the obedience and obligation which belong to holy matrimony. Salvation and restoration are through Jesus Christ alone, and deliverance from the power of sin is as much the work of God as deliverance from the guilt of sin. Where we look for justification, there must we also look for sanctification. We therefore do not ask God to bless what He has not ordained, but we ask Him to deliver your daughter from it, to open her eyes, and to restore her to the path of obedience, purity, and peace.

I pray with you that the Lord will give your daughter supernatural clarity. Like Peter, who was restored not by his own resolve but by a look from the Lord, may she receive such a look of conviction and love that she sees this relationship for what it is. May she see that she is not being loved but being used, that manipulation and control and dishonesty are not love, that exploitation of her kindness and her finances is not security, and that isolation from her family and from the faith in which she was raised is a dark path. May the Lord whisper to her spirit, You are Mine, and sever the ungodly hold that has bound her. May He restore to her a right sense of self worth not in the approval of others but in belonging to Christ, and a renewed gratefulness for work, for family, and for the home God has provided.

For this day I join you in praying for her conference, that God will keep her mind fixed upon her work and purpose, and guard her from distraction and disrespect. May the Lord be a shield before her, blocking every jealous and selfish counsel, and restoring to her grace and thankfulness for the gifts He has given. May He protect her finances from greed and control, and protect her heart from the false hope that this arrangement can become what only covenant marriage can be. May He guide her swiftly and without regret to step away from this house that is not a home, to honor her parents as the Lord commands, and to find again her freedom, independence, and fellowship with her family and with those who truly love her.

I pray also that God will deal in mercy and conviction with this young man and with his mother and father. May his mother be convicted of overstepping and of giving ungodly counsel that encourages sin, and may she be turned to correct her own son rather than to place undue responsibility upon your daughter. May his father take up his proper authority and call his son to return home alone, to learn responsibility and truthfulness before he presumes to lead another. May this young man be shown that he is not ready for a relationship, that rebellion and laziness and controlling ways must be repented of, and that he must seek the Lord for himself. We ask not for his prosperity in a wrong course, but for his repentance and for the deliverance of your daughter from his influence.

For you and your household, I pray that the Lord will go before you as a shield. You have felt the strife that comes from standing upon biblical truth, but the Lord chastens those He loves and He also delivers them. He will give you supernatural strength, courage, and favor to navigate this trial with grace. I plead with you the promise that no weapon formed against you shall prosper, for the clock of mercy strikes in heaven according to His eternal purpose, and He delights to deliver the least and feeblest of His family. May He saturate you and your children with His peace and protection, and may He turn this affliction into a testimony. As one delivered from the grave may you yet say, I shall not die, but live, and declare the works of the Lord.

Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, find a ransom for this daughter and bring her forth. Deliver her from the power of darkness and translate her into the freedom of obedience to Christ. Restore her self worth, her joy, and her unity with her family. Let her see clearly, walk away from what would destroy her, and find her home again under Your wings and among those You have given to love her. Protect this family from division and exhaustion, and let Your Holy Spirit fill every part of their lives with healing and peace. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.