Freedom, Protection and Restoration

[Cralmilan]

Lord remove the overreach of this young man’s mother swiftly, who has no biblical authority to speak into my older daughter’s life or speaking word curse upon me and my family. Lord You see her instigation to cause chaos and satisfaction she gets from dividing, judging and corrupting my family. Ever since my older daughter started to date this young man all she has done to help this family get along with each other. This young man and his sister hated each other, never want to socialize with each or their parents. This young man was rebellious toward his family. His sister for many years isolate herself from her family but my daughter help her. They claim my children unity has made the siblings get along. I am happy that my daughters is able to help by the grace of God. But in return now for many years I have seen this young man's mother has prey upon my family unity. I have witness her jealous, obsession to use my older daughter is manifesting and is destroying our family unit, fellowship time and our blessed home. This relationship has cause spiritual bondage, isolation, ungratefulness and division in our home. This mother was so jealous of the stability, grace, peace, genuine friendships and loving bond between me and my children. She was jealous of our fellowship time together. Her son was jealous of the love and support that was surrounding my son. I witness through the years this woman desrespect, mockery and hatred toward me manifest and her will to isolate and control my daughter life. Her hatred toward my daughters relationship toward me, their brother and them being each other best friend. Lord I pray through years that You protect me and my children for her plots and scheme to stop manifesting. Lord I ask from now on that You will frustrate every plans that she and her son have to dismantle our family unity and the false believe that living together is a marriage. Lord, block every opening in my family that will allow these people to carry out their plots and scheme against me and my family. This young man's mother counsel for my daughter to live together, have children outside of marriage, having her son exploiting my daughter income for his use, look down upon our family, the way we worship, demanding my daughter treat this living arrangement as a marriage, obey him and his family, putting their family before her own family God has blessed her with, cause division, isolation on her suppotive network, distance from her family, alway on her phone and making my daughter feel worthless then have her confide in her only when her son mistreat her. She does not care for my daughter she just selfishly wants her to take on a responsiblity that is not her. This young man's mother instigate chaos and hate then want to act as a hero to solve the chaos she created. She always looks out for her own son. These people have isolate my daughter from her supportive network in order to control, brainwash her and keep their family life together. Deliberately keep my daughter away for her supportive network. This young man is controling, manipulative, laziness, dishonest, corrupted and rebellious. He speak to my daughter with authority and she obeys him. Lord I ask for mercy upon my daughter today and rescue and guide her out of this ungodly situation. This young man's mother instigate the manipulation, she has placed undue responsiblities on my daughter to take care of her son. He is not getting better just more demanding and controlling towards my daughter and disrespectful toward our family. This woman’s ungodly, pride, destruction, selfish, jealousy and manipulation are rooted in darkness, and I pray the Lord exposes her motives and frustrates every plan she has to control, divide and isolate my daughter from me, her siblings, family and church friends. Lord I pray that You will bring my daughter out of this darkness and into Your light. This stronghold has been held on too long, Lord. I declare that my daughter is not homeless, nor does she need this woman’s approval, or be a part of her family or guidance. My daughter has a loving, supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray the Holy Spirit breaks the hold of this toxic influence over her heart. This woman is jealous and looks down upon my daugther and our family but she insist on my daughter to go to her for guidance on how to stay in this toxic relationship with her son. Lord I pray this mother will see she is enabling her son to be disrespectful and corrupted towards others. I pray my daughter will remember she is the Child of the Most High God, she does not belong to this man's family and for her to release herself for this toxic lifestyle swiftly with no regrets. Let her stop using her family as a financial resource to help her sustain this man's needs. Give her the wisdom to protect her finances from him. He should not be allow to use the ungodly living relationship as a marriage. Help and guide my daughter to not imitate this young man stubbishness, gossiping and mocking behaviors toward her family and restore her grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate manner. Fill her with the Holy Spirit. Block and frustrate every word curses, break every chains, every scheme and every plots from this woman and her son. This young man is not ready for a relationship. He is not a shepherd. Open my daughter's eyes to see this and put herself and her family before him. I pray his father will have him move back home alone and have his wife focus on her own children. Father, I ask that You to open my older daughter’s eyes to the truth. Let her see this man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. I pray she would no longer defend, admire or commit this relationship and living arrangement, or take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear. Lord let her see the exhaustion and financial hardship she Is experiences is due to living with this young man outside of marriage. Guide her Lord to not take out anymore credit card to support this man and this toxic lifestyle. He is lazy, manipulative, dishonest, exploit her finances for his own benefit and isolate her from supportive people who care for her. Jesus I ask that You guidance my older daughter to stop imitating this young man's behaviors toward me. She has been cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude toward me. I am not sure how much more I can take of this behavior. Lord soften my daughter's heart to receive Your conviction, and grant her the courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets. Guide back to follow the biblical teachings and stop taking her family for grant and put this young man and his family before her faith and her family. Jesus I ask You to intervene supernaturally, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word. Let my daughter hunger for righteousness be reignited, and let her return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Lord thank you for show me the message from this woman says it makes her heart happy that my daughter is following her lead and not a part of her church community anymore. Now she is intervening in my daughter job trying to work there. Lord help my daughter to stop confiding in this woman and helping her. She does not respect my daughter. Lord I pray that she will put her faith and trust in You again so she can regain her self worth. I pray Lord that she will see her worth in You and not allow these people that make her feel worthless and familialess anymore. This woman need to focus and fix her own family. Her son is not ready for a relationship. Lord grant my daughter the wisdom, self worth and courage to leave this unhealthy ungodly relationship swiftly. This has been going on for too many years and these people division, bullying, manipulation, dishonesty and isolation continues to manifest. This young man has taken an authoritative role in her life and she obeys his order. She avoid standing up for herself so he is alway in control with his mother supports, encouranges and enables his behaviors. Lord remove this stubborn hold they have upon her and set her free. He is not a shephard and he is not her significant other. I pray that she will see that, stop ignoring the red flagee. My daughter is a child of the Most High God, she belong to You and she does not belong to this manipulating young man and his family. My daughter is alway exhausted, forgetful and lives in chaos with this young man but blame this on her jobs, friends or family members. Give her the wisdom, knowledge and courage to not put up with his bullying, dishonesty, controlling and exploitation. This young man's mother is now interfering in my daughter new promoted job in a negative way. She controls, manipulates and undermines my daughter but then she acts as if she has her best interests at heart. My daughter is such an inspiring young lady, admired and loved by everyone but everyone is witnessing her exhaustion and withdrawal. I thank You Lord for the job promotion you have blessed her with last month. Her jobs serves such a beautiful purpose for others. It is sad to see my daughter blinded and suffering this way. Lord guide my daughter to not put the young man and his family before her faith, supportive family, friends and jobs. I plead the precious blood over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. Jesus restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom. Lord, I pray that Your supernatural love, favor, protection will overflow in me and my family and You will heal all the brokenness. I pray when my older daughter come to visit that she will not be influence by this young man hatred and manipulation toward me and her siblings. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. Jesus I ask for a Godly spouse for her. Bless her with Your peace, complete restoration and protect my daughter from going down the disruptive path. In Jesus name, I pray. Amen.

 

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We join with you in prayer and we hear the deep burden you carry for your older daughter and for the unity and peace of your home. We stand with you before the Lord asking for freedom, protection and restoration for you and your children, and we thank you for bringing this before the throne of grace in the name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. Jesus said in John 14:6, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me, and in Acts 4:12 we are reminded there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved.

We must speak the truth in love about what you have described. What you are seeing is not simply a difficult relationship, it is an ungodly living arrangement that Scripture calls fornication. When a young man and young woman live together as if married without having entered into the holy covenant of marriage, that is sin before God. Hebrews 13:4 says let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. And 1 Corinthians 6:18 says flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. A boyfriend is not a husband and has no biblical authority to speak with authority over your daughter, to demand obedience, to exploit her income, or to require her to put his family before her own. The husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church in Ephesians 5:23, but that authority only exists within the covenant of marriage between a man and a woman who are believers. Courtship should be for the purpose of discerning marriage to a fellow believer who is a godly shepherd and provider, not a controlling and dishonest companion. We also hear that this young man is described as lazy, manipulative, rebellious and disrespectful toward your family, and that his mother is encouraging this fornication, counseling your daughter to have children outside of marriage and to treat cohabitation as marriage. This is not biblical counsel and it must be rebuked. We also note that a relationship that is unequally yoked and rooted in sexual immorality will bring spiritual bondage, exhaustion, financial hardship and isolation, as you have witnessed. Do not be deceived, evil companionships corrupt good morals in 1 Corinthians 15:33.

We also agree with you that this young man's mother has no biblical authority to speak into your daughter's life, to control her, to isolate her from her supportive family and church community, or to speak word curses over you and your family. Her jealousy, manipulation, division and desire to control are works of darkness that the Lord will expose. Ephesians 5:11 says have no fellowship with the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but rather even reprove them. The Lord sees the instigation, the mockery, the disrespect toward you, and the scheme to isolate your daughter and brainwash her while keeping her away from those who truly love her. We pray that every plan to dismantle your family unity will be frustrated, for Psalm 33:10 says Yahweh brings the counsel of the nations to nothing, he makes the thoughts of the peoples to be of no effect. And we claim over you and your children Isaiah 54:17, no weapon that is formed against you will prevail.

We pray together now.

Father in heaven, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ we come before You and we lift up this mother and her children to You. We plead the precious blood of Jesus over this family and we ask for Your supernatural protection, favor and love to overflow in their home. Lord, we ask You to break every chain, every spiritual bondage, every word curse and every scheme of the enemy that has been spoken over this family. We ask You to expose the motives rooted in jealousy, pride, selfishness and manipulation and to frustrate every plan of this young man and his mother to divide, control and isolate this daughter. Lord, open this daughter's eyes to see the truth, that this young man is not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. Grant her the wisdom and courage to flee sexual immorality, to repent and to walk out of this ungodly living arrangement swiftly with no regrets, remembering that she is a child of the Most High God and she does not belong to this man's family. Soften her heart to receive Your conviction, Holy Spirit, and restore to her a hunger for righteousness, a grateful, gracious, loving and respectful spirit toward You and toward her mother and siblings. Protect her finances, Lord, give her wisdom to no longer take on credit card debt to sustain this man and this toxic lifestyle, and help her to steward what You have given her with diligence as Proverbs 21:5 teaches. Restore her fellowship with her family and her church community, and break the hold of isolation and exhaustion and chaos that has come from this sin. We pray that she will no longer imitate stubbornness, gossip and mocking, but be transformed by the renewing of her mind in Romans 12:2. Father, we also pray for this young man and his mother, that You would convict them of their rebellion, dishonesty and enabling, and bring them to repentance. We ask that this young man would return to his own father's house alone and take responsibility for his own life, and that his mother would focus on her own household. Lord, heal all brokenness in this family, restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom that the enemy has tried to steal, for You have promised in Joel 2:25 to restore the years that the locust has eaten. We thank You for the promotion You have given this daughter in her job, and we ask You to block every negative interference there and let her work be a blessing to others without distraction. We ask in Your perfect timing, if it is Your will, that You would bring a godly spouse into her life, a man who loves You, who will honor marriage as a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman and lead her in the ways of the Lord. We trust You, Lord, for nothing is impossible with You. We submit ourselves to You and we resist the devil, believing James 4:7 that he will flee from us. We declare freedom over this daughter, for Galatians 5:1 says stand firm therefore in the liberty by which Christ has made us free. Let Your will be done in this family. In the name of Jesus Christ we pray, amen.

We encourage you to continue to stand firm in prayer and in the Word, to keep your home as a place of grace, peace and genuine fellowship, and to set loving but firm biblical boundaries. Do not provide financial resources that would help sustain fornication or exploitation, for that would enable sin. Continue to speak the truth with love, to keep the door open for your daughter to return without shame, and to involve trusted pastors or mature believers from your church community to counsel her, for Proverbs 11:14 says where there is no counsel, plans fail, but in a multitude of counselors they are established. Encourage her to seek wisdom from the Lord, for James 1:5 says if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. Trust in Yahweh with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your paths straight in Proverbs 3:5-6. The Lord who has raised your children in His ways is faithful to complete the work He has begun, and we believe He will restore what has been divided and bring your daughter back into the light of His truth and into the safety of her supportive family.

 

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We have read your prayer with care and we hear how heavy this has been, watching your older daughter grow distant and exhausted while you long for the close fellowship and peace your family once shared. We hear your love for her, your gratitude for who she is, and how painful it is to feel mocked and shut out after years of trying to help.

What you describe about control, isolation from supportive people, and carrying responsibilities that are not hers to carry is so wearing. One insight that has helped many families in similar strain is thinking about boundaries as a kind of property line. They help each of us own what is ours to steward, our choices, time, energy and finances, and to stay connected to others without losing freedom to say yes and no. When those lines get blurred, it is common to feel guilty, over responsible for another adult, and afraid to speak honestly.

We encourage you to keep a steady, loving connection with your daughter where you can, without pressuring her to defend the relationship. Staying calm, available, and consistent often keeps a door open when other voices are trying to close it. It may also help to talk with a trusted pastor or counselor yourself about what healthy boundaries can look like for your home and finances, and how to support your daughter without taking on what is not yours to carry. If you are worried about her exhaustion, gently encourage her to see a medical professional alongside prayer.

Father, we bring this mother and her children before You. Cover them with Your protection and peace, guard their hearts and home, and give this daughter clarity, courage and a renewed sense of her worth in You. Guide her steps toward wisdom, safety and the support of family and church community, and restore fellowship and respect in this family as You lead. In Jesus name, amen.

 

[jcjcpurple]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Windwold]

Praying with you in Jesus'name, Amen

 

[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has been heard and we join you in lifting your daughter and your household before the Lord who is mighty to save and to deliver.

We grieve with you over the division, exhaustion and spiritual heaviness you have witnessed. The Lord sees the pain of a mother who has raised her children in His ways and now watches a beloved daughter entangled in a living arrangement that Scripture does not call marriage, but calls to flee from. Fornication and cohabitation outside the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman in marriage is not marriage in the eyes of God, however sincerely it may be presented as such, and we cannot ask God to bless what His Word calls sin. Instead we ask Him to convict, to cleanse, and to lead to repentance and true freedom in Christ, for salvation and restoration are through Jesus Christ alone.

We pray with you that God would deliver your daughter from going down to the pit. As you have cried, there is a higher restoration than mere outward peace, it is deliverance from the power of darkness itself. The Scriptures declare that the Father delivers us from the power of darkness and translates us into the kingdom of His dear Son. That deliverance from both the guilt and the power of sin is the work of God alone, and we ask Him to snap the bands that have held your daughter in bondage, in isolation, in financial exploitation and in confusion, and to set her free indeed.

We ask the Lord to frustrate every counsel that is contrary to His Word, whether it urges living together outside of marriage, bearing children outside of covenant, dishonoring parents, or using another for selfish gain. We pray that every word curse, every scheme and every chain would be broken by the power of the cross, for no weapon formed against those who are in Christ shall prosper, and the blood of Jesus speaks a better word over you and your children.

We pray that the Holy Spirit would open your daughter's eyes to see this relationship as it is, not as a husband and wife before God, not as a shepherd leading her toward holiness, but as a stumbling block that has brought weariness, financial hardship, coldness toward her family and distance from her church. Pray that He would seal instruction upon her heart, withdraw her from purposes that are not His, hide pride from her, and grant her godly sorrow that leads to repentance. May she remember that she is a child of the Most High God, that her worth is not in the approval of this young man or his mother, but in Christ who bought her with His own blood. May she hunger again for righteousness, for fellowship with her family and with the people of God, and for the pure worship of the Lord in her home.

We also pray for you, that the Lord would guard your heart from bitterness even as you contend for truth. Continue to love your daughter with that gracious, respectful and considerate spirit you have shown, keep the doors of your home and your prayers open, speak the truth in love without mockery or hatred, and maintain fellowship and peace in your household as far as it depends on you. Do not grow weary in praying, in teaching the Word, and in seeking wise counsel from faithful pastors and mature believers in your church community. Set godly boundaries to protect your finances and your home from exploitation, and trust the Lord to be your defender.

We pray for this young man and his mother, that the Lord would expose what is done in darkness, bring them to see their need of Christ, and grant them repentance. We do not pray for their influence to continue, but that the Lord would cause them to turn from controlling, manipulative and dishonest ways and to seek Him.

May the Lord grant your daughter wisdom to protect what God has entrusted to her, courage to walk away from bondage with no regrets, and strength to refuse further debt and entanglements that sustain this ungodly lifestyle. May He restore to her a grateful and loving heart toward you, her siblings and the church, and fill her anew with the Holy Spirit. We thank God for the promotion He has graciously given her and pray He would protect her work and purpose from interference, and keep her from being drawn away from the supportive network He has provided.

We plead the mercy of Christ over your family. May the Spirit of adoption replace the spirit of bondage, so that you are not under fear but under grace, free to cry Abba, Father. May the Lord chasten in love where chastening is needed, and comfort where comfort is needed, and cause you all to declare the works of the Lord.

Father, in the name of Jesus, deliver this daughter from the power of darkness, break every chain, frustrate every plan that opposes Your Word, heal the brokenness in this family, restore peace, unity, respect and joyful fellowship, and guide this young woman into the light of Your truth. Grant her repentance, faith, and in Your perfect time, if it be Your will, a godly marriage that honors You. Keep this mother and her children under the shadow of Your wings until this trial passes. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Chrysostom]

Your prayer has been heard and your pain for your daughter and your family is clear. We join you in bringing this burden before the Lord who sees all that has caused division, exhaustion and sorrow in your home, and who alone can bring true freedom, protection and restoration.

We agree with you that living together outside of marriage is not marriage in God's eyes. Scripture teaches that marriage is a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman, and that sexual union and sharing a home as husband and wife belong within that covenant alone. Hebrews 13:4 says marriage should be honored by all. What is happening now, a man and woman living as if married without that covenant, with financial exploitation, control and isolation, is not God's design and does not carry His blessing. Therefore we do not ask God to bless that arrangement, but we ask Him to bring conviction, clarity and a way out according to His mercy and truth.

We pray for your older daughter. She was raised in the ways of the Lord and is loved and admired, yet she is now weary, isolated and under an unhealthy influence. We ask the Father in the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have salvation and access to God, to open her eyes to see this relationship as it truly is. Not a marriage, not the provision of a shepherd or spiritual leader, but a bond that has brought spiritual bondage, financial hardship and distance from her family and church community. We pray the Holy Spirit will soften her heart to receive correction, restore her hunger for righteousness, remind her of her worth as a child of the Most High God, and give her wisdom to protect her finances, courage to set boundaries, and strength to walk away swiftly and without regret. May she stop taking on responsibilities that are not hers, stop defending what harms her, and stop imitating cold or disrespectful speech toward you and her siblings. May God restore her grateful, gracious and loving manner and draw her back to fellowship with her family and her church, where friendships are built on godliness and love for Christ.

We pray also for you and your household. The Lord is the one who gives blessing and makes a home stable, peaceful and fruitful, not any human scheme. We ask Him to frustrate every plan that seeks to divide, control or isolate your daughter from you, to block every opening the enemy would use, and to break every word spoken against you and your children. No weapon formed against those who belong to Christ will finally prosper. We ask Him to guard your fellowship time together, to heal the hurt caused by mockery and disrespect, and to restore unity, respect and joy between you and your children. We pray He will give you endurance as you have shown patience through her coldness and rudeness, and that He will comfort you and keep you from growing bitter, helping you to respond with truth and love.

We pray even for this young man and his mother, that God would expose what is rooted in pride, jealousy, selfishness and manipulation, and bring them to repentance. May the mother see how she has enabled disrespect and control instead of guiding her son toward maturity and responsibility. May the young man see his need to turn from laziness, dishonesty and controlling behavior, to take responsibility for his own life and to step away from an authoritative role he has no right to claim over your daughter. We pray his father would take proper responsibility in his own household.

We encourage you to stay rooted in your church community and to seek wise, biblical counsel from pastors or mature believers you trust. Continue to keep healthy boundaries around your home, your finances and your fellowship, and to speak the truth in love without returning insult for insult. Keep praying, keep keeping the door open for your daughter with love that is firm and anchored in God's Word.

Father, we lift this daughter to You. Cover her with the blood of Jesus, break every chain that holds her, silence every voice that contradicts Your Word, and remove every obstacle that keeps her from You. Lead her out of darkness into Your light, back to faith, to wisdom and to the safety of a supportive family and church. Grant her a future built on Your promises, and in Your time and will, a godly marriage if it is Your plan for her, one that honors You. Restore what has been broken in this family, pour out Your supernatural love, favor and protection, and let peace and unity return to this home. In the name of Jesus Christ our only Savior we pray, Amen.