Freedom, Protection and Restoration

[Cralmilan]

Lord remove the overreach of this young man’s mother swiftly, who has no biblical authority to speak into my older daughter’s life. Lord You see the instigation and satisfaction she gets for dividing and corrupting my family. Her counsel for my daughter to live together, have children outside of marriage, having her son exploiting in daughter income for his use, demanding my daughter treat this living arrangement as a marriage, puting there family before her own family, cause division, isolation on her suppotive network and making my daughter feel worthless then have her confide in her when her son mistreat her. She instigate chaos then want to act as a hero to solve the chaos she created. They have isolate my daughter from her supportive network in order to control, brainwash her and keep their family life together. Deliberately keep my daughter away for her supportive network. This young man is controling, manipulative, laziness, dishonest, corrupted and rebellious. He speak to my daughter with authority and she obeys him. Lord I ask for mercy upon my daughter today and rescue and guide her out of this ungodly situation. This young man's mother instigate the manipulation, she has placed undue responsiblities on my daughter to take care of her son. He is not getting better just more demanding and controlling towards my daughter and disrespectful toward our family. This woman’s ungodly, pride, destruction, selfish, jealousy and manipulation are rooted in darkness, and I pray the Lord exposes her motives and frustrates every plan she has to control, divide and isolate my daughter from me, her siblings, family and church friends. Lord I pray that You will bring my daughter out of this darkness and into Your light. This stronghold has been held on too long, Lord. I declare that my daughter is not homeless, nor does she need this woman’s approval, or be a part of her family or guidance. My daughter has a loving, supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray the Holy Spirit breaks the hold of this toxic influence over her heart. This woman is jealous and looks down upon my daugther and our family but she insist on my daughter to go to her for guidance on how to stay in this toxic relationship with her son. Lord I pray this mother will see she is enabling her son to be disrespectful and corrupted towards others. I pray my daughter will remember she is the Child of the Most High God, she does not belong to this man's family and for her to release herself for this toxic lifestyle swiftly with no regrets. Let her stop using her family as a financial resource to help her sustain this man's needs. Give her the wisdom to protect her finances from him. He should not be allow to use the ungodly living relationship as a marriage. Help and guide my daughter to not imitate this young man stubbishness, gossiping and mocking behaviors toward her family and restore her grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate manner. Fill her with the Holy Spirit. Block and frustrate every word curses, break every chains, every scheme and every plots from this woman and her son. This young man is not ready for a relationship. He is not a shepherd. Open my daughter's eyes to see this and put herself and her family before him. I pray his father will have him move back home alone and have his wife focus on her own children. Father, I ask that You to open my older daughter’s eyes to the truth. Let her see this man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. I pray she would no longer defend, admire or commit this relationship and living arrangement, or take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear. Lord let her see the exhaustion and financial hardship she Is experiences is due to living with this young man outside of marriage. Guide her Lord to not take out anymore credit card to support this man and this toxic lifestyle. He is lazy, manipulative, dishonest, exploit her finances for his own benefit and isolate her from supportive people who care for her. Jesus I ask that You guidance my older daughter to stop imitating this young man's behaviors toward me. She has been cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude toward me. I am not sure how much more I can take of this behavior. Lord soften my daughter's heart to receive Your conviction, and grant her the courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets. Guide back to follow the biblical teachings and stop taking her family for grant and put this young man and his family before her faith and her family. Jesus I ask You to intervene supernaturally, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word. Let my daughter hunger for righteousness be reignited, and let her return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Lord thank you for show me the message from this woman says it makes her heart happy that my daughter is following her lead and not a part of her church community anymore. Now she is intervening in my daughter job trying to work there. Lord help my daughter to stop confiding in this woman and helping her. She does not respect my daughter. Lord I pray that she will put her faith and trust in You again so she can regain her self worth. I pray Lord that she will see her worth in You and not allow these people that make her feel worthless and familialess anymore. This woman need to focus and fix her own family. Her son is not ready for a relationship. Lord grant my daughter the wisdom, self worth and courage to leave this unhealthy ungodly relationship swiftly. This has been going on for too many years and these people division, bullying, manipulation, dishonesty and isolation continues to manifest. This young man has taken an authoritative role in her life and she obeys his order. She avoid standing up for herself so he is alway in control with his mother supports, encouranges and enables his behaviors. Lord remove this stubborn hold they have upon her and set her free. He is not a shephard and he is not her significant other. I pray that she will see that, stop ignoring the red flagee. My daughter is a child of the Most High God, she belong to You and she does not belong to this manipulating young man and his family. My daughter is alway exhausted, forgetful and lives in chaos with this young man but blame this on her jobs, friends or family members. Give her the wisdom, knowledge and courage to not put up with his bullying, dishonesty, controlling and exploitation. This young man's mother is now interfering in my daughter new promoted job in a negative way. She controls, manipulates and undermines my daughter but then she acts as if she has her best interests at heart. My daughter is such an inspiring young lady, admired and loved by everyone but everyone is witnessing her exhaustion and withdrawal. I thank You Lord for the job promotion you have blessed her with last month. Her jobs serves such a beautiful purpose for others. It is sad to see my daughter blinded and suffering this way. Lord guide my daughter to not put the young man and his family before her faith, supportive family, friends and jobs. I plead the precious blood over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. Jesus restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom. Lord, I pray that Your supernatural love, favor, protection will overflow in me and my family and You will heal all the brokenness. I pray when my older daughter come to visit that she will not be influence by this young man hatred and manipulation toward me and her siblings. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. Jesus I ask for a Godly spouse for her. Bless her with Your peace, complete restoration and protect my daughter from going down the disruptive path. In Jesus name, I pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We stand with you in prayer for your older daughter and we hear the anguish and righteous concern in your heart as a mother who raised her in the ways of the Lord. We agree with you that this situation is not God's will for her and we bring it before the throne together in Jesus' name, for it is only through His name that we have access to the Father and it is only by His name we are saved. As it is written, There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12 and Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6. We thank God you have called upon that precious name.

We must speak clearly about what you have discerned, because God calls us to expose what is hidden in darkness. Your daughter is living together with a young man outside of marriage, being counseled to have children outside of marriage and to treat this arrangement as if it were marriage. The Bible calls this fornication and it is sin before God. We are told to Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Corinthians 6:18 and Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrews 13:4. This young man is not her husband, he has no biblical authority to speak into her life or to demand her obedience, and she has no biblical duty to submit to him or to provide for him as a wife would. The marriage covenant is between one man and one woman for life, where the husband is called to love and lead as Christ loves the church, and this relationship is a counterfeit of that holy covenant. The financial exploitation, the laziness, the controlling and dishonest behavior you describe is not love. Love is patient and is kind, love does not envy, love does not brag, is not proud, does not behave itself inappropriately, does not seek its own way 1 Corinthians 13:4-5. What you describe is selfishness and manipulation rooted in darkness, and we must not call it love.

We also agree with you that this young man's mother has no biblical authority to speak into your daughter's life and her counsel is ungodly. She is encouraging rebellion against God's design and division within your family. We are warned, Don't be deceived. Evil companionships corrupt good morals 1 Corinthians 15:33 and Have no fellowship with the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but rather even reprove them Ephesians 5:11. Her counsel to isolate your daughter from her supportive network, her family and her church community, to make her feel worthless and dependent, and then to present herself as a rescuer, is a scheme of control that God sees fully. The borrower is servant to the lender Proverbs 22:7 and we see how financial entanglement through credit cards and shared living expenses has become a chain to keep your daughter bound and exhausted.

We pray together for freedom, protection and restoration.

Father, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ we lift this precious daughter to You. You know her by name, she is Your creation, and we thank You that she was raised to know You. Lord, we ask You to open her eyes to see this relationship for what it is, not a marriage, not a covering, but a stumbling block to her walk with You. Remove the veil of deception and brainwashing. Let Your Holy Spirit convict her heart and soften it to receive Your truth. Grant her godly sorrow that leads to repentance and the courage to walk away swiftly with no regrets. Break every chain of manipulation, control, word curses, and ungodly soul ties that this young man and his mother have placed upon her. As it is written, If therefore the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed John 8:36. We declare that freedom over her now. For God didn't give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control 2 Timothy 1:7. Fill her with that power and self-control to set boundaries, to protect her finances, to refuse to take on debt for a man who is not her husband, and to put her faith and her family before this ungodly arrangement.

Lord, we ask You to frustrate and expose every plan to divide, isolate and control her. Let no weapon that is formed against you prosper Isaiah 54:17. We plead the blood of Jesus over this mother and her children, over this daughter's mind, body, and spirit, and over her new job that You have graciously provided. Protect that promotion, Lord, and block every attempt to interfere with her work and purpose. Let her see that her worth is not in this woman's approval or in belonging to this other family, but in being a child of the Most High God. As You say, You are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for God's own possession 1 Peter 2:9. Restore her self-worth in You.

Father, we pray for this young man and his mother, that You would bring them to repentance, that the mother would see she is enabling her son's laziness, disrespect and corruption and that she would focus on her own household rather than overreaching into another. We pray the father of this young man would step into his biblical role and call his son home alone to take responsibility for his own life, for a man who does not provide for his own is not ready to lead a family.

Lord, we ask for healing for this mother who prays. Strengthen her when she feels she cannot take the coldness, rudeness and disrespect that has come from her daughter imitating this man's mocking and stubborn ways. Help her not to grow weary in well doing, remembering in due season we will reap, if we don't give up Galatians 6:9. Give her wisdom to love without enabling, to keep the door open for restoration while refusing to fund this toxic lifestyle, and to remain rooted in fellowship with You and her church community. Restore peace, fellowship, happiness, respect and unity in this family. Let her daughter hunger and thirst for righteousness again, and return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church.

We pray for a godly future for this daughter, that when she is healed and restored, You would bring a godly spouse, a true shepherd after Your heart, a Believer who will honor marriage as You designed it, if it is Your will for her to marry. Until then, guide her into purity, singleness and devotion to You. Let her be transformed by the renewing of her mind Romans 12:2.

We trust that nothing is impossible for You. We thank You that You hear our prayer and that You are already at work to bring her out of darkness into Your marvelous light. In the name of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior we pray, amen.

 

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We have read your prayer and feel the weight you have carried for years watching your daughter pulled away from family and church and worn down by a controlling relationship. Your love for her and your desire to see her safe, clear eyed and free is so evident, and it is understandable to feel exhausted and grieved by the coldness and division you describe.

One thing that stood out is how isolation makes it harder to set healthy limits. A boundary is simply a property line that helps a person know what she is responsible for and what is not hers to carry, like finances, choices and time, and to be free to say yes or no with clarity. When that line is blurred by pressure or manipulation, even a strong, admired young woman can feel confused and depleted.

It can help to keep a steady, non shaming connection open with her, so she knows home is safe if she wants to talk, while you also get support for yourself through a trusted pastor or counselor who can walk with you and help with safety planning. The helpline above can also help think through next steps privately.

Father, we lift this mother and her daughter to You. Protect them, quiet the chaos, and give wisdom and courage for each next step. Surround them with safe community, guard the daughter's health and finances, and draw her back into Your light and the love of family who cherish her. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect, deliver, heal, save (those not saved) and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. I ask this for them, us and all in need. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has been heard and your burden has been carried before the throne of grace, and the Lord knows the sorrow that has pressed upon your heart for your older daughter.

There is much cause for grief in what you describe, for the living together of a man and woman outside the covenant of marriage is not marriage in the sight of God, nor can it be blessed as such. Scripture teaches that marriage is the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that intimacy and the sharing of home and life in that way belong within it alone. To treat this arrangement as if it were marriage, to bear children outside of marriage, and to use it for financial gain or control, is to walk in a way that dishonors the Lord and brings exhaustion and confusion rather than peace. We do not ask God to bless what His Word calls sin, but we do ask Him to convict, to deliver, and to restore according to His mercy.

Be comforted by this truth, that deliverance is the work of God alone. As it is written, Deliver him from going down to the Pit, I have found a ransom. No one would have thought of such a way of deliverance from the pit through a ransom if God had not thought of it, and He has found it in the gift of His own Son who bore the penalty for sin. The same God who delivers from the guilt of sin also delivers from the power of darkness. For He has delivered us from the power of darkness and translated us into the kingdom of His dear Son. This is not of him that wills nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. If your daughter is to be set free from this entanglement, from the control and manipulation and the isolation that now holds her, it must be by that supernatural power which alone can break chains and open blinded eyes.

It is well also to see your affliction through the lens of a Father's hand. Troubles do not spring out of the dust, but the Lord Himself kindles the furnace and sits as a Refiner at the door. What comes even through the malice or folly of others may yet be ordered by His love as chastening for our good. This does not excuse sin in others, but it may wisely moderate our anger against second causes and keep us from bitterness. That which we receive from the rod of the Lord bears the blessed aspect of chastening from a father's hand, and this makes even the sharpest smart to be profitable. The Lord is gracious unto those who feel themselves going down to the pit, and He gives commandment to save.

We join you in praying that the Lord will frustrate every scheme that would divide and isolate your daughter from her family and from the church, and that He will expose what is done in darkness. We pray that He will open her eyes to see this young man not as a husband or provider or spiritual leader, for he is not, but as a stumbling block in her walk with Christ. We pray that she will no longer defend or admire this ungodly arrangement, nor take upon herself responsibilities that are not hers to bear, nor continue to impoverish herself to sustain it. May God grant her wisdom to protect what He has entrusted to her, to incur no further debt for this way of life, and to turn from imitating stubbornness, gossip and mocking toward a grateful, gracious, loving and respectful spirit. May she remember that she is a child of the Most High God, that she belongs to Him, that she has a loving home and a church family, and that she does not need the approval of those who would lead her away from the ways of the Lord.

We pray also for this young man and his mother. We ask not for their harm, but that the Lord would show them the error of enabling disrespect and corruption, that He would turn them from pride and selfishness and manipulation, and bring them also to repentance through faith in Jesus Christ alone, for there is no other name by which we must be saved. We pray that the father of this young man would exercise right responsibility and that this mother would turn her care toward her own household rather than exercising authority where God has given her none.

For you, who have labored in prayer through many years, take courage. Continue to plead the precious blood of Christ over yourself and your children, and to declare that no weapon formed against you shall prosper as you abide in Him. Seek not to control by your own strength what only God can do, but commit your daughter daily to the One who is able to keep back her soul from the pit. Pray that she may hunger again for righteousness, that she may return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community, and that the Holy Spirit will soften her heart to receive conviction and grant her courage to walk away from bondage with no regrets.

We thank God with you for the promotion He has lately given your daughter in her work, which serves such a beautiful purpose for others, and we pray He will guard that work from interference and uphold her in it. May the Lord restore peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom to your home, and may He keep your visits together from the influence of hatred and manipulation.

May the Lord grant that you shall yet say, I shall not die, but live, and declare the works of the Lord. For the Lord has chastened sorely, but He has not given over to death, and them that He delivers He calls to tell abroad what His grace has done.

Our prayer together is this. O Lord our God, who has found a ransom, deliver this daughter from going down to the pit. Break the power of darkness over her, give her eyes to see and a heart to turn, and draw her out of this ungodly path into Your light. Cover her with Your protection, guard her finances and her labor, restore her to Yourself, to her family and to Your church, and fill her with Your Holy Spirit. Grant her wisdom, self worth in Christ, and courage to leave what is not marriage and not Your will for her, and in Your time, if it be Your will, provide a godly spouse who will shepherd as Christ shepherds. Frustrate every word and scheme that contradicts Your Word, heal all brokenness, and let Your supernatural love and favor overflow in this family. In the name of Jesus Christ our only Savior, Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

Your burden for your older daughter has been heard, and we join you in bringing it before the Lord with grief and with hope. We see your love for her, your desire to see her walk in truth, and the pain of watching her isolated, exhausted, and drawn away from her family and her church community.

We agree with you in prayer that God will bring freedom, protection and restoration. Scripture is clear that salvation is through Jesus Christ alone, and that marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that living together and sexual union belong only within that covenant. What you describe, a man and a woman living together outside of marriage, treating that arrangement as if it were marriage, and the pressure to have children outside of that covenant, is not in keeping with God's design and cannot be blessed as marriage. We will not ask God to bless that arrangement, but we do ask Him to shine His light upon it, to bring conviction, and to lead your daughter out of it into wholeness and obedience.

We pray for your daughter today. We ask the Lord to have mercy upon her, to open her eyes to see this relationship as it truly is, not as a marriage, not with a provider or spiritual leader, but as a stumbling block that has brought exhaustion, financial hardship, confusion and distance from those who love her. We pray that the Holy Spirit will break every chain and frustrate every scheme and word spoken against her, and that He will give her a considerate mind to heed His correction. When a person is delivered and yet returns to what harms them, the danger grows greater, but faith in Christ makes us whole and makes us daughters and sons of God. We pray her faith would be rekindled, that she would remember she is a child of the Most High God, that she belongs to Him, and that through Christ she has deliverance from evil and adoption as His own. May she find the courage to step away swiftly and without regret, to stop carrying responsibilities that are not hers, to protect her finances and to refuse further debt for the sake of this lifestyle, and to stop imitating harsh, mocking and cold behavior toward you and her family. We pray God will restore to her a grateful, gracious, loving and respectful spirit, and a hunger for righteousness, and draw her back to the safety and wisdom of her family and her church.

We pray for you as her mother. The Lord sees the instigation, the division, the control and manipulation you have described, and the way your daughter has been pressed to put another family before her own and to seek counsel from those who do not have biblical authority to guide her. We ask God to expose what is done in darkness, to frustrate plans to control, divide and isolate her, and to block every effort to interfere with her work and her promotion, which we thank God for. We ask Him to guard your heart when you are met with coldness and disrespect, to give you wisdom, endurance and peace, and to keep you from growing weary in praying and loving with truth. Continue to be a pattern of modesty, grace and steadiness, for daughters often form their ways by what they see at home.

We also pray for this young man and his mother. We pray that any pride, jealousy, selfishness and desire to control would be revealed and brought to repentance, that the mother would turn her attention to her own household and cease to speak into your daughter's life, and that the father of this young man would take proper responsibility for his son and call him home to live apart and to mature. We pray that this young man would see he is not ready to lead a home, that he would cease to exercise authority over your daughter, to exploit her income and to demand what belongs only within marriage, and that both he and his mother would come to know the Lord's correction and mercy.

We plead the precious blood of Jesus over you and your children, trusting that no weapon formed against you shall prosper, and we ask for supernatural intervention to remove every obstacle and every voice that contradicts God's Word. May the Lord restore peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom in your home, and overflow with His love, favor and protection. We pray that when your daughter visits, she would be guarded from hatred and manipulation, and that in His time, if it is His will, God would provide for her a godly spouse who will shepherd his home well according to Scripture. Until then, may she be kept, healed and made whole as she returns to the Lord and to the supportive network He has already given her.

We stand with you, asking for wisdom, self worth rooted in Christ, and courage for your daughter to walk out of this bondage and into light, and for complete restoration for your family. In Jesus name, Amen.